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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok people why is it ladies look around the site dont get exactly what they want and decide none of us are genuine ??
I am a very honest genuine down to earth guy I am not model hot and maybe a little chubby but I dont believe I am to ugly , I lack a little confidence but I am getting better ( I only lost my virginity 2 years ago) .
I think even though this place is full of guys to pick from some ladies need to be like us single guys realistic with their expectations .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never been accused of not being genuine. Sometimes I'm not what they are looking for...and I take that on the chin...I can't be everyone's cup of tea. But my list of verifications shows how genuine I am....anyone who thinks otherwise is a Nob or blind! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok people why is it ladies look around the site dont get exactly what they want and decide none of us are genuine ??
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Because they are fucking twats.... next question!"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok people why is it ladies look around the site dont get exactly what they want and decide none of us are genuine ??
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Because they are fucking twats.... next question!"
Ahh such a lovely and succinct answer I think I like you just from that post :P
OK for the lady who posted WE alot yes you are the ones who choose this is my point YOU choose the TWATS so dont accuse every guy here of not being genuine my point is maybe the ladies who make this complaint arent being realistic ??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The majority of guys are tossers and WE decide if WE want you.... just a thought "
Ironic given you have a shouty caps lock section of your profile saying how you block people who slag off other site users.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The majority of guys are tossers and WE decide if WE want you.... just a thought
Ironic given you have a shouty caps lock section of your profile saying how you block people who slag off other site users.
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Oh the irony I grinned like a Cheshire cat seeing that and looking.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The majority of guys are tossers and WE decide if WE want you.... just a thought
Ironic given you have a shouty caps lock section of your profile saying how you block people who slag off other site users.
Oh the irony I grinned like a Cheshire cat seeing that and looking. "
Crikey!!! How fantastic in sooo many ways! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The majority of guys are tossers and WE decide if WE want you.... just a thought
Ironic given you have a shouty caps lock section of your profile saying how you block people who slag off other site users.
Oh the irony I grinned like a Cheshire cat seeing that and looking.
Crikey!!! How fantastic in sooo many ways! "
Its comments like that and looking and seeing its right make these forums such a laugh at times. well done that man for pointing it out |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"The majority of guys are tossers and WE decide if WE want you.... just a thought
Ironic given you have a shouty caps lock section of your profile saying how you block people who slag off other site users.
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*snort* That's my giggle of the evening! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The majority of guys are tossers and WE decide if WE want you.... just a thought
The majority of the guys that contact you perhaps....."
some will always think the decision is made by one person and its either small minded, deluded or sad. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"...I think even though this place is full of guys to pick from some ladies need to be like us single guys realistic with their expectations .
Just a thought anyone want to comment ? "
The threads here clearly show a lot of single guys are not in the least bit realistic in their expectations and are happy to whine and moan when they don't get what they want.
Couples do it too. It's not just the preserve of women.
Anyone here can want anything they like. If they're not getting it, there are two sensible options, change the requirements or go without.
Personally I'm not a "make do" type of person, so I hold out for what I want, even if I get less of it. I don't care if other people don't think I am being realistic.
What is pointless, however, is whining.
It's also pretty stupid to suggest that every man on here is some sort of fake or timewaster since it's quite apparent that plenty of meets are happening all the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...I think even though this place is full of guys to pick from some ladies need to be like us single guys realistic with their expectations .
Just a thought anyone want to comment ?
The threads here clearly show a lot of single guys are not in the least bit realistic in their expectations and are happy to whine and moan when they don't get what they want.
Couples do it too. It's not just the preserve of women.
Anyone here can want anything they like. If they're not getting it, there are two sensible options, change the requirements or go without.
Personally I'm not a "make do" type of person, so I hold out for what I want, even if I get less of it. I don't care if other people don't think I am being realistic.
What is pointless, however, is whining.
It's also pretty stupid to suggest that every man on here is some sort of fake or timewaster since it's quite apparent that plenty of meets are happening all the time."
.... Mr....
It's always going to be a miss-match with the singles.
Most men will charm or try to charm the pants off you and the women however basic or demanding there needs they want a relasionship out of this or any meet
Man just wants sex!!!  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"...I think even though this place is full of guys to pick from some ladies need to be like us single guys realistic with their expectations .
Just a thought anyone want to comment ?
The threads here clearly show a lot of single guys are not in the least bit realistic in their expectations and are happy to whine and moan when they don't get what they want.
Couples do it too. It's not just the preserve of women.
Anyone here can want anything they like. If they're not getting it, there are two sensible options, change the requirements or go without.
Personally I'm not a "make do" type of person, so I hold out for what I want, even if I get less of it. I don't care if other people don't think I am being realistic.
What is pointless, however, is whining.
It's also pretty stupid to suggest that every man on here is some sort of fake or timewaster since it's quite apparent that plenty of meets are happening all the time..... Mr....
It's always going to be a miss-match with the singles.
Most men will charm or try to charm the pants off you and the women however basic or demanding there needs they want a relasionship out of this or any meet
Man just wants sex!!! "
Er no. I don't want a relationship. I wouldn't be looking here, or not solely here, if I was.
I also don't "just want sex" with anyone offering it.
I don't believe all men here "just want sex" and will fuck anyone either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...I think even though this place is full of guys to pick from some ladies need to be like us single guys realistic with their expectations .
Just a thought anyone want to comment ?
The threads here clearly show a lot of single guys are not in the least bit realistic in their expectations and are happy to whine and moan when they don't get what they want.
Couples do it too. It's not just the preserve of women.
Anyone here can want anything they like. If they're not getting it, there are two sensible options, change the requirements or go without.
Personally I'm not a "make do" type of person, so I hold out for what I want, even if I get less of it. I don't care if other people don't think I am being realistic.
What is pointless, however, is whining.
It's also pretty stupid to suggest that every man on here is some sort of fake or timewaster since it's quite apparent that plenty of meets are happening all the time..... Mr....
It's always going to be a miss-match with the singles.
Most men will charm or try to charm the pants off you and the women however basic or demanding there needs they want a relasionship out of this or any meet
Man just wants sex!!!
Er no. I don't want a relationship. I wouldn't be looking here, or not solely here, if I was.
I also don't "just want sex" with anyone offering it.
I don't believe all men here "just want sex" and will fuck anyone either."
lol you talk the talk but your profile says something different !!!  not looking to argue but on here the single guy is ( not all of them ) weak , maybe intimidated but horny and that's what is on his mind and the lack of affection/ meets ( see it all the time ) ends up chasing the men for a bj
The woman it only takes mins on here to realize the feeling of power on the site.........sex and what it can do for you... We'll if they ever meet/have sex that is !!! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"lol you talk the talk but your profile says something different !!! not looking to argue but on here the single guy is ( not all of them ) weak , maybe intimidated but horny and that's what is on his mind and the lack of affection/ meets ( see it all the time ) ends up chasing the men for a bj
The woman it only takes mins on here to realize the feeling of power on the site.........sex and what it can do for you... We'll if they ever meet/have sex that is !!! "
I'm not sure whose profile you are reading then, because it isn't mine.
I am quite clear I am not looking for a relationship or anything exclusive. I'm looking for NSA arrangements and I have no interest whatsoever in being in any type of committed, monogamous arrangement.
I also say what I like and what I am definitely not looking for, so it should be clear I'm definitely not going to fuck anyone who asks.
Sadly, some men seem to think that any woman who wants more than a "wanna fuck?" message and a quick, anonymous shag with a total stranger, wherever happens to be convenient, is looking for a "date" or a "relationship".
It's a common accusation from those who don't want to bother with more than a "wanna fuck?" message and still expect to get their end away.
I want to exchange a few messages prior to meeting, and have a social meet to judge whether I'm meeting an axe murderer. I like to have a few regular people rather than a lot of one-offs (because my preferred type of sex requires we know what works for each other). Those things do not equate to "a relationship".
I prefer regular meets, but when we're together, we're together, but after that, we've no commitment to or expectation of each other whatsoever.
If that's your idea of a relationship, I think you have the wrong idea of what a relationship is supposed to be!
How can you know that women feel a "sense of power" here? You aren't one! Perhaps it's more that you feel women have a sense of power over you.
I can tell you with absolute certainty that the only powers I have here are the power to say no thanks, to use the delete button and the block button and to hide or delete my profile if the grief starts to outweigh the fun. And sometimes the grief really does get too much. Men have all those "powers" too!
Seriously, you have no idea what it's like being a single woman here and it doesn't seem like you have much of a clue what single women are looking for here either. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
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... the women however basic or demanding there needs they want a relasionship out of this or any meet
Man just wants sex!!!
Er no. I don't want a relationship. I wouldn't be looking here, or not solely here, if I was.
I also don't "just want sex" with anyone offering it.
I don't believe all men here "just want sex" and will fuck anyone either.
lol you talk the talk but your profile says something different !!!"
Specifically my profile says "I'm not looking for a relationship, or anything exclusive, but nor am I looking for a series of one-offs."
How, pray tell, are you reading that I want a relationship into that??? |
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"I think I'm on a different site to everyone else cause in 8 years I've never had any kind of shit
I don't get much tbh but it does happen.
Recently I got called a selection of lovely names for declining someone because they are a smoker, when it says at least twice on my profile that I won't meet smokers.
Apparently, because I am "on a swinger's site" I am not permitted to decline anyone for any reason, even if I've already been clear I won't be interested.
Back I go to deleting and blocking rather than bothering to reply with a no thanks."
seriously vv for someone who doesn't get much you spend enough time moaning about it. If I got half the amount of shit some claim to get I would of left along while ago. I'm here to have fun and if I got grief I would of moved to another site.
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I think I'm on a different site to everyone else cause in 8 years I've never had any kind of shit
I don't get much tbh but it does happen.
Recently I got called a selection of lovely names for declining someone because they are a smoker, when it says at least twice on my profile that I won't meet smokers.
Apparently, because I am "on a swinger's site" I am not permitted to decline anyone for any reason, even if I've already been clear I won't be interested.
Back I go to deleting and blocking rather than bothering to reply with a no thanks.seriously vv for someone who doesn't get much you spend enough time moaning about it. If I got half the amount of shit some claim to get I would of left along while ago. I'm here to have fun and if I got grief I would of moved to another site.
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Yeah, I kind of expected this response from you, which is why I decided it wasn't worth it and deleted the comment.
I can't be arsed to argue with you about it. You aren't in my shoes. I'm not in yours. |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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"Im my mind it tells me all when someone has an experience with whoever else, genuine or not so, and then tars everyone with the same brush
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Even the most genuine guy,
With some tar,and only one brush,
asked to tar the group least likely to be genuine,
would choose to tar single guys.
Apologies to all the genuine single guys,
who now have tar on them.
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"I think I'm on a different site to everyone else cause in 8 years I've never had any kind of shit
I don't get much tbh but it does happen.
Recently I got called a selection of lovely names for declining someone because they are a smoker, when it says at least twice on my profile that I won't meet smokers.
Apparently, because I am "on a swinger's site" I am not permitted to decline anyone for any reason, even if I've already been clear I won't be interested.
Back I go to deleting and blocking rather than bothering to reply with a no thanks.seriously vv for someone who doesn't get much you spend enough time moaning about it. If I got half the amount of shit some claim to get I would of left along while ago. I'm here to have fun and if I got grief I would of moved to another site.
Yeah, I kind of expected this response from you, which is why I decided it wasn't worth it and deleted the comment.
I can't be arsed to argue with you about it. You aren't in my shoes. I'm not in yours."
I'm stating a fact, you've just stated that you dont get that much yet the way you go on about it any one would think you got it all day every day and the reason you expected my response is because I'm consist same as you are with your moaning |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I think I'm on a different site to everyone else cause in 8 years I've never had any kind of shit
I don't get much tbh but it does happen.
Recently I got called a selection of lovely names for declining someone because they are a smoker, when it says at least twice on my profile that I won't meet smokers.
Apparently, because I am "on a swinger's site" I am not permitted to decline anyone for any reason, even if I've already been clear I won't be interested.
Back I go to deleting and blocking rather than bothering to reply with a no thanks.seriously vv for someone who doesn't get much you spend enough time moaning about it. If I got half the amount of shit some claim to get I would of left along while ago. I'm here to have fun and if I got grief I would of moved to another site.
Yeah, I kind of expected this response from you, which is why I decided it wasn't worth it and deleted the comment.
I can't be arsed to argue with you about it. You aren't in my shoes. I'm not in yours.I'm stating a fact, you've just stated that you dont get that much yet the way you go on about it any one would think you got it all day every day and the reason you expected my response is because I'm consist same as you are with your moaning"
I've pm'd you so as to not tae this thread further off track. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think I'm on a different site to everyone else cause in 8 years I've never had any kind of shit
I don't get much tbh but it does happen.
Recently I got called a selection of lovely names for declining someone because they are a smoker, when it says at least twice on my profile that I won't meet smokers.
Apparently, because I am "on a swinger's site" I am not permitted to decline anyone for any reason, even if I've already been clear I won't be interested.
Back I go to deleting and blocking rather than bothering to reply with a no thanks.seriously vv for someone who doesn't get much you spend enough time moaning about it. If I got half the amount of shit some claim to get I would of left along while ago. I'm here to have fun and if I got grief I would of moved to another site.
Yeah, I kind of expected this response from you, which is why I decided it wasn't worth it and deleted the comment.
I can't be arsed to argue with you about it. You aren't in my shoes. I'm not in yours.I'm stating a fact, you've just stated that you dont get that much yet the way you go on about it any one would think you got it all day every day and the reason you expected my response is because I'm consist same as you are with your moaning
I've pm'd you so as to not tae this thread further off track."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok back to my original point that ladies you choose the guy if he turns out to be a twat please feel free to call him a twat but please don't bunch us all together .
I am here to try and have sex and fun I admit it but isn't that the point of the site ? I get very few messages so far 4 people have shown an interest in me 2 couples both lovely and 2 ladies who seem lovely too .
So if a guy turns out to be a tosser block don't reply ignore yes have a rant but not at us all !! |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok back to my original point that ladies you choose the guy if he turns out to be a twat please feel free to call him a twat but please don't bunch us all together .
I am here to try and have sex and fun I admit it but isn't that the point of the site ? I get very few messages so far 4 people have shown an interest in me 2 couples both lovely and 2 ladies who seem lovely too .
So if a guy turns out to be a tosser block don't reply ignore yes have a rant but not at us all !! "
I don't understand your post OP....Are you telling us the four people have messaged you but not met you? |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok back to my original point that ladies you choose the guy if he turns out to be a twat please feel free to call him a twat but please don't bunch us all together .
I am here to try and have sex and fun I admit it but isn't that the point of the site ? I get very few messages so far 4 people have shown an interest in me 2 couples both lovely and 2 ladies who seem lovely too .
So if a guy turns out to be a tosser block don't reply ignore yes have a rant but not at us all !! "
Most people on here realise that not all men are twats.
In fact it's fair to say that if someone is continually choosing twats then their selection process is sub-par and they should look to themselves before blaming the site or other people.
That said, you are rather lumping women together in this post by suggesting we all bunch you all together. Some do, some don't. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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" Ok people why is it ladies look around the site dont get exactly what they want and decide none of us are genuine ??"
Oh look, you did it in the opening post too. Ladies. Not _some_ ladies. Bunching all women together?
See how easy it is to slip and not say quite what you mean?
If you're complaining that some women lump all men together perhaps you should take care not to lump all women together whilst doing it? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" Ok people why is it ladies look around the site dont get exactly what they want and decide none of us are genuine ??
Oh look, you did it in the opening post too. Ladies. Not _some_ ladies. Bunching all women together?
See how easy it is to slip and not say quite what you mean?
I do believe if you take it out of context then yes I have lumped you together but if one looks at the post title then it refers to ladies who have this status it's all about context !!
If you're complaining that some women lump all men together perhaps you should take care not to lump all women together whilst doing it? "
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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" I do believe if you take it out of context then yes I have lumped you together but if one looks at the post title then it refers to ladies who have this status it's all about context !!"
Nice try but your post title doesn't refer to women at all so neither your title nor the OP are clear
You twice speak of ladies rather than some ladies or those ladies with the aforementioned status.
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Tbh a lot of girls on here judge you before you get the chance to have a word I've been on ere a little while and it's just one of them things either want you or they don't if you attend more clubs get talking to people maybe it could have some difference but truthfully everybody has there preference on ere I'm still search for my dominant goddess that will just be real about shit |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tbh a lot of girls on here judge you before you get the chance to have a word I've been on ere a little while and it's just one of them things either want you or they don't if you attend more clubs get talking to people maybe it could have some difference but truthfully everybody has there preference on ere I'm still search for my dominant goddess that will just be real about shit"
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Tbh a lot of girls on here judge you before you get the chance to have a word I've been on ere a little while and it's just one of them things either want you or they don't if you attend more clubs get talking to people maybe it could have some difference but truthfully everybody has there preference on ere I'm still search for my dominant goddess that will just be real about shit
They will judge you from your profile"
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