"It can't make you feel that bad if you'd do it again..."
I do feel bad and then I try and toughen up and think nobody cares about me so why should I care about any of them. I'm afraid I'll be caught in one of them moments or the fact I REALLY didn't feel bad at the time. |
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"Guilt is a wasted emotion. Whatever it is has been done and can't be changed. There's little point feeling bad about it. Chalk it down to experience and move on.  "
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[uote]Guilt is a wasted emotion. Whatever it is has been done and can't be changed. There's little point feeling bad about it. Chalk it down to experience and move on. I echo that.[/quote |
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"It can't make you feel that bad if you'd do it again...
I do feel bad and then I try and toughen up and think nobody cares about me so why should I care about any of them. I'm afraid I'll be caught in one of them moments or the fact I REALLY didn't feel bad at the time."
I know the feeling that nobody cares about us or what we do. I have had guilt feelings myself but not much to be done really. If you enjoyed yourself, then do it again. good luck x |
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"I have a particular encounter that ways heavy on my mind.
I know it's been and done but I can't help dwelling on it. Think I would go there again too.  "
Is someone being hurt or damaged in any way by it? If so recognise the guilt as a sign not to do it again. If not why the guilt? |
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"I have a particular encounter that ways heavy on my mind.
I know it's been and done but I can't help dwelling on it. Think I would go there again too.
Is someone being hurt or damaged in any way by it? If so recognise the guilt as a sign not to do it again. If not why the guilt?"
This
Going to take this on board. Thankyou.  |
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"Is someone being hurt or damaged in any way by it? If so recognise the guilt as a sign not to do it again. If not why the guilt?"
Good answer. I don't do things that would make me feel guilty, so I virtually never feel it. You need to find your own integrity and act according to it I think.
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