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over a year ago
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At the risk of sounding like I'm channeling Forest Gump, I often liken dating to a box of chocolates. Y'no, that really pretty box you get from Thornton's. The one that offers you so many delicious choices, and looks oh so temptingly tasty. So you go through the whole box only to find that you only really liked 2 or 3 out of the lot.... So you become more picky, you err towards the Green & Black variety. Expensive but guaranteed. Or a little taste of ChocoMix. Very costly but hand tempered and made to your exact tastes. (Mind u, sometimes you just can't beat a bag of mis shapes. Yummy and full of surprises!) So you're then faced with the choice of a possible hit or miss, or paying through the nose for what you want.
And then came fab...
At first it felt like is fallen into wholesale heaven. All the delicious tasty wonderfully freaky sex mad individuals and couples all on here for the same thing. Needless to say I was like the fat kid in the sweet shop. But after a while I realised I was falling into the same trap with fab that I was in with dating. I was back to the Thornton's variety box again. Especially when considering the younger single men.... I look at all my emails off the under 30s (god knows why but they seem to like me) and think they are all so delicious looking but would there be all sex and no substance. I know I sound fickle but I reckon I'm not the only one.
So how do you change the mindset? (It's no wonder I have a fat ass mind...) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So how do you change the mindset? (It's no wonder I have a fat ass mind...) "
You don't, you go about trying to find more of the chocolates you DO like, anything less is simply making do with what's available. |
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Mine too. I've same problem just now... I only want to play with a few... but I seem to have quite a lot of 20 somethings coming though. .. why ... I have no clue....
So for now the chocolate wins hands down ... until someone can set me a blaze again. ... I have my vib..lol
Is this what happens to lady's on here..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Glad I'm not the only one 
Sometimes I think I'm too picky, and sometimes I think I'm not picky enough! Mind u, I gave in and I'm chatting to one young lad and my god he's filthy! Wonder if he'll live up to expectations lol |
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Then you find one chocolate you really like and possibly love and nothingelse seems good enough but you can only afford that one chocolate once every couple of months and its gone too quickly. Then what do you do? |
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"Then you find one chocolate you really like and possibly love and nothingelse seems good enough but you can only afford that one chocolate once every couple of months and its gone too quickly. Then what do you do?"
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I have my sights set on my what I think could be my favourite chocolate and then I go to bed, dream about it, only to find someone nearer to the box has jumped in and whisked it away 
Don't you just hate recurring dreams  |
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"Then you find one chocolate you really like and possibly love and nothingelse seems good enough but you can only afford that one chocolate once every couple of months and its gone too quickly. Then what do you do?"
You get skinny real quick!! |
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"I have my sights set on my what I think could be my favourite chocolate and then I go to bed, dream about it, only to find someone nearer to the box has jumped in and whisked it away
Don't you just hate recurring dreams "
And only Green and Black's will do  |
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