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What is wrong with some men??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Right guys. I am a woman on this site. This means on average every time I log in I get about 10-15 messages.
Things that bug me are guys sending messages such as fancy a fuck? Why do u need to send this clearly I'm horny I'm on here.
Secondly, if I'm not interested I won't reply I can't be arsed sending message after message of you're not my type...so why carry on messaging me constantly all the fucking time. I'm not gonna change my mind.
Finally, why do you send messages with hi do you want a face pic why not just attach one in the first message...  
I'm sorry for ranting I just wanna know WHY???? |
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"Right guys. I am a woman on this site. This means on average every time I log in I get about 10-15 messages.
Things that bug me are guys sending messages such as fancy a fuck? Why do u need to send this clearly I'm horny I'm on here.
Secondly, if I'm not interested I won't reply I can't be arsed sending message after message of you're not my type...so why carry on messaging me constantly all the fucking time. I'm not gonna change my mind.
Finally, why do you send messages with hi do you want a face pic why not just attach one in the first message...
I'm sorry for ranting I just wanna know WHY????"
I guess they say fancy a fuck because some women are looking for different things on here like socials or dates?
I guess they send repeat messages in case you forgot about their first message and did'nt get round to replying and you'd forgot about them? (could be possible if you get a lot of mail?)
The face pic thing, well i don't send a face pic until i get a reply from someone, (a lot of women on here don't bother to reply), so i only send one when they take the time to reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Right guys. I am a woman on this site. This means on average every time I log in I get about 10-15 messages.
Things that bug me are guys sending messages such as fancy a fuck? Why do u need to send this clearly I'm horny I'm on here.
Secondly, if I'm not interested I won't reply I can't be arsed sending message after message of you're not my type...so why carry on messaging me constantly all the fucking time. I'm not gonna change my mind.
Finally, why do you send messages with hi do you want a face pic why not just attach one in the first message...
I'm sorry for ranting I just wanna know WHY????"
Why not just use the BLOCK button? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I doubt they read the forums "
Most don't but lets be real if a woman doesn't contact a man herself you can't complain at what messages you get just filter, delete block or reply as fit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I doubt they read the forums
Most don't but lets be real if a woman doesn't contact a man herself you can't complain at what messages you get just filter, delete block or reply as fit. "
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Consider yourself lucky. I am a woman on this site. I am lucky if i get that many messages a month, let alone when ever i log on!
that being said there's not much variety in them, like you point out 90% are;
fancy a fuck
nice tits
are you horny.
not surprising took me more than a year to get a meet. |
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"Right guys. I am a woman on this site. This means on average every time I log in I get about 10-15 messages.
Things that bug me are guys sending messages such as fancy a fuck? Why do u need to send this clearly I'm horny I'm on here.
Secondly, if I'm not interested I won't reply I can't be arsed sending message after message of you're not my type...so why carry on messaging me constantly all the fucking time. I'm not gonna change my mind.
Finally, why do you send messages with hi do you want a face pic why not just attach one in the first message...
I'm sorry for ranting I just wanna know WHY????
I guess they say fancy a fuck because some women are looking for different things on here like socials or dates?
I guess they send repeat messages in case you forgot about their first message and did'nt get round to replying and you'd forgot about them? (could be possible if you get a lot of mail?)
The face pic thing, well i don't send a face pic until i get a reply from someone, (a lot of women on here don't bother to reply), so i only send one when they take the time to reply. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If this is the guys approach and he's happy with that kind of message, then good for him, its his choice, nothing you can do about it and not worth pondering the why's. It will never change.
What you have a choice about is whether to read or respond to them. If I see this kind of message in my inbox, and you can see the first line of a message without opening it up, then I just delete it unread. It causes me no angst |
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