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Attraction is more than how big your breasts are, how smooth your nether regions are,
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how slim your waist is, how big your cock is, how disenchanted I feel....
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Agreed 100%. So many people on here though only focus only on physical attraction (understandable I guess as this is a swingers / sex site) but emotional attraction much more important of the two for me.
And even though I've never met you, I know you have a friendly and likeable streak in you just through a little act of kindness you showed a few days ago - just the simple act of sending a short PM to me did actually mean a lot to me and showed what kind of person you are   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"how slim your waist is, how big your cock is, how disenchanted I feel....
Agreed 100%. So many people on here though only focus only on physical attraction (understandable I guess as this is a swingers / sex site) but emotional attraction much more important of the two for me.
And even though I've never met you, I know you have a friendly and likeable streak in you just through a little act of kindness you showed a few days ago - just the simple act of sending a short PM to me did actually mean a lot to me and showed what kind of person you are "
Ha. I'm a big eejit.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Attraction isn't more or less than anything. Attraction is personal and doesn't need someone else telling you what it is. "
Just the shallowness on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"...and then there's me.
  
Sweet man.
(flutters his eyes innocently)
Big staring eyes....
Better for me to see you with..
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Take your eyes off my baps you greedy wolf.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how slim your waist is, how big your cock is, how disenchanted I feel....
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It is but then many people have standards and only a select few will shag a minger. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me attraction is a combination of things, probably starts physically but isn't going anywhere unless we are in tune mentally and have similar desires. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Attraction isn't more or less than anything. Attraction is personal and doesn't need someone else telling you what it is.
Just the shallowness on here."
What do you mean? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"how slim your waist is, how big your cock is, how disenchanted I feel....
It is but then many people have standards and only a select few will shag a minger."
Um...thanks for the pearl of wisdom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how slim your waist is, how big your cock is, how disenchanted I feel....
It is but then many people have standards and only a select few will shag a minger."
A minger? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...and then there's me.
Sweet man.
(flutters his eyes innocently)
Big staring eyes....
Better for me to see you with..
Take your eyes off my baps you greedy wolf.
"
I'm yet to move towards your baps. Stuck on your lush red lips for now..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"...and then there's me.
Sweet man.
(flutters his eyes innocently)
Big staring eyes....
Better for me to see you with..
Take your eyes off my baps you greedy wolf.
I'm yet to move towards your baps. Stuck on your lush red lips for now..
"
That's pigs blood.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...and then there's me.
Sweet man.
(flutters his eyes innocently)
Big staring eyes....
Better for me to see you with..
Take your eyes off my baps you greedy wolf.
I'm yet to move towards your baps. Stuck on your lush red lips for now..
That's pigs blood.
"
I don't care. Just pucker up!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"...and then there's me.
Sweet man.
(flutters his eyes innocently)
Big staring eyes....
Better for me to see you with..
Take your eyes off my baps you greedy wolf.
I'm yet to move towards your baps. Stuck on your lush red lips for now..
That's pigs blood.
I don't care. Just pucker up!
"
I have something in my eye... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...and then there's me.
Sweet man.
(flutters his eyes innocently)
Big staring eyes....
Better for me to see you with..
Take your eyes off my baps you greedy wolf.
I'm yet to move towards your baps. Stuck on your lush red lips for now..
That's pigs blood.
I don't care. Just pucker up!
I have something in my eye... "
Is it lust and desire?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"...and then there's me.
Sweet man.
(flutters his eyes innocently)
Big staring eyes....
Better for me to see you with..
Take your eyes off my baps you greedy wolf.
I'm yet to move towards your baps. Stuck on your lush red lips for now..
That's pigs blood.
I don't care. Just pucker up!
I have something in my eye...
Is it lust and desire?
"
No. It's one of your flippin' eyelashes! |
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Our perception of others is likely influenced by a composite of their characteristics. Some give more weighting to some things than others. Id imagine very few would only decide by physical features alone and would not be influenced by the person. Its the personality every time for me, coupled with their physicality and interests. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...and then there's me.
Sweet man.
(flutters his eyes innocently)
Big staring eyes....
Better for me to see you with..
Take your eyes off my baps you greedy wolf.
I'm yet to move towards your baps. Stuck on your lush red lips for now..
That's pigs blood.
I don't care. Just pucker up!
I have something in my eye...
Is it lust and desire?
No. It's one of your flippin' eyelashes!"
Well, that brought me back down to reality didn't it!?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"...and then there's me.
Sweet man.
(flutters his eyes innocently)
Big staring eyes....
Better for me to see you with..
Take your eyes off my baps you greedy wolf.
I'm yet to move towards your baps. Stuck on your lush red lips for now..
That's pigs blood.
I don't care. Just pucker up!
I have something in my eye...
Is it lust and desire?
No. It's one of your flippin' eyelashes!
Well, that brought me back down to reality didn't it!?
"
Not my fault you have stupendous eyelashes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...and then there's me.
Sweet man.
(flutters his eyes innocently)
Big staring eyes....
Better for me to see you with..
Take your eyes off my baps you greedy wolf.
I'm yet to move towards your baps. Stuck on your lush red lips for now..
That's pigs blood.
I don't care. Just pucker up!
I have something in my eye...
Is it lust and desire?
No. It's one of your flippin' eyelashes!
Well, that brought me back down to reality didn't it!?
Not my fault you have stupendous eyelashes!"
I guess my eyelashes would come in the way instead of your baps.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Starts a crowd funding thingy to get Pops and DD a room
Have a pound from me I have 37p I can donate. "
Keep your shracknel ladies...
It'll be a walk along the river and the exchange of a shifty glance before diving down an alleyway...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmm this is a website, you have pictures and tick box type data to make decision on who you want to contact. Any deeper level of attraction is going to require something much more than any site can offer.
And Tina without your tits you would be just Tina x |
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Attraction is a feeling, for some people that can be purely physical, for others it's much more...it's a very personal thing. For me it starts with the first message, then the pictures, and if we get there, the first meet. At each of these stages the attraction will either build, sustain or drop. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Starts a crowd funding thingy to get Pops and DD a room
Have a pound from me I have 37p I can donate.
Keep your shracknel ladies...
It'll be a walk along the river and the exchange of a shifty glance before diving down an alleyway...
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I can't do shifty glances, do you practise in the mirror?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hmm this is a website, you have pictures and tick box type data to make decision on who you want to contact. Any deeper level of attraction is going to require something much more than any site can offer.
And Tina without your tits you would be just Tina x "
Oh I say!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Starts a crowd funding thingy to get Pops and DD a room
Have a pound from me I have 37p I can donate.
Keep your shracknel ladies...
It'll be a walk along the river and the exchange of a shifty glance before diving down an alleyway...
I can't do shifty glances, do you practise in the mirror? "
My Mother taught me... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Starts a crowd funding thingy to get Pops and DD a room
Have a pound from me I have 37p I can donate.
Keep your shracknel ladies...
It'll be a walk along the river and the exchange of a shifty glance before diving down an alleyway...
I can't do shifty glances, do you practise in the mirror? "
It's a London thing.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Starts a crowd funding thingy to get Pops and DD a room
Have a pound from me I have 37p I can donate.
Keep your shracknel ladies...
It'll be a walk along the river and the exchange of a shifty glance before diving down an alleyway...
I can't do shifty glances, do you practise in the mirror?
It's a London thing.
"
Laughing..that is so true.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Starts a crowd funding thingy to get Pops and DD a room
Have a pound from me I have 37p I can donate.
Keep your shracknel ladies...
It'll be a walk along the river and the exchange of a shifty glance before diving down an alleyway...
I can't do shifty glances, do you practise in the mirror?
It's a London thing.
Laughing..that is so true.
"
Not sure we're portraying Londoners in the best of light lol
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Starts a crowd funding thingy to get Pops and DD a room
Have a pound from me I have 37p I can donate.
Keep your shracknel ladies...
It'll be a walk along the river and the exchange of a shifty glance before diving down an alleyway...
I can't do shifty glances, do you practise in the mirror?
It's a London thing.
Laughing..that is so true.
Not sure we're portraying Londoners in the best of light lol
"
Of course we are!
Like urban foxes, we stalk our prey.
Wait for the rest to fall asleep before we begin to play! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Starts a crowd funding thingy to get Pops and DD a room
Have a pound from me I have 37p I can donate.
Keep your shracknel ladies...
It'll be a walk along the river and the exchange of a shifty glance before diving down an alleyway...
I can't do shifty glances, do you practise in the mirror?
It's a London thing.
Laughing..that is so true.
Not sure we're portraying Londoners in the best of light lol
Of course we are!
Like urban foxes, we stalk our prey.
Wait for the rest to fall asleep before we begin to play!"
We are the chronotypes. The night owls. That explains our large eyes.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Starts a crowd funding thingy to get Pops and DD a room
Have a pound from me I have 37p I can donate.
Keep your shracknel ladies...
It'll be a walk along the river and the exchange of a shifty glance before diving down an alleyway...
I can't do shifty glances, do you practise in the mirror?
It's a London thing.
Laughing..that is so true.
Not sure we're portraying Londoners in the best of light lol
Of course we are!
Like urban foxes, we stalk our prey.
Wait for the rest to fall asleep before we begin to play!
We are the chronotypes. The night owls. That explains our large eyes.
"
I fear you may be right Popeye pal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Starts a crowd funding thingy to get Pops and DD a room
Have a pound from me I have 37p I can donate.
Keep your shracknel ladies...
It'll be a walk along the river and the exchange of a shifty glance before diving down an alleyway...
I can't do shifty glances, do you practise in the mirror?
It's a London thing.
Laughing..that is so true.
Not sure we're portraying Londoners in the best of light lol
Of course we are!
Like urban foxes, we stalk our prey.
Wait for the rest to fall asleep before we begin to play!
We are the chronotypes. The night owls. That explains our large eyes.
I fear you may be right Popeye pal."
I'm not just a hairy face you know.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Starts a crowd funding thingy to get Pops and DD a room
Have a pound from me I have 37p I can donate.
Keep your shracknel ladies...
It'll be a walk along the river and the exchange of a shifty glance before diving down an alleyway...
I can't do shifty glances, do you practise in the mirror?
It's a London thing.
Laughing..that is so true.
Not sure we're portraying Londoners in the best of light lol
Of course we are!
Like urban foxes, we stalk our prey.
Wait for the rest to fall asleep before we begin to play!
We are the chronotypes. The night owls. That explains our large eyes.
I fear you may be right Popeye pal.
I'm not just a hairy face you know.
"
YOU insult me dear fellow!
I do have standards...sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Starts a crowd funding thingy to get Pops and DD a room
Have a pound from me I have 37p I can donate.
Keep your shracknel ladies...
It'll be a walk along the river and the exchange of a shifty glance before diving down an alleyway...
I can't do shifty glances, do you practise in the mirror? "
You need a trilby hat and a Crombie to look authentic |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Starts a crowd funding thingy to get Pops and DD a room
Have a pound from me I have 37p I can donate.
Keep your shracknel ladies...
It'll be a walk along the river and the exchange of a shifty glance before diving down an alleyway...
I can't do shifty glances, do you practise in the mirror?
It's a London thing.
Laughing..that is so true.
Not sure we're portraying Londoners in the best of light lol
Of course we are!
Like urban foxes, we stalk our prey.
Wait for the rest to fall asleep before we begin to play!
We are the chronotypes. The night owls. That explains our large eyes.
I fear you may be right Popeye pal.
I'm not just a hairy face you know.
YOU insult me dear fellow!
I do have standards...sometimes."
For you. I'd go green.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Starts a crowd funding thingy to get Pops and DD a room
Have a pound from me I have 37p I can donate.
Keep your shracknel ladies...
It'll be a walk along the river and the exchange of a shifty glance before diving down an alleyway...
I can't do shifty glances, do you practise in the mirror?
It's a London thing.
Laughing..that is so true.
Not sure we're portraying Londoners in the best of light lol
Of course we are!
Like urban foxes, we stalk our prey.
Wait for the rest to fall asleep before we begin to play!
We are the chronotypes. The night owls. That explains our large eyes.
I fear you may be right Popeye pal.
I'm not just a hairy face you know.
YOU insult me dear fellow!
I do have standards...sometimes.
For you. I'd go green.
...see ()"
ah now..that's a bit Irish... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Starts a crowd funding thingy to get Pops and DD a room
Have a pound from me I have 37p I can donate.
Keep your shracknel ladies...
It'll be a walk along the river and the exchange of a shifty glance before diving down an alleyway...
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You have £1.37 to splash out on a can of Stella between you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Starts a crowd funding thingy to get Pops and DD a room
Have a pound from me I have 37p I can donate.
Keep your shracknel ladies...
It'll be a walk along the river and the exchange of a shifty glance before diving down an alleyway...
I can't do shifty glances, do you practise in the mirror?
It's a London thing.
Laughing..that is so true.
Not sure we're portraying Londoners in the best of light lol
Of course we are!
Like urban foxes, we stalk our prey.
Wait for the rest to fall asleep before we begin to play!
We are the chronotypes. The night owls. That explains our large eyes.
I fear you may be right Popeye pal.
I'm not just a hairy face you know.
YOU insult me dear fellow!
I do have standards...sometimes.
For you. I'd go green.
...see ()
ah now..that's a bit Irish..."
I can go all Oliver Twist if you want me to.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Starts a crowd funding thingy to get Pops and DD a room
Have a pound from me I have 37p I can donate.
Keep your shracknel ladies...
It'll be a walk along the river and the exchange of a shifty glance before diving down an alleyway...
You have £1.37 to splash out on a can of Stella between you "
I'm allergic to Stella...turns me violent. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Starts a crowd funding thingy to get Pops and DD a room
Have a pound from me I have 37p I can donate.
Keep your shracknel ladies...
It'll be a walk along the river and the exchange of a shifty glance before diving down an alleyway...
I can't do shifty glances, do you practise in the mirror?
It's a London thing.
Laughing..that is so true.
Not sure we're portraying Londoners in the best of light lol
Of course we are!
Like urban foxes, we stalk our prey.
Wait for the rest to fall asleep before we begin to play!
We are the chronotypes. The night owls. That explains our large eyes.
I fear you may be right Popeye pal.
I'm not just a hairy face you know.
YOU insult me dear fellow!
I do have standards...sometimes.
For you. I'd go green.
...see ()
ah now..that's a bit Irish...
I can go all Oliver Twist if you want me to.
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Oh is it weird I like that?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Starts a crowd funding thingy to get Pops and DD a room
Have a pound from me I have 37p I can donate.
Keep your shracknel ladies...
It'll be a walk along the river and the exchange of a shifty glance before diving down an alleyway...
I can't do shifty glances, do you practise in the mirror?
It's a London thing.
Laughing..that is so true.
Not sure we're portraying Londoners in the best of light lol
Of course we are!
Like urban foxes, we stalk our prey.
Wait for the rest to fall asleep before we begin to play!
We are the chronotypes. The night owls. That explains our large eyes.
I fear you may be right Popeye pal.
I'm not just a hairy face you know.
YOU insult me dear fellow!
I do have standards...sometimes.
For you. I'd go green.
...see ()
ah now..that's a bit Irish...
I can go all Oliver Twist if you want me to.
Oh is it weird I like that?!"
You just want me to say 'can i have some more please?'
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By (user no longer on site)
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"how slim your waist is, how big your cock is, how disenchanted I feel....
Agreed 100%. So many people on here though only focus only on physical attraction (understandable I guess as this is a swingers / sex site) but emotional attraction much more important of the two for me.
And even though I've never met
you, I know you have a friendly and likeable streak in you just through a little act of kindness you showed a few days ago - just the simple act of sending a short PM to me did actually mean a lot to me and showed what kind of person you are "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Starts a crowd funding thingy to get Pops and DD a room
Have a pound from me I have 37p I can donate.
Keep your shracknel ladies...
It'll be a walk along the river and the exchange of a shifty glance before diving down an alleyway...
I can't do shifty glances, do you practise in the mirror?
It's a London thing.
Laughing..that is so true.
Not sure we're portraying Londoners in the best of light lol
Of course we are!
Like urban foxes, we stalk our prey.
Wait for the rest to fall asleep before we begin to play!
We are the chronotypes. The night owls. That explains our large eyes.
I fear you may be right Popeye pal.
I'm not just a hairy face you know.
YOU insult me dear fellow!
I do have standards...sometimes.
For you. I'd go green.
...see ()
ah now..that's a bit Irish...
I can go all Oliver Twist if you want me to.
Oh is it weird I like that?!
You just want me to say 'can i have some more please?'
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So I can say MORE?! MORE?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Starts a crowd funding thingy to get Pops and DD a room
Have a pound from me I have 37p I can donate.
Keep your shracknel ladies...
It'll be a walk along the river and the exchange of a shifty glance before diving down an alleyway...
You have £1.37 to splash out on a can of Stella between you
I'm allergic to Stella...turns me violent."
It's ok. He likes it rough |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Starts a crowd funding thingy to get Pops and DD a room
Have a pound from me I have 37p I can donate.
Keep your shracknel ladies...
It'll be a walk along the river and the exchange of a shifty glance before diving down an alleyway...
I can't do shifty glances, do you practise in the mirror?
It's a London thing.
Laughing..that is so true.
Not sure we're portraying Londoners in the best of light lol
Of course we are!
Like urban foxes, we stalk our prey.
Wait for the rest to fall asleep before we begin to play!
We are the chronotypes. The night owls. That explains our large eyes.
I fear you may be right Popeye pal.
I'm not just a hairy face you know.
YOU insult me dear fellow!
I do have standards...sometimes.
For you. I'd go green.
...see ()
ah now..that's a bit Irish...
I can go all Oliver Twist if you want me to.
Oh is it weird I like that?!
You just want me to say 'can i have some more please?'
So I can say MORE?! MORE?!"
I'd start singing #how'd dyu like it, how'd dyu like it. More more more more#
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"Starts a crowd funding thingy to get Pops and DD a room
Have a pound from me I have 37p I can donate.
Keep your shracknel ladies...
It'll be a walk along the river and the exchange of a shifty glance before diving down an alleyway...
You have £1.37 to splash out on a can of Stella between you
I'm allergic to Stella...turns me violent.
It's ok. He likes it rough "
I'll stock up on knee pads so... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Starts a crowd funding thingy to get Pops and DD a room
Have a pound from me I have 37p I can donate.
Keep your shracknel ladies...
It'll be a walk along the river and the exchange of a shifty glance before diving down an alleyway...
You have £1.37 to splash out on a can of Stella between you
I'm allergic to Stella...turns me violent.
It's ok. He likes it rough "
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over a year ago
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"Attraction isn't more or less than anything. Attraction is personal and doesn't need someone else telling you what it is.
Just the shallowness on here."
I'm shallow on here. It's mainly based on fantasy and no strings sex.
If you're looking for something deeper on here, good luck, but I would suggest most are here for no strings fun. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Attraction isn't more or less than anything. Attraction is personal and doesn't need someone else telling you what it is.
Just the shallowness on here.
I'm shallow on here. It's mainly based on fantasy and no strings sex.
If you're looking for something deeper on here, good luck, but I would suggest most are here for no strings fun. "
Nothing wrong with making friends and being friends for the foreseeable.
How dismissive of you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Attraction isn't more or less than anything. Attraction is personal and doesn't need someone else telling you what it is.
Just the shallowness on here.
I'm shallow on here. It's mainly based on fantasy and no strings sex.
If you're looking for something deeper on here, good luck, but I would suggest most are here for no strings fun.
Nothing wrong with making friends and being friends for the foreseeable.
How dismissive of you."
Dismissive? What do you mean? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Attraction isn't more or less than anything. Attraction is personal and doesn't need someone else telling you what it is.
Just the shallowness on here.
I'm shallow on here. It's mainly based on fantasy and no strings sex.
If you're looking for something deeper on here, good luck, but I would suggest most are here for no strings fun.
Nothing wrong with making friends and being friends for the foreseeable.
How dismissive of you.
Dismissive? What do you mean?"
You assume that what you want and what I want aren't both attainable on this site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Attraction isn't more or less than anything. Attraction is personal and doesn't need someone else telling you what it is.
Just the shallowness on here.
I'm shallow on here. It's mainly based on fantasy and no strings sex.
If you're looking for something deeper on here, good luck, but I would suggest most are here for no strings fun. "
Doesn't need to be deeper, just an open mindedness about who people are and and what you could both enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Attraction isn't more or less than anything. Attraction is personal and doesn't need someone else telling you what it is.
Just the shallowness on here.
I'm shallow on here. It's mainly based on fantasy and no strings sex.
If you're looking for something deeper on here, good luck, but I would suggest most are here for no strings fun.
Nothing wrong with making friends and being friends for the foreseeable.
How dismissive of you.
Dismissive? What do you mean?
You assume that what you want and what I want aren't both attainable on this site."
No I have not. Read my responses again, they are clear.
I have stated what I want and I have wished you good luck in finding what you want, that was genuine.
You appear to be the one making assumptions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Attraction isn't more or less than anything. Attraction is personal and doesn't need someone else telling you what it is.
Just the shallowness on here.
I'm shallow on here. It's mainly based on fantasy and no strings sex.
If you're looking for something deeper on here, good luck, but I would suggest most are here for no strings fun. "
I'm completely shallow on here. Why wouldn't I be? I get that there are those looking for deep and meaningful but that isn't for me. I'm here to satisfy my fantasies. I don't see anything wrong with either scenario. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Attraction isn't more or less than anything. Attraction is personal and doesn't need someone else telling you what it is.
Just the shallowness on here.
I'm shallow on here. It's mainly based on fantasy and no strings sex.
If you're looking for something deeper on here, good luck, but I would suggest most are here for no strings fun.
Nothing wrong with making friends and being friends for the foreseeable.
How dismissive of you.
Dismissive? What do you mean?
You assume that what you want and what I want aren't both attainable on this site.
No I have not. Read my responses again, they are clear.
I have stated what I want and I have wished you good luck in finding what you want, that was genuine.
You appear to be the one making assumptions. "
Do you know what I want? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Attraction isn't more or less than anything. Attraction is personal and doesn't need someone else telling you what it is.
Just the shallowness on here.
I'm shallow on here. It's mainly based on fantasy and no strings sex.
If you're looking for something deeper on here, good luck, but I would suggest most are here for no strings fun.
Nothing wrong with making friends and being friends for the foreseeable.
How dismissive of you.
Dismissive? What do you mean?
You assume that what you want and what I want aren't both attainable on this site.
No I have not. Read my responses again, they are clear.
I have stated what I want and I have wished you good luck in finding what you want, that was genuine.
You appear to be the one making assumptions.
Do you know what I want?"
No. I haven't read your profile. I don't need to know what you want to wish you luck finding it, do I? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Attraction isn't more or less than anything. Attraction is personal and doesn't need someone else telling you what it is.
Just the shallowness on here.
I'm shallow on here. It's mainly based on fantasy and no strings sex.
If you're looking for something deeper on here, good luck, but I would suggest most are here for no strings fun.
I'm completely shallow on here. Why wouldn't I be? I get that there are those looking for deep and meaningful but that isn't for me. I'm here to satisfy my fantasies. I don't see anything wrong with either scenario. "
Neither do I. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't mind men being attracted to my large breasts... You have to start somewhere
I'm with you on that. Without mine, I'd be very meh  "
All of a sudden my breasts seem tiny  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Attraction isn't more or less than anything. Attraction is personal and doesn't need someone else telling you what it is.
Just the shallowness on here.
I'm shallow on here. It's mainly based on fantasy and no strings sex.
If you're looking for something deeper on here, good luck, but I would suggest most are here for no strings fun.
I'm completely shallow on here. Why wouldn't I be? I get that there are those looking for deep and meaningful but that isn't for me. I'm here to satisfy my fantasies. I don't see anything wrong with either scenario. "
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lets face it .. the nature of this site is the initial interest has got to be visual ... we look at avatars and then picture galleries .. then find out about each other through forum banter or private messages .. its only thorough the exchange of the messages that we can judge and set up meets .. and see where they lead from there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In terms of sexual pleasure received how many on here received this from the prettiest meet? How many from the nicest person?
Surely on a site where the majority want NSA sex, physical attraction gets you going but sexual technique gives the pleasure. It is essential to feel comfortable with the person you are fucking but looking for a potential soul mate is a bit over the top isn't it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"most people are a bit shallow on here as you would expect on a swingers site, people judge you by how you look wether they admit it or not."
Of course they do. physical attraction is always going to be the initial draw to someone....attraction to the rest of the person will follow and lead to a meet....or doesn't follow and no further contact will happen....if physical attraction wasn't a big part of it then what is the point of having pics on your profile?? I don't really buy into this thing about being shallow just because you care what someone looks like in order to want to have sex with them. Most of us aren't looking for a life partner. There is nothing wrong with wanting more than just sex, but I don't understand those that are surprised that there are those of us that aren't.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely physical attraction is the first thing that is required in this united hobby of ours? then it is chemistry etc. without physical attraction what is the likelihood of getting close enough to feel the chemistry?
BTW smooth with smaller tits yummy |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"how slim your waist is, how big your cock is, how disenchanted I feel....
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To some? Yes.
To others? Who are we to say what others are attracted to? Some have specific tastes, preferences and desires - both in 'Fabland' and the real world, that might be more about physical features than intellect, wit or personality.
Attraction is a personal thing - so cannot be right or wrong. And to get disenchanted about it seems a tad over the top.
Specifically regarding Fab - first impressions will always be visual - it's the internet after all. Whether that be photos or profile text, forum posts or chat room banter - whatever sparks the first twang of attraction is visual - images or words - on the internet they're no guarantee that the individual behind the profile will attract in the slightest when meeting in the real world.
People show and type what they perceive will attract others. It's very easy to be drawn to something on screen that is less attractive in person.
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"Attraction isn't more or less than anything. Attraction is personal and doesn't need someone else telling you what it is.
Just the shallowness on here.
I'm shallow on here. It's mainly based on fantasy and no strings sex.
If you're looking for something deeper on here, good luck, but I would suggest most are here for no strings fun.
I'm completely shallow on here. Why wouldn't I be? I get that there are those looking for deep and meaningful but that isn't for me. I'm here to satisfy my fantasies. I don't see anything wrong with either scenario. "
Agree as this is a swingers site it does what it says on the tin. If people are looking for a soul mate then maybe they'd be better off joining a more conventional dating site instead of signing upto a swingers site? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Physical attraction gets you interested, personality keeps you interested.
Lust only really requires that someones personality doesn't mess things up because an ugly personality can very quickly make a physically attractive person undesirable.
That said, physical attraction is always going to be the first filter for most people who are looking to have sex with someone, whether it's in this scene or not. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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people come and go and come back and go and come back again, many times that state they don't get what they are seeking....
it may not be the site, or others on it, but them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Attraction isn't more or less than anything. Attraction is personal and doesn't need someone else telling you what it is.
Just the shallowness on here.
I'm shallow on here. It's mainly based on fantasy and no strings sex.
If you're looking for something deeper on here, good luck, but I would suggest most are here for no strings fun.
I'm completely shallow on here. Why wouldn't I be? I get that there are those looking for deep and meaningful but that isn't for me. I'm here to satisfy my fantasies. I don't see anything wrong with either scenario.
Agree as this is a swingers site it does what it says on the tin. If people are looking for a soul mate then maybe they'd be better off joining a more conventional dating site instead of signing upto a swingers site?"
Lol... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Attraction isn't more or less than anything. Attraction is personal and doesn't need someone else telling you what it is.
Just the shallowness on here.
I'm shallow on here. It's mainly based on fantasy and no strings sex.
If you're looking for something deeper on here, good luck, but I would suggest most are here for no strings fun.
I'm completely shallow on here. Why wouldn't I be? I get that there are those looking for deep and meaningful but that isn't for me. I'm here to satisfy my fantasies. I don't see anything wrong with either scenario.
Agree as this is a swingers site it does what it says on the tin. If people are looking for a soul mate then maybe they'd be better off joining a more conventional dating site instead of signing upto a swingers site?"
Unless they are looking for a swinging soul mate.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Attraction isn't more or less than anything. Attraction is personal and doesn't need someone else telling you what it is. "
Yup! I've had some so-called gorgeous guys and girls meet me and I'm just not attracted to them, and some not so classically handsome that I've wanted to get down to it in the coffee shop... |
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I'm attracted to people who don't over analyse what should or shouldn't trigger attraction and are just happy to know they want to fuck someone without a prolonged inter_iew process.
I'm attracted to people who look for reasons why they should meet someone, rather than hunt down reasons why they shouldn't.
I'm attracted to people who feel they can be open an honest about desire and lust without putting on some 'you're oh so special' façade.
But most of all... I'm attracted to people I like the look of.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm attracted to people who don't over analyse what should or shouldn't trigger attraction and are just happy to know they want to fuck someone without a prolonged inter_iew process.
I'm attracted to people who look for reasons why they should meet someone, rather than hunt down reasons why they shouldn't.
I'm attracted to people who feel they can be open an honest about desire and lust without putting on some 'you're oh so special' façade.
But most of all... I'm attracted to people I like the look of.
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Best. Answer. Ever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm attracted to people who don't over analyse what should or shouldn't trigger attraction and are just happy to know they want to fuck someone without a prolonged inter_iew process.
I'm attracted to people who look for reasons why they should meet someone, rather than hunt down reasons why they shouldn't.
I'm attracted to people who feel they can be open an honest about desire and lust without putting on some 'you're oh so special' façade.
But most of all... I'm attracted to people I like the look of.
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Spot on. |
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