Being newbies to the scene we are curious if there is an acceptable way of approaching other couples in a club environment when there is an interest/attraction? We have made eye contact with couples but never really known how to follow it up (don't really just want to stroll up and ask if they fancy playing).I know to some of those veterans of the scene this will seem like a stupid question, but would appreciate any constructive comments. Thanks B+A
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If you have ever met a cpl at home iam thinkin it would feel the same? With the atomosphere and getting to know the other party u would relax, It would just happen. Iam hoping it does (never been to one yet either) good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just bring it up in conversation by asking how they play talk about how you play and hopefully suggest playing together it's worked for us but it took a few weeks lol |
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We have been doing this for quite a few years now but this is still the hardest part of any night out. It normally starts with a simple “I like your outfit” or “love your shoes, where did you get them” and believe it or not in a club the old “do you come here often” works quite well. Hope you have lots of fun there is nothing better when it all works out. XXX PnJ XXX. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
Start with social chatting and get to know each other a bit.
When I am with someone else we usually say something like "we're off to play now, would you like to join us?" Or if it's in a play area we will often start to play and use body language as well as words to invite them to join.
As a single I have had couples just ask if I fancied joining them.
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
Just start a conversation and see where it leads. They may be just as unsure as you 
Alternatively, you could just try some of the oneliners I've received on here, such as your gums my plums, but I wouldn't advise it. I strongly wouldn't advise it.  |
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