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First date.....what to do afterwards
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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So I went on a date yesterday with a guy that I got on really well with...I'd like to see him again but I tend to fuck things up lol....can I have some tips please so I don't end up with egg on my face... |
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over a year ago
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"So I went on a date yesterday with a guy that I got on really well with...I'd like to see him again but I tend to fuck things up lol....can I have some tips please so I don't end up with egg on my face... "
If you go out for dinner for the second date - don't drink too much and fall asleep in your omelette!
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over a year ago
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"So I went on a date yesterday with a guy that I got on really well with...I'd like to see him again but I tend to fuck things up lol....can I have some tips please so I don't end up with egg on my face... " just be yourself and you'll be right if hes into you hell prefer you no point bein fake |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you didn't fuck up the first date, Id suggest doing more the same, with a side order of first or second base!
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Third dates the charm
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Seriously, be yourself. You're fab (no pun intended) and in the company of the right person, you'll shine like a star. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You need to look up his mums number from the phonebook and have nice conversation - always good to get in with his mum because she'll nag him to like you.
After that you probably need to ask him how many kids he wants because that's essential information you need to know before it goes any further.
You'll probably need to scare off any other women too so try and hang around outside his house/place of work and observe - if any goes near him just run screaming at them and that should be enough to assert your authority. |
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"So I went on a date yesterday with a guy that I got on really well with...I'd like to see him again but I tend to fuck things up lol....can I have some tips please so I don't end up with egg on my face... "
If you believe you will fuck up then you probably will...positive thinking and no eggs |
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"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself... " has he contacted you? Does he know your on here?
Try not to over think it and if you go out again just aim to have a laugh and find out stuff about each other
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"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself... "
NO! Never fear being yourself, why would you not want to be yourself, can you be another person for ever if it came down to it? |
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"So I went on a date yesterday with a guy that I got on really well with...I'd like to see him again but I tend to fuck things up lol....can I have some tips please so I don't end up with egg on my face...
If you believe you will fuck up then you probably will...positive thinking and no eggs "
I'll second this one
Let it flow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself... "
I'm exactly the same. I've messed up a lot of vanilla dates (usually after the second date) because when the topic goes to sex I'm far too honest. I vote keeping sex chats at bay for a while. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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Invite him to your party so we can either all tell him how awesome you are and big you up, or all tell him this is the annual gathering of some of your past partners and so big you up to him |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself... has he contacted you? Does he know your on here?
Try not to over think it and if you go out again just aim to have a laugh and find out stuff about each other
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He said he wanted to see me again so I've left it there, he hasn't contacted me today..no he does not know I'm on here I think he would freak and run a mile x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself... "
Have you thought that its all part of who you are?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its along while since I first dated someone but jay and I took a year to get to know each other before we became an item. I think you need to build the foundations first
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Glad you didn't rush things lol a year |
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"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself... has he contacted you? Does he know your on here?
Try not to over think it and if you go out again just aim to have a laugh and find out stuff about each other
He said he wanted to see me again so I've left it there, he hasn't contacted me today..no he does not know I'm on here I think he would freak and run a mile x " well if you want to be honest with him you need to say your on here and let him make the decision before it goes any further
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself...
Have you thought that its all part of who you are?
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It is part of me I've met some awesome people and made some great friends etc...it's a lot to just give up and I'm not looking to the future as it was just a first date...it just got me thinking |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself... has he contacted you? Does he know your on here?
Try not to over think it and if you go out again just aim to have a laugh and find out stuff about each other
He said he wanted to see me again so I've left it there, he hasn't contacted me today..no he does not know I'm on here I think he would freak and run a mile x well if you want to be honest with him you need to say your on here and let him make the decision before it goes any further
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I will see if I get a second date and go from there... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ask him what he's looking for
Fuck no "
That's good you're learning lol
If it's going to work out long term he has to fall for the real you. Show him the real you and it will either cause him to fall head over heels or not. Make him feel special and be yourself.
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"Its along while since I first dated someone but jay and I took a year to get to know each other before we became an item. I think you need to build the foundations first
Glad you didn't rush things lol a year " lol I know but it works for us. I'd met married and had a baby within 14 months with my ex husband
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself...
Have you thought that its all part of who you are?
It is part of me I've met some awesome people and made some great friends etc...it's a lot to just give up and I'm not looking to the future as it was just a first date...it just got me thinking "
The right person for you wont ask you to become a subset of a whole, but will embrace you for who you are and change will happen organically as you grow together.
Denying who you are is one of the fastest ways to misery and unhappiness. |
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"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself...
Have you thought that its all part of who you are?
It is part of me I've met some awesome people and made some great friends etc...it's a lot to just give up and I'm not looking to the future as it was just a first date...it just got me thinking
The right person for you wont ask you to become a subset of a whole, but will embrace you for who you are and change will happen organically as you grow together.
Denying who you are is one of the fastest ways to misery and unhappiness. "
This very true and good advice. |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself...
Have you thought that its all part of who you are?
It is part of me I've met some awesome people and made some great friends etc...it's a lot to just give up and I'm not looking to the future as it was just a first date...it just got me thinking
The right person for you wont ask you to become a subset of a whole, but will embrace you for who you are and change will happen organically as you grow together.
Denying who you are is one of the fastest ways to misery and unhappiness.
This very true and good advice."
Professor knows me quite well and it is really good advice, all of it is great advice and that's why I love you guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its along while since I first dated someone but jay and I took a year to get to know each other before we became an item. I think you need to build the foundations first
Glad you didn't rush things lol a year lol I know but it works for us. I'd met married and had a baby within 14 months with my ex husband
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We did something that stupid lol
Can't give advice on dates as it's been 30 years since my last one so things may off changed a little but enjoy and be yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would have said I had a great time if you fancy meeting up again then send me a text and we can sort something out,then I would leave the ball in his court |
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"I would have said I had a great time if you fancy meeting up again then send me a text and we can sort something out,then I would leave the ball in his court" fuck me, you've been talking some sense over the last couple of days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would have said I had a great time if you fancy meeting up again then send me a text and we can sort something out,then I would leave the ball in his courtfuck me, you've been talking some sense over the last couple of days "
I must have had a bang on the head!
Normal service will resume once the swelling has gone down |
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"So I went on a date yesterday with a guy that I got on really well with...I'd like to see him again but I tend to fuck things up lol....can I have some tips please so I don't end up with egg on my face... "
Cheeky, relax , breathe. Be patient and he will probably come to you. You're a lovely woman with a great personality xx dating in the vanilla world takes time xx |
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"I would have said I had a great time if you fancy meeting up again then send me a text and we can sort something out,then I would leave the ball in his courtfuck me, you've been talking some sense over the last couple of days
I must have had a bang on the head!
Normal service will resume once the swelling has gone down " thank god. I'm fed up of agreeing with you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm terrible at dating myself
But usually when dates go well the girl sends me a nice thank you text along the lines of 'had a great time, lets do it again..'
Then just wait and hopefully you'll get a second date!
Don't worry about the other stuff like sex until the time comes... just enjoy yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself...
Have you thought that its all part of who you are?
It is part of me I've met some awesome people and made some great friends etc...it's a lot to just give up and I'm not looking to the future as it was just a first date...it just got me thinking "
I left after a first date, the chemistry was big enough to do that. Don't know the back story but your dating so guess your 'looking for something'. Attaching your to certain things (ie this lifestyle) are just your boundarys right now. Funny when something comes out of blue and smashes everything out the water. If I have advice it's; what do you truly want! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I went on a date yesterday with a guy that I got on really well with...I'd like to see him again but I tend to fuck things up lol....can I have some tips please so I don't end up with egg on my face... "
Why would you fuck things up... Daft bugger. Wait for him to call, be yourself, you are a lovely person... Don't doubt yourself, or be so hard on yourself! He will be back for more, I'm sure... Slowly slowly ... Good luck sweetie x |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself...
Have you thought that its all part of who you are?
It is part of me I've met some awesome people and made some great friends etc...it's a lot to just give up and I'm not looking to the future as it was just a first date...it just got me thinking
I left after a first date, the chemistry was big enough to do that. Don't know the back story but your dating so guess your 'looking for something'. Attaching your to certain things (ie this lifestyle) are just your boundarys right now. Funny when something comes out of blue and smashes everything out the water. If I have advice it's; what do you truly want!"
I've been single 4 years and I miss a relationship so thought I'd take the plunge and try...he came out of the blue to be honest but like I say I tend to fuck things up lol |
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"Dating and relationships are not my area of expertise.
I wish they were because I'm stuck in the middle of a marital row at the moment and I'm tempted to knock their heads together. "
I've been in that place and it's so frustrating!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What ever happens don't let an ex/fb send him a nice email explaining what he does to get u off alongside 32 attached intimate pics of u making sure his cock was in a few for added measure. (yes this has just happened to me with a nice girl i was dating hadn't even got to find anything out for myself ) |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"hi all,well if you met him on fab,,cant see a problem,if he read your profile!!if he dont know you on here,you will have to tell him,,simplesxx "
Possibly I will but that's something to consider somewhere along the time |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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1. Buy house with cellar
2. Lure him round
3. Lock him in cellar
4. Gradually brainwash him into your perfect partner
5. Have babies
6. Live happily ever after
Or let him know you had a good time and would like to see him again and wait and see what happens.
I hope it works out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've decided that the next man who dates me will have to wait for 3 months for sexjay and I didn't have penetrive sex for three months lol
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Good woman! Lol I probably won't last 3 months unless he's working away |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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Cheeky, don't over-think it, make plans for the future and then wonder why it isn't going as you want it to.
Each date is a new step, a new unveiling of yourself and a chance to see more of him. One date at a time.
Enjoy it and he will too.
Have fun and good luck.
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"Well I got a dear Jess message, I'm a lovely person and he had a great laugh and a lovely time but he doesn't think it will go any further...hey ho...I tried " bugger but at least you know and he's not kept you waiting around. Next. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Well I got a dear Jess message, I'm a lovely person and he had a great laugh and a lovely time but he doesn't think it will go any further...hey ho...I tried "
I'm sorry. At least he told you sooner rather than later. And, you did put yourself out there and enjoyed the date.
Back to kissing frogs.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You don't catch fish if you don't go fishing. Some you catch some slip the hook some you get to keep. Its not great if a good one gets away but keep in your mind there is always more than good one and you won't get unless you get your hook in the water. So the morale to this tail is keep wiggling your worm!
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"Aww Cheeky. He's mad x
He ain't mad he is being honest x "
And saving you time.
It's not a bad thing that he knows what he wants and didn't want to string you along whilst he waited for it to come along.
If you really do feel so entrenched in this place that you're not being yourself... remember, people will pick up on it!
My philosophy is.... if they are the right one, they accept you for the person you are.
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"You don't catch fish if you don't go fishing. Some you catch some slip the hook some you get to keep. Its not great if a good one gets away but keep in your mind there is always more than good one and you won't get unless you get your hook in the water. So the morale to this tail is keep wiggling your worm!
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Thanks Ron x |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"Aww Cheeky. He's mad x
He ain't mad he is being honest x
And saving you time.
It's not a bad thing that he knows what he wants and didn't want to string you along whilst he waited for it to come along.
If you really do feel so entrenched in this place that you're not being yourself... remember, people will pick up on it!
My philosophy is.... if they are the right one, they accept you for the person you are.
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Great advice thanks polo xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You don't catch fish if you don't go fishing. Some you catch some slip the hook some you get to keep. Its not great if a good one gets away but keep in your mind there is always more than good one and you won't get unless you get your hook in the water. So the morale to this tail is keep wiggling your worm!
Thanks Ron x "
I know you girls haven't a worm so it kind of doesn't fit but you cant put a punani on a hook |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It takes a good person to be upbeat and positive, just keep doing what you're doing.
Honesty is the best policy, sounds like you've done the hardest part - attracting people who you are interested in (enough for a first date), and seeing if there's that spark etc.
Plenty more fish and you're a good catch, won't be long 'till you find whatever it is you want |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I got a dear Jess message, I'm a lovely person and he had a great laugh and a lovely time but he doesn't think it will go any further...hey ho...I tried "
Hiss loss Cheeky. keep smiling lovely x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As has been said, better sooner than later... Don't dwell. Guess he wasn't the right guy for you. He will come along when your not looking and least expect it. |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"Well I got a dear Jess message, I'm a lovely person and he had a great laugh and a lovely time but he doesn't think it will go any further...hey ho...I tried
stupid man"
He isn't though, it's his choice and I'd rather be told now than being led up the merry path. I wish him all the luck in the world he is a nice guy...not that I messaged him back saying that I just deleted his message and number and thought what a great day out I had yesterday |
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"Well I got a dear Jess message, I'm a lovely person and he had a great laugh and a lovely time but he doesn't think it will go any further...hey ho...I tried
stupid man
He isn't though, it's his choice and I'd rather be told now than being led up the merry path. I wish him all the luck in the world he is a nice guy...not that I messaged him back saying that I just deleted his message and number and thought what a great day out I had yesterday "
I thought she meant stupid for not stringing it out for a blow-job |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"Well I got a dear Jess message, I'm a lovely person and he had a great laugh and a lovely time but he doesn't think it will go any further...hey ho...I tried
stupid man
He isn't though, it's his choice and I'd rather be told now than being led up the merry path. I wish him all the luck in the world he is a nice guy...not that I messaged him back saying that I just deleted his message and number and thought what a great day out I had yesterday
I thought she meant stupid for not stringing it out for a blow-job "
Lol that was date 2 |
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"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself... has he contacted you? Does he know your on here?
Try not to over think it and if you go out again just aim to have a laugh and find out stuff about each other
He said he wanted to see me again so I've left it there, he hasn't contacted me today..no he does not know I'm on here I think he would freak and run a mile x well if you want to be honest with him you need to say your on here and let him make the decision before it goes any further
I will see if I get a second date and go from there... "
Exactly. Leave it be, let him find you. If you have a social something you could call and ask if he will join you ? .. Mates going swinging (joke), family picnic, family do ....otherwise, if no reason to call him be patient.
As for here, well let the relationship blossum before telling him you swing ... Xx
Lucky man to have caught your eye!! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Well I got a dear Jess message, I'm a lovely person and he had a great laugh and a lovely time but he doesn't think it will go any further...hey ho...I tried
stupid man
He isn't though, it's his choice and I'd rather be told now than being led up the merry path. I wish him all the luck in the world he is a nice guy...not that I messaged him back saying that I just deleted his message and number and thought what a great day out I had yesterday
I thought she meant stupid for not stringing it out for a blow-job "
Well, yes, there's that too.
Cheeky, I still think he's daft for not wanting to see you again but yeah, shit happens.
I agree it's a good thing he was honest and didn't drag it out. |
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"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself... "
If you feel that you can't be yourself, he's not the one for you. The right one won't give a hoot about how you entrench yourself.
Good luck lovely x
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Well I got a dear Jess message, I'm a lovely person and he had a great laugh and a lovely time but he doesn't think it will go any further...hey ho...I tried
stupid man
He isn't though, it's his choice and I'd rather be told now than being led up the merry path. I wish him all the luck in the world he is a nice guy...not that I messaged him back saying that I just deleted his message and number and thought what a great day out I had yesterday
I thought she meant stupid for not stringing it out for a blow-job
Lol that was date 2 "
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"Well I got a dear Jess message, I'm a lovely person and he had a great laugh and a lovely time but he doesn't think it will go any further...hey ho...I tried
stupid man
He isn't though, it's his choice and I'd rather be told now than being led up the merry path. I wish him all the luck in the world he is a nice guy...not that I messaged him back saying that I just deleted his message and number and thought what a great day out I had yesterday
I thought she meant stupid for not stringing it out for a blow-job
Well, yes, there's that too.
Cheeky, I still think he's daft for not wanting to see you again but yeah, shit happens.
I agree it's a good thing he was honest and didn't drag it out."
Deep down I'm disappointed but it's life and life ain't always rosy x x |
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"Well I got a dear Jess message, I'm a lovely person and he had a great laugh and a lovely time but he doesn't think it will go any further...hey ho...I tried "
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm off to Denmark soon so no doubt my mum will try and set me up with some Danish guy lol xx "
Don't knock it - she may know exactly the right person for you.
You'll be in your Viking costume too, won't you? How can they resist?
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"I'm off to Denmark soon so no doubt my mum will try and set me up with some Danish guy lol xx
Don't knock it - she may know exactly the right person for you.
You'll be in your Viking costume too, won't you? How can they resist?
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My mother knows me better than any Human being I know but I'm not looking for anything...I tried it didn't happen and the last thing I need is a long distance romance lol |
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Although not the fairytale, I agree it's better to know sooner than later. I've been on dates and it's more than disappointing when it just fizzles out on account of not being told where i/we stand. That's a bit cowardice but it's better just to know.
Although he may not have been for you, you'll meet someone who is, this many people saying such nice things can't be wrong! |
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See each meet for what it is with no expectations for the next time. Free yourself of stressful thinking. It's all about being present now instead of being consumed about the future, with something that has not even happened yet. Wishing you only the best xxx |
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"See each meet for what it is with no expectations for the next time. Free yourself of stressful thinking. It's all about being present now instead of being consumed about the future, with something that has not even happened yet. Wishing you only the best xxx" good stuff |
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"Thanks for all the lovely replies I feel a bit today but got to keep smiling...cheers guys xx "
Aww..hugs...and don't forget
"This time next year we'll be millionaires Cheeky......" |
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"You need to look up his mums number from the phonebook and have nice conversation - always good to get in with his mum because she'll nag him to like you.
After that you probably need to ask him how many kids he wants because that's essential information you need to know before it goes any further.Ha ha that's made me laugh
You'll probably need to scare off any other women too so try and hang around outside his house/place of work and observe - if any goes near him just run screaming at them and that should be enough to assert your authority." |
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"I'll date you miss cheeky chops xxx
Aww thanks, my dating days are over for a bit lol...I'm just going to have fun life is too short to be miserable and anyway dating is so hard work lol "
Well ...how about a big hug
Mwah |
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"Be yourself, but reign in the sex stuff.. Some things are better kept to yourself, until you know the relationship is going somewhere at least!
I'm the queen of playing it cool. But sometimes I'm a bit too cool! "
Well when you are as hot as you are, you have to do something to chill those around you.
Im red hot after looking at your pics...again |
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"Thanks for all the lovely replies I feel a bit today but got to keep smiling...cheers guys xx "
Hope you feel better soon Cheeky. Good things come to those that wait. You're always so positive on here, I'm sure, when the timing is right, you'll meet the right guy. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I'll date you miss cheeky chops xxx
Aww thanks, my dating days are over for a bit lol...I'm just going to have fun life is too short to be miserable and anyway dating is so hard work lol "
I'll come over one night and we can go out on the pull if you like. I need to get out more. |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'll date you miss cheeky chops xxx
Aww thanks, my dating days are over for a bit lol...I'm just going to have fun life is too short to be miserable and anyway dating is so hard work lol
I'll come over one night and we can go out on the pull if you like. I need to get out more."
Sounds fun |
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