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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Had a couple message me. I live in manchester and they lived in Chester. The male requested that we should meet up and I said I was happy to meet them. Then came the really bold part. They wanted me to book a hotel in Chester for the night, then travel down to Chester to meet then. I declined cuz i think it's only balanced that if I was booking the hotel, them they should be doing the travelling. Anyone else had this experience? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"well done you, some expect people to jump through hoops to get a meet.
 good luck for the future"
It's rather discouraging that some couples expect that. It should be a mutual effort to get the meet done |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope and never will.
Tightwad Gimp 
This is a polite thread avoid rude words
Sorry Admin i didnt realise that never was a rude word. 
Bucketmouth Gimp "
Lol I can see you got jokes.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well done you, some expect people to jump through hoops to get a meet.
good luck for the future"
Good for you it should be a mutual arrangement each side doing their part fair and square (unless one party states that's what they are willing to do)  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"well done you, some expect people to jump through hoops to get a meet.
good luck for the future
Good for you it should be a mutual arrangement each side doing their part fair and square (unless one party states that's what they are willing to do) "
I completely agree with you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well done for wanting equality in meeting.
I try where possible to accommodate as I'm unable to afford to pay for hotels.
If a guy offers to pay for the hotel then for me that's a bonus and I will finance my traveling costs and offer to pay for drinks etc  |
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You should only do what you are comfortable doing.....I always feel a bit cheeky as I can't travel a great distance because of my limited time so if a guy wants to meet me he has to be prepared to travel fairly close to me. I wouldn't expect him to foot the bill for the room though I am happy to pay halves. For some guys this is too much and I acknowledge that, but I'm always upfront about how inflexible I am with meeting so a guy can take it or leave it. I know I'm demanding |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well done for wanting equality in meeting.
I try where possible to accommodate as I'm unable to afford to pay for hotels.
If a guy offers to pay for the hotel then for me that's a bonus and I will finance my traveling costs and offer to pay for drinks etc "
I think that's how it should be done. A balanced expense |
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over a year ago
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"In the past I have paid for a hotel if the guy is travelling to me or shared the cost of the evening, it's a bit rude of them to expect you to pay and travel  "
Spot on |
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"You should only do what you are comfortable doing.....I always feel a bit cheeky as I can't travel a great distance because of my limited time so if a guy wants to meet me he has to be prepared to travel fairly close to me. I wouldn't expect him to foot the bill for the room though I am happy to pay halves. For some guys this is too much and I acknowledge that, but I'm always upfront about how inflexible I am with meeting so a guy can take it or leave it. I know I'm demanding "
As long as you guys have a mutual understanding about this then it's actually fine |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Couples do this to other couples too.....or try to.
Lol I guess guys ain't the only ones having it tough on here "
You got it right there Fella lol,As a couple i think we've had as much bollox as singles do, The only difference is we dont get stressed about it as we have each other so can be quite laid back and treat the whole thing as a bit of fun rather than a "Must get a Shag".
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"Couples do this to other couples too.....or try to.
Lol I guess guys ain't the only ones having it tough on here
You got it right there Fella lol,As a couple i think we've had as much bollox as singles do, The only difference is we dont get stressed about it as we have each other so can be quite laid back and treat the whole thing as a bit of fun rather than a "Must get a Shag".
Deep Gimp "
Lol I think the gimp is really catching on
You are right couples do have the added advantage of a partner to rely on |
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Some think single men should pay and do the traveling as if they had to pay for sex cost 100s. Myself I see it as a two way road if travel we sort food and hotel or stay with us its only fair. |
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"You should only do what you are comfortable doing.....I always feel a bit cheeky as I can't travel a great distance because of my limited time so if a guy wants to meet me he has to be prepared to travel fairly close to me. I wouldn't expect him to foot the bill for the room though I am happy to pay halves. For some guys this is too much and I acknowledge that, but I'm always upfront about how inflexible I am with meeting so a guy can take it or leave it. I know I'm demanding "
That's not being demanding. It's splitting costs and being honest. |
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"Some think single men should pay and do the traveling as if they had to pay for sex cost 100s. Myself I see it as a two way road if travel we sort food and hotel or stay with us its only fair. "
What times Dinner then
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"Some think single men should pay and do the traveling as if they had to pay for sex cost 100s. Myself I see it as a two way road if travel we sort food and hotel or stay with us its only fair. "
Spot on hun |
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