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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I always reply its a shame some people just ignore |
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And you get roughly how may emails each day ? |
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"I always reply its a shame some people just ignore "
Sigh .......
Why is it a shame that some people ignore ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why have you started another thread about the same thing?
This will likely be closed just like the other one was
No reply = no interest |
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"I always reply its a shame some people just ignore
Sigh .......
Why is it a shame that some people ignore ?"
This!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Dnt know why other one eas vlosed intresting to see peoples veiws |
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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago
Bedworth |
Did we not already see you winging along a similar line in a thread closed by admin today?
Just a tip, if you put as much effort into your profile and messages as you do into.complaining on the forum about lack of replies then it may actually pay off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No reply = not interested
It really is that simple! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did we not already see you winging along a similar line in a thread closed by admin today?
Just a tip, if you put as much effort into your profile and messages as you do into.complaining on the forum about lack of replies then it may actually pay off"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well i have updated it a bit |
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I will say the same as I said a little while ago.... I check the profile before I look at message, and I would just delete  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There is some profiles with less on than mine at least i bothered a little biy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We first message people a lot on here. As soon as the message is sent, we delete sent messages straight away so we can't see what someone has done to it. We don't give a flying f*ck if people don't reply, it means they're not interested and not wasting their time and ours replying in the negative. We concentrate on our inbox. We'll either get a reply or we won't, simple! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well i have updated it a bit "
I have just read the new version,what if they don't feel like replying? |
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"And you get roughly how may emails each day ?"
I thought you always replied ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's y I don't bother to email profiles as much as I did before as I stay mostly in the forum  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If they dnt they dnt i am new to this so just finding my feet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Adam and tina i dont get any so dont have too |
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"Adam and tina i dont get any so dont have too"
So you always reply, but you don't get any messages ? What exactly do you reply to then ? |
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"There is some profiles with less on than mine at least i bothered a little biy"
And there's lots of much more successful guys who make a lot of effort  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well i would reply if was given the chance sorry i did not mean to bitch or offend anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This topic has been done to death. Not everyone has the time to reply to every single message they get as they have lives outside of fab and to be honest when you're getting 5,6,7 messages from people you have already said no thanks to it becomes very tiring...
We had the same copy and paste message twice from the same guy within 20 minutes of each other today after saying no only the day before. |
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I am honestly beginning to think that when people join fab there should be a short notice that says "if you don't receive a reply to a message please don't take it personally it means the recipient is not interested in taking things further"
It would save a lot of people a lot of anguish, because lets face it it MUST be disheartening when no one responds, but if you were expecting it maybe it wouldn't be so bad. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well kinda gettin used to it now |
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"Well i would reply if was given the chance sorry i did not mean to bitch or offend anyone"
You're not bitching. You are bringing a very important problem to the forums that the forumites won't be aware of at all. Now they will be able to consider it at last.
Well done you xx
And none of them ever get offended.
Perhaps you could post it every Monday as there will be a few folk who will be away ... it being August n all that. |
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Its hard for me to reply to everyone as I get a heck of em. But if u expect a reply, u should spend some time to write one too.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I could lol cause i doubt i will get a message by then |
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As a single man I know where you're coming from. Some reply but most just delete.
But what I do is move on and forget about it. Shit happens. Not everyone is attracted to me, that's life. |
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"Well i would reply if was given the chance sorry i did not mean to bitch or offend anyone
You're not bitching. You are bringing a very important problem to the forums that the forumites won't be aware of at all. Now they will be able to consider it at last.
Well done you xx
And none of them ever get offended.
Perhaps you could post it every Monday as there will be a few folk who will be away ... it being August n all that."
Good advice that Granny! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Concentrate on yourself and getting meets rather than dwelling on meets that will never happen.
Operate under no reply means not interested. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If i do tht i wont meet anyone lol |
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By *eteJDTMan
over a year ago
Jersey |
I can understand that the ladies get too many messages as the ratio seems to be many men to much fewer ladies. However, I have to say that very few seem to answer.
I know my age is very much against me but I only message those who clearly state on their profiles that they are open to my age group.
In one happy case a lady, only 22, messaged me first then invited me as a friend so I know there are some who like a much older, reasonably fit man. Pity she was way up in Derbyshire and I am in the Channel Islands but I still live in hope. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
Yup we're all ignorant bitches.
Don't know why you bother with us. |
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"Yup we're all ignorant bitches.
Don't know why you bother with us."
Less of the ignorant please. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not saying people ignorant just give us a chance |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
Already been answered when your other thread on the same thing was closed |
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