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Any ladies private message first?
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
Yes, I have and I do. I find it a good way to actually contact people who I think I'd like to spend time with, rather than being reactive.
But then, my whole life I try to be proactive to bring about what I like and want in it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"funnily enough if iget any messages from a lady first im very wary! id think its fake or deffo up to summat lol dunno why! "
Ive had that impression from some of the guys ive messaged,they behave so cynically I give up bothering and move on to someone else  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"funnily enough if iget any messages from a lady first im very wary! id think its fake or deffo up to summat lol dunno why!
Ive had that impression from some of the guys ive messaged,they behave so cynically I give up bothering and move on to someone else "
That is a tricky one! If the girl has professional pics done too even if genuine still a part of you thinks fake |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never message first but have winked on the odd occasion but that is few and far between... Has to be something that really stands out for me to do that...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"funnily enough if iget any messages from a lady first im very wary! id think its fake or deffo up to summat lol dunno why!
Ive had that impression from some of the guys ive messaged,they behave so cynically I give up bothering and move on to someone else
That is a tricky one! If the girl has professional pics done too even if genuine still a part of you thinks fake "
You do what you feel comfortable with,if you think fake then don't respond |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"funnily enough if iget any messages from a lady first im very wary! id think its fake or deffo up to summat lol dunno why!
Ive had that impression from some of the guys ive messaged,they behave so cynically I give up bothering and move on to someone else "
never give up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never message first but have winked on the odd occasion but that is few and far between... Has to be something that really stands out for me to do that... "
Sent you a wink |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope never. Not that confident! I did sent a couple of winks on my last profile which amounted to nothing, but that's it I'm afraid.
Nice legs.  "
 thanks! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope never. Not that confident! I did sent a couple of winks on my last profile which amounted to nothing, but that's it I'm afraid.
Nice legs.
thanks! "
And a very well written profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope never. Not that confident! I did sent a couple of winks on my last profile which amounted to nothing, but that's it I'm afraid.
Nice legs.
thanks!
And a very well written profile. "
lol thanks X 2 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope never. Not that confident! I did sent a couple of winks on my last profile which amounted to nothing, but that's it I'm afraid.
Nice legs.
thanks!
And a very well written profile.
lol thanks X 2 "
The profile covers everything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I message & Wink guys 1st all the time. in fact the best meets I've had were with guys I messaged 1st......
I don't however make the 1st mice when I'm in a club, I'll happily have an MMF in a public room with an audience, but I'm weirdly shy when it comes to asking a guy to play....go figure  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope never. Not that confident! I did sent a couple of winks on my last profile which amounted to nothing, but that's it I'm afraid.
Nice legs.
thanks! "
Had to have a perv lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope never. Not that confident! I did sent a couple of winks on my last profile which amounted to nothing, but that's it I'm afraid.
Nice legs.
thanks!
And a very well written profile.
lol thanks X 2 "
Can't message you. I am 365 days too old lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep I do When I'm looking for new blood or if someone takes my fancy. I don't sit here waiting to be contacted and then whine that no suitable guys ever message me. ...Life is too short |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep I do When I'm looking for new blood or if someone takes my fancy. I don't sit here waiting to be contacted and then whine that no suitable guys ever message me. ...Life is too short "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do - much easier than waiting for the type of guys you want to meet to find you. It's a nightmare though, so many male profiles to look through.... Wish fab had better search filters like other sites |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
When I was looking I used to do it all the time and most of my meets were people that Id messaged first.
As the others have said Id much rather look for what I want rather than sit around waiting to see what Im offered.
And yes, messages would be deleted, ignored and turned down just the same as everyone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I rarely meet anyone who messages me. I know what I like so I generally poke the ones who interest me. "
You do have a long profile, I hope I can meet some criteria x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do - much easier than waiting for the type of guys you want to meet to find you. It's a nightmare though, so many male profiles to look through.... Wish fab had better search filters like other sites "
Me too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not had a message off a woman or couple. Its always been me first. However i do have a few stalkers who look at me regularly, but due to their privacy settings i cant acknowledge them with the 1 or 2 i may be interested in. |
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