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Why do people lie?
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Have never understood why people lie on here. Why not tell the truth. It's a swinging site not a date site. Can not understand revealing all details but forgetting your married or partner? Be honest. Some won't meet if you are but others will.
Give a general idea where your based and what the rules are for contacting peeps off site. Saves every one a lot of time wasted and hurt sometimes.
Rant over but am I the only one that thinks this? |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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People lie. People lie about all sorts of things.
I prefer the attached to say they are as it means I can make an informed choice. However, I have come to the conclusion that it's the internet and people can tell me anything and with enough conviction that how would I know whether it is truth or lie?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately some people lie to get what they want . Or just lie to get out of something they don't want too do . Its just life and you need to accept it and move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people are just plain dumb. They hatch some master plan about bedding a gorgeous babe that involves setting up a couples profile, snatching some hot young pics from a Google search, and sit back rubbing their hands waiting for all that sweeeeet pussy to come their way. It's only when you ask to meet them that they suddenly realise their plan has one small flaw in it i.e. they're a single 60 year old unkempt and unfit bloke with a comb over lol 
What's even madder is that some of these nuts actually turn up to the meet lol I mean... what's going through their heads?!?!?  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Some people are just plain dumb. They hatch some master plan about bedding a gorgeous babe that involves setting up a couples profile, snatching some hot young pics from a Google search, and sit back rubbing their hands waiting for all that sweeeeet pussy to come their way. It's only when you ask to meet them that they suddenly realise their plan has one small flaw in it i.e. they're a single 60 year old unkempt and unfit bloke with a comb over lol
What's even madder is that some of these nuts actually turn up to the meet lol I mean... what's going through their heads?!?!? "
The thought of sweeeet pussy and the belief that you won't say no once you meet them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the land of tinternet you can be whatever your imagination is capable of creating. You can also believe you can have what you dream of having.....that's where the fundamental flaws begin. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"But after talking and maybe meeting the lies would be seen and who wants to have fun with someone who thinks your stupied?"
I was told a monumental lie by someone on here. When he confessed the truth I did feel stupid. It changed how I _iew what I am told here. I choose to believe I am told the truth by the people I agree to meet. If that turns out not to be the case then they know I am displeased. Nothing more.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive always felt that if people lie (in whatever scenario),its probably the fact that their life is rather boring and they think a lie makes them appear more interesting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think personally this is a dead easy going website and you can just be very open about stuff to people who your talking to, but some people are maybe just insecure, trying to make them selves look good, or maybe other reasons but shit happens |
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"I would've finished painting the house today but two giraffes and a rhinoceros wandered into the garden looking very lost.
That's a feeble excuse."
But, but....they made such a mess, took me ages to clear it up!! |
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I am a bit of an open book and really don't like being lied to, once found out there is no going back. I have had to cancel meets in the past because of family issues and been called a fake and a liar because of it, their choice to believe that I suppose |
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"They are timewasters. Lies always come into the open. Every time I get one the next time I'm that little bit more cautious, dig that little bit deeper. "
I think the longer you are on a site like this the more savvy you get  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They lie to themselves as much as they lie to everyone else"
I know someone who tells that many lies they believe them themself... Even when caught out red handed they still believe the lie they told Always tells you what you want to hear rather then the facts  But they are a lovely person and mean no harm to anyone... I just know not to believe a word they say anymore  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would've finished painting the house today but two giraffes and a rhinoceros wandered into the garden looking very lost.
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Oh that's were they got to!they are so cheeky that lot,as soon as I open the gates to my safari park,they're off!They caught an open top bus to Southport once!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am a bit of an open book and really don't like being lied to, once found out there is no going back. I have had to cancel meets in the past because of family issues and been called a fake and a liar because of it, their choice to believe that I suppose "
Same here. Its not nice. |
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"They lie to themselves as much as they lie to everyone else
I know someone who tells that many lies they believe them themself... Even when caught out red handed they still believe the lie they told Always tells you what you want to hear rather then the facts But they are a lovely person and mean no harm to anyone... I just know not to believe a word they say anymore "
I had a guy that worked for me that told lies all the time he turned the whole workforce against me then he started telling lies about how ill his wife was and in the end they all hated him for all the trouble he caused.
The trouble was he believed himself |
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We don't tell lies but usually find out liars.
Why?
Simple.
We too have been called fake because we have a real life and real life issues always happen at inopportune times.
Real life does take precedence over our fun on here.
A few examples:
Profile - will not meet married people. We then get a message from them saying 'I know what my profile says but I will make an exception in your case'
Profile - looking for sexy BBW's. Message 'didn't realise your Mrs was such a bloater, BBW should be size 14/16'
Lies or extensions of the truth???
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would've finished painting the house today but two giraffes and a rhinoceros wandered into the garden looking very lost.
Oh that's were they got to!they are so cheeky that lot,as soon as I open the gates to my safari park,they're off!They caught an open top bus to Southport once! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I cannot stant lies in any shape or form at all. Its always best to tell the truth even if means hurting someones feelings. At least everyone lnows where they stand |
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"I would've finished painting the house today but two giraffes and a rhinoceros wandered into the garden looking very lost.
Oh that's were they got to!they are so cheeky that lot,as soon as I open the gates to my safari park,they're off!They caught an open top bus to Southport once! "
Tsk, such tourists! !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I told someone the truth including my marital status and much more as I trusted her, and she told her husband because openness is sooo important and he threatened to tell my wife because his wife admitted to liking me too much.
So I'll be economical with the truth from now on.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I told someone the truth including my marital status and much more as I trusted her, and she told her husband because openness is sooo important and he threatened to tell my wife because his wife admitted to liking me too much.
So I'll be economical with the truth from now on.
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speaks volumes about their relationship ~ I would stay well away! |
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"I told someone the truth including my marital status and much more as I trusted her, and she told her husband because openness is sooo important and he threatened to tell my wife because his wife admitted to liking me too much.
So I'll be economical with the truth from now on.
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see i would look at it in another way. At least by you telling the truth, you got to see true colours of all involved . If you had lied and this happen then your whole life could have ended up de funked, (cos wifey liked ya and hubby got the hump) You telling the truth didn't cause the shit! Was a cple, who clearly shouldn't use swinging to sort out their mess of a relationship, with no respect for each other ,that were the loose cannons!  |
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