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Are you friends aware of your lifestyle?

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By *aurenka OP Woman over a year ago

London

.. I must say my friends know some thing.

About my race preferences, that as I am single I like to have active sex life.

But I don't think I would ever tell anyone I have been to swingers club

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My closest friends know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My eldest daughter knows after some blabber mouth told her...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's like the first rule of fight club

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tbf I think everyone thinks I'm actually worse than I am. Everyone automatically thinks the worst of me...can't for the life of me think why

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By *punkyhelmet5Man over a year ago

Weston-super-mare

My sisters and close friends no ive got nothing to be ashamed of

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My eldest daughter knows after some blabber mouth told her...

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I wonder who that might be

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing to hide but at the same time no one asks.

To be fair though I'm not really a swinger and I've only been to a club inadvertently whilst d*unk.

I doubt anyone would be massively suprised.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If they're suspicious they havn't said anything,its private anyway and not really anything to do with them,im not interested in their sex lives so can't see a reason why they would be interested in mine

If I was asked outright I wouldn't lie though

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By *uby0000Woman over a year ago

hertfordshire

no its not their business

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nope, am a very discreet and private person.

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

I don't have anything to hide. My mates know me well. My parents aren't aware but would not be surprised. I came across my brother's profile (not literally

) on here so I dare say we must have got it from somewhere.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

My closest friends know for a safety value and my Mum knows. God forbid something happened to me and I've told her I'm in a different part of the country that I've said I am she would never trust or forgive me!

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By *ratty_DamselWoman over a year ago

Greater London

Nooo. This side is private for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes all my friends know and parents to, we swedes are very open about this

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By *nigmatic1Woman over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

Only a couple of close friends who are also on this site know....the rest....nooooo way!!!

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By *himaeraWoman over a year ago

near derby.

My husband knows, and he likes it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My closest friend knows, I quite often use her as an alibi if the kids ask where we're going

Missus

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Truth spreads and I have a way of being maybe a little too honest at times. Close friends know, but get less details than shown in some users' veris.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Closest friends and my mum knows.

I dont give them a debrief or details but its a security thing for me being able to say to someone where im going

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

I somehow managed to let my sister know who I was seeing, provided her with their picture and telephone number without that need to let her know I was meeting of a swingers site.

It really is possible to have a PRIVATE life, if you so wish!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My best mate and another friend.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The only people who know about me on the scene are those I play with.

I'm so far in the closet about swinging I can fucking Narnia!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A couple of close friends and some Co workers.

They're intrigued hearing about my stories so I feed their need to know. I don't reveal every last detail though.

That's only for special people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No one knows to be honest. For me it's all very hush hush.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A lot of people have an idea. Very few, if any know the specifics

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

Pretty much yes I recon im old engh to do as I please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My best friend knows because she is also on the site and as she is a single female I think she likes the safety of letting me know who she is meeting and where she will be etc.

She's as filthy as I am, I knew she would enjoy the site lol

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By *omMaleSub SlutCouple over a year ago

Bath

My family are aware of it, her family are not and a few friends know as well.... My mother is a swinger(parents divorced) so maybe one day they will discover it is genetic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's like the first rule of fight club

what is the first rule of

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

My best friend and his partner have been on a night out with me and had a great time. I did nearly leave him in Leeds when he called me 'dude' from force of habit, though

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yes, my friends know. I don't give details but I don't make this a secret.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

fuck no ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some of my close friends know. My eldest daughter does now after sending her a pic from my lappy screen and stupidly not realising I had fabswingers in the tab... Whoops!

She's actually pretty cool about it though, so all good!

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By *imjohnCouple over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

Yes...

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By *andy_tomMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

Its a secret and staying that way,

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

I am discreet but tell almost everyone I talk to about it. I, like Lib, am not a true swinger but most of my friends just look at me and shake their heads.

I am open and discuss swinging in a positive light as I grow to understand it more. Incredulous looks and some titters do not offend or disuade me from my course of action.

I smile. The guys are jealous and I am sure a few of the girls too.

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By *aster n subCouple over a year ago

pickering

Noooo how could we explain to our friends about our lifestyle .unless you are clued up on the Dom sub relationship they might interpret it all wrong. if anyone did find out I don't think they would believe it well I hope they don't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lol,,you think I could hide this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My closest friends know. One of them even joined me a few times. She especially enjoyed the club side of it. Built her confidence right back up. After a failed relationship.....

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

No they aren't. I think it's wise for ssingle people to have at least one friend who is at least aware where they will be and know to act on a distress call etc but apart from that why would my friends need to know about my sex life?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't think any one else knows apart from the few mates I do.it with

I think.keeping it private makes it better hehe your own little secret

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By *unkydesignCouple over a year ago

Manchester

There's no reason whatsoever for our friends and family to know. Our sex life is a private thing between the both of us, neither do we wish to know the intimate details of our friends sex lives.

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