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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A very simple water jug, bought from ikea reduced me to tears tonight when I chipped it.... nothing spectacular about it, but....
I bought it with my lovely when we were setting up home together.
We were full of hope and dreams for the future, we had our family and were complete.
Circumstances took my lovely from me and that stupid chip on the jug seemed to bring all my grief flooding back and the tears wouldn't stop.
Strange how the simplest of things evoke such memories and intense feelings.
Hugs to all who need and want them tonight. Laine xxxxxx |
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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago
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(((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))) to you Laine.
I can only imagine how you are feeling and take comfort in how strong you are in the face of things, always looking out for others when you are falling to bits inside. Be kind to yourself xxxxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A very simple water jug, bought from ikea reduced me to tears tonight when I chipped it.... nothing spectacular about it, but....
I bought it with my lovely when we were setting up home together.
We were full of hope and dreams for the future, we had our family and were complete.
Circumstances took my lovely from me and that stupid chip on the jug seemed to bring all my grief flooding back and the tears wouldn't stop.
Strange how the simplest of things evoke such memories and intense feelings.
Hugs to all who need and want them tonight. Laine xxxxxx"
I am the same way...so big hugs from me xxx |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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"A very simple water jug, bought from ikea reduced me to tears tonight when I chipped it.... nothing spectacular about it, but....
I bought it with my lovely when we were setting up home together.
We were full of hope and dreams for the future, we had our family and were complete.
Circumstances took my lovely from me and that stupid chip on the jug seemed to bring all my grief flooding back and the tears wouldn't stop.
Strange how the simplest of things evoke such memories and intense feelings.
Hugs to all who need and want them tonight. Laine xxxxxx"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A very simple water jug, bought from ikea reduced me to tears tonight when I chipped it.... nothing spectacular about it, but....
I bought it with my lovely when we were setting up home together.
We were full of hope and dreams for the future, we had our family and were complete.
Circumstances took my lovely from me and that stupid chip on the jug seemed to bring all my grief flooding back and the tears wouldn't stop.
Strange how the simplest of things evoke such memories and intense feelings.
Hugs to all who need and want them tonight. Laine xxxxxx"
How kind and unselfish of you to share this precious memory with us here tonight - thank you xx |
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"A very simple water jug, bought from ikea reduced me to tears tonight when I chipped it.... nothing spectacular about it, but....
I bought it with my lovely when we were setting up home together.
We were full of hope and dreams for the future, we had our family and were complete.
Circumstances took my lovely from me and that stupid chip on the jug seemed to bring all my grief flooding back and the tears wouldn't stop.
Strange how the simplest of things evoke such memories and intense feelings.
Hugs to all who need and want them tonight. Laine xxxxxx"
Hugs back aplenty. xx
Can you not think of your chipped beloved jug as a symbol of your own lovely man, no one is perfect, i am sure he had a slight "chip" somewhere? |
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"A very simple water jug, bought from ikea reduced me to tears tonight when I chipped it.... nothing spectacular about it, but....
I bought it with my lovely when we were setting up home together.
We were full of hope and dreams for the future, we had our family and were complete.
Circumstances took my lovely from me and that stupid chip on the jug seemed to bring all my grief flooding back and the tears wouldn't stop.
Strange how the simplest of things evoke such memories and intense feelings.
Hugs to all who need and want them tonight. Laine xxxxxx
Hugs back aplenty. xx
Can you not think of your chipped beloved jug as a symbol of your own lovely man, no one is perfect, i am sure he had a slight "chip" somewhere?"
He certainly had a few flaws and a cracked sense of humour.  |
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"A very simple water jug, bought from ikea reduced me to tears tonight when I chipped it.... nothing spectacular about it, but....
I bought it with my lovely when we were setting up home together.
We were full of hope and dreams for the future, we had our family and were complete.
Circumstances took my lovely from me and that stupid chip on the jug seemed to bring all my grief flooding back and the tears wouldn't stop.
Strange how the simplest of things evoke such memories and intense feelings.
Hugs to all who need and want them tonight. Laine xxxxxx
Hugs back aplenty. xx
Can you not think of your chipped beloved jug as a symbol of your own lovely man, no one is perfect, i am sure he had a slight "chip" somewhere?"
I think that this is a lovely way to put a positive thought on this - it's sad that the jugs been chipped but what a poignant way to look at it - Z |
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hugs to laine i know exactly how you feel about your jug and have to say this am really impressed by the amazing answers from everyone on this posting today hope you keep your chipped jug to remind me of your perfect imperfect man xx |
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big massive hugs from me hun {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
some days it just hts you like that, although i have not lost someone special to me i do have days when i just need a hug and i know that the lovely people on here are always happy to give them xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you, and how right you both are Colin and Eve.
The people here never cease to impress me with their warmth insight and empathy.
And Galak.... see you friday? 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Thank you all for your hugs and big squeezy hugs back, I'm feeling the love and a happy bunny again this morning. I've bounced right back because of all the love.
Hugs aplenty for anyone else who needs one.
You peeps rock!!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxx |
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