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Pretty poor form really. | |||
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"What should I do...I feel like telling him incase he finds out in the future! She has asked me to keep quiet and meet up again! Help please..." what does your other half think about it? | |||
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"What should I do...I feel like telling him incase he finds out in the future! She has asked me to keep quiet and meet up again! Help please..." Can we just clarify which half of the couple you are? | |||
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"What should I do...I feel like telling him incase he finds out in the future! She has asked me to keep quiet and meet up again! Help please... Can we just clarify which half of the couple you are? " I reckon if it's the female half the bitter feelings thus far toward perceived male chauvinism and lack of basic respect and decency will be replaced by fantasies of inter-generational sapphic erotica. | |||
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"What should I do...I feel like telling him incase he finds out in the future! She has asked me to keep quiet and meet up again! Help please... Can we just clarify which half of the couple you are? I reckon if it's the female half the bitter feelings thus far toward perceived male chauvinism and lack of basic respect and decency will be replaced by fantasies of inter-generational sapphic erotica." I am with you on that one! | |||
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"My personal opinion is that he obviously isn't your friend if you've got such little respect for him that you had sex with his mother. I'd keep your mouth shut and stay away." This!! 
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"What should I do...I feel like telling him incase he finds out in the future! She has asked me to keep quiet and meet up again! Help please..." In my opinion people of either sex should never discuss their sexual meets with others, its indiscreet and not the mark of a respectful person. | |||
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"What should I do...I feel like telling him incase he finds out in the future! She has asked me to keep quiet and meet up again! Help please... In my opinion people of either sex should never discuss their sexual meets with others, its indiscreet and not the mark of a respectful person." | |||
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"What should I do...I feel like telling him incase he finds out in the future! She has asked me to keep quiet and meet up again! Help please... Can we just clarify which half of the couple you are? I reckon if it's the female half the bitter feelings thus far toward perceived male chauvinism and lack of basic respect and decency will be replaced by fantasies of inter-generational sapphic erotica." See i think its the male and its actually just a bull shit senario after watching too much American pie.. What decent person would be selfish enough to do that to a mate and potentially ruin everything with his mother,, oh and its get better cos she wants to continue meeting him.. how naughty
Thinking we'd all give him high fives for being awesome and achieving that 'tick box' of shagged my mates mum.. | |||
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"The way I see it it is none of the son's business who his mother has sex with, he doesn't own her or her sex life any more than she does him or his sex life. Is it the age that people have a problem with, if the son had a friend who was 45 for instance would it be different? " as a mother id never disrespect my daughter by sleeping with a close friend,,, as a friend id find it bloomin odd to sleep with a mates parent as if its a really close friendship its almost like family.. | |||
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"What should I do...I feel like telling him incase he finds out in the future! She has asked me to keep quiet and meet up again! Help please...what does your other half think about it? " Just what I was wondering. .... A Jeremy Kyle episode in the making methinks! | |||
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"What should I do...I feel like telling him incase he finds out in the future! She has asked me to keep quiet and meet up again! Help please... Can we just clarify which half of the couple you are? I reckon if it's the female half the bitter feelings thus far toward perceived male chauvinism and lack of basic respect and decency will be replaced by fantasies of inter-generational sapphic erotica. See i think its the male and its actually just a bull shit senario after watching too much American pie.. What decent person would be selfish enough to do that to a mate and potentially ruin everything with his mother,, oh and its get better cos she wants to continue meeting him.. how naughty
Thinking we'd all give him high fives for being awesome and achieving that 'tick box' of shagged my mates mum.. "Oh you cynic! Im still hoping it's the female. And maybe it's a step mother who is young and hot. And the friend will end up having a 3sum with his stepmum and the OP... | |||
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"What should I do...I feel like telling him incase he finds out in the future! She has asked me to keep quiet and meet up again! Help please..." Would you like a medal? I have one here saying: "worlds shittest friend" especially made for you! | |||
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"Oh you cynic! Im still hoping it's the female. And maybe it's a step mother who is young and hot. And the friend will end up having a 3sum with his stepmum and the OP..." That beats my theory | |||
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"What should I do...I feel like telling him incase he finds out in the future! She has asked me to keep quiet and meet up again! Help please..." Don't be daft... you had sex with a woman who asked you for discretion... so should never tell anyway. | |||
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"My eldest son is 26 but I still look at him as my kid despite him being a grown man,and any friends he has I look at them in the same way as a kid. Am I alone in thinking like this? " Not at all! I can fully appreciate that my kids have good looking male friends, but I could never see them in a sexual way! Just wrong! | |||
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"My eldest son is 26 but I still look at him as my kid despite him being a grown man,and any friends he has I look at them in the same way as a kid. Am I alone in thinking like this? Not at all! I can fully appreciate that my kids have good looking male friends, but I could never see them in a sexual way! Just wrong! "Totally agree most of my son's friends I've know since they were babies and it is just wrong in my opinion. | |||
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"What should I do...I feel like telling him incase he finds out in the future! She has asked me to keep quiet and meet up again! Help please..." First and foremost I have to let you know that I don't believe you. Secondly - Why tell at all ? You've had sex with a woman. Exercise some discretion and decorum and stop acting like sex with a woman is something evil you've just created. Thirdly. Be prepared for it to come out in the future. Be ready to deny or admit but you don't owe anyone any explanations. | |||
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"The way I see it it is none of the son's business who his mother has sex with, he doesn't own her or her sex life any more than she does him or his sex life. Is it the age that people have a problem with, if the son had a friend who was 45 for instance would it be different? " That's what I thought...plus him and his mum don't talk!! | |||
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"The way I see it it is none of the son's business who his mother has sex with, he doesn't own her or her sex life any more than she does him or his sex life. Is it the age that people have a problem with, if the son had a friend who was 45 for instance would it be different? That's what I thought...plus him and his mum don't talk!! " It still doesn't make you blabbing about it to other people any better though. In my book you don't have sex with anyone, mates mother or not and then tell the world it makes you seem rather immature in your attitude towards sex and the people you have sex with. | |||
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"What should I do...I feel like telling him incase he finds out in the future! She has asked me to keep quiet and meet up again! Help please... First and foremost I have to let you know that I don't believe you. Secondly - Why tell at all ? You've had sex with a woman. Exercise some discretion and decorum and stop acting like sex with a woman is something evil you've just created. Thirdly. Be prepared for it to come out in the future. Be ready to deny or admit but you don't owe anyone any explanations." A tad harsh I have to say. It seems like the lad has made a mistake and knows it. Everyone concerned in this inter generation assignation has not covered themselves in glory. I think that discretion is called for and park it in the not to again experiences and move on. If the friend is a good one then he really does not need to know? | |||
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"The way I see it it is none of the son's business who his mother has sex with, he doesn't own her or her sex life any more than she does him or his sex life. Is it the age that people have a problem with, if the son had a friend who was 45 for instance would it be different? That's what I thought...plus him and his mum don't talk!! " So if you feel it's no one's business why post it on here? | |||
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"Two guys are drinking in a pub, then suddenly one of them stands up, and loudly declares to the other 'I slept with your mum!' The pub is stunned into silence, anticipating a fight. 'That's right!' the man says again, slamming his fists down on the table 'I SLEPT WITH YOUR MUM!' The other man replies 'Go home dad, you're d*unk'" 
That's reminded me of an off the cuff comment my hubby made that left our son speechless for the first time ever
My friend commented that the dress she was wearing she had had since she was 18 and could still get in it
Our son said he had had the shoes he had on since18 and could still get in them thinking he was being funny till his face dropped as his father declared
I've had your mother since she was18 and I can still get in her!
Poor boy his face was a picture first time ever he was lacking a quick witted come back
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"Two guys are drinking in a pub, then suddenly one of them stands up, and loudly declares to the other 'I slept with your mum!' The pub is stunned into silence, anticipating a fight. 'That's right!' the man says again, slamming his fists down on the table 'I SLEPT WITH YOUR MUM!' The other man replies 'Go home dad, you're d*unk'
That's reminded me of an off the cuff comment my hubby made that left our son speechless for the first time ever
My friend commented that the dress she was wearing she had had since she was 18 and could still get in it
Our son said he had had the shoes he had on since18 and could still get in them thinking he was being funny till his face dropped as his father declared
I've had your mother since she was18 and I can still get in her!
Poor boy his face was a picture first time ever he was lacking a quick witted come back
Although I can't lie even I blushed "Actually dying now | |||
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" Why is a boy's friend having concentual sex with a friends mother wrong? Disclaimer: I have no opinion on this myself so genuinely want to hear why people see this is an issue. Consequently anyone who attacks me will, by doing so, be indicating they have the intellect if an amoeba. "i just disagree with it from a moral perspective, its too close for comfort, why would you shit on your own doorstep? | |||
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" Why is a boy's friend having concentual sex with a friends mother wrong? Disclaimer: I have no opinion on this myself so genuinely want to hear why people see this is an issue. Consequently anyone who attacks me will, by doing so, be indicating they have the intellect if an amoeba.
i just disagree with it from a moral perspective, its too close for comfort, why would you shit on your own doorstep?
"I regret I do not see the "moral" issue - what is morally wrong? Is it the age gap? Is it the threat that the son's pal could become a step father? | |||
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"It's one of the big no no's in the bro code. Unless it's the bro code as written by barney stimpson Challenge accepted. Seriously though don't fuck your mate's mum bad form old chap, that's not cricket. " My mate's mum is dead so I don't face this. I understand it is a bro code but WHY is it a bro code? | |||
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" Why is a boy's friend having concentual sex with a friends mother wrong? Disclaimer: I have no opinion on this myself so genuinely want to hear why people see this is an issue. Consequently anyone who attacks me will, by doing so, be indicating they have the intellect if an amoeba.
i just disagree with it from a moral perspective, its too close for comfort, why would you shit on your own doorstep?
I regret I do not see the "moral" issue - what is morally wrong? Is it the age gap? Is it the threat that the son's pal could become a step father? "nah i have no issues with the age gap (as a female who enjoys the company of older gents) its the issue of its a friends mother, chances are over the years the friendship and trust has been built the parent in question has watched the 'friend' grow and develop too.. making it kinda family (well thats how i am with my friends parents. to me its just an unecessary line that was crossed. no child wants to imagine their parents getting fuck and especially by a good mate. The OP feels bad so he is _xpressing guilt and he knows it wasnt right. | |||
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" Why is a boy's friend having concentual sex with a friends mother wrong? Disclaimer: I have no opinion on this myself so genuinely want to hear why people see this is an issue. Consequently anyone who attacks me will, by doing so, be indicating they have the intellect if an amoeba.
i just disagree with it from a moral perspective, its too close for comfort, why would you shit on your own doorstep?
I regret I do not see the "moral" issue - what is morally wrong? Is it the age gap? Is it the threat that the son's pal could become a step father?
nah i have no issues with the age gap (as a female who enjoys the company of older gents)
its the issue of its a friends mother, chances are over the years the friendship and trust has been built the parent in question has watched the 'friend' grow and develop too..
making it kinda family (well thats how i am with my friends parents.
to me its just an unecessary line that was crossed. no child wants to imagine their parents getting fuck and especially by a good mate. The OP feels bad so he is _xpressing guilt and he knows it wasnt right.
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"There is a presumption that this sex act was wrong. Can we discuss this as it is not incest as far as I can tell. Could someone articulate why his mate's mum, as a presumably mature woman, cannot shag who she likes? Why is her son's friend rulled out so quickly when, should the mum find her own man, everyone would encourage the son and the friend be friends? Why is a boy's friend having concentual sex with a friends mother wrong? Disclaimer: I have no opinion on this myself so genuinely want to hear why people see this is an issue. Consequently anyone who attacks me will, by doing so, be indicating they have the intellect if an amoeba. "Those sort of questions becoming very popular nowadays, when people are not familiar witch such basic concepts like loyalty and fairness. | |||
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"It's one of the big no no's in the bro code. Unless it's the bro code as written by barney stimpson Challenge accepted. Seriously though don't fuck your mate's mum bad form old chap, that's not cricket. My mate's mum is dead so I don't face this. I understand it is a bro code but WHY is it a bro code? " There are exceptions to the rule, for example wills mum from the inbetweeners. However it's just the sort of thing a bounder or a cad would do to put it in old fashioned speak. | |||
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"It's one of the big no no's in the bro code. Unless it's the bro code as written by barney stimpson Challenge accepted. Seriously though don't fuck your mate's mum bad form old chap, that's not cricket. My mate's mum is dead so I don't face this. I understand it is a bro code but WHY is it a bro code? " I think it has something to do with males feeling that they own the women in their family. I've seen this sort of attitude displayed by men towards their adult daughters and other men backing them up. I call it territorial sexism. | |||
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"There is a presumption that this sex act was wrong. Can we discuss this as it is not incest as far as I can tell. Could someone articulate why his mate's mum, as a presumably mature woman, cannot shag who she likes? Why is her son's friend rulled out so quickly when, should the mum find her own man, everyone would encourage the son and the friend be friends? Why is a boy's friend having concentual sex with a friends mother wrong? Disclaimer: I have no opinion on this myself so genuinely want to hear why people see this is an issue. Consequently anyone who attacks me will, by doing so, be indicating they have the intellect if an amoeba.
Those sort of questions becoming very popular nowadays, when people are not familiar witch such basic concepts like loyalty and fairness."Where is the disloyalty and what is unfair? I am familiar with both by the way. | |||
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"What should I do...I feel like telling him incase he finds out in the future! She has asked me to keep quiet and meet up again! Help please..." Broadcast it online | |||
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"It's one of the big no no's in the bro code. Unless it's the bro code as written by barney stimpson Challenge accepted. Seriously though don't fuck your mate's mum bad form old chap, that's not cricket. My mate's mum is dead so I don't face this. I understand it is a bro code but WHY is it a bro code? I think it has something to do with males feeling that they own the women in their family. I've seen this sort of attitude displayed by men towards their adult daughters and other men backing them up. I call it territorial sexism." Good point. | |||
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" I see where you are coming from. Family by proxy so akin to incest. " Even if the friends relationship wasnt that close so he didnt necessarily know his friends mother in great detail.. as a person with feelings id just be gutted that of all the people out there my mate fucked my mum.. as the daughter id feel disgusted in my mother and repulsed by my friends selfish behaviour. I could never dis own my mother however with a friend like that who needs enemies | |||
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"It's one of the big no no's in the bro code. Unless it's the bro code as written by barney stimpson Challenge accepted. Seriously though don't fuck your mate's mum bad form old chap, that's not cricket. My mate's mum is dead so I don't face this. I understand it is a bro code but WHY is it a bro code? I think it has something to do with males feeling that they own the women in their family. I've seen this sort of attitude displayed by men towards their adult daughters and other men backing them up. I call it territorial sexism." Wow that's heavy. Just call it bad manners myself. But each to their own. | |||
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"There is a presumption that this sex act was wrong. Can we discuss this as it is not incest as far as I can tell. Could someone articulate why his mate's mum, as a presumably mature woman, cannot shag who she likes? Why is her son's friend rulled out so quickly when, should the mum find her own man, everyone would encourage the son and the friend be friends? Why is a boy's friend having concentual sex with a friends mother wrong? Disclaimer: I have no opinion on this myself so genuinely want to hear why people see this is an issue. Consequently anyone who attacks me will, by doing so, be indicating they have the intellect if an amoeba.
Those sort of questions becoming very popular nowadays, when people are not familiar witch such basic concepts like loyalty and fairness.
Where is the disloyalty and what is unfair? I am familiar with both by the way. "I struggle with this one. Why is it disloyal and unfair to the woman's son? I think it's very disloyal and unfair to any respective partners though. | |||
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"It's one of the big no no's in the bro code. Unless it's the bro code as written by barney stimpson Challenge accepted. Seriously though don't fuck your mate's mum bad form old chap, that's not cricket. My mate's mum is dead so I don't face this. I understand it is a bro code but WHY is it a bro code? I think it has something to do with males feeling that they own the women in their family. I've seen this sort of attitude displayed by men towards their adult daughters and other men backing them up. I call it territorial sexism. Wow that's heavy. Just call it bad manners myself. But each to their own. " Heavy? Really , I just thought it was a discussion point | |||
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"It's one of the big no no's in the bro code. Unless it's the bro code as written by barney stimpson Challenge accepted. Seriously though don't fuck your mate's mum bad form old chap, that's not cricket. My mate's mum is dead so I don't face this. I understand it is a bro code but WHY is it a bro code? I think it has something to do with males feeling that they own the women in their family. I've seen this sort of attitude displayed by men towards their adult daughters and other men backing them up. I call it territorial sexism. Wow that's heavy. Just call it bad manners myself. But each to their own. " He was seeking to identify WHY it is bad manners. | |||
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"It's one of the big no no's in the bro code. Unless it's the bro code as written by barney stimpson Challenge accepted. Seriously though don't fuck your mate's mum bad form old chap, that's not cricket. My mate's mum is dead so I don't face this. I understand it is a bro code but WHY is it a bro code? I think it has something to do with males feeling that they own the women in their family. I've seen this sort of attitude displayed by men towards their adult daughters and other men backing them up. I call it territorial sexism. Wow that's heavy. Just call it bad manners myself. But each to their own. Heavy? Really , I just thought it was a discussion point"Totally understand what you are saying. All I am saying is. Personally for me it's just bad manners to pork your best mate's mum This maybe as you say sexism | |||
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" Where is the disloyalty and what is unfair? I am familiar with both by the way. " Knowing wikipedia or dictionary definition is not being familiar with. But I will try to make it clear for you. If your are doing whatever which concern your mate/friend and you are afraid he would know about it, and you are afraid to talk openly about it with him, that should ring your loyalty/fairness bell. | |||
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"Yes, keep it to yourself.I have fucked all my Sons mates, well all the good looking ones anyway,Got them on Video that keeps them quiet.Kate" wow | |||
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"What should I do...I feel like telling him incase he finds out in the future! She has asked me to keep quiet and meet up again! Help please..." Attention seeking | |||
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"I don't see it as incestuous... there's no family connection. I just personally wouldn't go there. There are millions of people in the world to have casual sex with. I guess everyone is different but I don't think I'd be that impressed by one of my mates shagging either of my parents. *shudders* Who wants to think about their parents having sex? I have a feeling that one of my mates may have shagged my brother. That's their business but I'm quite relieved that neither of them have confirmed. It's just a line I wouldn't cross. My morals rather than it being immoral as such if that makes sense. " Why is it immoral for a friend who has proven their good character to fuck a relative when some dishonorable stranger is ok? Some are giving emotional responses which amount to "it is wrong because it is wrong" | |||
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"I don't see it as incestuous... there's no family connection. I just personally wouldn't go there. There are millions of people in the world to have casual sex with. I guess everyone is different but I don't think I'd be that impressed by one of my mates shagging either of my parents. *shudders* Who wants to think about their parents having sex? I have a feeling that one of my mates may have shagged my brother. That's their business but I'm quite relieved that neither of them have confirmed. It's just a line I wouldn't cross. My morals rather than it being immoral as such if that makes sense. Why is it immoral for a friend who has proven their good character to fuck a relative when some dishonorable stranger is ok? Some are giving emotional responses which amount to "it is wrong because it is wrong"" I didn't say it was immoral... they are two consenting adults and can fuck who they like. I just wouldn't go there personally because I don't feel comfortable with it. My friendships are important to me. Loyalty is important to me as is honesty. I wouldn't want to put myself in that position because it would involve lies and deceit. It crosses a line in the standards I set for myself and the respect I have for me friends. | |||
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" Where is the disloyalty and what is unfair? I am familiar with both by the way. Knowing wikipedia or dictionary definition is not being familiar with. But I will try to make it clear for you. If your are doing whatever which concern your mate/friend and you are afraid he would know about it, and you are afraid to talk openly about it with him, that should ring your loyalty/fairness bell." Ah! It is wrong so don't do it! Why is it wrong? Shaking hands with the mum is not wrong so there is no disloyalty in shaking hands. Why does having concentual sex automatically become wrong? If it is wrong then I understand the loyalty and fairness issue. But why, when it is not incest, are we so convinced it is wrong? | |||
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"Why is it immoral for a friend who has proven their good character to fuck a relative when some dishonorable stranger is ok? Some are giving emotional responses which amount to "it is wrong because it is wrong"" i know this wasnt a response to a comment i had made so sorry if im treading on toes.. There was no mention of a dishonorable stranger, i'm sure any sexual partner the guy had would have shared similar prefernces to the mates mother and been equally attracted. Would you shag a mates mother? How would it make you feel knowing a friend of yours has shagged your mother? if you reply with 'i doubt id be bothered', i honestly would find that very hard to accept as the truth. The opening poster disregarded all thoughts for his friend when he chose to do the deed which showed selfish tendencies and lack of respect for his mate. | |||
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" I didn't say it was immoral... they are two consenting adults and can fuck who they like. I just wouldn't go there personally because I don't feel comfortable with it. My friendships are important to me. Loyalty is important to me as is honesty. I wouldn't want to put myself in that position because it would involve lies and deceit. It crosses a line in the standards I set for myself and the respect I have for me friends. "That is that difference. Some people have standards, they are natural to them. Some people don't understand it, want others to explain them what is it about, then shaking their heads, "nooo I don't see a point, you are too emotional". If it is fine for you fuck your friend mother, and lie about it to your fired - do that, that is not a crime you got to jail for. | |||
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" Where is the disloyalty and what is unfair? I am familiar with both by the way. Knowing wikipedia or dictionary definition is not being familiar with. But I will try to make it clear for you. If your are doing whatever which concern your mate/friend and you are afraid he would know about it, and you are afraid to talk openly about it with him, that should ring your loyalty/fairness bell. Ah! It is wrong so don't do it! Why is it wrong? Shaking hands with the mum is not wrong so there is no disloyalty in shaking hands. Why does having concentual sex automatically become wrong? If it is wrong then I understand the loyalty and fairness issue. But why, when it is not incest, are we so convinced it is wrong?" I explained that to you, why are you so insisting on not seeing it? Wrong is when you are hiding / lying to your friend. Or maybe for you it isn't wrong. That's your life. Just happy you are not friend of mine. | |||
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"The way I see it it is none of the son's business who his mother has sex with, he doesn't own her or her sex life any more than she does him or his sex life. Is it the age that people have a problem with, if the son had a friend who was 45 for instance would it be different? That's what I thought...plus him and his mum don't talk!! " oh, so because they don't talk you thought it'd be a good idea to sleep with his mum? ffs you're an idiot  | |||
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" Where is the disloyalty and what is unfair? I am familiar with both by the way. Knowing wikipedia or dictionary definition is not being familiar with. But I will try to make it clear for you. If your are doing whatever which concern your mate/friend and you are afraid he would know about it, and you are afraid to talk openly about it with him, that should ring your loyalty/fairness bell. Ah! It is wrong so don't do it! Why is it wrong? Shaking hands with the mum is not wrong so there is no disloyalty in shaking hands. Why does having concentual sex automatically become wrong? If it is wrong then I understand the loyalty and fairness issue. But why, when it is not incest, are we so convinced it is wrong? I explained that to you, why are you so insisting on not seeing it? Wrong is when you are hiding / lying to your friend. Or maybe for you it isn't wrong. That's your life. Just happy you are not friend of mine." Let us try an get on the same wavelength. Why is the sex act per se wrong? If society did not think it was, like shaking hands, then there us no harm done. There is no need to hide it and no issue in it becoming known. So firget the hiding what is thought to be wrong and say why it is wrong to have the sex please. | |||
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"I don't see it as incestuous... there's no family connection. I just personally wouldn't go there. There are millions of people in the world to have casual sex with. I guess everyone is different but I don't think I'd be that impressed by one of my mates shagging either of my parents. *shudders* Who wants to think about their parents having sex? I have a feeling that one of my mates may have shagged my brother. That's their business but I'm quite relieved that neither of them have confirmed. It's just a line I wouldn't cross. My morals rather than it being immoral as such if that makes sense. Why is it immoral for a friend who has proven their good character to fuck a relative when some dishonorable stranger is ok? Some are giving emotional responses which amount to "it is wrong because it is wrong" I didn't say it was immoral... they are two consenting adults and can fuck who they like. I just wouldn't go there personally because I don't feel comfortable with it. My friendships are important to me. Loyalty is important to me as is honesty. I wouldn't want to put myself in that position because it would involve lies and deceit. It crosses a line in the standards I set for myself and the respect I have for me friends. "(thumb | |||
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" Ah! It is wrong so don't do it! Why is it wrong? Shaking hands with the mum is not wrong so there is no disloyalty in shaking hands. Why does having concentual sex automatically become wrong? If it is wrong then I understand the loyalty and fairness issue. But why, when it is not incest, are we so convinced it is wrong? I explained that to you, why are you so insisting on not seeing it? Wrong is when you are hiding / lying to your friend. Or maybe for you it isn't wrong. That's your life. Just happy you are not friend of mine. Let us try an get on the same wavelength. Why is the sex act per se wrong? If society did not think it was, like shaking hands, then there us no harm done. There is no need to hide it and no issue in it becoming known. So firget the hiding what is thought to be wrong and say why it is wrong to have the sex please. " Are you for real? Sex is great thing nothing wrong to have sex. Seems you have serious problem with understanding what people are talking to you. But it is not that uncommon. People tent to listen only what they want to listen, they don't give a shit of all the rest. Anyway, if you are ready to have sex with your friend mother, then talk about it with your friend drinking bear, great for you!. Just don't see your problem and the point of this discussion. Still happy you are not friend of mine. | |||
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"The physical sexual act between two concenting adults who are not related is not wrong. The issue for me in the emotional side" Agreed! But Why are we emotionally bothered in the first place? Do we want to think of our parents as sexless? There are thousands on Fab and many of those people are very reputable. | |||
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"My personal opinion is that he obviously isn't your friend if you've got such little respect for him that you had sex with his mother. I'd keep your mouth shut and stay away." If you apply logic to that statement, however... If he is no longer your friend because you had sex with his mum, you might as well do it again. | |||
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"The physical sexual act between two concenting adults who are not related is not wrong. The issue for me in the emotional side Agreed! But Why are we emotionally bothered in the first place? Do we want to think of our parents as sexless? There are thousands on Fab and many of those people are very reputable. " Because we are human? Compassionate, have loyalties to the relationships we form with people? Im not daft i dont believe my parents stopped having rumpy pumpy the day i came into the world,, i am a parent myself now.. i just choose not to think of people i love and care about in a sexual context. Hell if my parents have sex the way i enjoy it,, id probs wanna kill my dad for being rough with women.. lol Are you some robot then that can switch off? | |||
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"What should I do...I feel like telling him incase he finds out in the future! She has asked me to keep quiet and meet up again! Help please... First and foremost I have to let you know that I don't believe you. Secondly - Why tell at all ? You've had sex with a woman. Exercise some discretion and decorum and stop acting like sex with a woman is something evil you've just created. Thirdly. Be prepared for it to come out in the future. Be ready to deny or admit but you don't owe anyone any explanations.A tad harsh I have to say. It seems like the lad has made a mistake and knows it. Everyone concerned in this inter generation assignation has not covered themselves in glory. I think that discretion is called for and park it in the not to again experiences and move on. If the friend is a good one then he really does not need to know?" That's incredibly harsh of you I have to say. | |||
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"It's one of the big no no's in the bro code. Unless it's the bro code as written by barney stimpson Challenge accepted. Seriously though don't fuck your mate's mum bad form old chap, that's not cricket. My mate's mum is dead so I don't face this. I understand it is a bro code but WHY is it a bro code? I think it has something to do with males feeling that they own the women in their family. I've seen this sort of attitude displayed by men towards their adult daughters and other men backing them up. I call it territorial sexism. Wow that's heavy. Just call it bad manners myself. But each to their own. Heavy? Really , I just thought it was a discussion point
Totally understand what you are saying. All I am saying is. Personally for me it's just bad manners to pork your best mate's mum
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"What should I do...I feel like telling him incase he finds out in the future! She has asked me to keep quiet and meet up again! Help please..." When I was young we all wanted to have sex with the older woman a couple of my mates did but not with a mates mum | |||
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"I blame porn!" Whats that got to do with it! | |||
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"I blame porn!" I blame porn for everything it's got me out of a lot of trouble | |||
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"Possibly the most interesting thing about this thread for me is that some people seem to be taking it seriously..." So you think that cannot happen that some bloke fuck his mate mum? | |||
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"I blame porn! I blame porn for everything it's got me out of a lot of trouble "I will remember that one | |||
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"I blame porn! I blame porn for everything it's got me out of a lot of trouble
I will remember that one "Just be careful of saying it to a judge | |||
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"Possibly the most interesting thing about this thread for me is that some people seem to be taking it seriously... So you think that cannot happen that some bloke fuck his mate mum?" 1) How do you know its a bloke? The post came from a couples profile. 2) Your basic "standard troll" is one contentious statement to which the op never even has to reply, he/she just sits back and enjoys the carnage. | |||
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"Possibly the most interesting thing about this thread for me is that some people seem to be taking it seriously..." Does it matter if it's serious or not? Having discussions about different scenarios and thinking about random topics keeps the brain active. | |||
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"I blame porn!" That is what Ted Bundy said in his last inter_iew just before he has been fried on electric chair for brutally raping and killing dozen of young girls. | |||
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"I blame porn! Whats that got to do with it!" Porn= anything goes!!! | |||
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"Possibly the most interesting thing about this thread for me is that some people seem to be taking it seriously... So you think that cannot happen that some bloke fuck his mate mum? 1) How do you know its a bloke? The post came from a couples profile. 2) Your basic "standard troll" is one contentious statement to which the op never even has to reply, he/she just sits back and enjoys the carnage. " pssttt jimmi,, read the thread.. he did reply saying it was 'him' and his only come back was 'well my mate isnt close to his mum' | |||
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we have knobbing your bestie's mum and Ted Bundy in the same thread
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" we have knobbing your bestie's mum and Ted Bundy in the same thread
I love fab"AND funkey giving his grandmother ANEL | |||
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"What should I do...I feel like telling him incase he finds out in the future! She has asked me to keep quiet and meet up again! Help please... First and foremost I have to let you know that I don't believe you. Secondly - Why tell at all ? You've had sex with a woman. Exercise some discretion and decorum and stop acting like sex with a woman is something evil you've just created. Thirdly. Be prepared for it to come out in the future. Be ready to deny or admit but you don't owe anyone any explanations.A tad harsh I have to say. It seems like the lad has made a mistake and knows it. Everyone concerned in this inter generation assignation has not covered themselves in glory. I think that discretion is called for and park it in the not to again experiences and move on. If the friend is a good one then he really does not need to know? That's incredibly harsh of you I have to say." I thought it was a fair response! | |||
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"I blame porn! That is what Ted Bundy said in his last inter_iew just before he has been fried on electric chair for brutally raping and killing dozen of young girls." There's porn that shows "gang rape" it's all on porn sites! Along with milfs, filfs, friends neighbours and strangers! | |||
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" we have knobbing your bestie's mum and Ted Bundy in the same thread
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AND funkey giving his grandmother ANEL " I am used to his antics... did you know he's leaving | |||
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" we have knobbing your bestie's mum and Ted Bundy in the same thread
I love fab"Maybe hes Besties Mum is Ma Bundy
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"Possibly the most interesting thing about this thread for me is that some people seem to be taking it seriously... So you think that cannot happen that some bloke fuck his mate mum? 1) How do you know its a bloke? The post came from a couples profile. 2) Your basic "standard troll" is one contentious statement to which the op never even has to reply, he/she just sits back and enjoys the carnage. pssttt jimmi,, read the thread.. he did reply saying it was 'him' and his only come back was 'well my mate isnt close to his mum' " Hahah - I concede point 1, but as for him having to come back, that only means his troll wasn't as successful as he thought. | |||
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" we have knobbing your bestie's mum and Ted Bundy in the same thread
I love fab"and jokes View! You're forgetting the jokes ! | |||
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"Possibly the most interesting thing about this thread for me is that some people seem to be taking it seriously..." Ah! A man who knows the answer. | |||
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" we have knobbing your bestie's mum and Ted Bundy in the same thread
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"I blame porn! Whats that got to do with it!" For encouraging men to do stupid stuff like this | |||
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"I blame porn! Whats that got to do with it! For encouraging men to do stupid stuff like this" There was a woman involved, is porn responsible for her actions? | |||
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"What mother does that Ffs surely there's plenty of other men she could of fucked and op sorry but you really are no friend of his ti have done that ," agreed | |||
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"Two guys are drinking in a pub, then suddenly one of them stands up, and loudly declares to the other 'I slept with your mum!' The pub is stunned into silence, anticipating a fight. 'That's right!' the man says again, slamming his fists down on the table 'I SLEPT WITH YOUR MUM!' The other man replies 'Go home dad, you're d*unk'
That's reminded me of an off the cuff comment my hubby made that left our son speechless for the first time ever
My friend commented that the dress she was wearing she had had since she was 18 and could still get in it
Our son said he had had the shoes he had on since18 and could still get in them thinking he was being funny till his face dropped as his father declared
I've had your mother since she was18 and I can still get in her!
Poor boy his face was a picture first time ever he was lacking a quick witted come back
Although I can't lie even I blushed
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"My eldest son is 26 but I still look at him as my kid despite him being a grown man,and any friends he has I look at them in the same way as a kid. Am I alone in thinking like this? Not at all! I can fully appreciate that my kids have good looking male friends, but I could never see them in a sexual way! Just wrong! " | |||
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"My eldest son is 26 but I still look at him as my kid despite him being a grown man,and any friends he has I look at them in the same way as a kid. Am I alone in thinking like this? Not at all! I can fully appreciate that my kids have good looking male friends, but I could never see them in a sexual way! Just wrong!
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"My eldest son is 26 but I still look at him as my kid despite him being a grown man,and any friends he has I look at them in the same way as a kid. Am I alone in thinking like this? Not at all! I can fully appreciate that my kids have good looking male friends, but I could never see them in a sexual way! Just wrong!
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"I blame porn! Whats that got to do with it! For encouraging men to do stupid stuff like this There was a woman involved, is porn responsible for her actions?" Probably | |||
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"I blame porn! Whats that got to do with it! For encouraging men to do stupid stuff like this There was a woman involved, is porn responsible for her actions? Probably" Believe we can be influenced by things, but ultimately no one forced either party to participate in their actions | |||
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"I blame porn! That is what Ted Bundy said in his last inter_iew just before he has been fried on electric chair for brutally raping and killing dozen of young girls." so therefore.. actually what are you trying to say? | |||
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"I blame porn! That is what Ted Bundy said in his last inter_iew just before he has been fried on electric chair for brutally raping and killing dozen of young girls. so therefore.. actually what are you trying to say? " The porn wasn't very good?  | |||
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"What should I do...I feel like telling him incase he finds out in the future! She has asked me to keep quiet and meet up again! Help please..." Mums the word shhhh | |||
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"I checked as well and cant see where the man is on the ops profile lol
I've just checked and there is a picture of a cock. Last picture and all the veris are for the guy "well spotted. I noticed that now to, makes me wonder as well there, at least there is a cock pic lol | |||
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"What should I do...I feel like telling him incase he finds out in the future! She has asked me to keep quiet and meet up again! Help please..." You helped yourself already you dirty muthafucker | |||
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"I checked as well and cant see where the man is on the ops profile lol
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"I blame porn! Whats that got to do with it! For encouraging men to do stupid stuff like this There was a woman involved, is porn responsible for her actions? Probably Believe we can be influenced by things, but ultimately no one forced either party to participate in their actions " influenced! That's word I was looking for! Couldn't think of the word so put encouraged haha! | |||
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"It's one of the big no no's in the bro code. Unless it's the bro code as written by barney stimpson Challenge accepted. Seriously though don't fuck your mate's mum bad form old chap, that's not cricket. My mate's mum is dead so I don't face this. I understand it is a bro code but WHY is it a bro code? I think it has something to do with males feeling that they own the women in their family. I've seen this sort of attitude displayed by men towards their adult daughters and other men backing them up. I call it territorial sexism." The majority of people who are objecting seem to be women. Especially the women who are mothers. How does that fit with your theory? | |||
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"There is a presumption that this sex act was wrong. Can we discuss this as it is not incest as far as I can tell. Could someone articulate why his mate's mum, as a presumably mature woman, cannot shag who she likes? Why is her son's friend rulled out so quickly when, should the mum find her own man, everyone would encourage the son and the friend be friends? Why is a boy's friend having concentual sex with a friends mother wrong? Disclaimer: I have no opinion on this myself so genuinely want to hear why people see this is an issue. Consequently anyone who attacks me will, by doing so, be indicating they have the intellect if an amoeba. "Put simply how would you feel if a close friend slept with your mother? Especially given the circumstances here | |||
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"There is a presumption that this sex act was wrong. Can we discuss this as it is not incest as far as I can tell. Could someone articulate why his mate's mum, as a presumably mature woman, cannot shag who she likes? Why is her son's friend rulled out so quickly when, should the mum find her own man, everyone would encourage the son and the friend be friends? Why is a boy's friend having concentual sex with a friends mother wrong? Disclaimer: I have no opinion on this myself so genuinely want to hear why people see this is an issue. Consequently anyone who attacks me will, by doing so, be indicating they have the intellect if an amoeba. "Put simply how would you feel if a close friend slept with your mother? Especially given the circumstances here | |||
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"What should I do...I feel like telling him incase he finds out in the future! She has asked me to keep quiet and meet up again! Help please... First and foremost I have to let you know that I don't believe you. Secondly - Why tell at all ? You've had sex with a woman. Exercise some discretion and decorum and stop acting like sex with a woman is something evil you've just created. Thirdly. Be prepared for it to come out in the future. Be ready to deny or admit but you don't owe anyone any explanations." | |||
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"There is a presumption that this sex act was wrong. Can we discuss this as it is not incest as far as I can tell. Could someone articulate why his mate's mum, as a presumably mature woman, cannot shag who she likes? Why is her son's friend rulled out so quickly when, should the mum find her own man, everyone would encourage the son and the friend be friends? Why is a boy's friend having concentual sex with a friends mother wrong? Disclaimer: I have no opinion on this myself so genuinely want to hear why people see this is an issue. Consequently anyone who attacks me will, by doing so, be indicating they have the intellect if an amoeba.
Put simply how would you feel if a close friend slept with your mother?
Especially given the circumstances here"I believe, like so many on here with a western up bringing, I would be disturbed. Especially as she has been dead for 30 years! The question I had hoped to see some answers for is "why do we think boy's friend and mother is wrong?" assuming they are not related or in a relationship with others. The majority seem to just know and accept it is wrong, without knowing why, and focus on the emotional consequences. By way of explanation; incest is considered wrong as it is thought to increase the risk of deformities. This is not however the case with unrelated persons. | |||
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"There is a presumption that this sex act was wrong. Can we discuss this as it is not incest as far as I can tell. Could someone articulate why his mate's mum, as a presumably mature woman, cannot shag who she likes? Why is her son's friend rulled out so quickly when, should the mum find her own man, everyone would encourage the son and the friend be friends? Why is a boy's friend having concentual sex with a friends mother wrong? Disclaimer: I have no opinion on this myself so genuinely want to hear why people see this is an issue. Consequently anyone who attacks me will, by doing so, be indicating they have the intellect if an amoeba.
Put simply how would you feel if a close friend slept with your mother?
Especially given the circumstances here
I believe, like so many on here with a western up bringing, I would be disturbed. Especially as she has been dead for 30 years!
The question I had hoped to see some answers for is "why do we think boy's friend and mother is wrong?" assuming they are not related or in a relationship with others. The majority seem to just know and accept it is wrong, without knowing why, and focus on the emotional consequences. By way of explanation; incest is considered wrong as it is thought to increase the risk of deformities. This is not however the case with unrelated persons. "Part of the reason some people find me so bloody annoying is because I wont just accept something because someone says that's the way it should be. That's why I enjoy discussions like this where we are asked to confront an accepted opinion and explain why we either hold it or disagree with it. | |||
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"There is a presumption that this sex act was wrong. Can we discuss this as it is not incest as far as I can tell. Could someone articulate why his mate's mum, as a presumably mature woman, cannot shag who she likes? Why is her son's friend rulled out so quickly when, should the mum find her own man, everyone would encourage the son and the friend be friends? Why is a boy's friend having concentual sex with a friends mother wrong? Disclaimer: I have no opinion on this myself so genuinely want to hear why people see this is an issue. Consequently anyone who attacks me will, by doing so, be indicating they have the intellect if an amoeba.
Put simply how would you feel if a close friend slept with your mother?
Especially given the circumstances here
I believe, like so many on here with a western up bringing, I would be disturbed. Especially as she has been dead for 30 years!
The question I had hoped to see some answers for is "why do we think boy's friend and mother is wrong?" assuming they are not related or in a relationship with others. The majority seem to just know and accept it is wrong, without knowing why, and focus on the emotional consequences. By way of explanation; incest is considered wrong as it is thought to increase the risk of deformities. This is not however the case with unrelated persons.
Part of the reason some people find me so bloody annoying is because I wont just accept something because someone says that's the way it should be. That's why I enjoy discussions like this where we are asked to confront an accepted opinion and explain why we either hold it or disagree with it. "Right on! So why is it bad? | |||
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"There is a presumption that this sex act was wrong. Can we discuss this as it is not incest as far as I can tell. Could someone articulate why his mate's mum, as a presumably mature woman, cannot shag who she likes? Why is her son's friend rulled out so quickly when, should the mum find her own man, everyone would encourage the son and the friend be friends? Why is a boy's friend having concentual sex with a friends mother wrong? Disclaimer: I have no opinion on this myself so genuinely want to hear why people see this is an issue. Consequently anyone who attacks me will, by doing so, be indicating they have the intellect if an amoeba.
Put simply how would you feel if a close friend slept with your mother?
Especially given the circumstances here
I believe, like so many on here with a western up bringing, I would be disturbed. Especially as she has been dead for 30 years!
The question I had hoped to see some answers for is "why do we think boy's friend and mother is wrong?" assuming they are not related or in a relationship with others. The majority seem to just know and accept it is wrong, without knowing why, and focus on the emotional consequences. By way of explanation; incest is considered wrong as it is thought to increase the risk of deformities. This is not however the case with unrelated persons.
Part of the reason some people find me so bloody annoying is because I wont just accept something because someone says that's the way it should be. That's why I enjoy discussions like this where we are asked to confront an accepted opinion and explain why we either hold it or disagree with it.
Right on! So why is it bad? "I don't think it is and have said why further up I think. I'm the one bandying the sexist card about and pointing out that a woman was involved too. As I said annoying and several people have thought I'm a man by my posting style...not sure whether to be insulted or offended | |||
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"There is a presumption that this sex act was wrong. Can we discuss this as it is not incest as far as I can tell. Could someone articulate why his mate's mum, as a presumably mature woman, cannot shag who she likes? Why is her son's friend rulled out so quickly when, should the mum find her own man, everyone would encourage the son and the friend be friends? Why is a boy's friend having concentual sex with a friends mother wrong? Disclaimer: I have no opinion on this myself so genuinely want to hear why people see this is an issue. Consequently anyone who attacks me will, by doing so, be indicating they have the intellect if an amoeba.
Put simply how would you feel if a close friend slept with your mother?
Especially given the circumstances here
I believe, like so many on here with a western up bringing, I would be disturbed. Especially as she has been dead for 30 years!
The question I had hoped to see some answers for is "why do we think boy's friend and mother is wrong?" assuming they are not related or in a relationship with others. The majority seem to just know and accept it is wrong, without knowing why, and focus on the emotional consequences. By way of explanation; incest is considered wrong as it is thought to increase the risk of deformities. This is not however the case with unrelated persons. "No you see you wander why it's seen ad wrong right there It would disturb/upset YOU. Friends typical go out of their way to avoid upsetting each other so doing something that causes this level of upset is seen as wrong. | |||
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"What should I do...I feel like telling him incase he finds out in the future! She has asked me to keep quiet and meet up again! Help please..." so why make it even more public ? Just a thought  | |||
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"I checked as well and cant see where the man is on the ops profile lol
I've just checked and there is a picture of a cock. Last picture and all the veris are for the guy well spotted. I noticed that now to, makes me wonder as well there, at least there is a cock pic lol "Spotted the OP's profile ages ago. It's now been updated by admin to man only. | |||
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" The question I had hoped to see some answers for is "why do we think boy's friend and mother is wrong?" assuming they are not related or in a relationship with others. The majority seem to just know and accept it is wrong, without knowing why, and focus on the emotional consequences. By way of explanation; incest is considered wrong as it is thought to increase the risk of deformities. This is not however the case with unrelated persons. No you see you wander why it's seen ad wrong right there It would disturb/upset YOU. Friends typical go out of their way to avoid upsetting each other so doing something that causes this level of upset is seen as wrong. " Sorry, that does not answer the question which is: why is it wrong? Why are people upset by the thought of it? | |||
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" The question I had hoped to see some answers for is "why do we think boy's friend and mother is wrong?" assuming they are not related or in a relationship with others. The majority seem to just know and accept it is wrong, without knowing why, and focus on the emotional consequences. By way of explanation; incest is considered wrong as it is thought to increase the risk of deformities. This is not however the case with unrelated persons. No you see you wander why it's seen ad wrong right there It would disturb/upset YOU. Friends typical go out of their way to avoid upsetting each other so doing something that causes this level of upset is seen as wrong. Sorry, that does not answer the question which is: why is it wrong? Why are people upset by the thought of it? " There are some lines you don't cross, humilating your kids, by fucking their mates, is one of them. Her | |||
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Really????
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"Sorry, that does not answer the question which is: why is it wrong? Why are people upset by the thought of it? " I am not, Mum's are people too. what upsets me is that this guy is looking to break the discretion rule and tell his friend. | |||
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