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By *aurenka OP Woman
over a year ago
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Are you perfectly fine being single, or your would like some great relationship?
If yes, could you be in monogamist relation?
Would you be able to live without swinging, or you think you would got some extra sex on a side? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes I could...but having been on the scene for many many years...I have some proper friendships(that do not revolve around sex), I'd probably be quite open to any new partner that needs to know my past.I believe I'm honest and loyal..so it starts with no lies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm very happy being single and I'm not looking for a partner.....
But saying that if it happened then it would be nice
I'm more likely to meet someone like minded off here than in vanilla life where swinging is already part of the vocabulary, but it would very much depend on the relationship between us if we decided to carry on swinging or if vanilla introduce it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think genuine nice people are hard to find, so I prefer to stay single its actually hard to find a nice girl now adays so I just don't bother looking, and if I did get a nice girl then I wouldn't do any of this as I don't like sharing :p |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im fine being single, though i would in time like a relationship and be a family.
its not practical at the moment though, but open minded too it. no it wouldnt be a swinging one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm happy being single as its much less complicated. I don't miss having a partner around as I have my children, great friends and family. Also Fab lol. In my last relationship we swung for a bit together but I wasn't keen. I doubt I'd do that again so for now I'm happy on my own. I'm selfish and like my house as is lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you perfectly fine being single, or your would like some great relationship?
If yes, could you be in monogamist relation?
Would you be able to live without swinging, or you think you would got some extra sex on a side?"
im fine being single whilst im with my kids or busy at work. bur on a night time when they are in bed i miss the cuddles and the intimacy...  |
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"yes I could...but having been on the scene for many many years...I have some proper friendships(that do not revolve around sex), I'd probably be quite open to any new partner that needs to know my past.I believe I'm honest and loyal..so it starts with no lies."
This! 
I pick it up and put it down as and when I'm single or not but I have too many mates that I wouldn't give up so having a relationship means trust. Not every bloke is cool with the fact that I have sexual history with a lot of my friends. There's no danger I'd start something with someone who was unaware of my past. Honesty and communication are everything. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I never want a relationship inside or outside swinging, never....
can u explain why?"
yeah sure, I have a fantastic non compromising life that I enjoy to the max. I am way too fixed in my ways, I am totally self absorbed and most things have to revolve round me and I will not share what I have.
 and I am totally self aware and honest about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm perfectly happy being single, that said, I have lots of relationships. My 'multi' relationships are all of different levels, some short term some long term. Some inside this scene, most outside of it. The only constant throughout all of them is no sexual exclusivity. I enjoy variety, the chase and the first kiss too much.
I have been monogomous in the past and I know I could be in the future, but simply don't want to be. Single life suits me right now, and I suit it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes I could...but having been on the scene for many many years...I have some proper friendships(that do not revolve around sex), I'd probably be quite open to any new partner that needs to know my past.I believe I'm honest and loyal..so it starts with no lies."
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never want a relationship inside or outside swinging, never....
can u explain why?
yeah sure, I have a fantastic non compromising life that I enjoy to the max. I am way too fixed in my ways, I am totally self absorbed and most things have to revolve round me and I will not share what I have.
and I am totally self aware and honest about it"
I was gonna say in short he's a selfish loveable cunt lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never want a relationship inside or outside swinging, never....
can u explain why?
yeah sure, I have a fantastic non compromising life that I enjoy to the max. I am way too fixed in my ways, I am totally self absorbed and most things have to revolve round me and I will not share what I have.
and I am totally self aware and honest about it"
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I never want a relationship inside or outside swinging, never....
can u explain why?
yeah sure, I have a fantastic non compromising life that I enjoy to the max. I am way too fixed in my ways, I am totally self absorbed and most things have to revolve round me and I will not share what I have.
and I am totally self aware and honest about it
I was gonna say in short he's a selfish loveable cunt lol"
you are too kind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you perfectly fine being single, or your would like some great relationship?
If yes, could you be in monogamist relation?
Would you be able to live without swinging, or you think you would got some extra sex on a side?"
I am happy as a single guy, however I am not totally against getting in a relationship... Never say never... And yeah, I didn't think I could ever be monogamous in a relationship, but then I got in a few and I was faithful (would you look at that lool) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes I could...but having been on the scene for many many years...I have some proper friendships(that do not revolve around sex), I'd probably be quite open to any new partner that needs to know my past.I believe I'm honest and loyal..so it starts with no lies.
This!
I pick it up and put it down as and when I'm single or not but I have too many mates that I wouldn't give up so having a relationship means trust. Not every bloke is cool with the fact that I have sexual history with a lot of my friends. There's no danger I'd start something with someone who was unaware of my past. Honesty and communication are everything. "
I dont care what mingers u met in the past..its now u and me baby  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"yes I could...but having been on the scene for many many years...I have some proper friendships(that do not revolve around sex), I'd probably be quite open to any new partner that needs to know my past.I believe I'm honest and loyal..so it starts with no lies."
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"yes I could...but having been on the scene for many many years...I have some proper friendships(that do not revolve around sex), I'd probably be quite open to any new partner that needs to know my past.I believe I'm honest and loyal..so it starts with no lies.
This!
I pick it up and put it down as and when I'm single or not but I have too many mates that I wouldn't give up so having a relationship means trust. Not every bloke is cool with the fact that I have sexual history with a lot of my friends. There's no danger I'd start something with someone who was unaware of my past. Honesty and communication are everything.
I dont care what mingers u met in the past..its now u and me baby "
Haha... I fear we'd spend more time fucking about with cameras!  |
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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago
Northampton |
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Are you perfectly fine being single, or your would like some great relationship?
If yes, could you be in monogamist relation?
Would you be able to live without swinging, or you think you would got some extra sex on a side?"
I am making the most of being single for over 2 years now! The previous 17 years or so, I have always been with someone. Fisrt hubby, when he died, I stupidly 'felt so alone', I went pretty much straight into a 3 year relationship with a guy who turned out to be a violent d*unk. When I escaped that, within weeks I was back with a childhood sweetheart. I ended that after 6 months, wondering what the hell I was doing lol.. past should have stayed in the past.
A relationship will happen for me again.. of course it will. When it happens, I will deal with it when it comes.
Yes It could be monogamous, if it is not with a swinger, I could never cheat. I might carry on being a perv if it is with a swinger. Depends on how and when it happens!
I am not looking for anything though.. just enjoying my life right now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes I could...but having been on the scene for many many years...I have some proper friendships(that do not revolve around sex), I'd probably be quite open to any new partner that needs to know my past.I believe I'm honest and loyal..so it starts with no lies.
This!
I pick it up and put it down as and when I'm single or not but I have too many mates that I wouldn't give up so having a relationship means trust. Not every bloke is cool with the fact that I have sexual history with a lot of my friends. There's no danger I'd start something with someone who was unaware of my past. Honesty and communication are everything.
I dont care what mingers u met in the past..its now u and me baby
Haha... I fear we'd spend more time fucking about with cameras! "
mines waterproof |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not the girlfriend type. I've accepted that I can't have a relationship.. so I am more suited to companionship..
I couldn't ever be monogamous though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yeah sure, I have a fantastic non compromising life that I enjoy to the max. I am way too fixed in my ways, I am totally self absorbed and most things have to revolve round me and I will not share what I have.
and I am totally self aware and honest about it"
This
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"yes I could...but having been on the scene for many many years...I have some proper friendships(that do not revolve around sex), I'd probably be quite open to any new partner that needs to know my past.I believe I'm honest and loyal..so it starts with no lies.
This!
I pick it up and put it down as and when I'm single or not but I have too many mates that I wouldn't give up so having a relationship means trust. Not every bloke is cool with the fact that I have sexual history with a lot of my friends. There's no danger I'd start something with someone who was unaware of my past. Honesty and communication are everything.
I dont care what mingers u met in the past..its now u and me baby
Haha... I fear we'd spend more time fucking about with cameras!
mines waterproof "
Show off!
Mines bigger! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whatever happens happens really, secure enough to be single or happy getting together if I thought it had potential etc.
If I was in love, getting married etc, I'd 99.9% come off here, the other 0.1% would be in the rare married but happy swinging etc, I don't think that works though if there's kids involved etc, for me. |
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"I never want a relationship inside or outside swinging, never....
can u explain why?
yeah sure, I have a fantastic non compromising life that I enjoy to the max. I am way too fixed in my ways, I am totally self absorbed and most things have to revolve round me and I will not share what I have.
and I am totally self aware and honest about it"
I tell you what, I met my other half on here: you could be describing me. What I'm struggling with is compromising in my own house. Saying "we/us/our" opposed to "me/mine/my" is hard...but I'm getting there! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With my husband I missed the relationship more then I missed the person... I realize this since I fell deeply for some one just recently and my heart noticed the difference.. I'm happy being single when I'm busy but I crave it when I'm alone... I've always had a companion in my life and I think it's going to take a while to get use to it... Do I want another relationship? Not after my last one has left me feeling this way... Why would I put myself through it again??  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I never want a relationship inside or outside swinging, never....
can u explain why?
yeah sure, I have a fantastic non compromising life that I enjoy to the max. I am way too fixed in my ways, I am totally self absorbed and most things have to revolve round me and I will not share what I have.
and I am totally self aware and honest about it
I tell you what, I met my other half on here: you could be describing me. What I'm struggling with is compromising in my own house. Saying "we/us/our" opposed to "me/mine/my" is hard...but I'm getting there!"
I would be medicated to the hilt to allow it, I wouldn't know what the day was |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its difficult to say "never again", because of the socks being blown off thing.
When someone comes along that truly blows your socks off (and trust me, as a single man, mine are fair welded on), well its madness not to want to commit to them if they feel the same.
However I think relationships are strong when they are based on trust and equality, and insofar as I am experienced, I don't think I have had those things in the past.
So having been married, and in other long-term relationships, I am not "actively" seeking the sock blower offer "
and right now, as many have said, I am a little bit self obsessed and absorbed to give someone the commitment they truly deserve from a relationship. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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I have had two long term monogamous relationships (over 10 years each) and some shorter term ones. In a relationship I am always monogamous.
However, I prefer the single life but not simply because I can hook up with lots of different people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes I could...but having been on the scene for many many years...I have some proper friendships(that do not revolve around sex), I'd probably be quite open to any new partner that needs to know my past.I believe I'm honest and loyal..so it starts with no lies.
This!
I pick it up and put it down as and when I'm single or not but I have too many mates that I wouldn't give up so having a relationship means trust. Not every bloke is cool with the fact that I have sexual history with a lot of my friends. There's no danger I'd start something with someone who was unaware of my past. Honesty and communication are everything.
I dont care what mingers u met in the past..its now u and me baby
Haha... I fear we'd spend more time fucking about with cameras!
mines waterproof
Show off!
Mines bigger! "
yours cracked when u took a selfie...so there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you perfectly fine being single, or your would like some great relationship?
If yes, could you be in monogamist relation?
Would you be able to live without swinging, or you think you would got some extra sex on a side?"
I am fine being single and actually like it. I do miss certain things of a relationship but happy being single and doing what I like when I want.
If I got into a relationship with someone I didn't meet from fab I would come off it and be faithful.
If I met someone from fab he wouldn't want to have 3somes and more somes. We would just go to clubs or parties for our enjoyment and excitement if that's what we both wanted.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i am looking for my sex fantasy can you help me make it a reality You know, we could always make that fantasy a reality
....Question ,Question .... Why is it so hard to find a woman for a threesome mmf
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I am comfortable being single, going where I want when I want and meeting who I want. If I did find someone then I would stop meeting totally as I find when I am in love I don't want to meet, I would still be here for the forum though |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"i am looking for my sex fantasy can you help me make it a reality You know, we could always make that fantasy a reality
....Question ,Question .... Why is it so hard to find a woman for a threesome mmf
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Are you just posting this on as many threads as you can?
I can be happy single, but I don't think monogamous relationships are for me - so right now I have the best of both worlds.
A boyfriend I care a lot for, who is happy that I have this side of my life (He's not on fab now, was briefly but its not for him) I don't want to marry him, and we'd kill one another living together, so we meet up when we are free, and talk and text in between times. He's more than a FB or FWB, but not a live in partner. It suits both of us. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
Been single now for 8 years. At the beginning I would have liked to find someone to care for me but over the years I realised I am a lot happier like this.
I have no intention of giving up nsa sex and clubs, and prefer one off meets, so things are likely to stay the same now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like having a 'boyfriend' but my 2 longterm relationships both ended badly with me being cheated on so now I have real trust issues. I like this lifestyle at the moment, I have a longterm fb and a couple of other regulars. Suits me for now |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
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Are you perfectly fine being single, or your would like some great relationship?
If yes, could you be in monogamist relation?
Would you be able to live without swinging, or you think you would got some extra sex on a side?"
More than happy being single, not looking for relationship
Cheated on all my relationships and my marriage - not suited to monogamy
Would struggle to live without swinging
These are all the easy answers. However, I've made some good friends through swinging and I've got a club buddy (female, but we don't play together) who I see more often than some friends and family and we've started to plan to do vanilla stuff together as well as our epic tour of the UK swinging club scene, so I reckon I've found a "relationship" from Fab (soz, Wyrd...try not to be too frightened ) |
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In a relationship with someone I am always monogamous whilst with them and only swung as a couple whilst with them as had roughly same frame of mind
being single i can enjoy myself as much as i like
as goes for your past thats up to you if you tell me i tend to be not that bothered about it as thats past history and has nothin to do with me
with mine i will tell you it anyway if you ask about it |
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Have been single for just over a year now and although I am not actively seeking another relationship, I wouldn't rule one out. My last ex knew I was on here and even took some of ma photos even though she didn't want to join herself.
I suppose it would be nice to meet someone else that was into swinging, but I would always tell anyone that I met what I do and then let them make an informed decision on whether they want to take things any further. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"I think genuine nice people are hard to find, so I prefer to stay single its actually hard to find a nice girl now adays so I just don't bother looking, and if I did get a nice girl then I wouldn't do any of this as I don't like sharing :p"
So you wouldn't share your gf but will quite happily meet a couple? wow, so any women you meet on here are not nice girls then? Thankfully you're not close enough to have to bother blocking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally having being single on and off for 4 years, I am ready to meet someone more constant now as I do miss certain things.
I do believe, however, that a relationship is what you make it, regardless of all of our past. Our situations are ours to own until we are in a place in our own mind to change that.
I seek touch, attention and sexual contact etc. on a regular basis when in a relationship and if I don't get that then I will seek elsewhere after a while so as much as I would like to remain monogamous perhaps I would keep fab in my favourites list - just in case . X
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I think being single is massively under-rated, and over looked by society too. How many films have us single folk as the main characters? There always seems a need to have a 'happy' couple in it or to form - anything else must be _iewed as misery. Im happy for now and just take life as it comes and no need to think about open relationships or whatever in future as now is just great. One step at a time works well. |
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I am a 'wrong font' here really, I would far prefer to in a monogamous relationship , just not prepared to settle for second best, and refuse to go without meanwhile! ! No way I would tolerate a second rate relationship just to get sex like some people do, so this is a viable alternative.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am happily single for the time being. Not ready for commitment in my life just yet. I do however like the thought of being in an magnogamous relationship in the distant future, maybe once I've moved location and settled down. Wouldn't want a swinging relationship so wouldn't get involved with a swinger unless they were prepared to leave the scene or be patient of whether I wanted to carry on swinging.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you perfectly fine being single, or your would like some great relationship?
If yes, could you be in monogamist relation?
Would you be able to live without swinging, or you think you would got some extra sex on a side?
More than happy being single, not looking for relationship
Cheated on all my relationships and my marriage - not suited to monogamy
Would struggle to live without swinging
These are all the easy answers. However, I've made some good friends through swinging and I've got a club buddy (female, but we don't play together) who I see more often than some friends and family and we've started to plan to do vanilla stuff together as well as our epic tour of the UK swinging club scene, so I reckon I've found a "relationship" from Fab (soz, Wyrd...try not to be too frightened )"
Aww congrats to you both. The perfect relationship.
(That sounds sarcy but it's not. x) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually couldn't be happier being single. I have the best time in all quadrants of my life. I can't even contemplate being stuck with one person. If it ever happens, he will be a very special man indeed. |
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