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was she coming on to me?!?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well, just started a new job and slightly flapping learning new things.. Anyway long story short..
FIT AS FOOOOK girl today kept eyeing me then she offers to help me.. Fine all good, she's saying stuff like, 'i'm here if you need me' yada yada.. We end up on a tiny corridor and she just stood there and wouldn't move out the way just smiling at me...and just loads of innuendos! Really staring like.
(SOUNDS LIKE A STORY THIS)
Just proper bizzare, I can never tell if a girls giving me the come on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Depends. Was it really the way you said it or was it more a case of...
I kept staring at a FIT AS FOOOOK girl today who kept nervously looking at me until she said "hello can I help you?".. Fine all good, she's saying stuff like, "my job is to help you with your job... that's what I'm paid to do" yada yada.. We end up on a tiny corridor and she just stood there and I wouldn't let her move out the way so she got all embarrassed and just smiled nervously at me...and said loads of stuff that I took to be sexual! Really staring nervously like.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends. Was it really the way you said it or was it more a case of...
I kept staring at a FIT AS FOOOOK girl today who kept nervously looking at me until she said "hello can I help you?".. Fine all good, she's saying stuff like, "my job is to help you with your job... that's what I'm paid to do" yada yada.. We end up on a tiny corridor and she just stood there and I wouldn't let her move out the way so she got all embarrassed and just smiled nervously at me...and said loads of stuff that I took to be sexual! Really staring nervously like.
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Perhaps she finds sexual harrassment tribunals profitable? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Depends. Was it really the way you said it or was it more a case of...
I kept staring at a FIT AS FOOOOK girl today who kept nervously looking at me until she said "hello can I help you?".. Fine all good, she's saying stuff like, "my job is to help you with your job... that's what I'm paid to do" yada yada.. We end up on a tiny corridor and she just stood there and I wouldn't let her move out the way so she got all embarrassed and just smiled nervously at me...and said loads of stuff that I took to be sexual! Really staring nervously like.
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You've made my night haha!! LOVE THAT! ITS MORE LIKEKY TBH! NIIIIIIIIIIGHT!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Be confident and have big balls and just say, next time when she stares you down...
"I know I'm good looking and that girl, BUT, keep the impulses down"
Cocky but funny. She'll be shocked and be like "wtf did I just get that" bet you any chance majority of the lads at work probably perv on her all day and don't say anything, and she's flirting it cause she knows it.
But she'll think you got confidence and she'll probz fall into your circle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends. Was it really the way you said it or was it more a case of...
I kept staring at a FIT AS FOOOOK girl today who kept nervously looking at me until she said "hello can I help you?".. Fine all good, she's saying stuff like, "my job is to help you with your job... that's what I'm paid to do" yada yada.. We end up on a tiny corridor and she just stood there and I wouldn't let her move out the way so she got all embarrassed and just smiled nervously at me...and said loads of stuff that I took to be sexual! Really staring nervously like.
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Awaits the next thread about being sacked from a new job for freaking out the female staff |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be confident and have big balls and just say, next time when she stares you down...
"I know I'm good looking and that girl, BUT, keep the impulses down"
Cocky but funny. She'll be shocked and be like "wtf did I just get that" bet you any chance majority of the lads at work probably perv on her all day and don't say anything, and she's flirting it cause she knows it.
But she'll think you got confidence and she'll probz fall into your circle. "
I really hope you aren't being seroous!  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Be confident and have big balls and just say, next time when she stares you down...
"I know I'm good looking and that girl, BUT, keep the impulses down"
Cocky but funny. She'll be shocked and be like "wtf did I just get that" bet you any chance majority of the lads at work probably perv on her all day and don't say anything, and she's flirting it cause she knows it.
But she'll think you got confidence and she'll probz fall into your circle. "
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"Depends. Was it really the way you said it or was it more a case of...
I kept staring at a FIT AS FOOOOK girl today who kept nervously looking at me until she said "hello can I help you?".. Fine all good, she's saying stuff like, "my job is to help you with your job... that's what I'm paid to do" yada yada.. We end up on a tiny corridor and she just stood there and I wouldn't let her move out the way so she got all embarrassed and just smiled nervously at me...and said loads of stuff that I took to be sexual! Really staring nervously like.
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Often guys think women are coming on to them when they are just being polite. Unless she does something unequivocal like ask you out for a drink, then be very cautious. Being accused of sexual harassment at work is not very pleasant. |
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"Depends. Was it really the way you said it or was it more a case of...
I kept staring at a FIT AS FOOOOK girl today who kept nervously looking at me until she said "hello can I help you?".. Fine all good, she's saying stuff like, "my job is to help you with your job... that's what I'm paid to do" yada yada.. We end up on a tiny corridor and she just stood there and I wouldn't let her move out the way so she got all embarrassed and just smiled nervously at me...and said loads of stuff that I took to be sexual! Really staring nervously like.
Often guys think women are coming on to them when they are just being polite. Unless she does something unequivocal like ask you out for a drink, then be very cautious. Being accused of sexual harassment at work is not very pleasant. "
Yes this is very true, being friendly and helpful makes some men think you fancy them. I am the same with men and women of all ages and have on one or two occasions had to point that out to gents, most guys understand the difference between friendliness and fancying though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well, just started a new job and slightly flapping learning new things.. Anyway long story short..
FIT AS FOOOOK girl today kept eyeing me then she offers to help me.. Fine all good, she's saying stuff like, 'i'm here if you need me' yada yada.. We end up on a tiny corridor and she just stood there and wouldn't move out the way just smiling at me...and just loads of innuendos! Really staring like.
(SOUNDS LIKE A STORY THIS)
Just proper bizzare, I can never tell if a girls giving me the come on! "
nahshe was probably takin the piss |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Most relationships start in the work place and work out well! Grow a pair and talk to the woman, its not harresment or anything else, simply talk to her. "
I'm a bit full on though, I'll avoid her today lol. I'd end up saying shall we meet up after work, I'll take you to see my mum, I have a dog called casper and i think your bang tidy and yes I can see us together forever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most relationships start in the work place and work out well! Grow a pair and talk to the woman, its not harresment or anything else, simply talk to her. "
do you really think he'd look good with breasts  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most relationships start in the work place and work out well! Grow a pair and talk to the woman, its not harresment or anything else, simply talk to her. "
I've never had a relationship that started in the workplace and the very very few I've seen have never ended well! |
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"Most relationships start in the work place and work out well! Grow a pair and talk to the woman, its not harresment or anything else, simply talk to her. "
Most?
Where are the sweeping generalisation police?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most relationships start in the work place and work out well! Grow a pair and talk to the woman, its not harresment or anything else, simply talk to her. "
I only know one person who had a relationship with a colleague and it ended disastrously. |
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I can think of several relationships starting in the work place not least my parents, been together 57 years! My brother and his wife, coming up to 15 years as well as few of my friends from my days in the military and a couple of workmates! |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I can think of several relationships starting in the work place not least my parents, been together 57 years! My brother and his wife, coming up to 15 years as well as few of my friends from my days in the military and a couple of workmates! "
And I've seen many the opposite. But that's not the point. Was this girl coming on to him? It's possibly yes, or no. We cannot tell as we weren't there and we're not telepathic. My advice is to proceed with great caution as if he tries it on and she was just being helpful then he could be accused of sexual harassment. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I can think of several relationships starting in the work place not least my parents, been together 57 years! My brother and his wife, coming up to 15 years as well as few of my friends from my days in the military and a couple of workmates! "
And I've seen many the opposite. But that's not the point. Was this girl coming on to him? It's possibly yes, or no. We cannot tell as we weren't there and we're not telepathic. My advice is to proceed with great caution as if he tries it on and she was just being helpful then he could be accused of sexual harassment. |
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"I can think of several relationships starting in the work place not least my parents, been together 57 years! My brother and his wife, coming up to 15 years as well as few of my friends from my days in the military and a couple of workmates!
And I've seen many the opposite. But that's not the point. Was this girl coming on to him? It's possibly yes, or no. We cannot tell as we weren't there and we're not telepathic. My advice is to proceed with great caution as if he tries it on and she was just being helpful then he could be accused of sexual harassment. "
My god what has the world come to when a guy can't talk to a woman for fear of a sexual harassment accusation... I never said to try anything on, I said to talk to her! |
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You are in a new job. Priority is to pass probation and have a guaranteed income, not a shag. Be friendly and show appreciation for help offered but it is the wrong time and place to do anything but show you are good at your work. Book yourself onto body language classes etc if you are slow on the uptake or get out and mingle in your spare time. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I can think of several relationships starting in the work place not least my parents, been together 57 years! My brother and his wife, coming up to 15 years as well as few of my friends from my days in the military and a couple of workmates!
And I've seen many the opposite. But that's not the point. Was this girl coming on to him? It's possibly yes, or no. We cannot tell as we weren't there and we're not telepathic. My advice is to proceed with great caution as if he tries it on and she was just being helpful then he could be accused of sexual harassment.
My god what has the world come to when a guy can't talk to a woman for fear of a sexual harassment accusation... I never said to try anything on, I said to talk to her! "
You told him to 'go for it'. That is open to interpretation. However, even if he just asks her for a drink that can open a whole can of worms in the workplace.
I also said 'proceed with caution'. He has to be sure. I think she may well have just been trying to be helpful. Him coming on to her may make things awkward. |
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