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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have been reading some of the Forums on here and found out that there are a lot of Single Guys complaining about sending mail's and not getting any replys.And as i have put on my Profile"no reply then iam not intrestet".I thought that they mind have a Point,and i sent replys.But have since found out that if you say thanks but no thanks the they tent to get very abusive.As if any single Woman on here will meet every single guy on here.So iam know going back to my old ways and not answer then at all stuff it.   |
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I've been turned down on here but I always thank them for taking the time to reply. If they do t reply after q couple of days I delete the message and move on. I wouldn't harrass a woman in a nightclub if she didn't let me buy her a drink or told me she wasn't interested so why would people do it here?? |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"I have been reading some of the Forums on here and found out that there are a lot of Single Guys complaining about sending mail's and not getting any replys.And as i have put on my Profile"no reply then iam not intrestet".I thought that they mind have a Point,and i sent replys.But have since found out that if you say thanks but no thanks the they tent to get very abusive.As if any single Woman on here will meet every single guy on here.So iam know going back to my old ways and not answer then at all stuff it. "
and breathe!
I find there tends to be a lot of forums started moaning about how single males react to getting a no thanks!
It happens to everyone though be they single females, couples and even single males get abusive mails back too!
As always, just my tuppence worth!  |
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"I have been reading some of the Forums on here and found out that there are a lot of Single Guys complaining about sending mail's and not getting any replys.And as i have put on my Profile"no reply then iam not intrestet".I thought that they mind have a Point,and i sent replys.But have since found out that if you say thanks but no thanks the they tent to get very abusive.As if any single Woman on here will meet every single guy on here.So iam know going back to my old ways and not answer then at all stuff it. "
I quite agree, I'm ashamed to be a single man by some of the conduct of the other single guys on here !!!!!
HELLO!!!!!!! WAKE UP!!!!!!! YOU'RE RUINING IT FOR ALL OF US!!!!!!!!!!!!
By all means send messages but do not expect an answer and then when you actually get one then it comes as a very pleasent surprise.......
I have the feeling i'm shouting at the moon here though!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have been reading some of the Forums on here and found out that there are a lot of Single Guys complaining about sending mail's and not getting any replys.And as i have put on my Profile"no reply then iam not intrestet".I thought that they mind have a Point,and i sent replys.But have since found out that if you say thanks but no thanks the they tent to get very abusive.As if any single Woman on here will meet every single guy on here.So iam know going back to my old ways and not answer then at all stuff it.
and breathe!
I find there tends to be a lot of forums started moaning about how single males react to getting a no thanks!
It happens to everyone though be they single females, couples and even single males get abusive mails back too!
As always, just my tuppence worth! "
Dont get me wrong not moaning here just stating a fact.And i know it happens to a lot of ppl on here.All iam saying is that they should not be suprised if it happens to them. |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"I have been reading some of the Forums on here and found out that there are a lot of Single Guys complaining about sending mail's and not getting any replys.And as i have put on my Profile"no reply then iam not intrestet".I thought that they mind have a Point,and i sent replys.But have since found out that if you say thanks but no thanks the they tent to get very abusive.As if any single Woman on here will meet every single guy on here.So iam know going back to my old ways and not answer then at all stuff it.
and breathe!
I find there tends to be a lot of forums started moaning about how single males react to getting a no thanks!
It happens to everyone though be they single females, couples and even single males get abusive mails back too!
As always, just my tuppence worth!
Dont get me wrong not moaning here just stating a fact.And i know it happens to a lot of ppl on here.All iam saying is that they should not be suprised if it happens to them."
We could all state facts of what has happened when we have sent or received mail!
Single males get slated all the time for starting up threads like this but, no offence to you meant, am sure there will be loads coming in here to support your rant and you will also have other single males come in to say how bad all the other single males on the site are compared to them!
As I already said it happens to everyone on here and if you let it get to you then the site becomes less fun than it is meant to be.
Block them and move on to the next one!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been reading some of the Forums on here and found out that there are a lot of Single Guys complaining about sending mail's and not getting any replys.And as i have put on my Profile"no reply then iam not intrestet".I thought that they mind have a Point,and i sent replys.But have since found out that if you say thanks but no thanks the they tent to get very abusive.As if any single Woman on here will meet every single guy on here.So iam know going back to my old ways and not answer then at all stuff it.
and breathe!
I find there tends to be a lot of forums started moaning about how single males react to getting a no thanks!
It happens to everyone though be they single females, couples and even single males get abusive mails back too!
As always, just my tuppence worth!
Dont get me wrong not moaning here just stating a fact.And i know it happens to a lot of ppl on here.All iam saying is that they should not be suprised if it happens to them.
We could all state facts of what has happened when we have sent or received mail!
Single males get slated all the time for starting up threads like this but, no offence to you meant, am sure there will be loads coming in here to support your rant and you will also have other single males come in to say how bad all the other single males on the site are compared to them!
As I already said it happens to everyone on here and if you let it get to you then the site becomes less fun than it is meant to be.
Block them and move on to the next one!
Again just my tuppence worth! "
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We always reply to all messages with a nice reply but we still get this a fair bit when we say no to couples. It only goes to prove that our no reply was the right thing to do cos we would not want to meet people like that.
As for folks that dont reply to our mails then we just block them so we wont make the same mistake again.
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i think some of the ppl who complain in forums they dont get replies or meets are just going for the sympathy angle ! unfortunatly they find to their cost it dont work and just makes them look whingey and desparate . if they look back over the numerous posts on the sujects and the frequently ask q and a s they would soon see that most ppl know to just suck it up and move on !!!!
if ppl arent interested for what ever reason THEN THEY AINT INTERESTED .why waste time looking for motives and the whys and where fores ... lifes short and use your energies on the folks who are interested x |
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ideally everyone would be able to use this site exactly as they wish without moans and groans and endless threads blaming everyone else for everything else....
...as far as i'm concerned, I have no obligations to anyone but myself here, aside from any potential meet that is. It might sound selfish, but everyone has a life outside here and I can't be responsible for other peoples feelings and that by no means is meant to sound malicious.
I refuse to be offended by the odd few that think it's ok to attack me because they can't understand that i don't have the time, and quite frankly, the inclination to respond to every message I receive and hope that those I don't respond to realise it's not through ignorance and are equally not offended.
It is an individuals choice to send a message and the receiver does not ask for it. it is therefore their choice as to whether they respond or not.
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the double standards within this forum never ceases to amaze me.
when single guys voice there discontent they are lambasted as whingers and moaners.
when single women or couples do the same they seem to be applauded at champions of the cause.
not all single guys act in the same way, which i personally think is deplorable, yet we all appear to be tarred with the same brush.
i find it very offensive when couples have on their profile, 'not looking for single guys, we know where to find you when we want you'. i was messaged by one such couple, told them not looking just now but i know where to find you when i need you. i received an extremely abusive response ending how rude to say something like that. to which i replied i cut and pasted it from your profile
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By (user no longer on site)
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"the double standards within this forum never ceases to amaze me.
when single guys voice there discontent they are lambasted as whingers and moaners.
when single women or couples do the same they seem to be applauded at champions of the cause.
not all single guys act in the same way, which i personally think is deplorable, yet we all appear to be tarred with the same brush.
i find it very offensive when couples have on their profile, 'not looking for single guys, we know where to find you when we want you'. i was messaged by one such couple, told them not looking just now but i know where to find you when i need you. i received an extremely abusive response ending how rude to say something like that. to which i replied i cut and pasted it from your profile
double standards "
Quite agree with you.
I don't see why it's necessary for anyone to post after receiving an unfavourable message - we all get them and yes, single men do get it in the neck.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i find it very offensive when couples have on their profile, 'not looking for single guys, we know where to find you when we want you'. i was messaged by one such couple, told them not looking just now but i know where to find you when i need you. i received an extremely abusive response ending how rude to say something like that. to which i replied i cut and pasted it from your profile
double standards "
That's priceless! What was their response to that?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ideally everyone would be able to use this site exactly as they wish without moans and groans and endless threads blaming everyone else for everything else....
...as far as i'm concerned, I have no obligations to anyone but myself here, aside from any potential meet that is. It might sound selfish, but everyone has a life outside here and I can't be responsible for other peoples feelings and that by no means is meant to sound malicious.
I refuse to be offended by the odd few that think it's ok to attack me because they can't understand that i don't have the time, and quite frankly, the inclination to respond to every message I receive and hope that those I don't respond to realise it's not through ignorance and are equally not offended.
It is an individuals choice to send a message and the receiver does not ask for it. it is therefore their choice as to whether they respond or not.
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Sadly some people have nothing better to do than look for something to moan about, trawl through profiles looking for something to take a dig at etc.
I'm jealous...wish moaning about what people do or don't do on a sex site was the sum total of my worries!!!  |
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"i find it very offensive when couples have on their profile, 'not looking for single guys, we know where to find you when we want you'. i was messaged by one such couple, told them not looking just now but i know where to find you when i need you. i received an extremely abusive response ending how rude to say something like that. to which i replied i cut and pasted it from your profile
double standards
That's priceless! What was their response to that?? "
they blocked me lmao no sense of humour |
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