Whatever your body can manage,, if your comfortable with it, and I take it for granted that you practice safe sex,,, then why not,,, your body will let you know when you need to stop xxx |
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If it were me then i would stop. No condoms guarantee to prevent any std's 100% and some can cause serious birth problems/miscarriage etc, to me that wouldn't be worth the risk, after all it's only 9 months or so not the rest of your life. |
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"If it were me then i would stop. No condoms guarantee to prevent any std's 100% and some can cause serious birth problems/miscarriage etc, to me that wouldn't be worth the risk, after all it's only 9 months or so not the rest of your life. "
Exactly this 
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"If it were me then i would stop. No condoms guarantee to prevent any std's 100% and some can cause serious birth problems/miscarriage etc, to me that wouldn't be worth the risk, after all it's only 9 months or so not the rest of your life. "
This. No way could I put an unborn child at risk.
You could both still soft swing with others and have sex with your partner. |
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Do what is right for you. Whatever you decide to do does not make you a bad person.
and enjoy the time as trust me it is gone so quick..and then the bundle is there.. and time to enjoy that side of life is really on hold for a bit. |
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I don't think I could look my baby properly in the face, knowing I had put her/ him at risk to be fair.
So no I wouldn't, no shag would be worth my baby.
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"I don't think I could look my baby properly in the face, knowing I had put her/ him at risk to be fair.
So no I wouldn't, no shag would be worth my baby.
Her"
Good on you hun , the right decision hope all goes well for you and baby  |
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Being pregnant was a special time for my husband and I. He got rid of our cat because he heard cat faeces was harmful to pregnant women. I didn't eat soft cheeses etc, I avoided anything that could cause potential harm to my unborn child.
Sex with my husband was special and magical: I couldn't imagine sharing that with a random stranger or asking random strangers what they thought...but each to their own. |
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"I don't think I could look my baby properly in the face, knowing I had put her/ him at risk to be fair.
So no I wouldn't, no shag would be worth my baby.
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Good on you hun , the right decision hope all goes well for you and baby "
Ha ha I'm not pregnant, just a point of _iew
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"If it were me then i would stop. No condoms guarantee to prevent any std's 100% and some can cause serious birth problems/miscarriage etc, to me that wouldn't be worth the risk, after all it's only 9 months or so not the rest of your life.
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"Being pregnant was a special time for my husband and I. He got rid of our cat because he heard cat faeces was harmful to pregnant women. I didn't eat soft cheeses etc, I avoided anything that could cause potential harm to my unborn child.
Sex with my husband was special and magical: I couldn't imagine sharing that with a random stranger or asking random strangers what they thought...but each to their own. "
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Its not something i would have done
having sex with someone and the condom coming off, you transmitting an sti to you child, which can lead to several defects in fetuses maybe a 1 in a million chance but them odds are still to high for me |
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Personally I believe a baby is sacred something you have been lucky to be blessed with. There is nothing that I would do that would harm my baby if I was lucky enough to be in your situation.
Take this time to enjoy time with your husband/partner as afterwards you may not be able to enjoy that time together for some time |
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I wasn't on the swinging scene when i was pregnant. The truth is, I'm not sure what i would've decided to do had i been. Sex with others always carries risks, we all know and accept that. Sex during pregnancy can carry other risks like more frequent UTIs, the risk that someone you meet isn't gentle and therefore causes you or the baby harm, etc. The question i would have had to ask myself very frankly would've been, if something goes wrong how will i face myself.
Only you can make the decision that is best for you as a couple. Talk to each other and reach the decision together. The hormones will be manageable, whatever you decide to do. |
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I'm currently 33 weeks pregnant, there's no chance I would've wanted to sleep with strangers and put my child's life at risk.
Each to their own but my baby comes first. |
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Everyone has an opinion on whether or not pregnant omen should swing. Personally I find pregnant women incredibly sexy, and would be thrilled at the chance to enjoy sex with such a woman - of course, the problem is they're rarely single or meeting alone, and I've no interest in couples. |
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