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Just curious....
I read loads of times on ladies profiles that they have so much mail/messages to wade through.
Could someone give me an idea of how much mail/messages you women get in any said day.
Obviously, some will get more than others, but it would be interesting to see what numbers are being talked about.
The difference between: The Hunted v The Hunter.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On average about 10 a day.. like the other post if we go in chat a.lot more.and.can take all night to sift through along with the nunerous.winks and friend requests when in chat x |
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over a year ago
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"Ok...thanks for that. A lot less than I imagined. The way some speak, its as if they need all night to go through their messages.
Possibly highly inflated egos?"
I think if women put a new pic or meet request up, they get tons |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok...thanks for that. A lot less than I imagined. The way some speak, its as if they need all night to go through their messages.
Possibly highly inflated egos?"
I had a single female profile for a while...I had no pictures up and no profile text., I still got winks and messages...out of curiosity I put up a meet today, I got 120 messages in an hour...couldn't count the winks, they filled up as quickly as I could delete them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok...thanks for that. A lot less than I imagined. The way some speak, its as if they need all night to go through their messages.
Possibly highly inflated egos?"
ffs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I first joined 500 in an afternoon. Ridiculous! Before I set filters. Now between 20-30 a day.(mostly oneliners) Still don't reply if they havent read profile tho. I'm more than capable of doing the hunting and am more successful because I know what i want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends. If you change your status or add a pic, it spikes. I've just come back yesterday after hiding my profile for almost a year and I've currently 48 unread messages. I've only read the ones that interested me. It's because I'm 'new'. I suspect that next week I'll have none!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok...thanks for that. A lot less than I imagined. The way some speak, its as if they need all night to go through their messages.
Possibly highly inflated egos? ffs "
Why 'ffs'? It seems a fair question to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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as few as 7 or 8, as many as 50 odd depending what Ive said on forae, on my status or what pic I've posted. This is from previously uncontacted people, not my normal "traffic". Once I clear out all the F.A.F brigade, the numbers drop dramatically  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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After my latest photos went up I got a couple of hundred on some days.
Generally it depends how much I am online. If I am online only a little I get maybe 20 but if I'm online more, I get more because men see me in the 'now online' thingy and message.
If I am on late at night/in the early hours of the morning, I get loads. |
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"Most of the messages i send are just comments on status updates,
To friends a few of my hotlist and the odd local update"
If someone adds you to their hot list...do you get notified. Likewise, with fab photos? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting to see much talk of filters....presumably most men have them wide open.
Honest replies...a lot less than I imagined."
You'll find those that complain about having too many love the attention otherwise they would do something about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i dont know why and i am certainly not big headed but i do get anywhere between 100-200 sometimes more a day, i dont have filters on, i dont use chat rooms. friday is usually the quietest day where sunday is always the day i get the most messages  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Interesting to see much talk of filters....presumably most men have them wide open.
Honest replies...a lot less than I imagined.
You'll find those that complain about having too many love the attention otherwise they would do something about it."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Living in a highly populated area I can get pages of messages from new men IF I allow men of all ages to message me. I chop and change my age range frequently |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Living in a highly populated area I can get pages of messages from new men IF I allow men of all ages to message me. I chop and change my age range frequently "
I got a lot, a lot lot, more when I lived in Hampshire than I do now I live in the back of beyond. |
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over a year ago
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I have my filters set and probably get 30-40 messages a day, if I add a photo then that goes up a lot. I have been here a few times and the first time I deleted my profile within an hour as I had over 100 messages in that time and that was without a pic or anything wrote on my profile |
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"Living in a highly populated area I can get pages of messages from new men IF I allow men of all ages to message me. I chop and change my age range frequently
I got a lot, a lot lot, more when I lived in Hampshire than I do now I live in the back of beyond."
Hampshire IS the back of beyond. You are now in the front of beyond! |
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"Living in a highly populated area I can get pages of messages from new men IF I allow men of all ages to message me. I chop and change my age range frequently
I got a lot, a lot lot, more when I lived in Hampshire than I do now I live in the back of beyond.
Hampshire IS the back of beyond. You are now in the front of beyond!"
Wiltshire is even worse.... |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Living in a highly populated area I can get pages of messages from new men IF I allow men of all ages to message me. I chop and change my age range frequently
I got a lot, a lot lot, more when I lived in Hampshire than I do now I live in the back of beyond.
Hampshire IS the back of beyond. You are now in the front of beyond!"
No, North Hampshire, where I was, was a lot closer to London and Birmingham than I am now, both of which are great for clubs.
Being more central meant more people were a reasonable distance away.
The nearest club to me now is 90 miles. |
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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago
Bedworth |
Before I set filters to stop messages from everyone I used to get an average of about 100 messages a day, most of them from single guys. Most of the messages had very little content and would just be mass deleted.
I don't often add new pics, have never used the meet section but did use chat a lot. I presume my use of chat lead to a lot of the messages I used to get. |
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"Living in a highly populated area I can get pages of messages from new men IF I allow men of all ages to message me. I chop and change my age range frequently
I got a lot, a lot lot, more when I lived in Hampshire than I do now I live in the back of beyond.
Hampshire IS the back of beyond. You are now in the front of beyond!
Wiltshire is even worse...."
....now, lets not fight about it! Could be worse....Shetland, for example. lol
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
"i dont know why and i am certainly not big headed but i do get anywhere between 100-200 sometimes more a day, i dont have filters on, i dont use chat rooms. friday is usually the quietest day where sunday is always the day i get the most messages "
If you dont have filters on your status update will show on the update for everyone who meets your 'Looking for' criteria so that might be one reason why |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most of the messages i send are just comments on status updates,
To friends a few of my hotlist and the odd local update
If someone adds you to their hot list...do you get notified. Likewise, with fab photos?"
You don't know who have added you to their hot list unless they tell you,
If your pics have been fabbed it shows |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok...thanks for that. A lot less than I imagined. The way some speak, its as if they need all night to go through their messages.
Possibly highly inflated egos? ffs
Why 'ffs'? It seems a fair question to me"
highly inflated egos ? |
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"Ok...thanks for that. A lot less than I imagined. The way some speak, its as if they need all night to go through their messages.
Possibly highly inflated egos? ffs
Why 'ffs'? It seems a fair question to me highly inflated egos ?"
Im not being facetious...you probably dont look at many female profiles, butany have on their status things like "Sorry..not been able to reply to all my messages, got hundreds!". Why not just say ...."cant be bovvered!" |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
"Ok...thanks for that. A lot less than I imagined. The way some speak, its as if they need all night to go through their messages.
Possibly highly inflated egos? ffs
Why 'ffs'? It seems a fair question to me highly inflated egos ?
Im not being facetious...you probably dont look at many female profiles, butany have on their status things like "Sorry..not been able to reply to all my messages, got hundreds!". Why not just say ...."cant be bovvered!""
Its been said above...if women are new, or go into chat, or go on cam, or are logged on for a long time or especially late at night, post new pics, dont have filters sent, have 'Im gagging for it' profiles and statuses then they quite possibly do get so many messages.
Women who use their filters and have a more low key profile etc tend not to get quite as many messages.
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"Ok...thanks for that. A lot less than I imagined. The way some speak, its as if they need all night to go through their messages.
Possibly highly inflated egos? ffs
Why 'ffs'? It seems a fair question to me highly inflated egos ?
Im not being facetious...you probably dont look at many female profiles, butany have on their status things like "Sorry..not been able to reply to all my messages, got hundreds!". Why not just say ...."cant be bovvered!""
It's not always about being bothered. If I leave my messages for a couple of days I can have 60-80messages. Most of them are probably going to be one liners so sometimes it's easier to just mass delete and start again |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"Barely any. "
To be fair, you appear in my searches a lot because of your proximity to me and your profile is pretty specific, which , I imagine is a good thing because you are (hopefully) spared the gazillions of messages from fellers who are just not what you are looking for. |
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over a year ago
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"Barely any.
To be fair, you appear in my searches a lot because of your proximity to me and your profile is pretty specific, which , I imagine is a good thing because you are (hopefully) spared the gazillions of messages from fellers who are just not what you are looking for. "
I wasn't complaining.....I think it's proof that single guys do read profiles too! |
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"Barely any.
To be fair, you appear in my searches a lot because of your proximity to me and your profile is pretty specific, which , I imagine is a good thing because you are (hopefully) spared the gazillions of messages from fellers who are just not what you are looking for.
I wasn't complaining.....I think it's proof that single guys do read profiles too!"
Great point....single guys do read profiles, as do women, couples, TVs etc. My point is also that if women boast that they have too much mail, they should at least have the courtesy to read them, and if not, at least acknowledge them. A blunt one line is SOOO much more preferable than no line!
Not saying that is what you do...but there are many who do. |
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"Barely any.
To be fair, you appear in my searches a lot because of your proximity to me and your profile is pretty specific, which , I imagine is a good thing because you are (hopefully) spared the gazillions of messages from fellers who are just not what you are looking for.
I wasn't complaining.....I think it's proof that single guys do read profiles too!
Great point....single guys do read profiles, as do women, couples, TVs etc. My point is also that if women boast that they have too much mail, they should at least have the courtesy to read them, and if not, at least acknowledge them. A blunt one line is SOOO much more preferable than no line!
Not saying that is what you do...but there are many who do."
Nobody is entitled to a reply. It is in the faq that no reply means they are not interested. I run my profile to please me. Nobody else! Even if you say 'thanks not intetested' you are opening up a line of communication thay some see as interest. And as for the abuse that rejection brings out in some people I think the site owners have got it right. |
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"Barely any.
To be fair, you appear in my searches a lot because of your proximity to me and your profile is pretty specific, which , I imagine is a good thing because you are (hopefully) spared the gazillions of messages from fellers who are just not what you are looking for.
I wasn't complaining.....I think it's proof that single guys do read profiles too!
Great point....single guys do read profiles, as do women, couples, TVs etc. My point is also that if women boast that they have too much mail, they should at least have the courtesy to read them, and if not, at least acknowledge them. A blunt one line is SOOO much more preferable than no line!
Not saying that is what you do...but there are many who do.
Nobody is entitled to a reply. It is in the faq that no reply means they are not interested. I run my profile to please me. Nobody else! Even if you say 'thanks not intetested' you are opening up a line of communication thay some see as interest. And as for the abuse that rejection brings out in some people I think the site owners have got it right."
Valid point well made. Basic self policing I assume. Thanks for making that clear. I understand the protocol clearer now. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Barely any.
To be fair, you appear in my searches a lot because of your proximity to me and your profile is pretty specific, which , I imagine is a good thing because you are (hopefully) spared the gazillions of messages from fellers who are just not what you are looking for.
I wasn't complaining.....I think it's proof that single guys do read profiles too!
Great point....single guys do read profiles, as do women, couples, TVs etc. My point is also that if women boast that they have too much mail, they should at least have the courtesy to read them, and if not, at least acknowledge them. A blunt one line is SOOO much more preferable than no line!
Not saying that is what you do...but there are many who do.
Nobody is entitled to a reply. It is in the faq that no reply means they are not interested. I run my profile to please me. Nobody else! Even if you say 'thanks not intetested' you are opening up a line of communication thay some see as interest. And as for the abuse that rejection brings out in some people I think the site owners have got it right.
Valid point well made. Basic self policing I assume. Thanks for making that clear. I understand the protocol clearer now. "
Plus once you have answered the red warning that you have messaged before disappears so those that send the same message several times don't even get that to deter them.
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"Just curious....
I read loads of times on ladies profiles that they have so much mail/messages to wade through.
Could someone give me an idea of how much mail/messages you women get in any said day.
Obviously, some will get more than others, but it would be interesting to see what numbers are being talked about.
The difference between: The Hunted v The Hunter.
Thanks "
It depends on the time of day but one a minute while on line after 11pm isn't uncommon. |
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"Just curious....
I read loads of times on ladies profiles that they have so much mail/messages to wade through.
Could someone give me an idea of how much mail/messages you women get in any said day.
Obviously, some will get more than others, but it would be interesting to see what numbers are being talked about.
The difference between: The Hunted v The Hunter.
Thanks
It depends on the time of day but one a minute while on line after 11pm isn't uncommon."
Wow! Do you need a P.A? |
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"Just curious....
I read loads of times on ladies profiles that they have so much mail/messages to wade through.
Could someone give me an idea of how much mail/messages you women get in any said day.
Obviously, some will get more than others, but it would be interesting to see what numbers are being talked about.
The difference between: The Hunted v The Hunter.
Thanks
It depends on the time of day but one a minute while on line after 11pm isn't uncommon."
Bloody hell.......I feel like a completetly unattractive minger now     |
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"I think it has to be acknowledged that some on here have no interest in using filters and then like to complain about how much mail they recieve."
^^^^ this
I have age, gender, newbies, no pics (think that's all) filtered...
I get on average about 20 mails a day, but don't complain about them... I either reply to them or delete them. It's really not difficult.
When I add new pics, display a new veri or post a meet this multiplies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends on how active I am on the site. Tonight I have been on it abit so I've had 30+ messages from 6 separate F's or couples.
I don't know what I'd do if I got 100+ Separate messages in 1 day. ...probably punch the sky and start reading.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Average 30 on a normal day but if i update my status around 60. If i say im going on skype or upload a new pic probably 100 or more. Especially at the weekends. Any dick profile pics are immediately deleted. |
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"Not a women but my best is 83 "
Given the nature and reputation of this site and how single guys get such a hard time, cant help but think your numbers may be just a little exaggerated??
Could be wrong ... but doubtful lol |
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over a year ago
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"I think it has to be acknowledged that some on here have no interest in using filters and then like to complain about how much mail they recieve."
ain't that the truth lol My age range is very narrow, I have most filters in place plus I live in a remote area so I get on average about 5 a day. |
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"Just curious....
I read loads of times on ladies profiles that they have so much mail/messages to wade through.
Could someone give me an idea of how much mail/messages you women get in any said day.
Obviously, some will get more than others, but it would be interesting to see what numbers are being talked about.
The difference between: The Hunted v The Hunter.
Thanks
It depends on the time of day but one a minute while on line after 11pm isn't uncommon.
Bloody hell.......I feel like a completetly unattractive minger now "
Exactly....what does that say about us blokes! (The No Mail Male!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just curious....
I read loads of times on ladies profiles that they have so much mail/messages to wade through.
Could someone give me an idea of how much mail/messages you women get in any said day.
Obviously, some will get more than others, but it would be interesting to see what numbers are being talked about.
The difference between: The Hunted v The Hunter.
Thanks
It depends on the time of day but one a minute while on line after 11pm isn't uncommon.
Bloody hell.......I feel like a completetly unattractive minger now
Exactly....what does that say about us blokes! (The No Mail Male!)"
I think it says that there are alot of blokes in here that are so desparate for a shag they are mailing any female in their area. Single fems complain about it all the time. Come on guys its not rocket science! Read profiles. Are you remotely what shes looking for? Is she what your looking for? Then message away. Catch our eye. If not you have wasted your time. Nobody elses. Id rather receive one message a week from somesone who is close to what I want than an in box full of crap. Until then filters on and I'll do my own searching. |
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"Just curious....
I read loads of times on ladies profiles that they have so much mail/messages to wade through.
Could someone give me an idea of how much mail/messages you women get in any said day.
Obviously, some will get more than others, but it would be interesting to see what numbers are being talked about.
The difference between: The Hunted v The Hunter.
Thanks
It depends on the time of day but one a minute while on line after 11pm isn't uncommon.
Bloody hell.......I feel like a completetly unattractive minger now
Exactly....what does that say about us blokes! (The No Mail Male!)
I think it says that there are alot of blokes in here that are so desparate for a shag they are mailing any female in their area. Single fems complain about it all the time. Come on guys its not rocket science! Read profiles. Are you remotely what shes looking for? Is she what your looking for? Then message away. Catch our eye. If not you have wasted your time. Nobody elses. Id rather receive one message a week from somesone who is close to what I want than an in box full of crap. Until then filters on and I'll do my own searching."
Yeah...I kind of have the same problem. For some reason I have requests from TVs and gay blokes on a frequent basis. The usual quip..."I know you want to..." or " Every guy tries it once". Aaaarrgghh! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It varies massively depending on whether you've just added a status or new pics. I had a few photos in the most fabbed last week and got about 400 in a day. But if I haven't done anything new then probably 20-30. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"I think it has to be acknowledged that some on here have no interest in using filters and then like to complain about how much mail they recieve."
Yup. When I first signed up I was unaware of filters and had over 300 messages. It was ridiculous as 99.9% were of no interest.
Once I carefully rewrote my profile and sorted filters it dropped to mostly single figures.
New pics, status or posting an ad boosts those numbers. But it's still manageable. |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
Pleasuretown |
"Just curious....
I read loads of times on ladies profiles that they have so much mail/messages to wade through.
Could someone give me an idea of how much mail/messages you women get in any said day.
Obviously, some will get more than others, but it would be interesting to see what numbers are being talked about.
The difference between: The Hunted v The Hunter.
Thanks "
Roughly 30+ a day, much more on weekends/peak times |
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"Ok...thanks for that. A lot less than I imagined. The way some speak, its as if they need all night to go through their messages.
Possibly highly inflated egos?"
I can get 30+ if I were to answer them all it would take hrs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get about 5 new people contact me a day. I usually get a new couple message me every other day and a message from a single lady once a week.
As everyone else says though; if I post some new pics the messages will jump to crazy levels. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
I've just come home after a night away so not been on Fab for over 24 hours and I had 3 messages, all off existing friends...mind you, I've been on here a few years and have my filters set quite tight plus I live in the middle of nowhere, there's not a huge amount of local swingers and I'm either related or have already shagged them (or possibly both ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It depends on how active I am on the site. Tonight I have been on it abit so I've had 30+ messages from 6 separate F's or couples.
I don't know what I'd do if I got 100+ Separate messages in 1 day. ...probably punch the sky and start reading. "
ur a lucky fella i get about 1 or 2 new aday lol |
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"I've just come home after a night away so not been on Fab for over 24 hours and I had 3 messages, all off existing friends...mind you, I've been on here a few years and have my filters set quite tight plus I live in the middle of nowhere, there's not a huge amount of local swingers and I'm either related or have already shagged them (or possibly both )"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine really vary. I've set my filters quite tightly and also block newbies I know I'm not going to want to meet. It saves both them and me time that way. However, regardless of the number of messages I receive per day, there's still not enough days in a week to meet the fellas I'd like to. I'm not complaining one bit though. |
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"I've just come home after a night away so not been on Fab for over 24 hours and I had 3 messages, all off existing friends...mind you, I've been on here a few years and have my filters set quite tight plus I live in the middle of nowhere, there's not a huge amount of local swingers and I'm either related or have already shagged them (or possibly both )
Tart "
Funny as.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Obviously there are ways to increase your messages, a woman who has many pussy pics, combined with blow job and action pics, who goes on cam in chat and sticks a dildo up her ass and then invites all guy to tell her what they'd like to do to her, will have many more messages than a woman who has shoe pics up and has strict filters set.
Messages have nothing to do with looks or popularity, when a guy has a hard dick he will message those he may get some kind of relief from |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get around 20-30 a day...I daren't take my filters off!!!
I took mine off cos I was off work and bored. NEVER again!!
What happened "
Inundated and the abuse when you don't reply. Jeez! Like I'm gonna reply to numpties who dont read lol. It was like being a newbie all over again. I think that maybe the problem why there are so few women compared to men on here. New women sign up, get bombared with messages and dont know the site well enough, filters etc, and so leave over whelmed . Shame really. |
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"Obviously there are ways to increase your messages, a woman who has many pussy pics, combined with blow job and action pics, who goes on cam in chat and sticks a dildo up her ass and then invites all guy to tell her what they'd like to do to her, will have many more messages than a woman who has shoe pics up and has strict filters set.
Messages have nothing to do with looks or popularity, when a guy has a hard dick he will message those he may get some kind of relief from "
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Inundated and the abuse when you don't reply. Jeez! Like I'm gonna reply to numpties who dont read lol. It was like being a newbie all over again. I think that maybe the problem why there are so few women compared to men on here. New women sign up, get bombared with messages and dont know the site well enough, filters etc, and so leave over whelmed . Shame really."
I couldn't agree more |
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"Inundated and the abuse when you don't reply. Jeez! Like I'm gonna reply to numpties who dont read lol. It was like being a newbie all over again. I think that maybe the problem why there are so few women compared to men on here. New women sign up, get bombared with messages and dont know the site well enough, filters etc, and so leave over whelmed . Shame really."
I've said before that all filters should automatically be active when people sign up and you should select who you want to message you as part of the sign up process. |
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"Inundated and the abuse when you don't reply. Jeez! Like I'm gonna reply to numpties who dont read lol. It was like being a newbie all over again. I think that maybe the problem why there are so few women compared to men on here. New women sign up, get bombared with messages and dont know the site well enough, filters etc, and so leave over whelmed . Shame really.
I've said before that all filters should automatically be active when people sign up and you should select who you want to message you as part of the sign up process."
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"Inundated and the abuse when you don't reply. Jeez! Like I'm gonna reply to numpties who dont read lol. It was like being a newbie all over again. I think that maybe the problem why there are so few women compared to men on here. New women sign up, get bombared with messages and dont know the site well enough, filters etc, and so leave over whelmed . Shame really.
I've said before that all filters should automatically be active when people sign up and you should select who you want to message you as part of the sign up process."
That is a really good idea. May address the problem of people pouncing on newbies. |
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"I get around 20-30 a day...I daren't take my filters off!!!
I took mine off cos I was off work and bored. NEVER again!!
What happened
Inundated and the abuse when you don't reply. Jeez! Like I'm gonna reply to numpties who dont read lol. It was like being a newbie all over again. I think that maybe the problem why there are so few women compared to men on here. New women sign up, get bombared with messages and dont know the site well enough, filters etc, and so leave over whelmed . Shame really."
yeah, i found that when i came back (i deleted my old profile)  |
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"Inundated and the abuse when you don't reply. Jeez! Like I'm gonna reply to numpties who dont read lol. It was like being a newbie all over again. I think that maybe the problem why there are so few women compared to men on here. New women sign up, get bombared with messages and dont know the site well enough, filters etc, and so leave over whelmed . Shame really.
I've said before that all filters should automatically be active when people sign up and you should select who you want to message you as part of the sign up process.
That is a really good idea. May address the problem of people pouncing on newbies."
Pfft....nobody pounced on me! |
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