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By *-and-K OP Couple
over a year ago
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Our last party there were two ladies really having a snogfest with each other, the really intimate snogging that you normally get between partners.
Now here's the thing, Karen who has had sex with them both, then and in the past, cannot bring herself to kiss another woman intimately. She will go down on them, use toys, masturbate them and of course have it returned as well. But she won't kiss a woman, she feels it is 'wrong'
So in her eyes she is not bi-sexual because she won't do this. So what is everyone eles's take on this? what constitutes being bi-sexual, is it the act of sex or the more intimate contact? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds bisexual to me, as for the kissing, she’s not alone, there’s a good few people within the swinging scene who don’t do kissing full stop, even with opposite sexes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yeah bi-playful or funsexual are better terms i think, being a male i dont fancy other guys nor do they turn me on unless im in an actual sexual situation with them then i have loads of fun (not a kisser though). Lolly however does go the full hog when with girls and she needs to fany them to have fun with them so she will do passionate kissing and alot more. We both class ourselves as bi because theres no other term to use |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yeah bi-playful or funsexual are better terms i think, being a male i dont fancy other guys nor do they turn me on unless im in an actual sexual situation with them then i have loads of fun (not a kisser though). Lolly however does go the full hog when with girls and she needs to fany them to have fun with them so she will do passionate kissing and alot more. We both class ourselves as bi because theres no other term to use "
Lol spot the type o there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who cares if she's bi- or not? Why the need to put a label on someone?
We already have straight, gay, bisexual, bi-curious, transvestite, transgender, transexual...probably not much need to add any more as you'll end up with a list a mile long depending on if someone kisses someone of the same sex or not but they'll go down on them, or another name for someone who does everything, someone who'll only do oral etc.
Basically, if everyone is having a ball, why compartmentalise?
To answer the original OP though...yeah, that would make her bisexual in my book! Lol!  Your sexuallity isn't defined by whether you kiss someone or not, its whether you're physically attracted t members of the opposite sex or not and I can't imagine Mrs. OP having oral and intercourse with another woman if she wasn't attracted to them.
You've got yourself a Bi-one there!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sounds bisexual to me, as for the kissing, she’s not alone, there’s a good few people within the swinging scene who don’t do kissing full stop, even with opposite sexes. "
Yep, agree with you.
I have a friend who will rim another man, suck his cock have anal sex and not bat an eyelid but the thought of kissing another man turns his stomach...funny thing human psychi - lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You get a badge and everything if you complete ' bi sexual' exam you know
I have seen and met so many different women who say they are bi sexual when they aren't .... so I just say be who you are without needing clarification of what enjoying sexual encounters with others labels you. (it makes sense to me lol ) |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Who cares if she's bi- or not? Why the need to put a label on someone?
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Because if we don't have labels, no one would know what you were looking for or what sexuality you are, and it would take a fecking age going through everyones profiles and mailing them to ask.
People already moan about not having replies to their mails, imagine what it would be like then !
I like the labels, it tells us what we want to know |
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"Who cares if she's bi- or not? Why the need to put a label on someone?
Because if we don't have labels, no one would know what you were looking for or what sexuality you are, and it would take a fecking age going through everyones profiles and mailing them to ask.
People already moan about not having replies to their mails, imagine what it would be like then !
I like the labels, it tells us what we want to know "
Looks on the back of my neck to check my label.....it says 'seconds'.....doh! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine says rugby does mfm incase I get lost  "
rugby does mfm is more of an instruction than a label isn't it?
Just in case we're at a swinger's party and then I can check your tag so what you do - and hey presto, whip you off to a quite room eh?  |
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By *-and-K OP Couple
over a year ago
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well after having read some very interesting answers here's my personal view.....
As long as she (and I) are having sexual fun and enjoying it, does it really matter?
I find it odd though that some people (not those posted here) stipulate 'Bi' when they have really no idea what it is that they are asking for!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think especially in my case chemistry dictates to what you do and how far you do it, whether it be kissing or anything else. but to me kissing is a necessary part of foreplay to me with either sex |
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