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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago
London |
Friends who know me, they know what I'm about. Most of my meets i tend not to do the money shot. For myself its not the be and the end all of it. I enjoy giving pleasure.
But when asked 'well, what about you' and i reply I'm ok, i tend to get the daggers of what, are we not good enough. (especially if its a couple, from hubby)
I was asked by a lady yesterday the very said question.
So I'm asking, 'am i short changing my meets by not showing them the proof that I've had a blinding time? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I rarely came when I did meets. It was not disrespectful but hey, if people took umbrage... their issue."
View, I'm so glad you posted as I had no idea what 'the money shot' meant  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can I ask you a question? Do you masturbate before meets? I think a lot of men do this for the appearance of stamina. Personally I like bringing another to climax but I don't think you ate "short changing" anyone if you don't. I do think it is nice that you care what people think. I will be honest and say that I would be disappointed if I did not make Westy cum but not overly sensitive about a plus one. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"No, I rarely came when I did meets. It was not disrespectful but hey, if people took umbrage... their issue.
View, I'm so glad you posted as I had no idea what 'the money shot' meant "
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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago
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"No, I rarely came when I did meets. It was not disrespectful but hey, if people took umbrage... their issue.
View, I'm so glad you posted as I had no idea what 'the money shot' meant "
lol the money shot comes from the porn industry
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I rarely came when I did meets. It was not disrespectful but hey, if people took umbrage... their issue.
View, I'm so glad you posted as I had no idea what 'the money shot' meant
lol the money shot comes from the porn industry
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Well I wouldn't know about that   I just thought you didn't carry money with you on meets  |
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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago
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"Can I ask you a question? Do you masturbate before meets? I think a lot of men do this for the appearance of stamina. Personally I like bringing another to climax but I don't think you ate "short changing" anyone if you don't. I do think it is nice that you care what people think. I will be honest and say that I would be disappointed if I did not make Westy cum but not overly sensitive about a plus one."
No i don't knock one out before meets
I was in my late twenties when i realised how much i enjoyed been at the cusp of the money shot, sorry i mean cumming
After cumming there's nothing left apart from having a fag and watching the mighty spurs down the pub. |
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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago
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"Can I ask you a question? Do you masturbate before meets? I think a lot of men do this for the appearance of stamina. Personally I like bringing another to climax but I don't think you ate "short changing" anyone if you don't. I do think it is nice that you care what people think. I will be honest and say that I would be disappointed if I did not make Westy cum but not overly sensitive about a plus one."
I'm intrigued what are your thoughts on him not Cumming.
i know that not all woman can cum. So its never been the end of the world for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I ask you a question? Do you masturbate before meets? I think a lot of men do this for the appearance of stamina. Personally I like bringing another to climax but I don't think you ate "short changing" anyone if you don't. I do think it is nice that you care what people think. I will be honest and say that I would be disappointed if I did not make Westy cum but not overly sensitive about a plus one.
No i don't knock one out before meets
I was in my late twenties when i realised how much i enjoyed been at the cusp of the money shot, sorry i mean cumming
After cumming there's nothing left apart from having a fag and watching the mighty spurs down the pub."
"Spurs" says it all really
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think you need to cum to have a good meet male or female and I know Paul doesn't come when wearing condoms, so would only come via the bj route on a meet |
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over a year ago
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"Can I ask you a question? Do you masturbate before meets? I think a lot of men do this for the appearance of stamina. Personally I like bringing another to climax but I don't think you ate "short changing" anyone if you don't. I do think it is nice that you care what people think. I will be honest and say that I would be disappointed if I did not make Westy cum but not overly sensitive about a plus one.
I'm intrigued what are your thoughts on him not Cumming.
i know that not all woman can cum. So its never been the end of the world for me "
I guess I feel... rightly or wrongly that I excite him enough to tip him over the edge. I like pleasing him. That may be distasteful for some but for me it gives pleasure. |
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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I don't think you need to cum to have a good meet male or female and I know Paul doesn't come when wearing condoms, so would only come via the bj route on a meet "
But would he decline a offer in coming, as i do and sometimes get the LOOK! |
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"Friends who know me, they know what I'm about. Most of my meets i tend not to do the money shot. For myself its not the be and the end all of it. I enjoy giving pleasure.
But when asked 'well, what about you' and i reply I'm ok, i tend to get the daggers of what, are we not good enough. (especially if its a couple, from hubby)
I was asked by a lady yesterday the very said question.
So I'm asking, 'am i short changing my meets by not showing them the proof that I've had a blinding time?"
I think you are only short changing if you don't mention that you are unlikely to come beforehand. If I knew it was unlikely to happen it wouldn't worry me at all.
It's not someting I can achieve easily myself and I try to mention it now because some gents feel its their duty and I end up feeling inadequate. |
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I don't mind men delaying, it's better than 2 minute wonders...lol.But men coming is part of it, so yes, in my opinion I want men to come when we play. I would feel short changed, show me the money... |
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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago
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"Friends who know me, they know what I'm about. Most of my meets i tend not to do the money shot. For myself its not the be and the end all of it. I enjoy giving pleasure.
But when asked 'well, what about you' and i reply I'm ok, i tend to get the daggers of what, are we not good enough. (especially if its a couple, from hubby)
I was asked by a lady yesterday the very said question.
So I'm asking, 'am i short changing my meets by not showing them the proof that I've had a blinding time?
I think you are only short changing if you don't mention that you are unlikely to come beforehand. If I knew it was unlikely to happen it wouldn't worry me at all.
It's not someting I can achieve easily myself and I try to mention it now because some gents feel its their duty and I end up feeling inadequate."
I hear you, but I've never had a woman say to me once, that she may not come. So maybe i am short changing the meet by not announcing that i may refrain from coming.
Regarding your last statement in civi street most of the woman ive had never came. Butin swingers world there tends to be most woman come 4 times for the night and scream like a banshee.
i suggest you be your self and if you ever cum or squirt marry him lol |
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"Friends who know me, they know what I'm about. Most of my meets i tend not to do the money shot. For myself its not the be and the end all of it. I enjoy giving pleasure.
But when asked 'well, what about you' and i reply I'm ok, i tend to get the daggers of what, are we not good enough. (especially if its a couple, from hubby)
I was asked by a lady yesterday the very said question.
So I'm asking, 'am i short changing my meets by not showing them the proof that I've had a blinding time?
I think you are only short changing if you don't mention that you are unlikely to come beforehand. If I knew it was unlikely to happen it wouldn't worry me at all.
It's not someting I can achieve easily myself and I try to mention it now because some gents feel its their duty and I end up feeling inadequate.
I hear you, but I've never had a woman say to me once, that she may not come. So maybe i am short changing the meet by not announcing that i may refrain from coming.
Regarding your last statement in civi street most of the woman ive had never came. Butin swingers world there tends to be most woman come 4 times for the night and scream like a banshee.
i suggest you be your self and if you ever cum or squirt marry him lol"
Oh I am myself and very happily married to a man with whom I have no difficulty in coming whatsoever. |
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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"As long as I was informed prior to a meet then I could make my own decision whether I wanted to meet the person. I'd be pretty pissed off if they didn't for warn me
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if on the profile or prior to a meet they stipulated that they wanted the man to let off over his wife's breast. I would be going there knowing that they didn't want a man turning up with a bottle of pop to pour over his Mrs.
Then again some man like to see a woman gush, so likewise a man with a bottle of pop dose it for others |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"No, I rarely came when I did meets. It was not disrespectful but hey, if people took umbrage... their issue."
Is that taking cumbrage?
I prefer men not to cum but then I'm an odd bod.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I ask you a question? Do you masturbate before meets? I think a lot of men do this for the appearance of stamina. Personally I like bringing another to climax but I don't think you ate "short changing" anyone if you don't. I do think it is nice that you care what people think. I will be honest and say that I would be disappointed if I did not make Westy cum but not overly sensitive about a plus one.
I'm intrigued what are your thoughts on him not Cumming.
i know that not all woman can cum. So its never been the end of the world for me "
I don't cum on meets but I've never mentioned it. It's not that I can't I just don't want to. If I said something I'd think they would feel self conscious. Do something to take their mind off it. Just do the  face and whip the condom off pretending you did cum.  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Can I ask you a question? Do you masturbate before meets? I think a lot of men do this for the appearance of stamina. Personally I like bringing another to climax but I don't think you ate "short changing" anyone if you don't. I do think it is nice that you care what people think. I will be honest and say that I would be disappointed if I did not make Westy cum but not overly sensitive about a plus one.
I'm intrigued what are your thoughts on him not Cumming.
i know that not all woman can cum. So its never been the end of the world for me
I don't cum on meets but I've never mentioned it. It's not that I can't I just don't want to. If I said something I'd think they would feel self conscious. Do something to take their mind off it. Just do the face and whip the condom off pretending you did cum. "
I'm sure some do that anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can i just ask a question? And that's to the guys.
Why do some think that once you've cum, then that's it and it's time to go home or watch the footy? Why don't you guys cum again?
Personally, i don't think i've ever had a meet where either of us didn't cum. I'm not saying it's the be all and end all...but a climax is sometimes nice.
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Not all of us are repeaters. I used to repeat more easily than I do now - I guess it's an age thing too. These days I need a nap before being able to repeat, but I can delay for literally hours and stay hard. I get pleasure out of the sheer horny kinky fuckery and from being able to continually give pleasure to a partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No i don't knock one out before meets
I was in my late twenties when i realised how much i enjoyed been at the cusp of the money shot, sorry i mean cumming
After cumming there's nothing left apart from having a fag and watching the mighty spurs down the pub."
Omg I'm shocked by this
Spurs......!!!!!!
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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago
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"Can i just ask a question? And that's to the guys.
Why do some think that once you've cum, then that's it and it's time to go home or watch the footy? Why don't you guys cum again?
Personally, i don't think i've ever had a meet where either of us didn't cum. I'm not saying it's the be all and end all...but a climax is sometimes nice.
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As scarletstar says its not that you cant come, its that you don't need/want to. |
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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago
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"Not all of us are repeaters. I used to repeat more easily than I do now - I guess it's an age thing too. These days I need a nap before being able to repeat, but I can delay for literally hours and stay hard. I get pleasure out of the sheer horny kinky fuckery and from being able to continually give pleasure to a partner."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"(Him) I find that if I deliberately delay my orgasm to extend the playing time, then after a while, it can be quite difficult to come until I've had a break"
I've found that too and it make my nuts ache |
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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago
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"hey... long as I orgasm, I wouldn't care if the guy was happy not to "
Your so uncaring
But if we're both happy what's the problem. Some people feel cheated on that there meet never mentioned it in advance, ive been told to fake it and whip the condom off quickly, like others do |
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The journey should always be better than the destination.
I find those that are full of angst and desperate to make everyone involved have an orgasm are missing the fundamental joys of sex where people are immersed in the act.
I'd go as far as saying that holding off a bit heightens arousual and enjoyment.
Depending on HOW people ask a question they could be highlighting their own insecurities.
Aren't there usually bloody good bodily communications and signals from those who have had a bloody good time. Not deliberate ones..... just sweat, smiles , needing a rest etc......
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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago
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"The journey should always be better than the destination.
I find those that are full of angst and desperate to make everyone involved have an orgasm are missing the fundamental joys of sex where people are immersed in the act.
I'd go as far as saying that holding off a bit heightens arousual and enjoyment.
Depending on HOW people ask a question they could be highlighting their own insecurities.
Aren't there usually bloody good bodily communications and signals from those who have had a bloody good time. Not deliberate ones..... just sweat, smiles , needing a rest etc......
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or cramp
Brilliantly put thanks |
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"The journey should always be better than the destination.
I find those that are full of angst and desperate to make everyone involved have an orgasm are missing the fundamental joys of sex where people are immersed in the act.
I'd go as far as saying that holding off a bit heightens arousual and enjoyment.
Depending on HOW people ask a question they could be highlighting their own insecurities.
Aren't there usually bloody good bodily communications and signals from those who have had a bloody good time. Not deliberate ones..... just sweat, smiles , needing a rest etc......
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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago
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"No, I rarely came when I did meets. It was not disrespectful but hey, if people took umbrage... their issue.
View, I'm so glad you posted as I had no idea what 'the money shot' meant "
I wondered too!! |
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