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"Go ppl " I wish I had one. | |||
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"Go ppl I wish I had one. " . I had one and he was the best. I was thinking more on the lines of your kids try but rarely get it right lol | |||
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 a big cuddle n kiss fae my lil 1 willl make my day no need for presents | |||
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"Go ppl I wish I had one. . I had one and he was the best. I was thinking more on the lines of your kids try but rarely get it right lol" im not a father | |||
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"i am a massive daddy's girl, i know that no matter what he is there for me. The Vodofone add nearly makes me cry whenever i see it becuase i know that no matter what he is doing if me or my sisters need him he will walk away from it and be here as soon as he can be i know i am so lucky to have the relationship i have with my dad as a lot of my friends and others that have posted previously on here clearly dont. buying a present of fathers day is so hard becuase nothing i can buy or say or write etc will convey just how much i love and admire my father. (am almost in tears writing this - soppy cow or what lol)" No not a soppy cow a very very lucky little girl xxx | |||
"i am a massive daddy's girl, i know that no matter what he is there for me. The Vodofone add nearly makes me cry whenever i see it becuase i know that no matter what he is doing if me or my sisters need him he will walk away from it and be here as soon as he can be i know i am so lucky to have the relationship i have with my dad as a lot of my friends and others that have posted previously on here clearly dont. buying a present of fathers day is so hard becuase nothing i can buy or say or write etc will convey just how much i love and admire my father. (am almost in tears writing this - soppy cow or what lol)" stop getting so sentimental, you nearly have me in tears now , im pre menstrual and dont need it d'ya hear??!!  | |||
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"i am a massive daddy's girl, i know that no matter what he is there for me. The Vodofone add nearly makes me cry whenever i see it becuase i know that no matter what he is doing if me or my sisters need him he will walk away from it and be here as soon as he can be i know i am so lucky to have the relationship i have with my dad as a lot of my friends and others that have posted previously on here clearly dont. buying a present of fathers day is so hard becuase nothing i can buy or say or write etc will convey just how much i love and admire my father. (am almost in tears writing this - soppy cow or what lol)stop getting so sentimental, you nearly have me in tears now , im pre menstrual and dont need it d'ya hear??!! "i do apologise deary, any way i can make it up to you??? | |||
"i am a massive daddy's girl, i know that no matter what he is there for me. The Vodofone add nearly makes me cry whenever i see it becuase i know that no matter what he is doing if me or my sisters need him he will walk away from it and be here as soon as he can be i know i am so lucky to have the relationship i have with my dad as a lot of my friends and others that have posted previously on here clearly dont. buying a present of fathers day is so hard becuase nothing i can buy or say or write etc will convey just how much i love and admire my father. (am almost in tears writing this - soppy cow or what lol)stop getting so sentimental, you nearly have me in tears now , im pre menstrual and dont need it d'ya hear??!!
i do apologise deary, any way i can make it up to you???"Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm let me think it over a while | |||
"i am a massive daddy's girl, i know that no matter what he is there for me. The Vodofone add nearly makes me cry whenever i see it becuase i know that no matter what he is doing if me or my sisters need him he will walk away from it and be here as soon as he can be i know i am so lucky to have the relationship i have with my dad as a lot of my friends and others that have posted previously on here clearly dont. buying a present of fathers day is so hard becuase nothing i can buy or say or write etc will convey just how much i love and admire my father. (am almost in tears writing this - soppy cow or what lol)stop getting so sentimental, you nearly have me in tears now , im pre menstrual and dont need it d'ya hear??!!
i do apologise deary, any way i can make it up to you???Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm let me think it over a while "dont take too long i have to go out at half seven  | |||
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"When I was a kid growing up I use to get a bit jealous of my friends who always seem to have lovely dads. We left mine when I was five but I still remembered the bad bits that manifested into bad dreams for a lot of years after. As a child you think you are the only one who goes through these 'bad bits' but you're not and in a way that helps. My mum was the best and when she passed 15yrs ago I thought that was the end but the memories of her are still alive and as far as I am concerned she was my mum and dad until the day she died. " | |||
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"i can not remember my dad or mum as i was orphaned when less than six months old,i spent most of my life in an orphanage,when i got to know johns parents,i was so happy that they were so nice to me and have accepted me as there daughter. now i have them to call mum and dad. ". That's lovely mmmm but sad | |||
"i can not remember my dad or mum as i was orphaned when less than six months old,i spent most of my life in an orphanage,when i got to know johns parents,i was so happy that they were so nice to me and have accepted me as there daughter. now i have them to call mum and dad. .
That's lovely mmmm but sad "thank you.nearly crying as i write this! | |||
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My girls are making plans to take their dad out on Sunday: he was a bastard, but miss the old goat! | |||
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"Me and my ex husband hate each other but we do not let that effect our kids they need their dad just as much as they need me and would never dream of moving away from the area as it would be my kids that would suffer," That is the same as I feel. My ex husband left me when my son was 2 and my twin girls were 4 months old, almost 3 years ago now...but no matter what he has done or said in the past to me, I know how much he loves his children and even though it is very hard for me with no family around( being canadian )I have never even considered moving to canada with the kids. | |||
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"i can not remember my dad or mum as i was orphaned when less than six months old,i spent most of my life in an orphanage,when i got to know johns parents,i was so happy that they were so nice to me and have accepted me as there daughter. now i have them to call mum and dad. .
That's lovely mmmm but sad
thank you.nearly crying as i write this!". I didn't want to envoke these personal memories but it seems loads of of us endured a lot of hurt. Sorry Ppl didn't want to upset | |||
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"i am a massive daddy's girl, i know that no matter what he is there for me. The Vodofone add nearly makes me cry whenever i see it becuase i know that no matter what he is doing if me or my sisters need him he will walk away from it and be here as soon as he can be i know i am so lucky to have the relationship i have with my dad as a lot of my friends and others that have posted previously on here clearly dont. buying a present of fathers day is so hard becuase nothing i can buy or say or write etc will convey just how much i love and admire my father. (am almost in tears writing this - soppy cow or what lol)" this advert makes me tearful too, but not because i have a dad who will do that but because it makes me yearn for one who would. Despite everything thats happened up til now there is still that little girl who needs to know her dad is there for her..even though it'll never be like that. i struggle to buy a card too as the words are too painful ..so he gets a jokey one | |||
"I will be taking my dad some flowers xx cherish your dad if you have one x" i'm sorry if my words seem harsh or hurtful and i do appreciate there are many people who would love just five more minutes with their dads ..some people arent born to be dads I guess | |||
"i am a massive daddy's girl, i know that no matter what he is there for me. The Vodofone add nearly makes me cry whenever i see it becuase i know that no matter what he is doing if me or my sisters need him he will walk away from it and be here as soon as he can be i know i am so lucky to have the relationship i have with my dad as a lot of my friends and others that have posted previously on here clearly dont. buying a present of fathers day is so hard becuase nothing i can buy or say or write etc will convey just how much i love and admire my father. (am almost in tears writing this - soppy cow or what lol) this advert makes me tearful too, but not because i have a dad who will do that but because it makes me yearn for one who would. Despite everything thats happened up til now there is still that little girl who needs to know her dad is there for her..even though it'll never be like that. i struggle to buy a card too as the words are too painful ..so he gets a jokey one " It is a good way of acknowledging his presence without feeling you are being disingenuous? | |||
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and OMG that dance with my father record gets me every time !! | |||
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" Dads are for life, not just 20 June." Sadly | |||
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"I will be taking my dad some flowers xx cherish your dad if you have one x i'm sorry if my words seem harsh or hurtful and i do appreciate there are many people who would love just five more minutes with their dads ..some people arent born to be dads I guess " Your words are how you see it with your dad Sprite, so don't apologise for it x | |||
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The person who said any man can be a father it takes someone special to be a dad is right, my Steven is not my oldests biological father but he is the one who taught her to go a bike, put plasters on her knees, takes her temper tantrums, makes her laugh, makes her angry, loves her and is in every way a much better dad than the man who got me pregnant and beat me up cos I dared to answer back.
To anyone who still has their dad tell them how much you love them cos one day they wont be there to tell - I know that and make sure I tell my daughters to spoil dad once a year as he spoils them every day
Shona
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"Ok didn't want it to go this way. My father was ill on lung cancer and I watched him going from my father to a man that needed help. He was a fourteen stone guy for all of my life and ruled with an iron rod attitude. He dealt the family the bad news and changed his eating habits took the pills and went on to chemo. This bulldog of a man was vanishing before my eyes. When in the latter stages I was called from a wedding to assist and no wheelchairs available I griPped my old man and ran up to casualty for them to give more time. Meanwhile my elder brother and I was moonlighting in two chicken shops as drivers. The last thing I said to mark was ok 2 o clock we will take the kids swimming. Knock on the door at 8 am thought it was the old man had gone. No my brother at the age of 35 had a brain hemmarige. Same year dad went. " Oh bless, thats what my dad died of, my step mum found him on the bedroom floor and he had died a week after she had buried her own father  | |||
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"My thoughts............. Any man can be a father, it takes a real man to be a daddy. " well said | |||
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" Dads are for life, not just 20 June. Sadly" Unfortunately my son only had his dad for five short years, we'll be taking flowers and a card to the cemetery as usual. xxx | |||
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"Am glad to have read all the good Dad posts and saddened by those who haven't had a great experience. My Daddy is alive and kicking (thankfully) and I am proud to say I'm a Daddy's girl. If anyone who's had a bad time wants a spare Dad- mine will quite happily be there as long as you can talk Top Gear and Formula 1. (he's goin cheap! :o) ) Love you Dad xx" That's so sweet - you're lucky and lovely to share your Dad! I am lucky in that I have Steve's Mum & Dad who I love to bits - Z | |||
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" Dads are for life, not just 20 June. Sadly Unfortunately my son only had his dad for five short years, we'll be taking flowers and a card to the cemetery as usual. xxx" Dads are forever , not just 20th June. There, fixed it for everyone. | |||
"My Dad was an incredible person, but sadly his life was cut short due to cancer nearly 20 years ago. I miss him dearly and would love for him to have been able to meet Mrs Carambar - I know he would have approved of her - and for him to have seen and played football with his grandson. As a child, however, I didn't really appreciate just what sacrifices he made for his family. I'm ashamed to admit that as a kid I didn't show my Dad just how much I loved him. I was incredibly stupid and resented the fact that, unlike some of my friends, we were poor. We didn't have a car and family holidays were spent in a caravan in Wales, but my Dad (and Mum) made sure we always had clothes on our backs and food on our plates. It wasn't until I was older that I realised that material things don't mean a thing, but by that time it was too late. It broke my heart to see him fade away because of his illness, and I can still remember the day when he died. My Mum and I were at his bedside. It was the worst day of my life. I try to only remember the good times when I think of my Dad. To remember him as a loving and proud father, the most generous person I've ever known, a man who would gladly go out of his way to help anyone, who always put other people before himself, who was simply brilliant. If I can be half the man that he was then I will have achieved something with my life. I love you, Dad." I dont think any of us appreciate our parents when younger, its not until we have kids of our own that it suddenly falls into place. I miss my dads patience and way of dealing with things. He went about everything quietly. He never swore and never raised his hand once . He didnt have to, that look over the top of his glasses said it all. He left a large void in mt life as i miss his wisdom and sense when dealing with lifes problems. | |||
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" Dads are for life, not just 20 June. Sadly Unfortunately my son only had his dad for five short years, we'll be taking flowers and a card to the cemetery as usual. xxx Dads are forever , not just 20th June. There, fixed it for everyone." Jeeze... don't say that! I thought the life sentence was long enough.... I was kinda hoping to get it reduced to the once per year thing. | |||
"I hated my dad i know that sounds harsh but not evenone had a good dad or a great child hood, my dad was a voilent, abusive, alcholic, there wasnt anything nice or good about him, or any happy times in my childhood while i was living with him, someone said earlier in the thread, anyone can be a father but it takes a real man to be someones daddy, and thats so true So happy fecking father day you **** lol i feel better now in have that out my system lmao "Some of us were lucky in our parents hun, some of us sadly wasnt. You turned out good despite it. | |||
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"Got a call at 8am this morning to say my Dad had something called a TIA? Think it is a mini stroke! He had the paramedics out who gave him Asprin! No hospital or anything, even though he can't talk properly. He lives 350 miles away so I am feeling a bit bad as I think they should have taken him in! So far he is sort of OK. Still can't talk and is very weak and on Fathers day I will miss him even more than usual "Sorry to hear about your dad having a mini stroke, hope he's better soon x | |||
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"Got a call at 8am this morning to say my Dad had something called a TIA? Think it is a mini stroke! He had the paramedics out who gave him Asprin! No hospital or anything, even though he can't talk properly. He lives 350 miles away so I am feeling a bit bad as I think they should have taken him in! So far he is sort of OK. Still can't talk and is very weak and on Fathers day I will miss him even more than usual "am sure they know what they are doing as they are more highly trained than me but surely any type of bleed on the brain should be nvestigated really hope you dad gets better soon xx | |||
"jeeze ,, where do i start this one ,,, my dad was never really a dad to me ,, way too busy out drinking with his mates ,, left my poor mum to bring the 5 of us up ,, ,, when he died i never shed a tear ,,, never any hugs or signs of love ,, dad was just the guy who had the steak whilst we had corned beef , i didnt think i would ever makes his mistakes ,, but i guess in some ways i have made bigger mistakes ,, i fell in love with a woman and walked out on my kids ,, daughter was six and my son 18 months ,,, i,m in tears typing this ,, but must carry on ,, now ,, my kids are 24 and 19 ,, and guess what ,,, i hardly ever see them ,, and i dont for one second blame them ,, there mother is the best mum in the world and to my ultimate shame her dad ,, the kids grandad was the dad i should have been ,, got a text off my son on monday this week asking what i was doing sunday ,, i automaticaly asked , why ? ,, he replied cos its fathers day ,, were taking you out ,,, i started weeping ,,, still got there card on my bedroom mantlepiece from last year ,,, i dont deserve the time of day from them ,, so ,, kate , john ,,,,,, i'm so very very very sorry ,,,one day i will tell you both face to face ,, but until then ,,,, " At least you acknowledge your mistakes hun. Not many guys do. None of us are perfect and make huge mistakes. All you can do is hope you can one rectify them. My son lives in the usa and i havent heard nothing in 5 years since he married into some strange cult ??? I miss him every day and hope one day i will see him again.? who knows eh. All we can do is hope. | |||
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"Got a call at 8am this morning to say my Dad had something called a TIA? Think it is a mini stroke! He had the paramedics out who gave him Asprin! No hospital or anything, even though he can't talk properly. He lives 350 miles away so I am feeling a bit bad as I think they should have taken him in! So far he is sort of OK. Still can't talk and is very weak and on Fathers day I will miss him even more than usual "a tia is a transient ischaemic attack ..i had one just after i had my first child ...been on medication ever since but 35 years later im still here fit and well .. hoping at your dads age he is ok but i thihnk he shoukld get checked out more thoroughly ??? | |||
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"I hated my dad i know that sounds harsh but not evenone had a good dad or a great child hood, my dad was a voilent, abusive, alcholic, there wasnt anything nice or good about him, or any happy times in my childhood while i was living with him, someone said earlier in the thread, anyone can be a father but it takes a real man to be someones daddy, and thats so true So happy fecking father day you **** lol i feel better now in have that out my system lmao "my kids dad is the same so i understand exactly where you are coming from. My own father was a strange kind of bloke but then as my mum decided to walk out on him for a sick pervert when i was about 9 yrs old, i didnt know him that much just the odd memory here and there. You are right, being a parent doesnt automatically entitle you to be a daddy and i wish my mum would realise that as she is a selfish, manipulative etc etc bitch of the highest degree  | |||
