FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > Brothers gf is a skank
Brothers gf is a skank
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
So my bro is in the army currently doing a tour in afgan so he none the wiser that his gf /fiancé has being sleeping with blokes behind his back while he's away I'm not gonna tell him while he out there cus he will flip but do I let her know that I know grrr hate cheaters |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
If you're sure of the facts then ask her outright if it's true. No one ever knows what goes on for sure in a relationship, they might have an 'agreement' in place. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"So my bro is in the army currently doing a tour in afgan so he none the wiser that his gf /fiancé has being sleeping with blokes behind his back while he's away I'm not gonna tell him while he out there cus he will flip but do I let her know that I know grrr hate cheaters "
How do you know that he doesn't know? Is possible that you're correct and he doesn't, it's slain possible that he does and either doesn't mind while he's at and indeed enjoys the freedom to get with ladies out there if he has the opportunity or they're swingers but he hasn't told you. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"So my bro is in the army currently doing a tour in afgan so he none the wiser that his gf /fiancé has being sleeping with blokes behind his back while he's away I'm not gonna tell him while he out there cus he will flip but do I let her know that I know grrr hate cheaters "
What so she has time to make a cover story so your brother doesn't believe you?
Best bet get your evidence pictures dates times and let him know when he is back. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Personally I'd wait until he gets back.
If you tell her - she may panic and say something to him. Then your first worries of him knowing out there may still come true. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Whatever you decide do not do anything to rock the boat while he is out there, he has a tough enough job to do without any distractions and even confronting her could have knock on effects that will end up having a detrimental effect on his mental state so I personally would advise do not even consider doing athing till he is home safe and sound
Hope he has a safe tour |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
He deffently not on here he believes in the nonsex before marriage I will let him know when he's back an I know through the fact she slept with a lad I went to school with and he's bragged about it an posted pics I'm gna try get evidence like you said. Thanks for the comments  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"He deffently not on here he believes in the nonsex before marriage I will let him know when he's back an I know through the fact she slept with a lad I went to school with and he's bragged about it an posted pics I'm gna try get evidence like you said. Thanks for the comments "
Don't take a boys bragging as evidence.
I question your motives in posting this and calling the girl your brother loves a skank when you have by your own admission no evidence. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"He deffently not on here he believes in the nonsex before marriage I will let him know when he's back an I know through the fact she slept with a lad I went to school with and he's bragged about it an posted pics I'm gna try get evidence like you said. Thanks for the comments "
Posted pics where? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Yes almost made me vomit
So you have your evidence then.
Do with it what you feel is best but think very carefully and be very sure about what you've seen."
Best advice yet you have to be 100% sure and be aware its going to upset your brother quite a lot. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago
South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire |
Sorry.... I really don't get it... Your on this website and you are judging others for having sex! Grow a pair of balls and be a man. Never heard anything so hypocritical in my life...
Recently the female half of our partnership was on holiday with the girls.. What happens on tour stays on tour... Same for the guys in the forces. She has also played when have not been here.
If you found out your brother had fun elsewhere I bet you would laught it off and wouldn't say a word to the girl..
How do you know your brother might not be broad minded and might be getting off on her having sex with others and sending him dirty stories? Our family and vanilla friends don't have a clue about what we get up to. Most people keep it secret...
Running to your brother and opening your big gob might ruin what is a very good relationship.. Hell I bet that when he gets back he will want to shag until he drops. She sounds like the perfect girl to me.. And you want to ruin it..
I would hate to have a brother like you.. When I was in the forces I knew of a lot of married guy playing away and also saw a lot of wives playing as well. I also knew a lot who did it as couples as well.
I would suggest you keep your mouth shut and concentrate on having your own fun...
Sorry if it is not what you want to hear.. But you wanted honest answers..
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Sorry.... I really don't get it... Your on this website and you are judging others for having sex! Grow a pair of balls and be a man. Never heard anything so hypocritical in my life...
Recently the female half of our partnership was on holiday with the girls.. What happens on tour stays on tour... Same for the guys in the forces. She has also played when have not been here.
If you found out your brother had fun elsewhere I bet you would laught it off and wouldn't say a word to the girl..
How do you know your brother might not be broad minded and might be getting off on her having sex with others and sending him dirty stories? Our family and vanilla friends don't have a clue about what we get up to. Most people keep it secret...
Running to your brother and opening your big gob might ruin what is a very good relationship.. Hell I bet that when he gets back he will want to shag until he drops. She sounds like the perfect girl to me.. And you want to ruin it..
I would hate to have a brother like you.. When I was in the forces I knew of a lot of married guy playing away and also saw a lot of wives playing as well. I also knew a lot who did it as couples as well.
I would suggest you keep your mouth shut and concentrate on having your own fun...
Sorry if it is not what you want to hear.. But you wanted honest answers..
"
Don't see how you can slate op for wanting to tell his brother. That's a reasonable response. I would tell mine. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Sorry.... I really don't get it... Your on this website and you are judging others for having sex! Grow a pair of balls and be a man. Never heard anything so hypocritical in my life...
Recently the female half of our partnership was on holiday with the girls.. What happens on tour stays on tour... Same for the guys in the forces. She has also played when have not been here.
If you found out your brother had fun elsewhere I bet you would laught it off and wouldn't say a word to the girl..
How do you know your brother might not be broad minded and might be getting off on her having sex with others and sending him dirty stories? Our family and vanilla friends don't have a clue about what we get up to. Most people keep it secret...
Running to your brother and opening your big gob might ruin what is a very good relationship.. Hell I bet that when he gets back he will want to shag until he drops. She sounds like the perfect girl to me.. And you want to ruin it..
I would hate to have a brother like you.. When I was in the forces I knew of a lot of married guy playing away and also saw a lot of wives playing as well. I also knew a lot who did it as couples as well.
I would suggest you keep your mouth shut and concentrate on having your own fun...
Sorry if it is not what you want to hear.. But you wanted honest answers..
Don't see how you can slate op for wanting to tell his brother. That's a reasonable response. I would tell mine. "
I find myself agreeing on that one though there is a time and place to tell him. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *xpresMan
over a year ago
Elland |
Well as an Exsquaddie i know both squaddies n the Gf/wives Bf/husbands play away more than the characters on a soap its because of the ages its mainly younger blokes n women and the whole squaddie culture of beer n fucking plus lots of time away, infidelity is rife..
calling her a Skank is a bit wrong till you get the whole story n all the facts. They may have an agreement, they mite have split up etc etc.. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
If it was someone I loved, I would have no qualms what so ever! About blowing the whistle. Make sure you have facts etc before you do so..I hate people getting cheated on, it's the Pitts. Make sure you have his best interests at heart, and are doing it for the right reasons. Good luck.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"So my bro is in the army currently doing a tour in afgan so he none the wiser that his gf /fiancé has being sleeping with blokes behind his back while he's away I'm not gonna tell him while he out there cus he will flip but do I let her know that I know grrr hate cheaters "
How do you know that they don't have an "arrangement" ? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"So my bro is in the army currently doing a tour in afgan so he none the wiser that his gf /fiancé has being sleeping with blokes behind his back while he's away I'm not gonna tell him while he out there cus he will flip but do I let her know that I know grrr hate cheaters "
Let her know that you have found out certain things, but approach her in a polite manner. Discuss things with her. Don't threaten to tell your brother. No good will come of that. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago
from a town near you |
just don't tell him whilst he is on tour,he will have enough to worry about keeping himself safe,something like that is the last thing he needs to worry about, and he wont be able to do anything about it while he is out there,wait till hes home safe |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"He deffently not on here he believes in the nonsex before marriage I will let him know when he's back an I know through the fact she slept with a lad I went to school with and he's bragged about it an posted pics I'm gna try get evidence like you said. Thanks for the comments "
Do you know what I would do if I was you, stop calling her a skank & confront the lad who is sharing her pic on BBM for a starters ~ okay she's slept with him but he's escalating this into something else.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"He deffently not on here he believes in the nonsex before marriage I will let him know when he's back an I know through the fact she slept with a lad I went to school with and he's bragged about it an posted pics I'm gna try get evidence like you said. Thanks for the comments
Do you know what I would do if I was you, stop calling her a skank & confront the lad who is sharing her pic on BBM for a starters ~ okay she's slept with him but he's escalating this into something else.
"
I agree with you. There is no evidence here to speak of and if I was going to call anyone a skank based on what's been said here it wouldn't be her. The old double standard at work again.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Where the hell did he go????? 
I suspect that he didn't get the response he was after."
possibly yes..
not sure but I assume 'skank' is a derogatory term for a woman..?
would guess a man with the same lifestyle would be 'one of the lads'?.. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
It's quite amazing how guy posts his bras gf is cheating everyone jumps to defend her and criticise him for wanting to warn his brother.
Yet in any thread with a cheating guy for example the thread about the guy wanting to introduce his gf to swinging it's a disgrace they should tell thier partners and they're all cheating scum |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"It's quite amazing how guy posts his bras gf is cheating everyone jumps to defend her and criticise him for wanting to warn his brother.
Yet in any thread with a cheating guy for example the thread about the guy wanting to introduce his gf to swinging it's a disgrace they should tell thier partners and they're all cheating scum"
He is posting that someone has TOLD him she's cheating not that he knows for sure and he says he is going to get evidence yet has apparently seen it on a BBM group. The guy in the other thread is telling us first hand what's on his mind. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Except people aren't arguing over 5 he evidence they're saying oh they might have an agreement etc or one lot just saying what happens happens and another brunch saying his brother is a squaddie so probably cheating anyway. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's quite amazing how guy posts his bras gf is cheating everyone jumps to defend her and criticise him for wanting to warn his brother.
Yet in any thread with a cheating guy for example ithe thread about the guy wanting to introduce his gf to swinging it's a disgrace they should tell thier partners and they're all cheating scum"
Understandable but all i say is what goes on on tour stays on tour
If it a bbm group she on he would have her in his phone with it being his gf so chances are he seen the pics or it set up as a agreement like sugested an turned out the bro was jellous so he added himself to have a look.
Then posted on here got a bad responce of agreements ect ( could be trouth) then deleated lol.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *xpresMan
over a year ago
Elland |
"Except people aren't arguing over 5 he evidence they're saying oh they might have an agreement etc or one lot just saying what happens happens and another brunch saying his brother is a squaddie so probably cheating anyway."
wont be cheating in Afgan |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Except people aren't arguing over 5 he evidence they're saying oh they might have an agreement etc or one lot just saying what happens happens and another brunch saying his brother is a squaddie so probably cheating anyway."
I was arguing over evidence. I misunderstood the meaning of your post, sorry. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's quite amazing how guy posts his bras gf is cheating everyone jumps to defend her and criticise him for wanting to warn his brother.
Yet in any thread with a cheating guy for example the thread about the guy wanting to introduce his gf to swinging it's a disgrace they should tell thier partners and they're all cheating scum"
I disagree with you hun ~ I make no distinction between male & female on here I just post how I see it.
When anyone starts a thread with a derogatory comment about either sex there's generally more to the scenario than meets the eye. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
