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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My kids have broken up from school and i almost feel asthough ive just taken a vow of celibacy for 6 weeks!
Any other single parents out there who feel this way?? or can someone assure me that in 6 weeks time i may not actually be brushing away the cobwebs from my genitals....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's only 6 weeks.
Regular showering should keep the cobwebs at bay. Failing that run a DustBuster over it once a week  "
That could be there newest advertising method....
Dustbuster... for when you arent getting laid!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The time will pass a lot quicker than you think. Have a rest from constant sex and return to it refreshed.  "
wish i was having constant sex in the dirst place!  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"The time will pass a lot quicker than you think. Have a rest from constant sex and return to it refreshed.
wish i was having constant sex in the dirst place! "
I'll set some time aside for you. We need to get you to a party or club.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like others have said , one day you'll turn around and they'll be grown up. So enjoy the summer. Sex is always there to come back to. Plus if your prediction is right the spiders will have a ready made home, so it's a win win!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like others have said , one day you'll turn around and they'll be grown up. So enjoy the summer. Sex is always there to come back to. Plus if your prediction is right the spiders will have a ready made home, so it's a win win! "
Yes,you'll turn around,they'll be grown up and you'll be babysitting their children while they go out and have fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My kids have broken up from school and i almost feel asthough ive just taken a vow of celibacy for 6 weeks!
Any other single parents out there who feel this way?? or can someone assure me that in 6 weeks time i may not actually be brushing away the cobwebs from my genitals....
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Blimey I would have thought spending time with your children was more important than a shag, they grow up too quickly so stop being selfish and thoroughly enjoy them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"try uni holidays - june til end september - 
ouch.... im sorry for your loss. first day they go back... fancy a meet?  "
oh we're managing fine - just have to kid dodge and go elsewhere - sorry no single men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Patronising comment overload!
I'm lucky, I get to mess about with my kids all day during the holidays AND have sex with my wife in the evenings. Amazingly we're not too knackered to combine family life with a sex life.
So I feel for you single people on the sex front, but as somebody sensibly pointed out at the start go wank yourself silly and enjoy the days too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had some lovely six weeks when my kids were little, holidays, pictures,ect
All gone now and made redundant, never wish those times away.
Her"
me too - used to love time with the kids - pre good sex though was all that - moved on from their dad now and woohoo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"try uni holidays - june til end september -
but children of a university age can bugger off on nights out, stay with mates and look after themselves "
they do often - also fanny about with their plans and change minds last minute - so hard to play at home |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had some lovely six weeks when my kids were little, holidays, pictures,ect
All gone now and made redundant, never wish those times away.
Her
me too - used to love time with the kids - pre good sex though was all that - moved on from their dad now and woohoo "
Yes a day like this, I would of been at the beach with mine, slowly getting their own lives now, all with " the mates" lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had some lovely six weeks when my kids were little, holidays, pictures,ect
All gone now and made redundant, never wish those times away.
Her
me too - used to love time with the kids - pre good sex though was all that - moved on from their dad now and woohoo Yes a day like this, I would of been at the beach with mine, slowly getting their own lives now, all with " the mates" lol
Her"
yep - chuck butties, crisps, juice in hcar and bugger off wherever for the day - didnt have to cost much - a park was fine just as long as they could run about and play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had some lovely six weeks when my kids were little, holidays, pictures,ect
All gone now and made redundant, never wish those times away.
Her
me too - used to love time with the kids - pre good sex though was all that - moved on from their dad now and woohoo Yes a day like this, I would of been at the beach with mine, slowly getting their own lives now, all with " the mates" lol
Her
yep - chuck butties, crisps, juice in hcar and bugger off wherever for the day - didnt have to cost much - a park was fine just as long as they could run about and play"
That's the one, I need some grandkids
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What lucky kids they are to have a dad more bothered about sex than about them. "
so because the op has made a light hearted tongue in cheek post he's suddenly a rubbish dad? Even if he was being deadly serious the fact that he says he won't be getting any for 6 weeks would be proof he is actually more bothered by his children then sex? 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aww threads like these make me wish I had kids to run after and do stuff with
I'm sure you can borrow some
Rather have my own but I know what you mean "
Ok, lets make one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What lucky kids they are to have a dad more bothered about sex than about them.
so because the op has made a light hearted tongue in cheek post he's suddenly a rubbish dad? Even if he was being deadly serious the fact that he says he won't be getting any for 6 weeks would be proof he is actually more bothered by his children then sex?
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Not to mention that parents are also human, and sex and socialisation are basic human needs. Missing sex doesn't mean a parent isn't a good parent or that they aren't spending quality time with their children. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really get what the problem is?? I haven't met since May and I'm really looking forward to being able to spend quality time with my kids while they are young. I actually think that single parents get it easier as they are more likely to have family members/friends feel sorry for them and offer to babysit whereas us marrieds have to beg for babysitting favours......also they get to spend time with the other parent often (i know this will depend on your relationship etc and every case is different) but who can we call on????....normally parents who we have to come up with a convincing lie as to where we are going.....just saying.... you singles don't get it worse than the rest of us parents, but I guess that is the choice we make when we become parents. I for one, am looking forward to being with my kids while they are off and wish that I wasn't spending most of it working. |
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"Aww threads like these make me wish I had kids to run after and do stuff with
I'm sure you can borrow some
Rather have my own but I know what you mean
Ok, lets make one "
Don't think your Mrs would be too happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What lucky kids they are to have a dad more bothered about sex than about them.
so because the op has made a light hearted tongue in cheek post he's suddenly a rubbish dad? Even if he was being deadly serious the fact that he says he won't be getting any for 6 weeks would be proof he is actually more bothered by his children then sex?
Not to mention that parents are also human, and sex and socialisation are basic human needs. Missing sex doesn't mean a parent isn't a good parent or that they aren't spending quality time with their children. "
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"My kids have broken up from school and i almost feel asthough ive just taken a vow of celibacy for 6 weeks!
Any other single parents out there who feel this way?? or can someone assure me that in 6 weeks time i may not actually be brushing away the cobwebs from my genitals....
Blimey I would have thought spending time with your children was more important than a shag, they grow up too quickly so stop being selfish and thoroughly enjoy them!"
My thought too. My kids are 22, 26 and 31...where did the time go?!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What lucky kids they are to have a dad more bothered about sex than about them.
so because the op has made a light hearted tongue in cheek post he's suddenly a rubbish dad? Even if he was being deadly serious the fact that he says he won't be getting any for 6 weeks would be proof he is actually more bothered by his children then sex?
Not to mention that parents are also human, and sex and socialisation are basic human needs. Missing sex doesn't mean a parent isn't a good parent or that they aren't spending quality time with their children. "
Trust me.......6 weeks without sex will not kill you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get mine every other week in the holidays so does the mum as we both work. Everyone is happy. I understand your predicament and them going to their aunties for a weekend would benefit them as well as you but you know that would be the weekend when it rains all day. Can't wait til Thursday when I pick mine up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What lucky kids they are to have a dad more bothered about sex than about them.
so because the op has made a light hearted tongue in cheek post he's suddenly a rubbish dad? Even if he was being deadly serious the fact that he says he won't be getting any for 6 weeks would be proof he is actually more bothered by his children then sex?
Not to mention that parents are also human, and sex and socialisation are basic human needs. Missing sex doesn't mean a parent isn't a good parent or that they aren't spending quality time with their children.
Trust me.......6 weeks without sex will not kill you! "
Excuse me, but when i joined fab i had been 2 years celibate, and that was by choice because i didn't fancy anyone i encountered in that time. You're absolutely not educating me in any way. Being a parent, however, does not automatically stop someone from being human. It's far from unreasonable that a healthy adult would miss sex in a 6 week time frame. Nor would missing sex mean that a healthy adult wasn't focused on and enjoying quality time with their children. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What lucky kids they are to have a dad more bothered about sex than about them.
so because the op has made a light hearted tongue in cheek post he's suddenly a rubbish dad? Even if he was being deadly serious the fact that he says he won't be getting any for 6 weeks would be proof he is actually more bothered by his children then sex?
Not to mention that parents are also human, and sex and socialisation are basic human needs. Missing sex doesn't mean a parent isn't a good parent or that they aren't spending quality time with their children.
Trust me.......6 weeks without sex will not kill you!
Excuse me, but when i joined fab i had been 2 years celibate, and that was by choice because i didn't fancy anyone i encountered in that time. You're absolutely not educating me in any way. Being a parent, however, does not automatically stop someone from being human. It's far from unreasonable that a healthy adult would miss sex in a 6 week time frame. Nor would missing sex mean that a healthy adult wasn't focused on and enjoying quality time with their children. "
so I don't really get the issue then? Why can't this normal healthy adult get a babysitter for the night like the rest of us have to so they can go and have sex???....I really don't understand what the kids being off school changes? I guess that is my problem with the post. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What lucky kids they are to have a dad more bothered about sex than about them.
so because the op has made a light hearted tongue in cheek post he's suddenly a rubbish dad? Even if he was being deadly serious the fact that he says he won't be getting any for 6 weeks would be proof he is actually more bothered by his children then sex?
Not to mention that parents are also human, and sex and socialisation are basic human needs. Missing sex doesn't mean a parent isn't a good parent or that they aren't spending quality time with their children.
Trust me.......6 weeks without sex will not kill you!
Excuse me, but when i joined fab i had been 2 years celibate, and that was by choice because i didn't fancy anyone i encountered in that time. You're absolutely not educating me in any way. Being a parent, however, does not automatically stop someone from being human. It's far from unreasonable that a healthy adult would miss sex in a 6 week time frame. Nor would missing sex mean that a healthy adult wasn't focused on and enjoying quality time with their children. so I don't really get the issue then? Why can't this normal healthy adult get a babysitter for the night like the rest of us have to so they can go and have sex???....I really don't understand what the kids being off school changes? I guess that is my problem with the post."
That is something you'll have to ask the OP.
I'm lucky that i do have the option to hire a sitter for the odd few hours, though i have no family here to help. The OP may not have family to help. What if the OP hasn't lived where he lives for very long and therefore has noone they know and trust to sit for them? It could be any number of factors. My point was that missing sex didn't automatically make him a bad parent, as several posts seemed to imply or state putright. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My kids have broken up from school and i almost feel asthough ive just taken a vow of celibacy for 6 weeks!
Any other single parents out there who feel this way?? or can someone assure me that in 6 weeks time i may not actually be brushing away the cobwebs from my genitals....
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6 weeks isn't that long enjoy your kids while they are young they grow up far too quickly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What lucky kids they are to have a dad more bothered about sex than about them.
so because the op has made a light hearted tongue in cheek post he's suddenly a rubbish dad? Even if he was being deadly serious the fact that he says he won't be getting any for 6 weeks would be proof he is actually more bothered by his children then sex?
Not to mention that parents are also human, and sex and socialisation are basic human needs. Missing sex doesn't mean a parent isn't a good parent or that they aren't spending quality time with their children.
Trust me.......6 weeks without sex will not kill you!
Excuse me, but when i joined fab i had been 2 years celibate, and that was by choice because i didn't fancy anyone i encountered in that time. You're absolutely not educating me in any way. Being a parent, however, does not automatically stop someone from being human. It's far from unreasonable that a healthy adult would miss sex in a 6 week time frame. Nor would missing sex mean that a healthy adult wasn't focused on and enjoying quality time with their children. so I don't really get the issue then? Why can't this normal healthy adult get a babysitter for the night like the rest of us have to so they can go and have sex???....I really don't understand what the kids being off school changes? I guess that is my problem with the post.
That is something you'll have to ask the OP.
I'm lucky that i do have the option to hire a sitter for the odd few hours, though i have no family here to help. The OP may not have family to help. What if the OP hasn't lived where he lives for very long and therefore has noone they know and trust to sit for them? It could be any number of factors. My point was that missing sex didn't automatically make him a bad parent, as several posts seemed to imply or state putright. "
I don't believe I did imply that the OP was a bad parent, just that it wouldn't kill him not to have sex for 6 weeks. I'm not as lucky as you and our nearest family is 3 hours away so I don't see that the plight of the poor single parent is any worse than ours to be honest. Yes we all need time away from the kids to be ourselves but honestly we get about 4 weekends a year away from our kids to have proper grown up time. It just bugs me when a lot of single parents moan....and then their kids are staying with the other parent for some of the time, so actually they get far more adult time than married parents get together. I wasn't in any way implying bad parent. try being part of a full time working married parent, then you will get f*** all play time. That's all. |
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"What lucky kids they are to have a dad more bothered about sex than about them.
so because the op has made a light hearted tongue in cheek post he's suddenly a rubbish dad? Even if he was being deadly serious the fact that he says he won't be getting any for 6 weeks would be proof he is actually more bothered by his children then sex?
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Fair point in which case I apologise for my post. |
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"What lucky kids they are to have a dad more bothered about sex than about them.
so because the op has made a light hearted tongue in cheek post he's suddenly a rubbish dad? Even if he was being deadly serious the fact that he says he won't be getting any for 6 weeks would be proof he is actually more bothered by his children then sex?
Not to mention that parents are also human, and sex and socialisation are basic human needs. Missing sex doesn't mean a parent isn't a good parent or that they aren't spending quality time with their children.
Trust me.......6 weeks without sex will not kill you!
Excuse me, but when i joined fab i had been 2 years celibate, and that was by choice because i didn't fancy anyone i encountered in that time. You're absolutely not educating me in any way. Being a parent, however, does not automatically stop someone from being human. It's far from unreasonable that a healthy adult would miss sex in a 6 week time frame. Nor would missing sex mean that a healthy adult wasn't focused on and enjoying quality time with their children. so I don't really get the issue then? Why can't this normal healthy adult get a babysitter for the night like the rest of us have to so they can go and have sex???....I really don't understand what the kids being off school changes? I guess that is my problem with the post.
That is something you'll have to ask the OP.
I'm lucky that i do have the option to hire a sitter for the odd few hours, though i have no family here to help. The OP may not have family to help. What if the OP hasn't lived where he lives for very long and therefore has noone they know and trust to sit for them? It could be any number of factors. My point was that missing sex didn't automatically make him a bad parent, as several posts seemed to imply or state putright.
I don't believe I did imply that the OP was a bad parent, just that it wouldn't kill him not to have sex for 6 weeks. I'm not as lucky as you and our nearest family is 3 hours away so I don't see that the plight of the poor single parent is any worse than ours to be honest. Yes we all need time away from the kids to be ourselves but honestly we get about 4 weekends a year away from our kids to have proper grown up time. It just bugs me when a lot of single parents moan....and then their kids are staying with the other parent for some of the time, so actually they get far more adult time than married parents get together. I wasn't in any way implying bad parent. try being part of a full time working married parent, then you will get f*** all play time. That's all."
Ok first, if you read back there were several posts that did imply that the OP was a bad parent, one of which has now been apologized for.
Secondly, i think we may be taking at Cross purposes. You *seem* to be taking more about meets with others, forgive me if I'm reading that wrong, though. The Op doesn't differentiate though, he straight up says sex....and if I'm reading correctly and you're married then while you may not be swinging you probably are getting laid by your partner. Also, not all of us single parents have a situation where the child goes to the other parent. Mine doesn't. Ive been a married parent, my older children are now 19,18,17 and live back home, and I'm a single parent to my 5 year old now. Parenting isn't easy, full stop. There are simply things in either situation that are tougher, as well as ones that are easier. |
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Ok first, if you read back there were several posts that did imply that the OP was a bad parent, one of which has now been apologized for.
Secondly, i think we may be taking at Cross purposes. You *seem* to be taking more about meets with others, forgive me if I'm reading that wrong, though. The Op doesn't differentiate though, he straight up says sex....and if I'm reading correctly and you're married then while you may not be swinging you probably are getting laid by your partner. Also, not all of us single parents have a situation where the child goes to the other parent. Mine doesn't. Ive been a married parent, my older children are now 19,18,17 and live back home, and I'm a single parent to my 5 year old now. Parenting isn't easy, full stop. There are simply things in either situation that are tougher, as well as ones that are easier. "
and that was the purpose of my point. I was attempting to balance things out otherwise it looks like "poor me, single parent, no sex over the summer hols"... But with all these types of thread the OP (or someone) tries to backtrack and say that it was all tongue in cheek anyway. anyway I'm not having this argument with you as it was the OP that was worried about the kids being off school getting in the way of him having sex. And as he hasn't answered how or why this is an issue (probably because he only said it tongue in cheek,....silly me) But I make no apologies for trying to provide the flip side of the situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i know 6 weeks seems like a long time but it always goes quick. my sons in his thirties and has had to move back in with us so i can only see people at certain times. i like having him here though. i think its hard being a single parent i cant imagine not having my partner around. i think its not just the sex you miss its the company as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dear Parents,
Please keep your children quiet, well-behaved and away from us for the next six weeks.
Thanks in advance,
The Grouches "
ooh I'm sending them to yours, full of sugar and singing Frozen songs
xx
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"My kids have broken up from school and i almost feel asthough ive just taken a vow of celibacy for 6 weeks!
Any other single parents out there who feel this way?? or can someone assure me that in 6 weeks time i may not actually be brushing away the cobwebs from my genitals....
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Summer camp is your answer day ones or residential then you have a shag window. |
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