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tske whatever comes your way - somebody making an effort of some sort in your direction - anybody try hard not to turn and look to see where it came from ?? |
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Much prefer to voice my compliments in words.
On more than one occasion, I've made a ladies day by simply offering a compliment to say how pretty they look. |
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"i got told the other day i looked healthy - not sure how to take that oneHahahaha, same here, I assumed it was because I have a tan."
you are probably right as i feel crap haha |
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"i got told the other day i looked healthy - not sure how to take that one
Been taking your Sanatogen? 
Ooh turn that frown upside down  "
tip it on its head lol |
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"I don't like it, its OK if people I know do it.
Think there not allowed to do it anymore on building sites
I must have missed that memo "
I said think. I'm sure there was a case where someone was fired after a complaint was made
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I only asked as manager at work just come over to me n said i have to appologise to a fem member of staff at our work as she put a sexual
Harassment complaint in cos of one whistle :/
Just thought it was abit OTT |
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"I only asked as manager at work just come over to me n said i have to appologise to a fem member of staff at our work as she put a sexual
Harassment complaint in cos of one whistle :/
Just thought it was abit OTT"
If it was out of work then id say it was ott. Well tbf it is ott anyways but I think it shouldnt be done at work to another work colleague as you now know it leads to trouble xx |
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In the workplace wolf whistles are considered inappropriate and you can be reprimanded for them.
They are not considered appropriate if (for example) you are a builder and wolf whistle at a passerby.
Yes they may be jokey and affectionately meant but are not acceptable in a 21st century workplace. |
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If it was out of work then id say it was ott. Well tbf it is ott anyways but I think it shouldnt be done at work to another work colleague as you now know it leads to trouble xx"
Work said it was an uncalled for move and arnt taking it ant further as i appologiesd as didnt mean any offence
I was just very supprised that anyone would class 1 little whistle as sexual harassment
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I would much rather have a wolf whistle than have to work with someone that is slimey,invades personal space,stares at you for prolonged periods of time and knows exactly how to make suggestive remarks without being overtly sexual
You know where you are with a wolf whistle |
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"I would much rather have a wolf whistle than have to work with someone that is slimey,invades personal space,stares at you for prolonged periods of time and knows exactly how to make suggestive remarks without being overtly sexual
You know where you are with a wolf whistle"
Id prefer that too! |
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Why did you feel the need to wolf whistle a colleague ?
Was it in a public place with lots of others about ?
Or was it when the pair of you were alone ?
There is a lot we don't know so can't really comment but I don't think it's really appropriate to be wolf whistling at colleagues. But I don't know what sort of work environment is. |
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"Why did you feel the need to wolf whistle a colleague ?
Was it in a public place with lots of others about ?
Or was it when the pair of you were alone ?
There is a lot we don't know so can't really comment but I don't think it's really appropriate to be wolf whistling at colleagues. But I don't know what sort of work environment is. "
Well she looked stunning legs out tight shorts couldnt help myself,
It was yes on break i had just walked outside as she was walking back in n yea there Was other people about
N i work in a factory she works upstairs on production line n i work downstairs on machinery |
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I often wonder wear the term comes from.
I'm no expert on Wolves but as far as I'm aware they don't whistle. Not only that they don't even have human type lips to pucker up which is essential for whistling.
The closest thing to a predator whistling in the wild are the high pitched peeps and screeches of the Hyena but these are used to signal pack members of a rival pack in the vicinity. Nothing to do with a really hot hyena with big tits that has walked by.
Stop giving wolves a bad rap!!! I'm furious. |
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"I often wonder wear the term comes from.
I'm no expert on Wolves but as far as I'm aware they don't whistle. Not only that they don't even have human type lips to pucker up which is essential for whistling.
The closest thing to a predator whistling in the wild are the high pitched peeps and screeches of the Hyena but these are used to signal pack members of a rival pack in the vicinity. Nothing to do with a really hot hyena with big tits that has walked by.
Stop giving wolves a bad rap!!! I'm furious."
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"Why did you feel the need to wolf whistle a colleague ?
Was it in a public place with lots of others about ?
Or was it when the pair of you were alone ?
There is a lot we don't know so can't really comment but I don't think it's really appropriate to be wolf whistling at colleagues. But I don't know what sort of work environment is.
Well she looked stunning legs out tight shorts couldnt help myself,
It was yes on break i had just walked outside as she was walking back in n yea there Was other people about
N i work in a factory she works upstairs on production line n i work downstairs on machinery "
Some people strangely do not like to be objectified as objects for sexual titillation. Additionally it can be rather embarrassing to a person when attention is drawn to them in such a way that is unasked for and not really considering the feelings of that person.
It may sound shocking, but appearance can be a sensitive subject with some who prefer people to engage with them on a mental level as opposed to simply saying "cor nice legs love."
Many people find that degrading. It is usually best to exercise discretion when you don't know how the person or others feel about your insatiable desire to objectify people. |
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"Why did you feel the need to wolf whistle a colleague ?
Was it in a public place with lots of others about ?
Or was it when the pair of you were alone ?
There is a lot we don't know so can't really comment but I don't think it's really appropriate to be wolf whistling at colleagues. But I don't know what sort of work environment is.
Well she looked stunning legs out tight shorts couldnt help myself,
It was yes on break i had just walked outside as she was walking back in n yea there Was other people about
N i work in a factory she works upstairs on production line n i work downstairs on machinery
Some people strangely do not like to be objectified as objects for sexual titillation. Additionally it can be rather embarrassing to a person when attention is drawn to them in such a way that is unasked for and not really considering the feelings of that person.
It may sound shocking, but appearance can be a sensitive subject with some who prefer people to engage with them on a mental level as opposed to simply saying "cor nice legs love."
Many people find that degrading. It is usually best to exercise discretion when you don't know how the person or others feel about your insatiable desire to objectify people."
Very well put |
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