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How to get no more sex at all.....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Write a sexual rejection spreadsheet with dates and all the excuses your wife has for not wanting sex 
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/relationships/10979082/Frustrated-husband-creates-spreadsheet-of-wifes-excuses-for-not-having-sex-with-him.html |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Damn I hate it when a link ruins the page 
I think it only dues this on the mobile site. Looks fine in desktop with Chrome.
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Oh thats ok then,sorry to those on their mobiles  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People do argue, including married couples. I do not understand why the wife would want to make their sex life public. LOL, I suppose in this case it would be a lack of a sex life. If she wanted to make it public, why did she decide to delete the spreadsheet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's sad but I understand the frustration behind the husband's actions. As for making it public, it seems dignity has died
That said I find it funny in a black comedy sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can understand his reasons, 10 days without sex in a newish marriage is a worry really that's before kids remember. However they needed a frank conversation, is she feeling too pressured with his Constance sex nagging? He is obviously feeling rejected which is what has caused him to do this. And interestingly she has the energy for the gym but not for him.
Without communication there marriage was bound to fail
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The smelly ho went to The Gym, told the fella, 'No your not having it I feel gross and have just got in from the gym' - she didnt shower till the next day.
#TunaFanny"
This has made me laugh! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The guy got a lot of grief for doing this, but ultimately if he genuinely felt the need to show his wife that there was a demonstrable lack of intimacy in their relationship there were far worse ways he could've done it. He didn't cheat, he logged it to show her. I don't think he would've done it at a whim, it seems he was at his wits end. I'd be shocked if a partner did that to me, but i wouldn't be trying to blame him, shame him, and basically think i hasn't in any way contributed to the situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Damn I hate it when a link ruins the page
I think it only dues this on the mobile site. Looks fine in desktop with Chrome.
Oh thats ok then,sorry to those on their mobiles "
Yes! It's so annoying!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The guy got a lot of grief for doing this, but ultimately if he genuinely felt the need to show his wife that there was a demonstrable lack of intimacy in their relationship there were far worse ways he could've done it. He didn't cheat, he logged it to show her. I don't think he would've done it at a whim, it seems he was at his wits end. I'd be shocked if a partner did that to me, but i wouldn't be trying to blame him, shame him, and basically think i hasn't in any way contributed to the situation. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've read it now. They had sex three times in that month. Better than some, worse than others.
I wonder how he was requesting sex?"
probs turned to his wife and saying 'fancy some of this tonight' whilst thrusting the index finger of his left hand into a hole formed by his thumb and pointy finger of his left hand.. haha |
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"I've read it now. They had sex three times in that month. Better than some, worse than others.
I wonder how he was requesting sex?
probs turned to his wife and saying 'fancy some of this tonight' whilst thrusting the index finger of his left hand into a hole formed by his thumb and pointy finger of his left hand.. haha "
She should of taken him up on the offer and got Big Bertha Strap-On 2000 out of the box, he soon would of shut up |
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I can imagine how things got to the stage where he felt he needed to record the facts. He probably said things like "we hardly ever have sex anymore" and she replied "that's just rubbish", so he recorded the true state of affairs. I think she felt guilty at the state of their marriage and that's why she went on the attack, to deflect blame.
Someone once said to me that when there are no sexual problems in a relationship sex is 10% of the relationship, when there are problems sex is 90% of the relationship.
When the intimacy has died the relationship will follow. |
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