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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"No, I am a selfish, self absorbed old cunt.
But you're adorable View!  "
cheers my dear...... but a nightmare to live with.
if people dare touch my soft furnishings, I will deskin them fully awake. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I think I am yes but I have children so it's not to everyone's taste ,
No doubt others would think otherwise, I guess it depends what attracts others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I am a selfish, self absorbed old cunt.
But you're adorable View!
cheers my dear...... but a nightmare to live with.
if people dare touch my soft furnishings, I will deskin them fully awake."
Crikey, I wont call for tea then |
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I believe I am yes, however like most of us normal people on here deep inside we are looking for our soul mate. And as you all know that is very hard to find. I don't believe in love. Love comes and goes but understanding and forgiving and appreciating well that's very hard for us humans for some reason as our egos get in the way.....  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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No, I'm dreadful at relationships. I hate compromising. I hate being told what I can watch, listen to, eat, or wear. I hate sharing my bed (and I'm not happy having people in my house).
I can cook and my blow jobs are legendary, but I get bored far too easily an enjoy sampling the wide variety of men on Fab, so am best left single. |
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"i think id make a cracking gf to someone. but realistically my daughter is more important and would take someone very special to take us both on.
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why do you think you'd make a cracking girlfriend?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think id make a cracking gf to someone. but realistically my daughter is more important and would take someone very special to take us both on.
why do you think you'd make a cracking girlfriend?
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Im loyal, faithful, attentive, like to cook, good at housework, im funny, great to talk too, im a good listener, love kisses/cuddles etc .. love music, open minded, dont mind watching sports etc..
i like my space, id give him his,,
pretty chilled out to be fair.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think id make a cracking gf to someone. but realistically my daughter is more important and would take someone very special to take us both on.
why do you think you'd make a cracking girlfriend?
Im loyal, faithful, attentive, like to cook, good at housework, im funny, great to talk too, im a good listener, love kisses/cuddles etc .. love music, open minded, dont mind watching sports etc..
i like my space, id give him his,,
pretty chilled out to be fair.
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It does rather beg a question .... |
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"i think id make a cracking gf to someone. but realistically my daughter is more important and would take someone very special to take us both on.
why do you think you'd make a cracking girlfriend?
Im loyal, faithful, attentive, like to cook, good at housework, im funny, great to talk too, im a good listener, love kisses/cuddles etc .. love music, open minded, dont mind watching sports etc..
i like my space, id give him his,,
pretty chilled out to be fair.
So why do you think your single?
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I don't think I make a bad girlfriend... I am pretty laid back, I like to do things to make the people in my life happy whether that means taking them somewhere as a surprise, cooking something special, making something, keeping things varied and interesting in the bedroom... Etc!
However I can't see me wanting to coexist with anyone again, for a long time at least. It's been 2.5 years since I split with my husband and it still feels refreshing to have my own space and answer to no one.
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"I don't think I make a bad girlfriend... I am pretty laid back, I like to do things to make the people in my life happy whether that means taking them somewhere as a surprise, cooking something special, making something, keeping things varied and interesting in the bedroom... Etc!
However I can't see me wanting to coexist with anyone again, for a long time at least. It's been 2.5 years since I split with my husband and it still feels refreshing to have my own space and answer to no one.
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you can be perfectly happy in a relationship and not want to live together
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"Yes and no.
The yes only works if we don't live together and we have time and space. No if we have to regularly share a bathroom. I don't want people in my bathroom.
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so what qualities do you have to make the yes part
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People often ask why am I single and it's the 64 million dollar question....maybe my prince has not arrived "
Has he even got to the heavy breathing stage? |
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"People often ask why am I single and it's the 64 million dollar question....maybe my prince has not arrived so do you think you make a good girlfriend?
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In some aspects yes, I am a pretty laid back person a bit wacky but I do have a heart..However I've got bored in relationships and lose interest however I just think I put that down to not being with someone right for me...I like sex and I love to cook and I think I'm a pretty down to earth person...I have a lot of qualities but I also have traits so for the most part yes but I know that I may get on their nerves at times |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Yes and no.
The yes only works if we don't live together and we have time and space. No if we have to regularly share a bathroom. I don't want people in my bathroom.
so what qualities do you have to make the yes part
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Apart from being scintillating company in and out of bed you mean?
Those I have had relationships with are still my friends. Those that met my ex at the social could see that we are still close. I have staying power with people.
The reason that I am not with those people anymore is largely that we weren't the right fit for forever one on one. That has been for a range of reasons that have put a strain on the relationship that we didn't find ways of fixing. With the passage of time the friendships remain and we wish each other well. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"No, I'm dreadful at relationships. I hate compromising. I hate being told what I can watch, listen to, eat, or wear. I hate sharing my bed (and I'm not happy having people in my house).
I can cook and my blow jobs are legendary, but I get bored far too easily an enjoy sampling the wide variety of men on Fab, so am best left single."
Other than the legendary blow jobs bit and the cooking bit, this sums up me too. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"No, I'm dreadful at relationships. I hate compromising. I hate being told what I can watch, listen to, eat, or wear. I hate sharing my bed (and I'm not happy having people in my house).
I can cook and my blow jobs are legendary, but I get bored far too easily an enjoy sampling the wide variety of men on Fab, so am best left single.
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I won't blow my own trumpet (fnar, fnar) regarding my BJs and I'm a shite cook but otherwise this is me to a T...it's no bloody wonder Wyrd and I get on so well, I reckon we may have been separated at birth  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"No, I'm dreadful at relationships. I hate compromising. I hate being told what I can watch, listen to, eat, or wear. I hate sharing my bed (and I'm not happy having people in my house).
I can cook and my blow jobs are legendary, but I get bored far too easily an enjoy sampling the wide variety of men on Fab, so am best left single.
I won't blow my own trumpet (fnar, fnar) regarding my BJs and I'm a shite cook but otherwise this is me to a T...it's no bloody wonder Wyrd and I get on so well, I reckon we may have been separated at birth "
I think the pair of you are in a relationship together. It works well and you make each other very happy.
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"No, I'm dreadful at relationships. I hate compromising. I hate being told what I can watch, listen to, eat, or wear. I hate sharing my bed (and I'm not happy having people in my house).
I can cook and my blow jobs are legendary, but I get bored far too easily an enjoy sampling the wide variety of men on Fab, so am best left single."
well that's a start |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you good relationship material or not? If not why not?
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Nope. I'm far too focused on bringing my kids up to concentrate on a relationship at the minute. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"No, I'm dreadful at relationships. I hate compromising. I hate being told what I can watch, listen to, eat, or wear. I hate sharing my bed (and I'm not happy having people in my house).
I can cook and my blow jobs are legendary, but I get bored far too easily an enjoy sampling the wide variety of men on Fab, so am best left single.
I won't blow my own trumpet (fnar, fnar) regarding my BJs and I'm a shite cook but otherwise this is me to a T...it's no bloody wonder Wyrd and I get on so well, I reckon we may have been separated at birth
I think the pair of you are in a relationship together. It works well and you make each other very happy.
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She's more use at a club than any blokes I've ever visited one with. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't think so, I used to be.... but after 8 years single, I think it would take someone really special to tempt me, though I do miss some closeness at times  its just like riding a bike "
Really? I think I'd be a bit wobbly at that as well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think so, single 4 years and walked over too many times, has made me to realistic.
Always want me as a fb but not a gf....
why do you think that is?
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My face doesn't fit x |
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So why do you think your single?
ask my ex.. lol
no seriously i think its possibly down to my looks and that i have a young child.. who knows "
but what about before you had a child, you've said before that you've never had a long term relationship?
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"No, I'm dreadful at relationships. I hate compromising. I hate being told what I can watch, listen to, eat, or wear. I hate sharing my bed (and I'm not happy having people in my house).
I can cook and my blow jobs are legendary, but I get bored far too easily an enjoy sampling the wide variety of men on Fab, so am best left single.
I won't blow my own trumpet (fnar, fnar) regarding my BJs and I'm a shite cook but otherwise this is me to a T...it's no bloody wonder Wyrd and I get on so well, I reckon we may have been separated at birth
I think the pair of you are in a relationship together. It works well and you make each other very happy.
She's more use at a club than any blokes I've ever visited one with. "
Right back atcha, girlfriend  |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"No, I'm dreadful at relationships. I hate compromising. I hate being told what I can watch, listen to, eat, or wear. I hate sharing my bed (and I'm not happy having people in my house).
I can cook and my blow jobs are legendary, but I get bored far too easily an enjoy sampling the wide variety of men on Fab, so am best left single.
I won't blow my own trumpet (fnar, fnar) regarding my BJs and I'm a shite cook but otherwise this is me to a T...it's no bloody wonder Wyrd and I get on so well, I reckon we may have been separated at birth
I think the pair of you are in a relationship together. It works well and you make each other very happy.
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I've joked about setting up an FF profile, but I don't think Fab's menfolk are ready for BlondeWyrd as yet |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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So why do you think your single?
ask my ex.. lol
no seriously i think its possibly down to my looks and that i have a young child.. who knows "
Looks have nothing to do with relationships. Looks might be an early hook but it's not what makes a relationship.
My experience is that once you love someone you see them as beautiful.
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So why do you think your single?
ask my ex.. lol
no seriously i think its possibly down to my looks and that i have a young child.. who knows
Looks have nothing to do with relationships. Looks might be an early hook but it's not what makes a relationship.
My experience is that once you love someone you see them as beautiful.
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
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I think the pair of you are in a relationship together. It works well and you make each other very happy.
I've joked about setting up an FF profile, but I don't think Fab's menfolk are ready for BlondeWyrd as yet "
Are you kidding? It's what they have all been waiting for. I think it's WyrdBlonde though; sometimes you are blue.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have never really had a serious long term relationship so not had the chance to find out, would like to think i would be a good BF, though being single for so long has made me pretty selfish. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"No, I'm dreadful at relationships. I hate compromising. I hate being told what I can watch, listen to, eat, or wear. I hate sharing my bed (and I'm not happy having people in my house).
I can cook and my blow jobs are legendary, but I get bored far too easily an enjoy sampling the wide variety of men on Fab, so am best left single.
I won't blow my own trumpet (fnar, fnar) regarding my BJs and I'm a shite cook but otherwise this is me to a T...it's no bloody wonder Wyrd and I get on so well, I reckon we may have been separated at birth
I think the pair of you are in a relationship together. It works well and you make each other very happy.
She's more use at a club than any blokes I've ever visited one with.
Right back atcha, girlfriend "
We're so romantic!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I am a selfish, self absorbed old cunt.
But you're adorable View!
cheers my dear...... but a nightmare to live with.
if people dare touch my soft furnishings, I will deskin them fully awake."
View you and I would be a perfect match. I don't like people moving my cushions or throws. If my rug is a centimetre squint it drives me insane. I had to realign a curtain track because the handyman for the flat put it up squint...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So why do you think your single?
ask my ex.. lol
no seriously i think its possibly down to my looks and that i have a young child.. who knows but what about before you had a child, you've said before that you've never had a long term relationship?
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wasnt mature enough for one, afraid of commitment, since Amber ive grown a lot.. i had her young at 21 |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I do agree looks don't have anything to do with it, maybe some have their guard well and truly up and get blinded by people...just my thoughts though I maybe chatting out me bum "
I agree. You may not see that you have your guard up but it will come across to others in little things. If you have trust issues how can a new person ever win?
Everything they do will face some level of wariness that links to your past. I know this has ended the potential of some relationships for me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have never had a long term relationship,
But I do get the "why are you not married/have kids" question all the time,
If I new the answer I would of tried to do something about it by now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I'm dreadful at relationships. I hate compromising. I hate being told what I can watch, listen to, eat, or wear. I hate sharing my bed (and I'm not happy having people in my house).
I can cook and my blow jobs are legendary, but I get bored far too easily an enjoy sampling the wide variety of men on Fab, so am best left single.
I won't blow my own trumpet (fnar, fnar) regarding my BJs and I'm a shite cook but otherwise this is me to a T...it's no bloody wonder Wyrd and I get on so well, I reckon we may have been separated at birth
I think the pair of you are in a relationship together. It works well and you make each other very happy.
I've joked about setting up an FF profile, but I don't think Fab's menfolk are ready for BlondeWyrd as yet "
Aww do it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can honestly say I don't like being single however I'm not needy or desperate "
I love being single, I love my freedom, to be able to do what I like, when I like and not have to think about anyone else, I honestly do not think I will ever be in a relationship again, people ask me all the time if i've found anyone yet and look quite shocked when I say no, and they say things like...never mind your find someone one day, mr right will come along soon...I think to some being with someone is a must and they think all single people are looking |
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"I can honestly say I don't like being single however I'm not needy or desperate
I love being single, I love my freedom, to be able to do what I like, when I like and not have to think about anyone else, I honestly do not think I will ever be in a relationship again, people ask me all the time if i've found anyone yet and look quite shocked when I say no, and they say things like...never mind your find someone one day, mr right will come along soon...I think to some being with someone is a must and they think all single people are looking"
I think if I was in your position I.e with kids etc I'd feel the same but I haven't got what I've wanted in terms of settling down and having children |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can honestly say I don't like being single however I'm not needy or desperate
I love being single, I love my freedom, to be able to do what I like, when I like and not have to think about anyone else, I honestly do not think I will ever be in a relationship again, people ask me all the time if i've found anyone yet and look quite shocked when I say no, and they say things like...never mind your find someone one day, mr right will come along soon...I think to some being with someone is a must and they think all single people are looking
I think if I was in your position I.e with kids etc I'd feel the same but I haven't got what I've wanted in terms of settling down and having children "
that's fair comment x
mr right will come along soon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've done all that. Had my children, been married twice. Now I'm 56 and having just the best time. Not just on Fab either. I don't need nor wish to be in a relationship. |
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"I can honestly say I don't like being single however I'm not needy or desperate
I love being single, I love my freedom, to be able to do what I like, when I like and not have to think about anyone else, I honestly do not think I will ever be in a relationship again, people ask me all the time if i've found anyone yet and look quite shocked when I say no, and they say things like...never mind your find someone one day, mr right will come along soon...I think to some being with someone is a must and they think all single people are looking
I think if I was in your position I.e with kids etc I'd feel the same but I haven't got what I've wanted in terms of settling down and having children
that's fair comment x
mr right will come along soon "
Lol or I just find a sperm donor |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I'm quality relationship material because I have a lot of patience. Would love to find a nice woman, settle down and do the family bit but all in good time. I'm happy on my own and I think you need to be before you think about sharing your life with someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was the perfect wife according to my cheating husband. I couldn't commit to someone again after 30 years of belonging to someone. I like my freedom "
Ditto except I wasn't perfect apparently as I answer back lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was the perfect wife according to my cheating husband. I couldn't commit to someone again after 30 years of belonging to someone. I like my freedom
Ditto except I wasn't perfect apparently as I answer back lol"
I never answered back, I always got in there first |
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Guess I best answer myself now.
The reason I'm good girlfriend material is because I have found someone who wants the same things as me and someone I'm perfectly comparable with. Jay says its because I'm lovely, sweet and thoughtful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was the perfect wife according to my cheating husband. I couldn't commit to someone again after 30 years of belonging to someone. I like my freedom
Ditto except I wasn't perfect apparently as I answer back lol"
I didn't answer back. Bit of a doormat lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was the perfect wife according to my cheating husband. I couldn't commit to someone again after 30 years of belonging to someone. I like my freedom
Ditto except I wasn't perfect apparently as I answer back lol
I didn't answer back. Bit of a doormat lol "
well you won't ever be again |
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"Apparently according to an ex I'd make a great wife and was a pretty cool girlfriend "
My ex fiance said that...i imagen he will have told that also to the poor cow whos now in a relationship with him hehe! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"No, I'm dreadful at relationships. I hate compromising. I hate being told what I can watch, listen to, eat, or wear. I hate sharing my bed (and I'm not happy having people in my house).
I can cook and my blow jobs are legendary, but I get bored far too easily an enjoy sampling the wide variety of men on Fab, so am best left single.
I won't blow my own trumpet (fnar, fnar) regarding my BJs and I'm a shite cook but otherwise this is me to a T...it's no bloody wonder Wyrd and I get on so well, I reckon we may have been separated at birth
I think the pair of you are in a relationship together. It works well and you make each other very happy.
I've joked about setting up an FF profile, but I don't think Fab's menfolk are ready for BlondeWyrd as yet "
WyrdBlonde, surely? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was the perfect wife according to my cheating husband. I couldn't commit to someone again after 30 years of belonging to someone. I like my freedom
Ditto except I wasn't perfect apparently as I answer back lol
I didn't answer back. Bit of a doormat lol
well you won't ever be again "
I try not to be but it's an innate characteristic |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
dirtybigbadsgirlville |
"I love my own space too much but damn do I miss regular sex and occasional dates.just don't live with them then, I never get why people think you have to live together
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Neither do I, but I really don't judge the relationship I am in by others around me, maybe that's the problem with some? |
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"I don't think I make a bad girlfriend... I am pretty laid back, I like to do things to make the people in my life happy whether that means taking them somewhere as a surprise, cooking something special, making something, keeping things varied and interesting in the bedroom... Etc!
However I can't see me wanting to coexist with anyone again, for a long time at least. It's been 2.5 years since I split with my husband and it still feels refreshing to have my own space and answer to no one.
you can be perfectly happy in a relationship and not want to live together
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Oh I agree I meant to say that I think I am reasonable girlfriend material but wouldn't want to progress to the living in stage - so it would be important to make that clear early on in a relationship I think
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you good relationship material or not? If not why not?
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Hmmm you have to think carefully answering that one on here as there are so many NSB's on here (No String Bullshitters) who say im after no strings but are here to ensnare a guy one way or another (the block button comes in handy) so for the record i am shit as a shit thing at relationships. |
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"I don't think so, I used to be.... but after 8 years single, I think it would take someone really special to tempt me, though I do miss some closeness at times its just like riding a bike
Really? I think I'd be a bit wobbly at that as well "
A nice man like me would always be willing to be your stabilizers and to keep you steady on the bumpy road |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. why are you good relationship material?
I do as I am told.
Seriously...respect, trust, honesty.
And I am a fucking kinky bitch. "
Not to mention fuckin' funny, and you like football. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
dirtybigbadsgirlville |
"Yes. why are you good relationship material?
I do as I am told.
Seriously...respect, trust, honesty.
And I am a fucking kinky bitch.
Not to mention fuckin' funny, and you like football."
I know I am an Epic catch. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I love my own space too much but damn do I miss regular sex and occasional dates.
Just don't live with them then, I never get why people think you have to live together
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I don't think that. I'm not in the right place to be in a relationship though.
I've had 2 long monogamous relationships in the past - 8 years and 7 years - so I can't be too bad.
I don't want another monogamous relationship though. I don't think that is something you can really look for. You need to be open to it and it'll come along at the right time. |
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"I love my own space too much but damn do I miss regular sex and occasional dates.
Just don't live with them then, I never get why people think you have to live together
I don't think that. I'm not in the right place to be in a relationship though.
I've had 2 long monogamous relationships in the past - 8 years and 7 years - so I can't be too bad.
I don't want another monogamous relationship though. I don't think that is something you can really look for. You need to be open to it and it'll come along at the right time."
who said you have to be monogamous? |
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over a year ago
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"I reckon I'd make an alright boyfriend. Even if I do say so myself.why?
Erm, 'cause I'm awesome."
Being serious, I'm respectful, considerate, and I have a lot of love to give. And I like a laugh. |
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"Yes. why are you good relationship material?
I do as I am told.
Seriously...respect, trust, honesty.
And I am a fucking kinky bitch.
Not to mention fuckin' funny, and you like football.I know I am an Epic catch. "
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I love my own space too much but damn do I miss regular sex and occasional dates.
Just don't live with them then, I never get why people think you have to live together
I don't think that. I'm not in the right place to be in a relationship though.
I've had 2 long monogamous relationships in the past - 8 years and 7 years - so I can't be too bad.
I don't want another monogamous relationship though. I don't think that is something you can really look for. You need to be open to it and it'll come along at the right time.who said you have to be monogamous?"
Nobody, but finding someone who wants a relationship but not a monogamous one and doesn't ultimately expect to live together if the relationship works is more tricky than finding something more traditional.
Anyway, no, currently I am not good relationship material. I have the potential to be but only if the right person happens along.
I'm not looking for a relationship. If I happen to find someone who changes my mind, great. |
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"I love my own space too much but damn do I miss regular sex and occasional dates.
Just don't live with them then, I never get why people think you have to live together
I don't think that. I'm not in the right place to be in a relationship though.
I've had 2 long monogamous relationships in the past - 8 years and 7 years - so I can't be too bad.
I don't want another monogamous relationship though. I don't think that is something you can really look for. You need to be open to it and it'll come along at the right time.who said you have to be monogamous?
Nobody, but finding someone who wants a relationship but not a monogamous one and doesn't ultimately expect to live together if the relationship works is more tricky than finding something more traditional.
Anyway, no, currently I am not good relationship material. I have the potential to be but only if the right person happens along.
I'm not looking for a relationship. If I happen to find someone who changes my mind, great."
so what are your potential qualities?
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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".so what are your potential qualities?
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Well, they're only good qualities to people looking for that. For example, I'm independent and not needy or clingy. Some want that, some don't. I'm very open-minded and extremely kinky.
I also have honesty, loyalty, intelligence and determination. I'm reliable, caring, considerate and thoughtful.
I'm also adventurous and interesting. I'm not a sit at home in front of the television type.
Of course, some prefer the sit in front of the television types. |
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"Yeah, I'm perfect girlfriend material, always have been, always will be.
so what makes you perfect girlfriend material
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I don't really feel OK with sharing a list of stuff.......partly because I'm equally good at being a soulmate and a playmate I guess. It's funny, I never really had the 'us and them' thing that many women seem to develop either. The only 'us' was ever me and my man, my lover was always my best friend, and I his.
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"Yeah, I'm perfect girlfriend material, always have been, always will be.
so what makes you perfect girlfriend material
I don't really feel OK with sharing a list of stuff.......partly because I'm equally good at being a soulmate and a playmate I guess. It's funny, I never really had the 'us and them' thing that many women seem to develop either. The only 'us' was ever me and my man, my lover was always my best friend, and I his.
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so you think you can have more than one soulmate?
For me if you find a soulmate the only way the relationship would end would be on the death of one of the partners otherwise your not soulmates just partners
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For me if you find a soulmate the only way the relationship would end would be on the death of one of the partners otherwise your not soulmates just partners
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I don't really agree - to my mind it is about the depth and openness of the bond, and I seem to be able to do that to the nth degree. |
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"Is like to think I am. But others don't seem to think so why do you think you are
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I'm decent crack. Decent looking. (I think) I make an effort and as much as a deviant I am I'm faithful and loving. I'm just an all round alright person in general tbh |
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"we have been together for 5 years, never had a fall out or an argument
thats not healthy ...if you never row ..you never chat "
I dont think its not healthy.my husband and I never argued. He just laugh, it was better to talk things through than shout at each other |
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"we have been together for 5 years, never had a fall out or an argument
thats not healthy ...if you never row ..you never chat "
I dont think its not healthy.my husband and I never argued. He just laugh, it was better to talk things through than shout at each other |
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"we have been together for 5 years, never had a fall out or an argument
thats not healthy ...if you never row ..you never chat
I dont think its not healthy.my husband and I never argued. He just laugh, it was better to talk things through than shout at each other"
exactly, ty |
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"No, I am a selfish, self absorbed old cunt.
But you're adorable View!
cheers my dear...... but a nightmare to live with.
if people dare touch my soft furnishings, I will deskin them fully awake."
I nearly threw Ben out when I saw he'd moved my cushions then compounded the situation by asking "what's girls obsession with cushions?" 
He's a heating engineer with his own business. There are boiler parts among my Waterford crystal, copper piping beside the cello, pictures of fish vying for space beside family wedding photos.
I'm in therapy! |
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Yes - because I can pour a pint with just the right amount of head.
And
No-because I've been single so long that I'm very set in my ways and like my own space too much.
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"People want no monogamy, don't live together, free to do as they please. So FWB not a relationship?"
I can be faithful without monogamy. I could also return to monogamy. I can't manage being without alone time and space.
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"No, I am a selfish, self absorbed old cunt.
But you're adorable View!
cheers my dear...... but a nightmare to live with.
if people dare touch my soft furnishings, I will deskin them fully awake.
I nearly threw Ben out when I saw he'd moved my cushions then compounded the situation by asking "what's girls obsession with cushions?"
He's a heating engineer with his own business. There are boiler parts among my Waterford crystal, copper piping beside the cello, pictures of fish vying for space beside family wedding photos.
I'm in therapy! "
You've made me smile again. |
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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago
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"People want no monogamy, don't live together, free to do as they please. So FWB not a relationship?
I can be faithful without monogamy. I could also return to monogamy. I can't manage being without alone time and space.
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I could quite happily be monogamous,i just don't want someone living with me |
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over a year ago
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I would be wont as they don't make beds that big, like my space to move around, girl I was with earlier in week decided to try to cuddle up, wtf its like frigging boiling as it is, not good night sleep so no more of girl. |
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By *omMLMan
over a year ago
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"I don't think I make a bad girlfriend... I am pretty laid back, I like to do things to make the people in my life happy whether that means taking them somewhere as a surprise, cooking something special, making something, keeping things varied and interesting in the bedroom... Etc!
However I can't see me wanting to coexist with anyone again, for a long time at least. It's been 2.5 years since I split with my husband and it still feels refreshing to have my own space and answer to no one.
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I agree after being married for 18 years I do miss the I intimacy with someone. But am enjoying my space and freedom. |
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"People want no monogamy, don't live together, free to do as they please. So FWB not a relationship?"
really, so people can't have those things and still be in a committed relationship.
As I said earlier why do people think you have to live together to be in a relationship?
I've absolutely no intention of living with another human being, I love my space, which brings out the best in me.
Some might think I'm having my cake and eating it and the answer is we both are, our relationship is perfect to us, we don't feel the need to run our relationship to suit others
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"People want no monogamy, don't live together, free to do as they please. So FWB not a relationship?really, so people can't have those things and still be in a committed relationship.
As I said earlier why do people think you have to live together to be in a relationship?
I've absolutely no intention of living with another human being, I love my space, which brings out the best in me.
Some might think I'm having my cake and eating it and the answer is we both are, our relationship is perfect to us, we don't feel the need to run our relationship to suit others
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I think this would be the only way I could have a relationship now. I don't think I could live with someone permanently again |
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"People want no monogamy, don't live together, free to do as they please. So FWB not a relationship?
really, so people can't have those things and still be in a committed relationship.
As I said earlier why do people think you have to live together to be in a relationship?
I've absolutely no intention of living with another human being, I love my space, which brings out the best in me.
Some might think I'm having my cake and eating it and the answer is we both are, our relationship is perfect to us, we don't feel the need to run our relationship to suit others
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It was a question not an accusation. I agree, I couldn't live with someone either.
I was just wondering where the line is between relationship and FWB that's all. |
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"People want no monogamy, don't live together, free to do as they please. So FWB not a relationship?really, so people can't have those things and still be in a committed relationship.
As I said earlier why do people think you have to live together to be in a relationship?
I've absolutely no intention of living with another human being, I love my space, which brings out the best in me.
Some might think I'm having my cake and eating it and the answer is we both are, our relationship is perfect to us, we don't feel the need to run our relationship to suit others
I think this would be the only way I could have a relationship now. I don't think I could live with someone permanently again "
it works perfectly for us, the time we spend together is quality time, no falling out over things. To me I really do have the best of both worlds |
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"People want no monogamy, don't live together, free to do as they please. So FWB not a relationship?
really, so people can't have those things and still be in a committed relationship.
As I said earlier why do people think you have to live together to be in a relationship?
I've absolutely no intention of living with another human being, I love my space, which brings out the best in me.
Some might think I'm having my cake and eating it and the answer is we both are, our relationship is perfect to us, we don't feel the need to run our relationship to suit others
It was a question not an accusation. I agree, I couldn't live with someone either.
I was just wondering where the line is between relationship and FWB that's all. "
as far as I see it fwb don't have deep feelings for each other, have no commitment and either can get up and walk away with no questions asked |
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"People want no monogamy, don't live together, free to do as they please. So FWB not a relationship?
really, so people can't have those things and still be in a committed relationship.
As I said earlier why do people think you have to live together to be in a relationship?
I've absolutely no intention of living with another human being, I love my space, which brings out the best in me.
Some might think I'm having my cake and eating it and the answer is we both are, our relationship is perfect to us, we don't feel the need to run our relationship to suit others
It was a question not an accusation. I agree, I couldn't live with someone either.
I was just wondering where the line is between relationship and FWB that's all. as far as I see it fwb don't have deep feelings for each other, have no commitment and either can get up and walk away with no questions asked"
Good point. Mystery solved. |
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Hard one to answer.
I'm the perfect gf in some ways, he gets sex and bjs on tap whenever he wants. I cook for him, bake him cakes. I'm supportive of his hopes and dreams. I socialise with his friends and family, I let him watch his sports. I dress nicely day and night, grow my hair the way he likes. I work hard, I do 2 jobs one of them running a business.
But... I'm terribly high maintenance, I can be a total bitch at times, I can have tantrums and strops, I expect to be treated like a lady day to day, doors open for me, back rubs after a long day at work. I expect him to help me with my business
So it all depends what people expect from a relationship.
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Probably not aside from the love word, I've been on my own for nearly 20 yrs and very set in my ways, not interested in sharing with someone nor interested in losing what I've worked hard for when the relationship fails |
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I think I'm an alright girlfriend lol
I'm not a domestic goddess, my flat certainly looks 'lived in' most of the time. I can cook, I'm fun, I'm caring, I'm great in the sack!!
I have my moments of craziness that I let slip out from time to time but luckily they haven't scared him away yet.
I'm patient and understanding about things. I let him have his own space. it's important for each other to have their own hobbies etc, i don't think it's healthy to be on each others pockets all the time! |
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