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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all,
90% of all first meets are"do you want to go for coffee". Is this a human failsafe location or am I the only person who's not a coffee drinker?
Any suggestions on good 1st meet locations or is it keep taking the hot chocolate? |
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over a year ago
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A social meet is always a good idea. You can find someone aesthetically pleasing but find them as dull as dishwater personality wise when you meet in person. For me it's 25% aesthetics and 75% mental so a social is a good 'no pressure' way of deciding if I'm truly interested in getting jiggy wid it! |
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"A social meet is always a good idea. You can find someone aesthetically pleasing but find them as dull as dishwater personality wise when you meet in person. For me it's 25% aesthetics and 75% mental so a social is a good 'no pressure' way of deciding if I'm truly interested in getting jiggy wid it!"
That's the idea but coffee is such a boring suggestion. Was seeing if any other ideas |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A social meet is always a good idea. You can find someone aesthetically pleasing but find them as dull as dishwater personality wise when you meet in person. For me it's 25% aesthetics and 75% mental so a social is a good 'no pressure' way of deciding if I'm truly interested in getting jiggy wid it!
That's the idea but coffee is such a boring suggestion. Was seeing if any other ideas"
It's hard to discuss the finer points of anal sex while bungee jumping! ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"Im more of a social in a pub girl.. dont drink coffee or tea. "
We also tend to go for social meets in a pub, a glass of wine or a beer can help a nervous couple relax..... much more than a coffee ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it just me or do all wetherspoons have a d*unk in residence or lead d*unk? Depending on the time of day of course!
Maybe suggest something different, I love rock climbing, though I'm yet to find a meet brave enough to join me!
Duo bungee jump too extreme for you all? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swimming pool. You get to see all the varicose veins, wobbly bits,hairy spots and if you still want hanky panky with them you're either desperate or you actually like them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Lots of places but my favourites are lunch in a nice café or a meal or a drink in a country pub or dinner in a nice restaurant or wine and tapas....or cocktails
Hell... loads of things really ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"Dark place, heightened senses, seems like an ok idea until a spotty 15 year old stumbles in on you getting frisky! Lol"
Who the Hell gets frisky in Quasar? Don't you know there's a war on, Man?!!!
- Amy. x |
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"A social meet is always a good idea. You can find someone aesthetically pleasing but find them as dull as dishwater personality wise when you meet in person. For me it's 25% aesthetics and 75% mental so a social is a good 'no pressure' way of deciding if I'm truly interested in getting jiggy wid it!
That's the idea but coffee is such a boring suggestion. Was seeing if any other ideas"
find somewhere that has a beautiful garden, a park, a beach, a stroll along the seafront. You could take drinks of choice and chat amiably. Imagination ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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I suggest either meeting at a club or in a friendly pub. It all depends on the nature of the meet. A lot more guys seem to want to meet me in a layby in the back of beyond than wish to be seen having a drink with me in a TG friendly pub. ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dark place, heightened senses, seems like an ok idea until a spotty 15 year old stumbles in on you getting frisky! Lol
Who the Hell gets frisky in Quasar? Don't you know there's a war on, Man?!!!
- Amy. x"
Sorry Major General Amy Mam
I am awaiting your orders mam! Lol
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