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To picky ??? Really !!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've read this a lot in the forums lately.
Because of the ratio of women to men on here, woman can be picky !?!?
Are we supposed to just Shag anything then? How ever big or small the ratio was, I'd still be picky~wouldn't you? |
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I think some people think us girls just have the panties already dropped, ready for any cock. Just make your own rules and filter out those you're not interested has got to make for better meets for you and partners. Can't be anything worse than a disinterested partner. though some will fuck us in our sleep. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep! I may complain that i rarely meet..but, that'd just because i'm one fussy bugger.
And i have every right to be. Not here to shag 'n' brag my way through the site.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let's pretend there were only a handful of men on the site. If I didn't see anyone I liked the look or sound of I wouldn't bother messaging anyone. I'm not picky I just like to be attracted to the men I have sex with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was criticised in the Forums once for daring to say I had standards but there you go!
Someone once told me it was slim pickings round here as far as women are concerned (apparently) so I was lucky  Doesn't mean I can't be picky though!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes damm right!
i dont care if there was one man on here or 50
i have standards and types and just as i get a message doesn't mean i will drop my knickers at whim |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nowt wrong with being picky. Plenty of fugloids on here that get plenty of cock that wouldnt get pulled in a pub or a nightclub. But its hard for a lad to convince women to meet as they are in a sea of men. Hard to decypher what type of profile and message with stand out in order to get a reply. I know that some men put fake pics up and tell lies, and it works for some. Gone off on a tangent now, but lot of lads that get nowt resort to the fugloids and even tv's as they are frustrated with no luck. The pickings are slimmer than ever up here and i have only met 2 new girls/cpl in the last year, and i am lovely with a 12" tinkel and mega gud lookin and everything !!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some men are choosy too. The men who say women can afford to be picky should try being a woman on here "
some do, fake profs in order to find out who others are.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep! I may complain that i rarely meet..but, that'd just because i'm one fussy bugger.
And i have every right to be. Not here to shag 'n' brag my way through the site.
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"Nowt wrong with being picky. Plenty of fugloids on here that get plenty of cock that wouldnt get pulled in a pub or a nightclub. But its hard for a lad to convince women to meet as they are in a sea of men. Hard to decypher what type of profile and message with stand out in order to get a reply. I know that some men put fake pics up and tell lies, and it works for some. Gone off on a tangent now, but lot of lads that get nowt resort to the fugloids and even tv's as they are frustrated with no luck. The pickings are slimmer than ever up here and i have only met 2 new girls/cpl in the last year, and i am lovely with a 12" tinkel and mega gud lookin and everything !!! "
Why do you and some others assume ugly people dont pull in a bar or nightclub? Some may think I'm ugly, yet I can pull in the supermarket. I fare better on the outside world than on here, my personality doesn't really come across online, hence why I find it easier to meet in swingers clubs and the outside world |
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".... but lot of lads that get nowt resort to the fugloids and even tv's as they are frustrated with no luck....."
On next weeks show we'll look at other creative ways of getting onto blocked lists....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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there are some men on here that dont respect women at all and i have met a few that werent right for me so i maybe a bit picky because i dont want to feel bad about myself after meeting someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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".... but lot of lads that get nowt resort to the fugloids and even tv's as they are frustrated with no luck.....
On next weeks show we'll look at other creative ways of getting onto blocked lists....
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dont get why some people think that just because women are on a swingers site, that we can't be picky and that we should fuck every guy that messages us.
I've had some fantastic meets with single guys, but the forums are really putting me off at the moment with some men having some sort of self entitlement. |
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When I read that on a profile, I don't see it as anything else other than to manage the expectations of guys - in a way, the member is saying, "I have lots of choice on here, so a shag isn't automatic because you have messaged me"
Most people know we all have standards, some simply think with what they have between their legs, so expectations run high…. when this happens, all of that has to be controlled and it helps to reduce the negative responses when you send a rejection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've read this a lot in the forums lately.
Because of the ratio of women to men on here, woman can be picky !?!?
Are we supposed to just Shag anything then? How ever big or small the ratio was, I'd still be picky~wouldn't you?"
Some people are picky some will shag anything thats moist. Do you have to shag anything? Well no you don't unless you are in the mood for munter sex!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure why people seem to think people that meet a lot aren't picky. There always seems to be comments about "oh I'm picky so I don't shag just anything and rarely ever meet."
If I met 50 guys last week, does that mean I'm not picky and have no standards?! Who does anyone know my taste in men, perhaps I fancied them all and turned down another 50.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not sure why people seem to think people that meet a lot aren't picky. There always seems to be comments about "oh I'm picky so I don't shag just anything and rarely ever meet."
If I met 50 guys last week, does that mean I'm not picky and have no standards?! Who does anyone know my taste in men, perhaps I fancied them all and turned down another 50.
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50/50 chance then |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've read this a lot in the forums lately.
Because of the ratio of women to men on here, woman can be picky !?!?
Are we supposed to just Shag anything then? How ever big or small the ratio was, I'd still be picky~wouldn't you?"
Of course your sposed to shag anyone, yer a bird and its a mans world dontchaknow
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I'm just as particular about who I fuck on here as I am in real life. Why wouldn't I be? I'm not desperate and won't be meeting anyone that I don't find attractive and get on well with.
My days of drinking myself silly and waking up next to a '10 to 2'er' are well and truly over |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure why people seem to think people that meet a lot aren't picky. There always seems to be comments about "oh I'm picky so I don't shag just anything and rarely ever meet."
If I met 50 guys last week, does that mean I'm not picky and have no standards?! Who does anyone know my taste in men, perhaps I fancied them all and turned down another 50.
50/50 chance then"
No. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always like the way some men (fortunately the minority) assume that as you're on a sex site, you'll shag anything. I've had some, shall we say colourful, replies to a polite no thanks but the guys that reply "well why the f*ck are you on here?" get me. Sorry, I wasn't aware I'd signed a contract to say I'd shag everyone who messages me lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've read this a lot in the forums lately.
Because of the ratio of women to men on here, woman can be picky !?!?
Are we supposed to just Shag anything then? How ever big or small the ratio was, I'd still be picky~wouldn't you?
Of course your sposed to shag anyone, yer a bird and its a mans world dontchaknow
Gimp"
Well they'd have to tie me down first,
Oh hang on, I like that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not sure why people seem to think people that meet a lot aren't picky. There always seems to be comments about "oh I'm picky so I don't shag just anything and rarely ever meet."
If I met 50 guys last week, does that mean I'm not picky and have no standards?! Who does anyone know my taste in men, perhaps I fancied them all and turned down another 50.
50/50 chance then
No."
But a yes to the next to ask.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always like the way some men (fortunately the minority) assume that as you're on a sex site, you'll shag anything. I've had some, shall we say colourful, replies to a polite no thanks but the guys that reply "well why the f*ck are you on here?" get me. Sorry, I wasn't aware I'd signed a contract to say I'd shag everyone who messages me lol"
and some women assume that men will fuck anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've read this a lot in the forums lately.
Because of the ratio of women to men on here, woman can be picky !?!?
Are we supposed to just Shag anything then? How ever big or small the ratio was, I'd still be picky~wouldn't you?
Of course your sposed to shag anyone, yer a bird and its a mans world dontchaknow
Gimp
Well they'd have to tie me down first,
Oh hang on, I like that "
Ohhh yes indeedy
Gimp |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We will almost all be ugly to someone. It's funny how people speak about ugly people when someone else will be saying the same about them"
With or without a 12" "tinkel"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We will almost all be ugly to someone. It's funny how people speak about ugly people when someone else will be saying the same about them
With or without a 12" "tinkel" "
Good luck to that man. I'd run a mile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We will almost all be ugly to someone. It's funny how people speak about ugly people when someone else will be saying the same about them
With or without a 12" "tinkel"
Good luck to that man. I'd run a mile "
If he likes fishing, you know not to trust his measurement |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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"Nowt wrong with being picky. Plenty of fugloids on here that get plenty of cock that wouldnt get pulled in a pub or a nightclub. But its hard for a lad to convince women to meet as they are in a sea of men. Hard to decypher what type of profile and message with stand out in order to get a reply. I know that some men put fake pics up and tell lies, and it works for some. Gone off on a tangent now, but lot of lads that get nowt resort to the fugloids and even tv's as they are frustrated with no luck. The pickings are slimmer than ever up here and i have only met 2 new girls/cpl in the last year, and i am lovely with a 12" tinkel and mega gud lookin and everything !!! "
Yeah right
I'm extremely fussy...my meets have to conform to the stringent criteria below...
1) Pulse*
2) Penis
*prepared to negotiate
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is anyone going to say oh I'm not picky at all I'll shag anyone? "
People will say whatever it takes !
Next one to mail me gets a shag, no questions asked  |
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"Nowt wrong with being picky. Plenty of fugloids on here that get plenty of cock that wouldnt get pulled in a pub or a nightclub. But its hard for a lad to convince women to meet as they are in a sea of men. Hard to decypher what type of profile and message with stand out in order to get a reply. I know that some men put fake pics up and tell lies, and it works for some. Gone off on a tangent now, but lot of lads that get nowt resort to the fugloids and even tv's as they are frustrated with no luck. The pickings are slimmer than ever up here and i have only met 2 new girls/cpl in the last year, and i am lovely with a 12" tinkel and mega gud lookin and everything !!!
Why do you and some others assume ugly people dont pull in a bar or nightclub? Some may think I'm ugly, yet I can pull in the supermarket. I fare better on the outside world than on here, my personality doesn't really come across online, hence why I find it easier to meet in swingers clubs and the outside world"
I would send you a message direct but not a site supporter so can't but would love to chat x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Going simply on looks, I would shag the majority of women on fab. I wouldn't say I am picky at all regarding a shag to be honest. Out of those, I wouldn't date many though and some I wouldn't even be seen out with. Just the way it is. I am sure many blokes and women feel the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not sure why people seem to think people that meet a lot aren't picky. There always seems to be comments about "oh I'm picky so I don't shag just anything and rarely ever meet."
If I met 50 guys last week, does that mean I'm not picky and have no standards?! Who does anyone know my taste in men, perhaps I fancied them all and turned down another 50.
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In my opinion which may not always ring true. The statement that those who meet a lot aren't picky is quite different to the statement that those who are picky don't meet a lot.
Now, to define what is 'a lot' is quite subjective. And that depends on each person. Someone may attend clubs and meet many there whilst others may tend to meet more privately. No one can judge someone on who they chose to meet - we don't know anyones selection criteria for choosing meets.
Maybe 'picky' is not the most appropriate choice of words.
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