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is is bad etiquette for women to send the first message
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok so just wondering, is it bad etiquette for women or couples to send the first message or is it solely left to us single guys ?
Would make my day if I logged on and found a message from someone I never expected |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't care about etiquette. I always send first messages. I am odd, I don't like people mailing me hence my shit profile. Much more fun to send mail.  "
answer my cock shots mail! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it's bad etiquette at all and have initiated contact with men by sending them messages first. Aswell as winking at the ones who catch my eye with their profile text and accompanying pictures |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't care about etiquette. I always send first messages. I am odd, I don't like people mailing me hence my shit profile. Much more fun to send mail.
answer my cock shots mail!"
Too busy licking the screen.  |
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You make your own rules, as long as everything is based on respect. Etiquette is there for the making and shaping, just as you wish it to be. Be friendly and others will be open to you, whoever contacts first, and it must be refreshing for single guys who feel they slog away to have contact made first to them - I do it, but mail management overall can be a slog for many of us. |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
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"Ok so just wondering, is it bad etiquette for women or couples to send the first message or is it solely left to us single guys ?
Would make my day if I logged on and found a message from someone I never expected "
Not at all.
Personally dont but I have my reasons.. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"Nope, its not, well so long as its not 'fancy a fuck'  ;-)"
I send first messages. I have had success with 'fancy a fuck?' as well as some even cruder ones. The guy involved was someone I'd already met and we did share a sense of humour though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought bad etiquette is not holding a door open for a woman or walking on the inside of the pavement.
It would maybe be considered bad etiquette not to respond to a woman online. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just single guys to women is high and most women will be too busy reading mail to have time to send it! Dint be a bitch about it, man up and think of something to send them with some originality so they reply, if not then you know to stop wasting your time on them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Holding doors and shit is politeness as is responding to a message even if for a "no thanks" regardless of male or female, if someone has put effort into messaging you, its polite to reply either way. No reply really bugs me but at same time I get over it quick and realise that person obviously isn't for you so, fingers up and move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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always send messages on my single profile and this one. I even get messages ignored or deleted, but it doesn't stop me sending messages to others.
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