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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have a problem and I was wondering if anyone else on here agrees.
Love and sex (well good sex, naughty sex, experimental sex) seem to be mutually exclusive to me.
I find it difficult to talk openly and be myself in the bedroom when I have feelings for someone but adversely I have the best sex ever with people who are practically strangers.
I think the difference is that on a site like this I can talk openly and earnestly about what I'd like to do and that leads to building up some trust and getting I know other peoples desires. I just can't seem to do it with a woman that I'm emotionally invested in.
It's annoying!
Does anyone else experience the same? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope. 2wheels is the first partner who I have felt completely comfortable with sharing all of my fantasies and secrets. I love exploring together, either as a couple or as two halves of a couple enjoying ourselves with friends.
If I wasn't getting good sex and experimenting, I wouldn't stay in a relationship as I need it all to be happy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All I know is when there is a sexual connection that's electric it's amazing!! Whether that's from meeting someone on here or with a partner. Iv experienced both. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Seems I may be alone in this. I guess the issue is communication. Maybe I'm worried about telling someone I care about, all of my darkest desires and fantasies in case I offend or upset.
Oh well, next time I will take the plunge, until then I will just enjoy the sex! |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Seems I may be alone in this. I guess the issue is communication. Maybe I'm worried about telling someone I care about, all of my darkest desires and fantasies in case I offend or upset.
Oh well, next time I will take the plunge, until then I will just enjoy the sex!"
There's nothing to say that love means you HAVE to share everything about yourself but your desires would be one of those things that I believe leads to deep and true love.
Without sharing you are withholding something fundamental about yourself and putting up a barrier to closeness.
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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago
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Whilst in a relationship its always been easy for me to ask the question, what's your fantasy, desire, and then share mine. From an early age ive been taught it good to talk.
Th differences with fab is that we have the tick box section where we don't need to take our time to find out what each of us whats |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Whilst in a relationship its always been easy for me to ask the question, what's your fantasy, desire, and then share mine. From an early age ive been taught it good to talk.
Th differences with fab is that we have the tick box section where we don't need to take our time to find out what each of us whats"
It's been so much better since we got engaged. 
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*We're not really engaged.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The best sex for me is when I am in love and it is reciprocated, then anything us possible. And it's soooo far superior to any kind of casual sex, even with a fwb, that I've given up swinging completely. I'm still here, but just chatting to friends, and enjoying the forums.  |
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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago
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"Whilst in a relationship its always been easy for me to ask the question, what's your fantasy, desire, and then share mine. From an early age ive been taught it good to talk.
Th differences with fab is that we have the tick box section where we don't need to take our time to find out what each of us whats
It's been so much better since we got engaged.
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*We're not really engaged.
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oh ive just seen this bit
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