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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I have certainly fallen for someone on a similar site to this, although the feelings weren't reciprocated. Most miserable month of my life, and that's why I don't meet more than once if possible. |
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over a year ago
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"I have certainly fallen for someone on a similar site to this, although the feelings weren't reciprocated. Most miserable month of my life, and that's why I don't meet more than once if possible."
That reads so awful. Why do that to yourself , sure you can find pain but also pleasure and one bad apple does not spoil a cider.
YOlO as they say, you only live once, so live it, however it runs with whatever happens. ... Swinging is such fun if you meet the same people often, assuming the chemistry is there. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I have certainly fallen for someone on a similar site to this, although the feelings weren't reciprocated. Most miserable month of my life, and that's why I don't meet more than once if possible.
That reads so awful. Why do that to yourself , sure you can find pain but also pleasure and one bad apple does not spoil a cider.
YOlO as they say, you only live once, so live it, however it runs with whatever happens. ... Swinging is such fun if you meet the same people often, assuming the chemistry is there. "
I am happy meeting the way I do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This has happened to me without my knowledge, was seeing a woman last year off of here regularly, and without my knowledge she had fallen for me in a big way. Anyway, i went to a mates house party where there were his sisters friends, I kissed another girl (that was all) and all hell broke loose with my regular friend. She didn't want to see me again and just went ape over the whole thing. So yes it can happen more than people realise, and tbh I really liked this regular girl I was seeing more than I cared to admit, so I guess it happened to me too. I was such a fool to let her go  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have certainly fallen for someone on a similar site to this, although the feelings weren't reciprocated. Most miserable month of my life, and that's why I don't meet more than once if possible.
That reads so awful. Why do that to yourself , sure you can find pain but also pleasure and one bad apple does not spoil a cider.
YOlO as they say, you only live once, so live it, however it runs with whatever happens. ... Swinging is such fun if you meet the same people often, assuming the chemistry is there.
I am happy meeting the way I do."
Good on u xx
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes I started to a while ago, so I cut all contact. Might seem harsh but that's how I deal with it in these circumstances. "
I assume that means you didn't feel the same or does it mean you cut yourself off from those emotions?
OP, yes it does and to some I would least expect. My Fab "idol" has gone and fallen in love and he's moved in. It makes me smile whenever I see her post now.
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Done it twice,, yes i do have mug written on my forehead "
That's harsh. Feelings come and we learn to deal with them but they add to the richness of life. Kissing and falling for the frogs makes it clear which ones are the prince when they come along. Unless you get addicted to frogs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I started to a while ago, so I cut all contact. Might seem harsh but that's how I deal with it in these circumstances.
I assume that means you didn't feel the same or does it mean you cut yourself off from those emotions?
OP, yes it does and to some I would least expect. My Fab "idol" has gone and fallen in love and he's moved in. It makes me smile whenever I see her post now."
If it's who I think you mean, I smile when I see her posts now too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is there a specific term for being addicted to Frogs ? Can't see the issue personally. As Bruce Springsteen said...what you don't surrender the world just strips away, so enjoy the experience...It may be good? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I started to a while ago, so I cut all contact. Might seem harsh but that's how I deal with it in these circumstances.
I assume that means you didn't feel the same or does it mean you cut yourself off from those emotions?
OP, yes it does and to some I would least expect. My Fab "idol" has gone and fallen in love and he's moved in. It makes me smile whenever I see her post now.
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Cut my self off from those emoticons.
I told her how I felt and she understood. She was grateful because it was obviously something she didn't want either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think it possible you can fall for someone off a site like this??"
Yes. We met for a fuck 3 1/2 years ago. Started living together 2 1/2 years ago. Recently bought our first home together.
Meeting someone through here, means you can be totally honest about subjects that are normally taboo in the 'normal' world.  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
" Is there a specific term for being addicted to Frogs ? Can't see the issue personally. As Bruce Springsteen said...what you don't surrender the world just strips away, so enjoy the experience...It may be good? "
My frogaphilia has taught me much and shaped who I am now. I'm sometimes still tempted by a frog but I no longer think I am addicted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes it's possible just cause it's fab doesn't mean you can't. When I feel it goes that way I prefer to stop seeing him as don't want to get hurt but if both feel like it why not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep. Rather unexpectedly I have fallen for someone on here. Wasn't looking for it at all, but affairs of the heart are nothing if not unpredictable "
Ditto |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Is there a specific term for being addicted to Frogs ? Can't see the issue personally. As Bruce Springsteen said...what you don't surrender the world just strips away, so enjoy the experience...It may be good?
My frogaphilia has taught me much and shaped who I am now. I'm sometimes still tempted by a frog but I no longer think I am addicted. "
An addiction to Frogs is not good. It has led to many a person ending up croaking it. |
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One can easily fall for someone that you meet through this site as you can through the countless myriad of ways that people do meet other than this 'aspect'..
Ben touched on one area which has some relevance..
people meet in the most varied of circumstances and places so yes this one is absolutely fine..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did.. Had a year together.. As nice as it was, we were a habit...
I chose more wisely and live in the moment...
Id hate to meet someone lovely then find out we were sexually wrong..
I prob won't find anyone here again but its fun auditioning!; |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my experience love happens in the least likely and most inconvenient places. I used to preach my ass off to my fab friends not to fall for anyone on here.... and now I am the one doing it. Oh well... I will enjoy it while I can.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This has happened to me without my knowledge, was seeing a woman last year off of here regularly, and without my knowledge she had fallen for me in a big way. Anyway, i went to a mates house party where there were his sisters friends, I kissed another girl (that was all) and all hell broke loose with my regular friend. She didn't want to see me again and just went ape over the whole thing. So yes it can happen more than people realise, and tbh I really liked this regular girl I was seeing more than I cared to admit, so I guess it happened to me too. I was such a fool to let her go "
Then get in touch with her and tell her! Life's too short! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This has happened to me without my knowledge, was seeing a woman last year off of here regularly, and without my knowledge she had fallen for me in a big way. Anyway, i went to a mates house party where there were his sisters friends, I kissed another girl (that was all) and all hell broke loose with my regular friend. She didn't want to see me again and just went ape over the whole thing. So yes it can happen more than people realise, and tbh I really liked this regular girl I was seeing more than I cared to admit, so I guess it happened to me too. I was such a fool to let her go
Then get in touch with her and tell her! Life's too short! "
This is good advise. Listen to this lady! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i did once years ago had maternal feelings for a man who was 30 years younger than me, because my husbands much older than me i liked having someone young to keep me company for a change. |
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"This shit happens every week with my fake single bi fem profiles. I am so hot as a woman.
whats about upsy daisy or your blue women? "
Upsy Daisy is so up for it it's unreal. As for blue chicks, I'm struggling to find any in great quantity |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This shit happens every week with my fake single bi fem profiles. I am so hot as a woman.
whats about upsy daisy or your blue women?
Upsy Daisy is so up for it it's unreal. As for blue chicks, I'm struggling to find any in great quantity "
zip back in time and shag them all again like it was your first time,, that slut upsy daisy will still be shaggin in hundreds of years to come |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think it possible you can fall for someone off a site like this??"
Its happened many times some keep it low key some sing it from the rooftops shouting their undying love and that they have found their life partner so yes. You also get a lot deleting when it goes tits up though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They say these things happen when you least expect it so it could happen on here. I'm scared it's going to happen to me as it will only end in tears.....probably mine.
I'm not girlfriend material. |
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"They say these things happen when you least expect it so it could happen on here. I'm scared it's going to happen to me as it will only end in tears.....probably mine.
I'm not girlfriend material."
There is soneone there for everyone andthe journey is worth the ride |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think it possible you can fall for someone off a site like this??"
It happened to me.....I wasn't looking for anything other than nsa fun, but love found me. I had arranged to meet a guy for a social and the rest as they say is history.... |
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"They say these things happen when you least expect it so it could happen on here. I'm scared it's going to happen to me as it will only end in tears.....probably mine.
I'm not girlfriend material.
There is soneone there for everyone andthe journey is worth the ride"
Mine has died or emigrated to the fucking North Pole  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They say these things happen when you least expect it so it could happen on here. I'm scared it's going to happen to me as it will only end in tears.....probably mine.
I'm not girlfriend material."
Neither was I and I thought the same  |
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"They say these things happen when you least expect it so it could happen on here. I'm scared it's going to happen to me as it will only end in tears.....probably mine.
I'm not girlfriend material."
Haha, I am quite concerned too and I am girlfriend material!! I started to slide down the slippery slope once on here, but he showed himself to be arsehole before I got too far luckily!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They say these things happen when you least expect it so it could happen on here. I'm scared it's going to happen to me as it will only end in tears.....probably mine.
I'm not girlfriend material.
Neither was I and I thought the same "
Must admit I was happy to hear your news x |
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"Yes I started to a while ago, so I cut all contact. Might seem harsh but that's how I deal with it in these circumstances.
I assume that means you didn't feel the same or does it mean you cut yourself off from those emotions?
OP, yes it does and to some I would least expect. My Fab "idol" has gone and fallen in love and he's moved in. It makes me smile whenever I see her post now.
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 I wonder who you mean?!! |
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The difficulty that can arise is that many of those who use the internet for meets be they for sex or dating often embellish a little and sometimes outright lie about who they really are.
Its possible that the person you think you're falling for is virtual and not real.
Having said that, yes I know of couples. Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't, just like in rl. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They say these things happen when you least expect it so it could happen on here. I'm scared it's going to happen to me as it will only end in tears.....probably mine.
I'm not girlfriend material.
Neither was I and I thought the same
Must admit I was happy to hear your news x"
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was playing with someone from here . Found out they was married and he suddenly told me he loved me and was leaving his wife !!!!!
Eeeeekkkkkk!!!!!!!!
I was shocked !!
If only I loved him too and he wasn't married |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"They say these things happen when you least expect it so it could happen on here. I'm scared it's going to happen to me as it will only end in tears.....probably mine.
I'm not girlfriend material.
Neither was I and I thought the same "
Oooh, another one. Congratulations.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This has happened to me without my knowledge, was seeing a woman last year off of here regularly, and without my knowledge she had fallen for me in a big way. Anyway, i went to a mates house party where there were his sisters friends, I kissed another girl (that was all) and all hell broke loose with my regular friend. She didn't want to see me again and just went ape over the whole thing. So yes it can happen more than people realise, and tbh I really liked this regular girl I was seeing more than I cared to admit, so I guess it happened to me too. I was such a fool to let her go
Then get in touch with her and tell her! Life's too short!
This is good advise. Listen to this lady!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They say these things happen when you least expect it so it could happen on here. I'm scared it's going to happen to me as it will only end in tears.....probably mine.
I'm not girlfriend material.
Neither was I and I thought the same
Oooh, another one. Congratulations.
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Thank you early days yet and going with the flow x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They say these things happen when you least expect it so it could happen on here. I'm scared it's going to happen to me as it will only end in tears.....probably mine.
I'm not girlfriend material.
Neither was I and I thought the same
Oooh, another one. Congratulations.
Thank you early days yet and going with the flow x "
That's lovely news. I hope it works out really well x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am not actively looking for a relationship . But . I think if I ever did want a relationship I reckon it would be someone I met om fab because I meet a lot more ladies on here then I do in the vanilla world . So the chances are it would be someone off here |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I am not actively looking for a relationship . But . I think if I ever did want a relationship I reckon it would be someone I met om fab because I meet a lot more ladies on here then I do in the vanilla world . So the chances are it would be someone off here "
You haven't sold yourself well. You should have mentioned your prowess as a cook, your legendary skills at moth slaying and that little incident involving skiing off a mountainside and opening a parachute emblazoned with the Union Jack. |
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"I think their would be a trust issue after a while, especially if you agreed not to use sites like this anymore, would you believe them."
We are no different people than those that use a dating site... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think their would be a trust issue after a while, especially if you agreed not to use sites like this anymore, would you believe them.
We are no different people than those that use a dating site..."
I think we are different to dating sites really because some people i have met thought swingers were a bit strange.
some probably are quite similar types on dating sites though. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I think their would be a trust issue after a while, especially if you agreed not to use sites like this anymore, would you believe them.
We are no different people than those that use a dating site..."
In contrast to pulling in a pub or a club, I think on here you get chance to get to know someone a bit better, as in most pubs all you tend to hear is their name, where they are from and what they do for a living, anything deeper is hard to hear due to the music. |
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Yep
Seen it done it got the bloody tee shirt. And if I'm honest, was quite cut up about it when it ended.
Still think about her now, and that's after nearly 3 months.
But life has to go on.
Still bloody hurts though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i was seeing someone as a friend
she went quiet no taxt or whatsapp
kept asking what was wrong - no answers
finally txt me sayong she'd fallen for me and wanted to end it?
i miss her but was supposed to be fun
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think their would be a trust issue after a while, especially if you agreed not to use sites like this anymore, would you believe them.
We are no different people than those that use a dating site..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This has happened to me without my knowledge, was seeing a woman last year off of here regularly, and without my knowledge she had fallen for me in a big way. Anyway, i went to a mates house party where there were his sisters friends, I kissed another girl (that was all) and all hell broke loose with my regular friend. She didn't want to see me again and just went ape over the whole thing. So yes it can happen more than people realise, and tbh I really liked this regular girl I was seeing more than I cared to admit, so I guess it happened to me too. I was such a fool to let her go "
Oh how sad! - Couldn't you get in touch now? |
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"They say these things happen when you least expect it so it could happen on here. I'm scared it's going to happen to me as it will only end in tears.....probably mine.
I'm not girlfriend material.
Neither was I and I thought the same
Oooh, another one. Congratulations.
Thank you early days yet and going with the flow x "
Very best of luck lovely lady xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met my best friend on here. She left the site soon after...and our friendship became even deeper....and just that. A friendship....best buddies.
She has recently rejoined the site and has just left my flat...my bed is fucken ruined lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sazz and I met on fab over a year ago and we've never been happier. Been living together for a year now and wouldn't have it any other way. She's my partner in crime and I love her to bits. We can talk openly and honestly about anything and hide nothing from each other. I only wish I'd met her sooner. |
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I met a guy off here earlier this year. It soon became obvious that we were having an affair and that we both had feelings we hadn't expected. I'm backing off because he's happily married, I don't want to break them up and I don't want him for anything but good sex. So I'm back on the scene and not encouraging contact with him.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I met a guy off here earlier this year. It soon became obvious that we were having an affair and that we both had feelings we hadn't expected. I'm backing off because he's happily married, I don't want to break them up and I don't want him for anything but good sex. So I'm back on the scene and not encouraging contact with him. "
Tough but mature decision |
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"Am I missing something? I thought this was a 'pure' sex site?? Not a dating site  "
I've been on here seven years. Had a wonderful time, never had a time waster or truly bad experience.
Last November I got a message that made me laugh and I got chatting. Sex wasn't mentioned we simply cracked each other up. After a couple of days we started chatting on the phone for hours and he asked if we could meet for a date.
He shocked himself as his play rules were simple: find em, fuck em and forget them. I was equally shocked as I don't date.
We discovered sexually we were into different things, socially and politically we're polar opposites, he's never married or had kids, is a ukip voting businessman with his own company whilst I'm a divorced mum, full time union official bleeding heart, tree hugging liberal (his words). He's white, Dutch,6ft 1 fit, I'm 5ft 7, black and fat.
He moved in with me and talking marriage: we are completely surprised with this turn off events. Neither of us was looking for anything but nsa but when Cupid fires his arrows... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I missing something? I thought this was a 'pure' sex site?? Not a dating site "
I don't think this is a pure sex site. The name is Fab Swingers so I think you'll find that it's actually a swingers site which is a big difference.
Swinging is based around couples so dating from here makes perfect sense to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am I missing something? I thought this was a 'pure' sex site?? Not a dating site
I've been on here seven years. Had a wonderful time, never had a time waster or truly bad experience.
Last November I got a message that made me laugh and I got chatting. Sex wasn't mentioned we simply cracked each other up. After a couple of days we started chatting on the phone for hours and he asked if we could meet for a date.
He shocked himself as his play rules were simple: find em, fuck em and forget them. I was equally shocked as I don't date.
We discovered sexually we were into different things, socially and politically we're polar opposites, he's never married or had kids, is a ukip voting businessman with his own company whilst I'm a divorced mum, full time union official bleeding heart, tree hugging liberal (his words). He's white, Dutch,6ft 1 fit, I'm 5ft 7, black and fat.
He moved in with me and talking marriage: we are completely surprised with this turn off events. Neither of us was looking for anything but nsa but when Cupid fires his arrows... "
I am soooo happy for you both.  |
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it worries me an awful lot the thought of relationships. I'm not girlfriend material, could never share my bed or home with anyone, but i do like to have regular swinging partners, but it stays as friends |
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"I have certainly fallen for someone on a similar site to this, although the feelings weren't reciprocated. Most miserable month of my life, and that's why I don't meet more than once if possible."
Snap |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Am I missing something? I thought this was a 'pure' sex site?? Not a dating site "
This isn't a "pure" anything site. There are all sorts of people on here, for all sorts of reasons. Sometimes some of those people find things they weren't even looking for.
I wouldn't have described it as a sex site anyway and have disagreed with others who've said that in the past.
To you it may be purely a sex site, but to others it's not, which makes it more than a sex site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I missing something? I thought this was a 'pure' sex site?? Not a dating site
I've been on here seven years. Had a wonderful time, never had a time waster or truly bad experience.
Last November I got a message that made me laugh and I got chatting. Sex wasn't mentioned we simply cracked each other up. After a couple of days we started chatting on the phone for hours and he asked if we could meet for a date.
He shocked himself as his play rules were simple: find em, fuck em and forget them. I was equally shocked as I don't date.
We discovered sexually we were into different things, socially and politically we're polar opposites, he's never married or had kids, is a ukip voting businessman with his own company whilst I'm a divorced mum, full time union official bleeding heart, tree hugging liberal (his words). He's white, Dutch,6ft 1 fit, I'm 5ft 7, black and fat.
He moved in with me and talking marriage: we are completely surprised with this turn off events. Neither of us was looking for anything but nsa but when Cupid fires his arrows... "
Marriage! congrats!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I missing something? I thought this was a 'pure' sex site?? Not a dating site "
No its a swingers site. Were people can find like minded individuals. That may include relationships forming. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think its perfectly feasible for people to fall for each other on here, you would like to think that everyone here is like minded, don't like minded people get together ?  |
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It does happen, yes.
When I was new here a lady from down south fell for me even before we had met, I was still in a bit of a bad place from my marriage breakdown at the time and I should have made better decisions at that point. I really regret hurting her
I also had a local woman fall for me and then cause a lot of problems for me when I told her I wasn't interested. I learnt from that and I'm more careful now. |
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"Am I missing something? I thought this was a 'pure' sex site?? Not a dating site
I've been on here seven years. Had a wonderful time, never had a time waster or truly bad experience.
Last November I got a message that made me laugh and I got chatting. Sex wasn't mentioned we simply cracked each other up. After a couple of days we started chatting on the phone for hours and he asked if we could meet for a date.
He shocked himself as his play rules were simple: find em, fuck em and forget them. I was equally shocked as I don't date.
We discovered sexually we were into different things, socially and politically we're polar opposites, he's never married or had kids, is a ukip voting businessman with his own company whilst I'm a divorced mum, full time union official bleeding heart, tree hugging liberal (his words). He's white, Dutch,6ft 1 fit, I'm 5ft 7, black and fat.
He moved in with me and talking marriage: we are completely surprised with this turn off events. Neither of us was looking for anything but nsa but when Cupid fires his arrows...
Marriage! congrats!!! "
He's talking, I'm not: been there, done that but he's convinced I'll want to marry him!  |
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"Am I missing something? I thought this was a 'pure' sex site?? Not a dating site
I've been on here seven years. Had a wonderful time, never had a time waster or truly bad experience.
Last November I got a message that made me laugh and I got chatting. Sex wasn't mentioned we simply cracked each other up. After a couple of days we started chatting on the phone for hours and he asked if we could meet for a date.
He shocked himself as his play rules were simple: find em, fuck em and forget them. I was equally shocked as I don't date.
We discovered sexually we were into different things, socially and politically we're polar opposites, he's never married or had kids, is a ukip voting businessman with his own company whilst I'm a divorced mum, full time union official bleeding heart, tree hugging liberal (his words). He's white, Dutch,6ft 1 fit, I'm 5ft 7, black and fat.
He moved in with me and talking marriage: we are completely surprised with this turn off events. Neither of us was looking for anything but nsa but when Cupid fires his arrows...
Marriage! congrats!!!
He's talking, I'm not: been there, done that but he's convinced I'll want to marry him! "
Aww I bet you will x |
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It is difficult when you fall for someone in any situation and they don't feel the same...fab is no different. People use fab how they want I use it to meet guys, go to socials etc, however I'm honest I'm my intentions that I would like something a bit more it's clear as day on my profile |
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"Do you think it possible you can fall for someone off a site like this??"
Loads have and some have even got married .... But you get a lot of player here and liars too .......... You could go to Tesco fall for someone too . lol
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Yup its happened and hurts like hell! Especially more when he said he had feelings for me too then I found out through facebook he already had a girlfriend!
Going to stay single now and forget what feelings are much easier |
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"Sazz and I met on fab over a year ago and we've never been happier. Been living together for a year now and wouldn't have it any other way. She's my partner in crime and I love her to bits. We can talk openly and honestly about anything and hide nothing from each other. I only wish I'd met her sooner. "
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