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Not if you in r-ship ... What's that all about?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always ask if someone's in a relationship. . Don't judge, but it's hard enough for us to find the time to meet single guys, let alone getting diaries to match with those with 'extra concerns'. . .
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
" It is not like every one over here are saints or like they gone feel guilty for having sex with some one in r-ship."
How do you know?
It's not like there's anything wrong with single people having sex with other single people. Cheating on a partner, on the other hand, is a totally different thing.
I'm single and prefer single partners for a number of reasons.
- attached people always seem to want to come to my place because, obviously, they can't accommodate.
- attached people are only available when they can get away from their partner whereas I am more flexible and like them to be too.
- I don't like feeling like a dirty little secret.
- attached people are usually very worried about getting caught and are paranoid about perfume, scented products, makeup, locations, being seen together and goodness knows what else.
- I don't want the partner of an attached person calling me or turning up on my doorstep when they get caught.
It's about practical considerations just as much as moral ones.
If *you* prefer to meet cheaters, great, but don't expect everyone to feel the same way and don't tell them they should. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" It is not like every one over here are saints or like they gone feel guilty for having sex with some one in r-ship.
How do you know?
It's not like there's anything wrong with single people having sex with other single people. Cheating on a partner, on the other hand, is a totally different thing.
I'm single and prefer single partners for a number of reasons.
- attached people always seem to want to come to my place because, obviously, they can't accommodate.
- attached people are only available when they can get away from their partner whereas I am more flexible and like them to be too.
- I don't like feeling like a dirty little secret.
- attached people are usually very worried about getting caught and are paranoid about perfume, scented products, makeup, locations, being seen together and goodness knows what else.
- I don't want the partner of an attached person calling me or turning up on my doorstep when they get caught.
It's about practical considerations just as much as moral ones.
If *you* prefer to meet cheaters, great, but don't expect everyone to feel the same way and don't tell them they should."
 Spot on. |
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"Something I don't understand is when ppl ask if your in a relationship or not/or they state not if you are in rship... It is not like every one over here are saints or like they gone feel guilty for having sex with some one in r-ship. I personally like if that person is in r-ship or even doing it secrete gives the meet a whole new dimension... What's your thought!?     "
You said ..... I personally like if that person is in a relationship or doing it in secret it gives the meet a whole new dimension .......
That's psychology ......not swinging.
Maybe you need the danger element to make you feel alive.
Personally I just like the sex. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Ever had someones wife turn up at your door?"
No because I try to avoid cheats and don't accommodate for strangers.
There are others on here that have, even, in some cases when they had no idea the guy had a wife. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Something I don't understand is when ppl ask if your in a relationship or not/or they state not if you are in rship... It is not like every one over here are saints or like they gone feel guilty for having sex with some one in r-ship. I personally like if that person is in r-ship or even doing it secrete gives the meet a whole new dimension... What's your thought!?
You said ..... I personally like if that person is in a relationship or doing it in secret it gives the meet a whole new dimension .......
That's psychology ......not swinging.
Maybe you need the danger element to make you feel alive.
Personally I just like the sex. "
I agree.
Preferably without hassle, sneaking about, lying and everything else likely to be involved in meeting attached, cheating people.
I still find it bizarre so many look to cheat on a swinging site, when swinging is all about openness between partners. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
hiding from cock pics. |
" It is not like every one over here are saints or like they gone feel guilty for having sex with some one in r-ship.
How do you know?
It's not like there's anything wrong with single people having sex with other single people. Cheating on a partner, on the other hand, is a totally different thing.
I'm single and prefer single partners for a number of reasons.
- attached people always seem to want to come to my place because, obviously, they can't accommodate.
- attached people are only available when they can get away from their partner whereas I am more flexible and like them to be too.
- I don't like feeling like a dirty little secret.
- attached people are usually very worried about getting caught and are paranoid about perfume, scented products, makeup, locations, being seen together and goodness knows what else.
- I don't want the partner of an attached person calling me or turning up on my doorstep when they get caught.
It's about practical considerations just as much as moral ones.
If *you* prefer to meet cheaters, great, but don't expect everyone to feel the same way and don't tell them they should."
All this ( very well put) plus I don't want to be any part of something that could potentially hurt someone... I'm here to for fun not to hurt anyone at all (even if I dont know them) and I'm allergic to drama too. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
I love these threads.
But whhhyyyy do people want different things to what I want? Whhhyyy do they want something other than what I am offering? I don't understand.
Is it really that difficult to see that people have different standards, different likes and dislikes, different desires and want different things? |
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I don't play nice. If a man in a relationship can explain away where his pubic hair went, the wax burns on his chest, the cuff marks around his wrists, the John Wayne walk after being on the business end of my dildo Goliath and the "property of Miss Vee" temporary tattoo on their arse I have no qualms meeting! |
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" It is not like every one over here are saints or like they gone feel guilty for having sex with some one in r-ship.
How do you know?
It's not like there's anything wrong with single people having sex with other single people. Cheating on a partner, on the other hand, is a totally different thing.
I'm single and prefer single partners for a number of reasons.
- attached people always seem to want to come to my place because, obviously, they can't accommodate.
- attached people are only available when they can get away from their partner whereas I am more flexible and like them to be too.
- I don't like feeling like a dirty little secret.
- attached people are usually very worried about getting caught and are paranoid about perfume, scented products, makeup, locations, being seen together and goodness knows what else.
- I don't want the partner of an attached person calling me or turning up on my doorstep when they get caught.
It's about practical considerations just as much as moral ones.
If *you* prefer to meet cheaters, great, but don't expect everyone to feel the same way and don't tell them they should."
There ya go! |
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"I love these threads.
But whhhyyyy do people want different things to what I want? Whhhyyy do they want something other than what I am offering? I don't understand.
Is it really that difficult to see that people have different standards, different likes and dislikes, different desires and want different things?"
For some: obviously not! |
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" It is not like every one over here are saints or like they gone feel guilty for having sex with some one in r-ship.
How do you know?
It's not like there's anything wrong with single people having sex with other single people. Cheating on a partner, on the other hand, is a totally different thing.
I'm single and prefer single partners for a number of reasons.
- attached people always seem to want to come to my place because, obviously, they can't accommodate.
- attached people are only available when they can get away from their partner whereas I am more flexible and like them to be too.
- I don't like feeling like a dirty little secret.
- attached people are usually very worried about getting caught and are paranoid about perfume, scented products, makeup, locations, being seen together and goodness knows what else.
- I don't want the partner of an attached person calling me or turning up on my doorstep when they get caught.
It's about practical considerations just as much as moral ones.
If *you* prefer to meet cheaters, great, but don't expect everyone to feel the same way and don't tell them they should.
Spot on. "
This says it all for me too |
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"I love these threads.
But whhhyyyy do people want different things to what I want? Whhhyyy do they want something other than what I am offering? I don't understand.
Is it really that difficult to see that people have different standards, different likes and dislikes, different desires and want different things?"
Well said. Live and let live init !  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I don't play nice. If a man in a relationship can explain away where his pubic hair went, the wax burns on his chest, the cuff marks around his wrists, the John Wayne walk after being on the business end of my dildo Goliath and the "property of Miss Vee" temporary tattoo on their arse I have no qualms meeting!"
Something I never thought I would write... I just spluttered over my screen. I want to put a tattoo on meets now. |
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