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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im not knocking the site I was on here a few years ago as a couple and it worked well for us. And even as a single male I find the forum very entertaining and its pretty much the only reason I use it.
Iv noticed 99% of all the women I find attractive on this site are here to meet other women.
And in reality I can meet goodlooking women much easier elswhere. Thats not being rude just saying iv been on dating sites in the past and got loads of messages from attractive women.
I meet hot women when im out in bars, at work, in gym, even bloody sainsburys lol
But im fucked if I know how to meet a hot woman on here!! Lol
The point is I dont want a serious relationship or dating a girl wasting her time. I just want to have some fun where both know the score.
If I bullshit women I get laid all week and if im honest and come to a place like this its a big fat 0
Thanks for reading 
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Guess sainsbury it is then lol"
*other supermarkets are available! 
OP - thanks for sharing - but if you're having more luck elsewhere why stress about a lack of success here?
There's only so many hours in a day and if it's easier to meet 'hot' women offsite why not concentrate on that?
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Im not knocking the site I was on here a few years ago as a couple and it worked well for us. And even as a single male I find the forum very entertaining and its pretty much the only reason I use it.
Iv noticed 99% of all the women I find attractive on this site are here to meet other women.
And in reality I can meet goodlooking women much easier elswhere. Thats not being rude just saying iv been on dating sites in the past and got loads of messages from attractive women.
I meet hot women when im out in bars, at work, in gym, even bloody sainsburys lol
But im fucked if I know how to meet a hot woman on here!! Lol
The point is I dont want a serious relationship or dating a girl wasting her time. I just want to have some fun where both know the score.
If I bullshit women I get laid all week and if im honest and come to a place like this its a big fat 0
Thanks for reading "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok maybe I didnt explain very well.
My point is if I want to tell women what they want to hear, then dating sites are very easy to have a new girl every week.... But if you have morals and come to a place where you can be honest its very dificult.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok maybe I didnt explain very well.
My point is if I want to tell women what they want to hear, then dating sites are very easy to have a new girl every week.... But if you have morals and come to a place where you can be honest its very dificult.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not knocking the site I was on here a few years ago as a couple and it worked well for us. And even as a single male I find the forum very entertaining and its pretty much the only reason I use it.
Iv noticed 99% of all the women I find attractive on this site are here to meet other women.
And in reality I can meet goodlooking women much easier elswhere. Thats not being rude just saying iv been on dating sites in the past and got loads of messages from attractive women.
I meet hot women when im out in bars, at work, in gym, even bloody sainsburys lol
But im fucked if I know how to meet a hot woman on here!! Lol
The point is I dont want a serious relationship or dating a girl wasting her time. I just want to have some fun where both know the score.
If I bullshit women I get laid all week and if im honest and come to a place like this its a big fat 0
Thanks for reading
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Is there a shag one get one free in Sainsburys ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So do you get classy but secretly tarty women in Waitrose and obviously worn out drabs in Aldi or what?
Is there a spectrum of quality of shopper based on supermarket quality? "
I wish it was that simple! Lol maybe I should start shopping in a less quality supermarkets!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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obviously you are not playing how swingers like it.
that means putting more effort in.
I see guys profiles, musclebound,big cock,may be chiseledly handsome too...yet they get fuck all..mainly because they arent looking at the seen properly.Check out clubs/parties etc etc etc..
You say you are social enough to meet in 'normal' life..and of course pull...whats the difference in attending the events on here?
and lets look deeper:
U can pull in real life..u should have at least some regular women then...
I've not checked your profile yet..so I will reserve judgement on where you may be going wrong lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"obviously you are not playing how swingers like it.
that means putting more effort in.
I see guys profiles, musclebound,big cock,may be chiseledly handsome too...yet they get fuck all..mainly because they arent looking at the seen properly.Check out clubs/parties etc etc etc..
You say you are social enough to meet in 'normal' life..and of course pull...whats the difference in attending the events on here?
and lets look deeper:
U can pull in real life..u should have at least some regular women then...
I've not checked your profile yet..so I will reserve judgement on where you may be going wrong lol"
just looked..you have been here 2weeks and your profile is a bit shit. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"obviously you are not playing how swingers like it.
that means putting more effort in.
I see guys profiles, musclebound,big cock,may be chiseledly handsome too...yet they get fuck all..mainly because they arent looking at the seen properly.Check out clubs/parties etc etc etc..
You say you are social enough to meet in 'normal' life..and of course pull...whats the difference in attending the events on here?
and lets look deeper:
U can pull in real life..u should have at least some regular women then...
I've not checked your profile yet..so I will reserve judgement on where you may be going wrong lol
just looked..you have been here 2weeks and your profile is a bit shit."
Iv been here in the past and took the time to write a good profile it made no difference.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"obviously you are not playing how swingers like it.
that means putting more effort in.
I see guys profiles, musclebound,big cock,may be chiseledly handsome too...yet they get fuck all..mainly because they arent looking at the seen properly.Check out clubs/parties etc etc etc..
You say you are social enough to meet in 'normal' life..and of course pull...whats the difference in attending the events on here?
and lets look deeper:
U can pull in real life..u should have at least some regular women then...
I've not checked your profile yet..so I will reserve judgement on where you may be going wrong lol
just looked..you have been here 2weeks and your profile is a bit shit.
Iv been here in the past and took the time to write a good profile it made no difference.
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ok been here in the past...did u ever try going to anything??????
and the way u say 'good guys' means u think other guys who are getting it must be 'bad guys' lol- I've given u advice...perhaps take it...thats all I can say. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"obviously you are not playing how swingers like it.
that means putting more effort in.
I see guys profiles, musclebound,big cock,may be chiseledly handsome too...yet they get fuck all..mainly because they arent looking at the seen properly.Check out clubs/parties etc etc etc..
You say you are social enough to meet in 'normal' life..and of course pull...whats the difference in attending the events on here?
and lets look deeper:
U can pull in real life..u should have at least some regular women then...
I've not checked your profile yet..so I will reserve judgement on where you may be going wrong lol
just looked..you have been here 2weeks and your profile is a bit shit.
Iv been here in the past and took the time to write a good profile it made no difference.
ok been here in the past...did u ever try going to anything??????
and the way u say 'good guys' means u think other guys who are getting it must be 'bad guys' lol- I've given u advice...perhaps take it...thats all I can say."
Why do people put words in my mouth? I was just saying I don't feel comfortable stringing girls along just so I can get sex. I know of a couple of guys at work that meet nice girls under force pretences for sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Keen shops at tescos
only cause they sell semi soiled produce
And alcohol "
mmm soiled alcohol..did u know buckfast is re-distilled in alchies bellies 6 times before being bottled?-thats why its very very dark. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So you have been here 2 weeks OP and the women on the site aren't falling over themselves to meet you. How are you approaching women on here? Did you think it would be v easy? I'd be going back to Sainsburys or even lower your standards -try Asda. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Keen shops at tescos
only cause they sell semi soiled produce
And alcohol
mmm soiled alcohol..did u know buckfast is re-distilled in alchies bellies 6 times before being bottled?-thats why its very very dark."
It should be called chuckupfast |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"obviously you are not playing how swingers like it.
that means putting more effort in.
I see guys profiles, musclebound,big cock,may be chiseledly handsome too...yet they get fuck all..mainly because they arent looking at the seen properly.Check out clubs/parties etc etc etc..
You say you are social enough to meet in 'normal' life..and of course pull...whats the difference in attending the events on here?
and lets look deeper:
U can pull in real life..u should have at least some regular women then...
I've not checked your profile yet..so I will reserve judgement on where you may be going wrong lol
just looked..you have been here 2weeks and your profile is a bit shit.
Iv been here in the past and took the time to write a good profile it made no difference.
ok been here in the past...did u ever try going to anything??????
and the way u say 'good guys' means u think other guys who are getting it must be 'bad guys' lol- I've given u advice...perhaps take it...thats all I can say.
Why do people put words in my mouth? I was just saying I don't feel comfortable stringing girls along just so I can get sex. I know of a couple of guys at work that meet nice girls under force pretences for sex. "
well remain unhappy with the site..your choice.
And I think you havent answered my question:
HAVE U WENT TO A CLUB OR ANOTHER EVENT? AS THERE ARE MANY SOME JUST RECENTLY.
or do you think you wouldnt be attracted to any that go(ok I put that in your mouth lol ooer)
try not taking this too personal..I'm giving you advice..you appear to be hung up on getting sex with attractive people...while ignoring there probably will be some attractive people you would meet in the afore mentioned places.
I cant be any more clear can I? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Keen shops at tescos
only cause they sell semi soiled produce
And alcohol
mmm soiled alcohol..did u know buckfast is re-distilled in alchies bellies 6 times before being bottled?-thats why its very very dark.
It should be called chuckupfast "
lol no its BUMFAST u idiot xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"obviously you are not playing how swingers like it.
that means putting more effort in.
I see guys profiles, musclebound,big cock,may be chiseledly handsome too...yet they get fuck all..mainly because they arent looking at the seen properly.Check out clubs/parties etc etc etc..
You say you are social enough to meet in 'normal' life..and of course pull...whats the difference in attending the events on here?
and lets look deeper:
U can pull in real life..u should have at least some regular women then...
I've not checked your profile yet..so I will reserve judgement on where you may be going wrong lol
just looked..you have been here 2weeks and your profile is a bit shit.
Iv been here in the past and took the time to write a good profile it made no difference.
ok been here in the past...did u ever try going to anything??????
and the way u say 'good guys' means u think other guys who are getting it must be 'bad guys' lol- I've given u advice...perhaps take it...thats all I can say.
Why do people put words in my mouth? I was just saying I don't feel comfortable stringing girls along just so I can get sex. I know of a couple of guys at work that meet nice girls under force pretences for sex.
well remain unhappy with the site..your choice.
And I think you havent answered my question:
HAVE U WENT TO A CLUB OR ANOTHER EVENT? AS THERE ARE MANY SOME JUST RECENTLY.
or do you think you wouldnt be attracted to any that go(ok I put that in your mouth lol ooer)
try not taking this too personal..I'm giving you advice..you appear to be hung up on getting sex with attractive people...while ignoring there probably will be some attractive people you would meet in the afore mentioned places.
I cant be any more clear can I?"
I didn't say I was unhappy with the site!!! in fact I made it very clear that I was not knocking the site.
Yes iv been to a party before as a couple but not as a single.
Why are people so fast to patronize or be unfriendly? |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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It's all subjective. What makes you a good guy? Why are you coming last/who are you racing against? What do you consider hot/attractive?
Your OP on here is longer than your whole profile (including the tick box, multiple choice sections).
Your OP sets out that you are successful out there where you can see people and they can see you. Keep doing that. Uncomplicated sex is possible with people you meet off-site.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"obviously you are not playing how swingers like it.
that means putting more effort in.
I see guys profiles, musclebound,big cock,may be chiseledly handsome too...yet they get fuck all..mainly because they arent looking at the seen properly.Check out clubs/parties etc etc etc..
You say you are social enough to meet in 'normal' life..and of course pull...whats the difference in attending the events on here?
and lets look deeper:
U can pull in real life..u should have at least some regular women then...
I've not checked your profile yet..so I will reserve judgement on where you may be going wrong lol
just looked..you have been here 2weeks and your profile is a bit shit.
Iv been here in the past and took the time to write a good profile it made no difference.
ok been here in the past...did u ever try going to anything??????
and the way u say 'good guys' means u think other guys who are getting it must be 'bad guys' lol- I've given u advice...perhaps take it...thats all I can say.
Why do people put words in my mouth? I was just saying I don't feel comfortable stringing girls along just so I can get sex. I know of a couple of guys at work that meet nice girls under force pretences for sex.
well remain unhappy with the site..your choice.
And I think you havent answered my question:
HAVE U WENT TO A CLUB OR ANOTHER EVENT? AS THERE ARE MANY SOME JUST RECENTLY.
or do you think you wouldnt be attracted to any that go(ok I put that in your mouth lol ooer)
try not taking this too personal..I'm giving you advice..you appear to be hung up on getting sex with attractive people...while ignoring there probably will be some attractive people you would meet in the afore mentioned places.
I cant be any more clear can I?
I didn't say I was unhappy with the site!!! in fact I made it very clear that I was not knocking the site.
Yes iv been to a party before as a couple but not as a single.
Why are people so fast to patronize or be unfriendly? "
98% of the females on the site are looking for women..I've given u an alternative.Hardly patronizing...its been advice from the very start.U just arent listening. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"obviously you are not playing how swingers like it.
that means putting more effort in.
I see guys profiles, musclebound,big cock,may be chiseledly handsome too...yet they get fuck all..mainly because they arent looking at the seen properly.Check out clubs/parties etc etc etc..
You say you are social enough to meet in 'normal' life..and of course pull...whats the difference in attending the events on here?
and lets look deeper:
U can pull in real life..u should have at least some regular women then...
I've not checked your profile yet..so I will reserve judgement on where you may be going wrong lol
just looked..you have been here 2weeks and your profile is a bit shit.
Iv been here in the past and took the time to write a good profile it made no difference.
ok been here in the past...did u ever try going to anything??????
and the way u say 'good guys' means u think other guys who are getting it must be 'bad guys' lol- I've given u advice...perhaps take it...thats all I can say.
Why do people put words in my mouth? I was just saying I don't feel comfortable stringing girls along just so I can get sex. I know of a couple of guys at work that meet nice girls under force pretences for sex.
well remain unhappy with the site..your choice.
And I think you havent answered my question:
HAVE U WENT TO A CLUB OR ANOTHER EVENT? AS THERE ARE MANY SOME JUST RECENTLY.
or do you think you wouldnt be attracted to any that go(ok I put that in your mouth lol ooer)
try not taking this too personal..I'm giving you advice..you appear to be hung up on getting sex with attractive people...while ignoring there probably will be some attractive people you would meet in the afore mentioned places.
I cant be any more clear can I?
I didn't say I was unhappy with the site!!! in fact I made it very clear that I was not knocking the site.
Yes iv been to a party before as a couple but not as a single.
Why are people so fast to patronize or be unfriendly?
98% of the females on the site are looking for women..I've given u an alternative.Hardly patronizing...its been advice from the very start.U just arent listening."
lol your unbelievable!
I didn't say that your talking bollocks again.... I said 98% of the women I FIND ATTRACTIVE are looking for women
I like the way you change everything! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was going to watch Watchmen tonight, but I might just hang about here and wait for the violence...
I watched that last night  "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"obviously you are not playing how swingers like it.
that means putting more effort in.
I see guys profiles, musclebound,big cock,may be chiseledly handsome too...yet they get fuck all..mainly because they arent looking at the seen properly.Check out clubs/parties etc etc etc..
You say you are social enough to meet in 'normal' life..and of course pull...whats the difference in attending the events on here?
and lets look deeper:
U can pull in real life..u should have at least some regular women then...
I've not checked your profile yet..so I will reserve judgement on where you may be going wrong lol
just looked..you have been here 2weeks and your profile is a bit shit.
Iv been here in the past and took the time to write a good profile it made no difference.
ok been here in the past...did u ever try going to anything??????
and the way u say 'good guys' means u think other guys who are getting it must be 'bad guys' lol- I've given u advice...perhaps take it...thats all I can say.
Why do people put words in my mouth? I was just saying I don't feel comfortable stringing girls along just so I can get sex. I know of a couple of guys at work that meet nice girls under force pretences for sex.
well remain unhappy with the site..your choice.
And I think you havent answered my question:
HAVE U WENT TO A CLUB OR ANOTHER EVENT? AS THERE ARE MANY SOME JUST RECENTLY.
or do you think you wouldnt be attracted to any that go(ok I put that in your mouth lol ooer)
try not taking this too personal..I'm giving you advice..you appear to be hung up on getting sex with attractive people...while ignoring there probably will be some attractive people you would meet in the afore mentioned places.
I cant be any more clear can I?
I didn't say I was unhappy with the site!!! in fact I made it very clear that I was not knocking the site.
Yes iv been to a party before as a couple but not as a single.
Why are people so fast to patronize or be unfriendly?
98% of the females on the site are looking for women..I've given u an alternative.Hardly patronizing...its been advice from the very start.U just arent listening.
lol your unbelievable!
I didn't say that your talking bollocks again.... I said 98% of the women I FIND ATTRACTIVE are looking for women
I like the way you change everything! "
ok ...so what about the advice I've given..never mind the polotics of how u have came across to myself and others lol...thats what I've been getting at.
you live in an area with probably more clubs(and socials) in one area than we have in the entirety of scotland.Why arent u going there?- it is all about exposure, your profile isnt doing much-change the plan. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"obviously you are not playing how swingers like it.
that means putting more effort in.
I see guys profiles, musclebound,big cock,may be chiseledly handsome too...yet they get fuck all..mainly because they arent looking at the seen properly.Check out clubs/parties etc etc etc..
You say you are social enough to meet in 'normal' life..and of course pull...whats the difference in attending the events on here?
and lets look deeper:
U can pull in real life..u should have at least some regular women then...
I've not checked your profile yet..so I will reserve judgement on where you may be going wrong lol
just looked..you have been here 2weeks and your profile is a bit shit.
Iv been here in the past and took the time to write a good profile it made no difference.
ok been here in the past...did u ever try going to anything??????
and the way u say 'good guys' means u think other guys who are getting it must be 'bad guys' lol- I've given u advice...perhaps take it...thats all I can say.
Why do people put words in my mouth? I was just saying I don't feel comfortable stringing girls along just so I can get sex. I know of a couple of guys at work that meet nice girls under force pretences for sex.
well remain unhappy with the site..your choice.
And I think you havent answered my question:
HAVE U WENT TO A CLUB OR ANOTHER EVENT? AS THERE ARE MANY SOME JUST RECENTLY.
or do you think you wouldnt be attracted to any that go(ok I put that in your mouth lol ooer)
try not taking this too personal..I'm giving you advice..you appear to be hung up on getting sex with attractive people...while ignoring there probably will be some attractive people you would meet in the afore mentioned places.
I cant be any more clear can I?
I didn't say I was unhappy with the site!!! in fact I made it very clear that I was not knocking the site.
Yes iv been to a party before as a couple but not as a single.
Why are people so fast to patronize or be unfriendly?
98% of the females on the site are looking for women..I've given u an alternative.Hardly patronizing...its been advice from the very start.U just arent listening.
lol your unbelievable!
I didn't say that your talking bollocks again.... I said 98% of the women I FIND ATTRACTIVE are looking for women
I like the way you change everything!
ok ...so what about the advice I've given..never mind the polotics of how u have came across to myself and others lol...thats what I've been getting at.
you live in an area with probably more clubs(and socials) in one area than we have in the entirety of scotland.Why arent u going there?- it is all about exposure, your profile isnt doing much-change the plan."
Im all up for the constructive advice and if I ignore the 50% of bullshit you wrote you did actually have a point lol
Maybe I will try out a club or party |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"obviously you are not playing how swingers like it.
that means putting more effort in.
I see guys profiles, musclebound,big cock,may be chiseledly handsome too...yet they get fuck all..mainly because they arent looking at the seen properly.Check out clubs/parties etc etc etc..
You say you are social enough to meet in 'normal' life..and of course pull...whats the difference in attending the events on here?
and lets look deeper:
U can pull in real life..u should have at least some regular women then...
I've not checked your profile yet..so I will reserve judgement on where you may be going wrong lol
just looked..you have been here 2weeks and your profile is a bit shit.
Iv been here in the past and took the time to write a good profile it made no difference.
ok been here in the past...did u ever try going to anything??????
and the way u say 'good guys' means u think other guys who are getting it must be 'bad guys' lol- I've given u advice...perhaps take it...thats all I can say.
Why do people put words in my mouth? I was just saying I don't feel comfortable stringing girls along just so I can get sex. I know of a couple of guys at work that meet nice girls under force pretences for sex.
well remain unhappy with the site..your choice.
And I think you havent answered my question:
HAVE U WENT TO A CLUB OR ANOTHER EVENT? AS THERE ARE MANY SOME JUST RECENTLY.
or do you think you wouldnt be attracted to any that go(ok I put that in your mouth lol ooer)
try not taking this too personal..I'm giving you advice..you appear to be hung up on getting sex with attractive people...while ignoring there probably will be some attractive people you would meet in the afore mentioned places.
I cant be any more clear can I?
I didn't say I was unhappy with the site!!! in fact I made it very clear that I was not knocking the site.
Yes iv been to a party before as a couple but not as a single.
Why are people so fast to patronize or be unfriendly?
98% of the females on the site are looking for women..I've given u an alternative.Hardly patronizing...its been advice from the very start.U just arent listening.
lol your unbelievable!
I didn't say that your talking bollocks again.... I said 98% of the women I FIND ATTRACTIVE are looking for women
I like the way you change everything!
ok ...so what about the advice I've given..never mind the polotics of how u have came across to myself and others lol...thats what I've been getting at.
you live in an area with probably more clubs(and socials) in one area than we have in the entirety of scotland.Why arent u going there?- it is all about exposure, your profile isnt doing much-change the plan.
Im all up for the constructive advice and if I ignore the 50% of bullshit you wrote you did actually have a point lol
Maybe I will try out a club or party "
50% of rthe bullshit is why i'm doing 150% better than u
thank fuck it sunk in... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"obviously you are not playing how swingers like it.
that means putting more effort in.
I see guys profiles, musclebound,big cock,may be chiseledly handsome too...yet they get fuck all..mainly because they arent looking at the seen properly.Check out clubs/parties etc etc etc..
You say you are social enough to meet in 'normal' life..and of course pull...whats the difference in attending the events on here?
and lets look deeper:
U can pull in real life..u should have at least some regular women then...
I've not checked your profile yet..so I will reserve judgement on where you may be going wrong lol
just looked..you have been here 2weeks and your profile is a bit shit.
Iv been here in the past and took the time to write a good profile it made no difference.
ok been here in the past...did u ever try going to anything??????
and the way u say 'good guys' means u think other guys who are getting it must be 'bad guys' lol- I've given u advice...perhaps take it...thats all I can say.
Why do people put words in my mouth? I was just saying I don't feel comfortable stringing girls along just so I can get sex. I know of a couple of guys at work that meet nice girls under force pretences for sex.
well remain unhappy with the site..your choice.
And I think you havent answered my question:
HAVE U WENT TO A CLUB OR ANOTHER EVENT? AS THERE ARE MANY SOME JUST RECENTLY.
or do you think you wouldnt be attracted to any that go(ok I put that in your mouth lol ooer)
try not taking this too personal..I'm giving you advice..you appear to be hung up on getting sex with attractive people...while ignoring there probably will be some attractive people you would meet in the afore mentioned places.
I cant be any more clear can I?
I didn't say I was unhappy with the site!!! in fact I made it very clear that I was not knocking the site.
Yes iv been to a party before as a couple but not as a single.
Why are people so fast to patronize or be unfriendly?
98% of the females on the site are looking for women..I've given u an alternative.Hardly patronizing...its been advice from the very start.U just arent listening.
lol your unbelievable!
I didn't say that your talking bollocks again.... I said 98% of the women I FIND ATTRACTIVE are looking for women
I like the way you change everything!
ok ...so what about the advice I've given..never mind the polotics of how u have came across to myself and others lol...thats what I've been getting at.
you live in an area with probably more clubs(and socials) in one area than we have in the entirety of scotland.Why arent u going there?- it is all about exposure, your profile isnt doing much-change the plan.
Im all up for the constructive advice and if I ignore the 50% of bullshit you wrote you did actually have a point lol
Maybe I will try out a club or party
50% of rthe bullshit is why i'm doing 150% better than u
thank fuck it sunk in... "
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Oh omg Wow..... It's this kind of thread that makes one think about some of you inbred fools....The OP asked a simple question! There was no nastiness in it....And look at some/a lot of the responses's he got!....Wonders who really does have the issues!??.. (((Starting to see a lot of this on here! )))..And really wonders if people are starting to lose the plot and are getting ahead of themselves! ( stuck up your own arse, trying to be the it man/woman part of the in crowd) I wanna be the man/woman who makes a fool of the person asking a question!... Some of you need to take a step back and look at yourselves and wonder!..Do I know the difference between having a giggle, a bit of banter, and pure nastiness!.. (watch the comments come flooding in now) But you know what! To me It's water off ducks back so you do your best!.. Teacher is leaving the room now, discuss it amongst yourselves and I will return at a later point)  ffs grow up... OP I hear you to a certain degree there's nothing better than looking into the person's eyes and making an initial contact.. Old school interaction Instead of sitting behind a keyboard and pretending to be someone that you're not!.. And whether you are or not I don't really care... Have a good night all xx |
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"Oh omg Wow..... It's this kind of thread that makes one think about some of you inbred fools....The OP asked a simple question! There was no nastiness in it....And look at some/a lot of the responses's he got!....Wonders who really does have the issues!??.. (((Starting to see a lot of this on here! )))..And really wonders if people are starting to lose the plot and are getting ahead of themselves! ( stuck up your own arse, trying to be the it man/woman part of the in crowd) I wanna be the man/woman who makes a fool of the person asking a question!... Some of you need to take a step back and look at yourselves and wonder!..Do I know the difference between having a giggle, a bit of banter, and pure nastiness!.. (watch the comments come flooding in now) But you know what! To me It's water off ducks back so you do your best!.. Teacher is leaving the room now, discuss it amongst yourselves and I will return at a later point) ffs grow up... OP I hear you to a certain degree there's nothing better than looking into the person's eyes and making an initial contact.. Old school interaction Instead of sitting behind a keyboard and pretending to be someone that you're not!.. And whether you are or not I don't really care... Have a good night all xx "
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Fab is a means to an end, guys who create an honest profile and send out messages to people they feel they are compatible with will usually not have as much luck as those that do the same but also get out and about to socials and clubs. So in part you are right, the real world has more opperrunities. Sitting on fab waiting for fun will get you feeling rejected and dispondant.
We meet more people in clubs and at private parties than we meet from fab.
Fab is just a social hub that we can put all the people we know, or feel we would like to get to know in.
It's about 80% real world 20% fab for us.
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"If I bullshit women I get laid all week and if im honest and come to a place like this its a big fat 0"
Perhaps you aren't offering, or don't appear to be offering, what the women you are interested want. Maybe your approach doesn't appeal to them. |
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"So do you get classy but secretly tarty women in Waitrose and obviously worn out drabs in Aldi or what?
Is there a spectrum of quality of shopper based on supermarket quality?
I wish it was that simple! Lol maybe I should start shopping in a less quality supermarkets!
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"Oh omg Wow..... It's this kind of thread that makes one think about some of you inbred fools....The OP asked a simple question! There was no nastiness in it....And look at some/a lot of the responses's he got!....Wonders who really does have the issues!??.. (((Starting to see a lot of this on here! )))..And really wonders if people are starting to lose the plot and are getting ahead of themselves! ( stuck up your own arse, trying to be the it man/woman part of the in crowd) I wanna be the man/woman who makes a fool of the person asking a question!... Some of you need to take a step back and look at yourselves and wonder!..Do I know the difference between having a giggle, a bit of banter, and pure nastiness!.. (watch the comments come flooding in now) But you know what! To me It's water off ducks back so you do your best!.. Teacher is leaving the room now, discuss it amongst yourselves and I will return at a later point) ffs grow up... OP I hear you to a certain degree there's nothing better than looking into the person's eyes and making an initial contact.. Old school interaction Instead of sitting behind a keyboard and pretending to be someone that you're not!.. And whether you are or not I don't really care... Have a good night all xx
That was hilarious "
I found it insightful and pretty accurate
Op I understood your post completely.
Perhaps there is a paid for site where you can find FBs????
This isn't it, obviously. I suspect this site won't give you what you seek.
We met on a pay site where people were honest about what they wanted...that was many years ago now and we are now a couple.
I suspect parting with cash for site access sorts out the wheat from the chaff
Good luck and good for you in not wanting to mess people about (stringing them on for sex etc)
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"So what you've said is you go on dating sites,lie to women and get sex? On here you can't do that because the hot women don't want a man? I wonder why "
No I didnt say that at all, maybe you should go back make a nice cup of tea get very comfortable and READ my post again.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I just want to say thank you to the few people that actually read my post and either gave constructive advice, friendly banter, or stood up against the bulleys on the forum. |
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"Women are obviously better at sex. Or they aren't really women "
A bi guy once said to me that women are ok but there's nothing like the real thing
Just gonna take his word for that |
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The main thing is that you're successful in the real world - which is a massive plus! You like the forums, so use Fab just for those for now & like others said, maybe try to get some socials. Give it time. |
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"So what you've said is you go on dating sites,lie to women and get sex? On here you can't do that because the hot women don't want a man? I wonder why
No I didnt say that at all, maybe you should go back make a nice cup of tea get very comfortable and READ my post again.
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What are you complaining about then? If you do alright outside of fab then you don't really have to worry about not getting any meets from here.
Yeah, i don't meet much off the site but i'm not doing too bad outside of it. I wouldn't say it's the be all and end all if i can't get a meet off here.
...and morals? You saying you can compromise on your morals on dating sites to get laid but you can't on here?
I thought it would have made more sense for people to be more 'immoral' on here than anywhere else i.e. dating sites.
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"What are you complaining about then? If you do alright outside of fab then you don't really have to worry about not getting any meets from here.
Yeah, i don't meet much off the site but i'm not doing too bad outside of it. I wouldn't say it's the be all and end all if i can't get a meet off here.
...and morals? You saying you can compromise on your morals on dating sites to get laid but you can't on here?
I thought it would have made more sense for people to be more 'immoral' on here than anywhere else i.e. dating sites.
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I must be speaking a different language to everyone else on here!!!
I didn't say I meet girls off dating sites, I said its the easy way of doing it. I have been on a dating site in the past but was looking for a relationship. Now im not looking for a relationship and want to be single for a wile. I was saying I know people that meet women under false pretences and I DONT agree with doing that.
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"So what you've said is you go on dating sites,lie to women and get sex? On here you can't do that because the hot women don't want a man? I wonder why
No I didnt say that at all, maybe you should go back make a nice cup of tea get very comfortable and READ my post again.
You may not say it directly but it is certainly implied in your OP. "
errrrrr no, your just like a lot of people on here and very negative and want to make people look bad.... not sure why? |
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you dont see that many hot women onhere so your chances are narrowed down for potential meets
and if the hot ones you find dont bite then ur pretty much screwed |
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"Oh omg Wow..... It's this kind of thread that makes one think about some of you inbred fools....The OP asked a simple question! There was no nastiness in it....And look at some/a lot of the responses's he got!....Wonders who really does have the issues!??.. (((Starting to see a lot of this on here! )))..And really wonders if people are starting to lose the plot and are getting ahead of themselves! ( stuck up your own arse, trying to be the it man/woman part of the in crowd) I wanna be the man/woman who makes a fool of the person asking a question!... Some of you need to take a step back and look at yourselves and wonder!..Do I know the difference between having a giggle, a bit of banter, and pure nastiness!.. (watch the comments come flooding in now) But you know what! To me It's water off ducks back so you do your best!.. Teacher is leaving the room now, discuss it amongst yourselves and I will return at a later point) ffs grow up... OP I hear you to a certain degree there's nothing better than looking into the person's eyes and making an initial contact.. Old school interaction Instead of sitting behind a keyboard and pretending to be someone that you're not!.. And whether you are or not I don't really care... Have a good night all xx
That was hilarious
I found it insightful and pretty accurate
Op I understood your post completely.
Perhaps there is a paid for site where you can find FBs????
This isn't it, obviously. I suspect this site won't give you what you seek.
We met on a pay site where people were honest about what they wanted...that was many years ago now and we are now a couple.
I suspect parting with cash for site access sorts out the wheat from the chaff
Good luck and good for you in not wanting to mess people about (stringing them on for sex etc)
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Thank you its nice to know im speaking the same language cause I sware a lot of people change what you say to make you look bad!
There's a lot of angry people on here, its a shame |
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