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over a year ago
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Luckily never had to use one , although a guy once said he couldn't meet us as he had 24 hours to come up with some money or some guys were going to kill him, so he didn't have time to meet as arranged ......... Think that was a close call  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm upfront so wouldn't use an excuse, Ide just be frank
That would definitely put me off.
Ooh Betty  "
Least I wouldn't have a prob getting a flat cap!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I go ahead with them regardless of social or fun meet. Ive seen their pics so if it doesn't work out, my fault "
Really
I did a social meet first and on the odd occasion I haven't I wouldn't go through with anything just because I've seen pics and talked on phone. I would just tell them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive not done it often but there has been a few times ive agreed to meet then the guys acted differently and put me off, I'm which case I'll just tell them straight, we all have the rights to change our minds at any point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never had to make something up but i can say that there have been a few guys at the last minute text with an excuse. I appear to have killed more grandparents than a cold winter. I always wonder if the grannies would be pleased to know their grandkid killed them off just coz he himself when the time came to meet someone.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I have to cancel a meet I give as much notice as possible and just say I can't make it any longer.
If it's 2nd thoughts I just says that.....no point in lieing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I have to cancel a meet I give as much notice as possible and just say I can't make it any longer.
If it's 2nd thoughts I just says that.....no point in lieing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I chat for ages before agreeing to a meet so I've never cancelled because of cold feet.
I had to cancell because of work once, gave 2 days notice and got blocked  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate causing offence so I weigh up whether or not my reason for not meeting some one may be perceived as hurtful or not.
If for instance they send a picture which is unattractive I cant see anything to be gained by telling them. |
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