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"Could you? I had to with my ex husband as he was Catholic and it was weird....I don't think I could do it again lol  "
I'd draw the line at doing it right before the marriage.
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I think the tales of woe we hear on here from partners with wildly mismatched sex drives and tastes makes enough of a case for sex to actually be compulsory before marriage, and sexual honesty to be even more compulsory (if there are degrees of compulsory  ) |
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"Would you buy a pair of shoes before trying them on first?"
I can't believe a woman is asking that 
And to the OP the answer is no! You beed to know you're compatible sexually otherwise you could have a very boring sex life for the rest of your life! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A very good of of mine waited until she was married. More from fear than anything religous. She got married at twenty one and is still married twenty three years later and from what I can tell she is very happy.
She's quite filthy as well. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
I know people who waited until they were married. They are all still together and from the women who lunch chats they appear to have happy sex lives.
I've never been married and at this stage in my life I can't see me every getting married but for the right relationship I think I could wait.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just have to say I had to wait but at the time I thought I loved my husband so waited....sexual we was not on the same wave length but I lobed him "
Out of the window ? |
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"I think it is a brilliant idea. It would either cut teenage pregnancies or increase the marriage & divorce rates of the under 20's.  "
most teenagers whilst fucking like rabbits are probably not intending to marry the other person..
I would hazard.. |
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"I think it is a brilliant idea. It would either cut teenage pregnancies or increase the marriage & divorce rates of the under 20's.
most teenagers whilst fucking like rabbits are probably not intending to marry the other person..
I would hazard.."
lol, our daughter has a friend and they don't know half their names let alone marry them  |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"Just have to say I had to wait but at the time I thought I loved my husband so waited....sexual we was not on the same wave length but I lobed him
Out of the window ?"
Haha I loved the silly shit he loved another woman more..shit happens |
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By *nne CallanWoman
over a year ago
Nothing to see here. Please move along. |
I was abandoned when i was 6 weeks pregnant. I started seeing the man who was to be my second husband when i was 4.5 months. I wouldnt have sex with him till my daughter was 6 weeks old. I waited cos i couldnt have sex with one man while i was carrying anothers child. I dont know if i could do the same for marriage |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A friend of mine was engaged to a catholic girl, he abstained for seven months then found out she was sleeping with three married blokes, one of them her brother-in-law.
i doubt many other's would be so twisted but it seems a little odd, maybe dated? unless you're both of the same faith?
either way, bollocks to that! What if on your wedding night the sparks went out? Some people just aren't compatible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you buy a pair of shoes before trying them on first?I bet lots have from the net
And resell them on ebay when they don't fit "
If only I knew, I could have sold my husband on e-bay  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Call me old fashioned but if i take a bird out n she hasnt got Carpet burns on her knees n elbows after an hour she dont get a packet of chrisps let alone a slice of bloody wedding cake 
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"Could you? I had to with my ex husband as he was Catholic and it was weird....I don't think I could do it again lol "
I was a virgin bride. My youngest is 22 and her boyfriend 21. Both devout Christians and virgins. They've been dating for four years and saving themselves for marriage.
I wouldn't buy before I try now though. |
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No. (Mainly because I'm not religious, but) I know sex SHOULDN'T be the be all and end all but I can't imagine anything more depressing than legally binding myself to someone who either turns out to have a very low sex-drive or who isn't compatible with me in the bedroom.
Sure, you can masturbate but it's not the same.
I become one Hell of a Bitch when I'm not being properly satisfied.
- Amy. x |
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"I think it is a brilliant idea. It would either cut teenage pregnancies or increase the marriage & divorce rates of the under 20's.
most teenagers whilst fucking like rabbits are probably not intending to marry the other person..
I would hazard.."
I think it was a tongue in cheek remark, but you never know it might work. |
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it's interesting that we all still consider waiting to have sex with someone until it's sanctioned by religion or the state to be an option. I also wonder what our respective definition of sex is, I count any sexual contact at all as sex but some people might just define penetration as sex and everything else would be ok.
I'm not disrespecting anyones views on this its a very personal thing. |
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But not married mo more so does not matter now I suppose lol 
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