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What do you think the targets of your affections want here?
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
What do you think the people that you are looking for here, (i.e. men for straight women and gay men or women for straight men and lesbians, for example), are looking for?
I don't mean sex, because most of us are probably looking for that in one form or another... I mean what do you think they want in an approach, what do they want in a meet, that sort of thing?
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"The ones I am hoping to find want a regular FB or FWB for something life enhancing rather than draining. Is that what you mean?"
Oops midread that.
Yes, although the question is open to the interpretation of each person. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
To me it varies on who I meet and what for.
Single guys who are sexually secure = they seem more interested in me as a person and are generally happy to be seen in a pub with me. This includes straight chaps happy for a social, because they like me as a person and gay/bi chaps who are happy to meet up that way.
The less sexually secure single guys = they are happy to meet, but generally want it to be something hidden away in a layby in the back of beyond at 3AM on a moonless night.
TG - some of the more out and about girlys are really up for a night out somewhere, some of the one's who never leave their own bedrooms just want someone into the same thing to chat to, mostly whilst I go down on them.
Couples - they are the most varied of the bunch. You never seem to know what they want until you are sat in their living room wondering where all the canes and spankers and floggers are coming from.
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"What do you think the people that you are looking for here, (i.e. men for straight women and gay men or women for straight men and lesbians, for example), are looking for?
I don't mean sex, because most of us are probably looking for that in one form or another... I mean what do you think they want in an approach, what do they want in a meet, that sort of thing?
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If they are targets of my affections I would hope the answer is me.
If I am contacting them I obviously hope they are looking for the same as whatever I am looking for at the time.
I can't say I give it much thought as I tend to just see if we match rather than adapting to be what someone else wants. |
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I'll have a think about this whilst I get my tea out. 