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Why do so many people look for VWE/BBC?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is something i've always wondered when looking at profiles on here but why do so many people on here always demand that guys be above 8/9/10 etc.. inches.
I mean, it's not like 5/6/7 inches doesn't work.
I am an average sized guy and I admit it does get annoying sometimes cos it sort of makes you feel you're not good enough or inferior. That's not the reason i'm asking the question though, I'm just genuinely curious why so many people ask for VWE/BBC. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you really need to ask? Everyone has their own personal preferences.... Having a taste/need/fetish for VWE (and/or) Black men is hardly that unusual (errrm....is it?).
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Perhaps the poster should get strap on fucked by a range of sizes and compare the experience. It is a bit like asking someone to describe why they prefer pineapple to orange flavours - theyre just different. Does he not have preferences in life, in part based on experience of what works for him! Long cock sometimes just works so well, and one can feel it do something that a shorter cock does not. But many prefer smaller cocks. Dont fret over what you cant deliver, focus on those who you are compatible with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is something i've always wondered when looking at profiles on here but why do so many people on here always demand that guys be above 8/9/10 etc.. inches.
I mean, it's not like 5/6/7 inches doesn't work.
I am an average sized guy and I admit it does get annoying sometimes cos it sort of makes you feel you're not good enough or inferior. That's not the reason i'm asking the question though, I'm just genuinely curious why so many people ask for VWE/BBC."
I quite like 3-6in cocks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It wasn't my attention to anger anyone. It's just sometimes on profiles it seems like a very cold dismissal of guys who aren't as big, and that they aren't good enough and the one thing they can't change about themselves.
Especially as it's commonly said that 'size doesn't matter' lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It wasn't my attention to anger anyone. It's just sometimes on profiles it seems like a very cold dismissal of guys who aren't as big, and that they aren't good enough and the one thing they can't change about themselves.
Especially as it's commonly said that 'size doesn't matter' lol."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It wasn't my attention to anger anyone. It's just sometimes on profiles it seems like a very cold dismissal of guys who aren't as big, and that they aren't good enough and the one thing they can't change about themselves.
Especially as it's commonly said that 'size doesn't matter' lol."
If you see that on a profile move onto the next one. |
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By *ummersun99Woman
over a year ago
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"This is something i've always wondered when looking at profiles on here but why do so many people on here always demand that guys be above 8/9/10 etc.. inches.
I mean, it's not like 5/6/7 inches doesn't work.
I am an average sized guy and I admit it does get annoying sometimes cos it sort of makes you feel you're not good enough or inferior. That's not the reason i'm asking the question though, I'm just genuinely curious why so many people ask for VWE/BBC."
I'm sure many small/ average breasted women could say similar about guys that like big boobs, etc. The media and porn portrays big c*cks the Same way it does big boobs and many other physical traits that then become the aspired way to be or thing to want.
The reality is lots of people come in different shapes and sizes and theres someone for everyone out there, just got to focus on finding likeminded people and gloss over the rest IMO.  |
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"It wasn't my attention to anger anyone. It's just sometimes on profiles it seems like a very cold dismissal of guys who aren't as big, and that they aren't good enough and the one thing they can't change about themselves.
Especially as it's commonly said that 'size doesn't matter' lol."
Get a grip and get over yourself! 
I'm excluded by many due to age, size, ethnicity, sexual preferences etc. I don't feel I'm not good enough, I don't ponder on the choice of others, I accept I won't have universal appeal and focus on those seeking what I'm offering.
Whining like a petulant child wanting people to justify their choices is very unattractive!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is something i've always wondered when looking at profiles on here but why do so many people on here always demand that guys be above 8/9/10 etc.. inches.
I mean, it's not like 5/6/7 inches doesn't work.
I am an average sized guy and I admit it does get annoying sometimes cos it sort of makes you feel you're not good enough or inferior. That's not the reason i'm asking the question though, I'm just genuinely curious why so many people ask for VWE/BBC."
It's all about the brainiacs for me....keep your girth. |
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"It wasn't my attention to anger anyone. It's just sometimes on profiles it seems like a very cold dismissal of guys who aren't as big, and that they aren't good enough and the one thing they can't change about themselves.
Especially as it's commonly said that 'size doesn't matter' lol."
no different to if a guy put no fat women on their profile. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It wasn't my attention to anger anyone. It's just sometimes on profiles it seems like a very cold dismissal of guys who aren't as big, and that they aren't good enough and the one thing they can't change about themselves.
Especially as it's commonly said that 'size doesn't matter' lol.
Get a grip and get over yourself!
I'm excluded by many due to age, size, ethnicity, sexual preferences etc. I don't feel I'm not good enough, I don't ponder on the choice of others, I accept I won't have universal appeal and focus on those seeking what I'm offering.
Whining like a petulant child wanting people to justify their choices is very unattractive! "
I'm wondering if I must have posted something on here and then lost all memory of it because I don't think either of my posts contained anything to provoke a response like yours.
I'm asking a simple question about why people are asking for a specific thing. A few people have managed to answer without resorting to name calling or talking down to me. I suggest you do the same. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It wasn't my attention to anger anyone. It's just sometimes on profiles it seems like a very cold dismissal of guys who aren't as big, and that they aren't good enough and the one thing they can't change about themselves.
Especially as it's commonly said that 'size doesn't matter' lol. no different to if a guy put no fat women on their profile. "
See, I think that's a horrible thing to say/think and wouldn't do that. |
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By *ddie02Couple
over a year ago
northern |
"It wasn't my attention to anger anyone. It's just sometimes on profiles it seems like a very cold dismissal of guys who aren't as big, and that they aren't good enough and the one thing they can't change about themselves.
Especially as it's commonly said that 'size doesn't matter' lol.
Get a grip and get over yourself!
I'm excluded by many due to age, size, ethnicity, sexual preferences etc. I don't feel I'm not good enough, I don't ponder on the choice of others, I accept I won't have universal appeal and focus on those seeking what I'm offering.
Whining like a petulant child wanting people to justify their choices is very unattractive!
I'm wondering if I must have posted something on here and then lost all memory of it because I don't think either of my posts contained anything to provoke a response like yours.
I'm asking a simple question about why people are asking for a specific thing. A few people have managed to answer without resorting to name calling or talking down to me. I suggest you do the same."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Theres plenty that like vwe and theres plenty that dont. And its the same with race, colour, build ect.. dont let the ones that dont suit bother you or you will always be annoyed |
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I think the reason some people feel so strongly is that basically the same question gets asked daily, just worded slightly differently...
Frisky prefers quality over quantity but won't complain if she gets the best of both.... Like many but not all women I would imagine.
She has a thing for black guys but she's not after a guy hung like a horse... and what makes her happy makes me happy...
It all comes down to personal taste, not everybody wants to play with everybody... |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
Their profile, their choices, simples,  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"It wasn't my attention to anger anyone. It's just sometimes on profiles it seems like a very cold dismissal of guys who aren't as big, and that they aren't good enough and the one thing they can't change about themselves.
Especially as it's commonly said that 'size doesn't matter' lol.
Get a grip and get over yourself!
I'm excluded by many due to age, size, ethnicity, sexual preferences etc. I don't feel I'm not good enough, I don't ponder on the choice of others, I accept I won't have universal appeal and focus on those seeking what I'm offering.
Whining like a petulant child wanting people to justify their choices is very unattractive!
I'm wondering if I must have posted something on here and then lost all memory of it because I don't think either of my posts contained anything to provoke a response like yours.
I'm asking a simple question about why people are asking for a specific thing. A few people have managed to answer without resorting to name calling or talking down to me. I suggest you do the same."
The simple answer to your simple question is that people specifically look for specific things because that's what they're looking for on here.
Having specific criteria when seeking company ensures that their tastes, preferences, desires, fantasies and wishes stand a better chance of being met than simply requesting someone of a specific gender to get in touch.
The site enables people to put detailed info in a profile to tell people what each other wants - gender, age, location, height, body size, ethnicity , single/couple status, interests, boob size, hair colour, shaved/trimmed/natural - and yes - should they choose - cock size.
It's just another variable.
One you can do nothing about. (Unless you fib/photoshop yourself/borrow a pic off the net).
So the advice to just acknowledge someone's preference without questioning it and move on to the next profile, is as good as anyone can ever give.
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"This is something i've always wondered when looking at profiles on here but why do so many people on here always demand that guys be above 8/9/10 etc.. inches.
I mean, it's not like 5/6/7 inches doesn't work.
I am an average sized guy and I admit it does get annoying sometimes cos it sort of makes you feel you're not good enough or inferior. That's not the reason i'm asking the question though, I'm just genuinely curious why so many people ask for VWE/BBC."
This place is often about fantasies and finding things that aren't easy to find in "the real world".
Personally I don't look for either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is something i've always wondered when looking at profiles on here but why do so many people on here always demand that guys be above 8/9/10 etc.. inches.
I mean, it's not like 5/6/7 inches doesn't work.
I am an average sized guy and I admit it does get annoying sometimes cos it sort of makes you feel you're not good enough or inferior. That's not the reason i'm asking the question though, I'm just genuinely curious why so many people ask for VWE/BBC."
Maybe because people like to fulfill fantasies |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"It wasn't my attention to anger anyone. It's just sometimes on profiles it seems like a very cold dismissal of guys who aren't as big, and that they aren't good enough and the one thing they can't change about themselves.
Especially as it's commonly said that 'size doesn't matter' lol.
Get a grip and get over yourself!
I'm excluded by many due to age, size, ethnicity, sexual preferences etc. I don't feel I'm not good enough, I don't ponder on the choice of others, I accept I won't have universal appeal and focus on those seeking what I'm offering.
Whining like a petulant child wanting people to justify their choices is very unattractive! "
Harsh! I never felt any whining or petulance just a genuine question. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"It wasn't my attention to anger anyone. It's just sometimes on profiles it seems like a very cold dismissal of guys who aren't as big, and that they aren't good enough and the one thing they can't change about themselves.
Especially as it's commonly said that 'size doesn't matter' lol."
It's not that you're not good enough, it's that you aren't what they're looking for.
If I go to a supermarket to buy a grapefruit I don't buy oranges. It's not because the oranges aren't good enough; they're just not what I want at that time.
If you feel that someone not looking for you, or not being attracted to you, makes you not good enough then that's a problem with you. You might be happier if you address that self esteem issue.
I think some people on here believe that everyone else is looking for sex and that they should be happy with anyone who can provide sex, (i.e. has the appropriate parts). That's not how it works. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
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Especially as it's commonly said that 'size doesn't matter' lol."
*Some* say that just as *some* say they prefer a certain size range and *some* are looking for BBC or VWE.
And WHY would you not specify no fat women in your profile if that wasn't what you wanted? It's better than wasting the time of the fat women!
Men who come across as willing to shag absolutely any woman aren't very appealing tbh. |
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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago
North West |
"This is something i've always wondered when looking at profiles on here but why do so many people on here always demand that guys be above 8/9/10 etc.. inches.
I mean, it's not like 5/6/7 inches doesn't work.
I am an average sized guy and I admit it does get annoying sometimes cos it sort of makes you feel you're not good enough or inferior. That's not the reason i'm asking the question though, I'm just genuinely curious why so many people ask for VWE/BBC."
Inviting a single guy into our world is about fulfilling a fantasy and if we are going to do something like that, why would we have a guy that is just ordinary?
We are not looking for a long term relationship or marriage.... it is a sexually fantasy and so we won't compromise and only meet guys who are well above average on length/girth.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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maybe because they have met a few guys with average sized cocks and fancy a change. I like bigs ones because they usualy look better and they are more fun to play with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is something i've always wondered when looking at profiles on here but why do so many people on here always demand that guys be above 8/9/10 etc.. inches.
I mean, it's not like 5/6/7 inches doesn't work.
I am an average sized guy and I admit it does get annoying sometimes cos it sort of makes you feel you're not good enough or inferior. That's not the reason i'm asking the question though, I'm just genuinely curious why so many people ask for VWE/BBC."
The simple answer is A BIG HOLE to fill.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It wasn't my attention to anger anyone. It's just sometimes on profiles it seems like a very cold dismissal of guys who aren't as big, and that they aren't good enough and the one thing they can't change about themselves.
Especially as it's commonly said that 'size doesn't matter' lol."
Ah the old size doesn't matter. The line dished out to make small guys feel better. In answer to your question OP: because its a preference and we can. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is something i've always wondered when looking at profiles on here but why do so many people on here always demand that guys be above 8/9/10 etc.. inches.
I mean, it's not like 5/6/7 inches doesn't work.
I am an average sized guy and I admit it does get annoying sometimes cos it sort of makes you feel you're not good enough or inferior. That's not the reason i'm asking the question though, I'm just genuinely curious why so many people ask for VWE/BBC."
Slightly off topic but are you really a virgin? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is something i've always wondered when looking at profiles on here but why do so many people on here always demand that guys be above 8/9/10 etc.. inches.
I mean, it's not like 5/6/7 inches doesn't work.
I am an average sized guy and I admit it does get annoying sometimes cos it sort of makes you feel you're not good enough or inferior. That's not the reason i'm asking the question though, I'm just genuinely curious why so many people ask for VWE/BBC.
Slightly off topic but are you really a virgin? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because they like big black cock. People who don't care about it don't ask for it. Try it,you might see the attraction first hand
Totally agree !"
As would we |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We go places you lil Justin's carnt lmao but hey it's not the size of the boat it the motion in the ocean lol "
But then what happens when you have both the size and the motion? The results can be rather... Earth shattering lol |
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"We go places you lil Justin's carnt lmao but hey it's not the size of the boat it the motion in the ocean lol
But then what happens when you have both the size and the motion? The results can be rather... Earth shattering lol"
' Bon Voyage' !!! Lol |
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