are single guys allowed fun. it appears from what couples and single womens profiles i look at, that loads say they dont wanna meet single guys. it appears a single guy really has to sell his image if he wants to have fun. something i will try hard tyo achieve |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, go and get a lady and be a couple, simples.
No amount of moaning is going to change your situation.
Just because you join a swinging site, it doesn't mean that you will find anyone to swing with.
There are no guarantees on here or any other swing site. |
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By *ig badMan
over a year ago
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"wasnt moaning, just stating an obvious fact. freedom of choice is a basic right and i for one wouldnt wanna interfere in that."
On a serious note most things in life are about presentation and getting interest. I have found if you go about it in the right way its not really that hard at all. (well something needs to be hard but thats a different issue)  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Lots of people play with single men
As you say though, you have to be to someones taste before you will find fun.......and I am sure you will.
Join in on the forums/chat and socials if you are into them.......people will notice you and who knows, that elusive meet might turn up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As I'm straight I only play with single men.
Sadly, as with most things, the few spoil it for the many and it seems some of the ladies now just play in clubs instead of meeting single men off site.
I NEVER search profiles and NEVER make first contact, but I've been very busy with the block and delete botton this week alone! 
I've been told I'm up my own arse because I don't meet in hotels and the person writing was a travelling salesman who lived in hotels;
Told for a fat chick I was sure picky - from a man coming to a conference in London and seeking "fun";
told I was dillusional in looking for straight guys I would get more action if I met bi guys - from you guessed it, a bi guy...
I could go on, but you get the gist.
We do realise there are good guys out there...but boy, it's hard going at times!! |
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i thought i would add my 2 penny worth to perhaps throw some light on this subject
we are a couple that only meet single males
we also belong to a number of other sites apart from this one
it might seem an extraordinary amount but i estimate that it is only 1 in about 300 guys we talk to , we actually meet
also just because a single female , or couple are on a swinger site doesnt mean that they have a meet every few days
they are not like a plumber , or bricklayer that trys to go to work most days , kinda fill up there week with bookings
and as the OP states , some couples / single females are not looking for single guys at all
it is also worth pondering that all the male half of couples on here were single at one point in there life , so they know what it is like to be single
so with the experience of being both a single man , and now a married man , my advice to single males would be , not to put all your hopes into a swinger site
it is not just females on swinger sites that have a healthy outlook on carnal activitys .......... they also have them on dating sites
a dating site is not a site where you meet a few times and then get married
it is a site where you might meet for a drink the first night , and perhaps if all goes well could end up in a short term sexuall relationship , lasting perhaps a few weeks
mayby single guys on swinging sites think that they might avoid that(wasted )first night date
and the cost of 3 gin and tonics |
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By (user no longer on site)
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were you no moaning about somethin similar last wk op??
i only meet single guys but im very selective about who i meet and not just any jakey git am i goin to let loose near my body or mind! and im the same in the vanilla world!
here a wee bit thought if you cant pull in the vanilla world or here is the problem maybe with you and not peoples preferences! the amount of single guys who join here thinkin its instant sex without some connection is astounding!! as luton couple said to save the price of 3 gin and tonics!! i loved that line!! x |
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"wasnt moaning, just stating an obvious fact. freedom of choice is a basic right and i for one wouldnt wanna interfere in that."
Exactly freedom of choice if they want to play with you or not. |
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"are single guys allowed fun. it appears from what couples and single womens profiles i look at, that loads say they dont wanna meet single guys. it appears a single guy really has to sell his image if he wants to have fun. something i will try hard tyo achieve"
Flippin 'eck - are you 'allowed' to have fun! Stop blooming whinging and get on with it! Z |
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and the cost of 3 gin and tonics
and sometime no amount of G&T's will persuade me to shag 'em if they are fugly!  "
and no amount of alcohol or illegal drugs if they are criminally ugly!! x |
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A friend of mine has a single profile and she actively looks for single guys, there are many many decent profiles, with good pics and everything but she still struggles to get meets organised! There are lots of single guys having fun - they're not usualy here whinging! Z |
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and the cost of 3 gin and tonics
and sometime no amount of G&T's will persuade me to shag 'em if they are fugly!
and no amount of alcohol or illegal drugs if they are criminally ugly!! x "
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"are single guys allowed fun. it appears from what couples and single womens profiles i look at, that loads say they dont wanna meet single guys. it appears a single guy really has to sell his image if he wants to have fun. something i will try hard tyo achieve"
nope - you are only allowed to look at couples/single fem profiles - ogle at their pics and get jealous of all the fun they are having |
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"are single guys allowed fun. it appears from what couples and single womens profiles i look at, that loads say they dont wanna meet single guys. it appears a single guy really has to sell his image if he wants to have fun. something i will try hard tyo achieve
nope - you are only allowed to look at couples/single fem profiles - ogle at their pics and get jealous of all the fun they are having "
At least let them wank!.... |
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"are single guys allowed fun. it appears from what couples and single womens profiles i look at, that loads say they dont wanna meet single guys. it appears a single guy really has to sell his image if he wants to have fun. something i will try hard tyo achieve
nope - you are only allowed to look at couples/single fem profiles - ogle at their pics and get jealous of all the fun they are having
At least let them wank!.... "
they are but if they start whinging threads then tey are banned from wanking for 3 months  |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"are single guys allowed fun. it appears from what couples and single womens profiles i look at, that loads say they dont wanna meet single guys."
I am maybe stating the obvious from what you typed here, but here goes!
If the profiles you look at say they don't want to meet single males then of course you won't be getting meets from those profiles! Use the search function to find profiles that do say they will meet single males and take it from there.
Seems to me you are just going through profiles in the hope you find one or two that are after a meet with a single bloke!
Just the tuppence worth of a single male who does get meets and loves this site! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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I'm having fun...... in fact having a blast!!!!
time, pereserverance, took my time getting known, going to socials and parties....
you get out what you put in... you are not "owed" anything.... |
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As usual _abio takes the words right out of my mouth.. mind you, the topic comes up so often lately (and _abio always says summat sensible in reply), makes me wonder if he's got a sentence or two saved somewhere for instant copy&paste |
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By (user no longer on site)
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and the cost of 3 gin and tonics
and sometime no amount of G&T's will persuade me to shag 'em if they are fugly!
and no amount of alcohol or illegal drugs if they are criminally ugly!! x "
I recommend refraining from alchol and illegal substances BEFORE agreeing to meet the ugly ones ladies!! |
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and the cost of 3 gin and tonics
and sometime no amount of G&T's will persuade me to shag 'em if they are fugly!
and no amount of alcohol or illegal drugs if they are criminally ugly!! x
I recommend refraining from alchol and illegal substances BEFORE agreeing to meet the ugly ones ladies!! "
ahhhhhhhhhh!! the voice of sanity lol!! x |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"were you no moaning about somethin similar last wk op??
i only meet single guys but im very selective about who i meet and not just any jakey git am i goin to let loose near my body or mind! and im the same in the vanilla world!
here a wee bit thought if you cant pull in the vanilla world or here is the problem maybe with you and not peoples preferences! the amount of single guys who join here thinkin its instant sex without some connection is astounding!! as luton couple said to save the price of 3 gin and tonics!! i loved that line!! x"
Yeap!! I am with you on that one...I am a single female looking for single men...shock horror lol
Have been accused of being too fussy, though it is my perogative, plus for some reason, they do not understand why I will not meet after receiving a mail saying'staying in hotel tonight...fancy meeting' when I say I need to know someone better, that tends to mean more than one or two emails lol......and I will not tolerate a pushy male, so you single men might just get a hint or two from this....well here's hoping |
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"were you no moaning about somethin similar last wk op??
i only meet single guys but im very selective about who i meet and not just any jakey git am i goin to let loose near my body or mind! and im the same in the vanilla world!
here a wee bit thought if you cant pull in the vanilla world or here is the problem maybe with you and not peoples preferences! the amount of single guys who join here thinkin its instant sex without some connection is astounding!! as luton couple said to save the price of 3 gin and tonics!! i loved that line!! x
Yeap!! I am with you on that one...I am a single female looking for single men...shock horror lol
Have been accused of being too fussy, though it is my perogative, plus for some reason, they do not understand why I will not meet after receiving a mail saying'staying in hotel tonight...fancy meeting' when I say I need to know someone better, that tends to mean more than one or two emails lol......and I will not tolerate a pushy male, so you single men might just get a hint or two from this....well here's hoping "
Oh don't you just love the ones that log onto their lap tops in their hotel rooms and contact you to come over and play with them! 
Why they don't pay a prossie and put it on their expenses as hospitality is beyond me! 
SOME of the men on here are truly clueless! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OK, to the OP - it will happen if you are selective, don't just msg everyone, READ the profile, respect it! Obey what it says. Only been here for a few weeks, but even my very honest profile hasn't stopped me having fun, and I am at a disadvantage to all the single guys as well.
You all you other lot - great sense of humour, think I'm going to like you lot! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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To the OP :
I think being part of the forums and posting on here will allow people to get to know your personality a bit and that in turn may get you interest and meets. Some people suggest attending socials is another good way of getting to be known.
Patience may be necessary as is a nice positive profile.
We meet single guys, and we look first and foremost at their positive attitude and sense of humour before even looking at their pictures.
Best of luck - dont give upxx |
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