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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Been speaking to someone off fab for a while, after a phone call i decided that he was not for me, so i mailed him and told him the above
so i get a message today offering to pay me for my services?
i dont know whenever to be offened or flattered lol
and he was being serious
how would u take it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i had to laugh at how desprate the mail was,
just makes me think how some men will try anything to get laid off here
i deleted him and blocked and i can be arsed with that type of thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a foot fetishist offer me money to worship and make love my feet..... I wasn't sure how he was going to do either? I had mental pictures of a little shrine in a shoe box. |
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By *ig badMan
over a year ago
Up North :-) |
An interesting proposition and could be interpreted in a multitude of ways by different people.
I would presume he didn't mean to offend but used it as one last attempt to get to see you. Maybe he was going to recompense you for fuel, outlay. Maybe he was thinking of paying you for services. It is probably best to take it more in a perverse flattering way rather than get upset over it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"An interesting proposition and could be interpreted in a multitude of ways by different people.
I would presume he didn't mean to offend but used it as one last attempt to get to see you. Maybe he was going to recompense you for fuel, outlay. Maybe he was thinking of paying you for services. It is probably best to take it more in a perverse flattering way rather than get upset over it. "
A very diplomatic post from the big man |
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By *ig badMan
over a year ago
Up North :-) |
"An interesting proposition and could be interpreted in a multitude of ways by different people.
I would presume he didn't mean to offend but used it as one last attempt to get to see you. Maybe he was going to recompense you for fuel, outlay. Maybe he was thinking of paying you for services. It is probably best to take it more in a perverse flattering way rather than get upset over it.
A very diplomatic post from the big man "
Well you never know the chap might have said it out of panic or without thinking. Maybe he is sat worried he has done the wrong thing right now and is worried he may have offended. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd delete and block!
Sadly nothing surprises me from some of the men on these types of sites. You only have to read some posts on any given day to see the low regard some men hold us in.
You'll make yourself ill getting upset hun, not worth a second thought. Enjoy the good ones around, of which thankfully, there are still a few! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not upset just made me amazed at the message lol
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I would point out to him not to let his fingers write cheques his body might not be able to cash
Seriously? I would tell him politely but in no uncertain terms that you don't do that kind of service - he may not have intended any malice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not upset just made me amazed at the message lol
I would point out to him not to let his fingers write cheques his body might not be able to cash
Seriously? I would tell him politely but in no uncertain terms that you don't do that kind of service - he may not have intended any malice."
I agree.
some would be offended at being asked to give it away for free, lol |
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