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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I dont know how anyone elses experiences are but I find more guys on here willing to make meets social experiences than on Dating sites. So far I havent found as single guy on my dating sites that treat you like a person and you can talk to and have a fun experience with on every level like the way I have on Fab.
I know a lot of people critise the members that come on here to find love but im starting to think its the better option as one your honest about the lifestyle from the start, two your more likely to have the shared interest of swinging as a couple, and three the relationship develops from the natural chemistry/friendship that develops. What are other peopkes thoughts and experiences of Fab vs Dating sites? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont know how anyone elses experiences are but I find more guys on here willing to make meets social experiences than on Dating sites. So far I havent found as single guy on my dating sites that treat you like a person and you can talk to and have a fun experience with on every level like the way I have on Fab.
I know a lot of people critise the members that come on here to find love but im starting to think its the better option as one your honest about the lifestyle from the start, two your more likely to have the shared interest of swinging as a couple, and three the relationship develops from the natural chemistry/friendship that develops. What are other peopkes thoughts and experiences of Fab vs Dating sites?"
I prefer the honesty and attitude and personalities of most people in here than on dating sites personally  |
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By *affy72Woman
over a year ago
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"I dont know how anyone elses experiences are but I find more guys on here willing to make meets social experiences than on Dating sites. So far I havent found as single guy on my dating sites that treat you like a person and you can talk to and have a fun experience with on every level like the way I have on Fab.
I know a lot of people critise the members that come on here to find love but im starting to think its the better option as one your honest about the lifestyle from the start, two your more likely to have the shared interest of swinging as a couple, and three the relationship develops from the natural chemistry/friendship that develops. What are other peopkes thoughts and experiences of Fab vs Dating sites?"
I think you've nailed it there. I have had the same experiences as you, although having said that, even though this site should be more honest, there are still an awful lot of people willing to lie to get what they want out of a situation. But anyway, dating sites seem to be bad in comparison to Fab, it's a shame really as would much rather find a relationship than potentially have a string of one-offs. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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never been on a dating sites and having seen many fall for each other in here, it's cool but honesty from the offset is wise.
but some people will still try and manipulate others, probably no different to a dating site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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generally ive found guys will say anything if they think it will get them somewhere..
sadly not all intentions of kind gestures from what on the surface looks like an honest man are genuine |
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"I dont know how anyone elses experiences are but I find more guys on here willing to make meets social experiences than on Dating sites. So far I havent found as single guy on my dating sites that treat you like a person and you can talk to and have a fun experience with on every level like the way I have on Fab.
I know a lot of people critise the members that come on here to find love but im starting to think its the better option as one your honest about the lifestyle from the start, two your more likely to have the shared interest of swinging as a couple, and three the relationship develops from the natural chemistry/friendship that develops. What are other peopkes thoughts and experiences of Fab vs Dating sites?"
Yup, I was astonished when I arrived too, lots of social invitations compared to the free dating sites full of young men after sex. The good subscriptions sites contains more people that genuinely want to date.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I dont know how anyone elses experiences are but I find more guys on here willing to make meets social experiences than on Dating sites. So far I havent found as single guy on my dating sites that treat you like a person and you can talk to and have a fun experience with on every level like the way I have on Fab.
I know a lot of people critise the members that come on here to find love but im starting to think its the better option as one your honest about the lifestyle from the start, two your more likely to have the shared interest of swinging as a couple, and three the relationship develops from the natural chemistry/friendship that develops. What are other peopkes thoughts and experiences of Fab vs Dating sites?
I prefer the honesty and attitude and personalities of most people in here than on dating sites personally "
Thats essentially what I mean the guys on there are all full of BS from the start, at least here you know thats why the guy joined and the majority are gents (if you use your filters wisely) and dont play games to get "it" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont know how anyone elses experiences are but I find more guys on here willing to make meets social experiences than on Dating sites. So far I havent found as single guy on my dating sites that treat you like a person and you can talk to and have a fun experience with on every level like the way I have on Fab.
I know a lot of people critise the members that come on here to find love but im starting to think its the better option as one your honest about the lifestyle from the start, two your more likely to have the shared interest of swinging as a couple, and three the relationship develops from the natural chemistry/friendship that develops. What are other peopkes thoughts and experiences of Fab vs Dating sites?
I prefer the honesty and attitude and personalities of most people in here than on dating sites personally
Thats essentially what I mean the guys on there are all full of BS from the start, at least here you know thats why the guy joined and the majority are gents (if you use your filters wisely) and dont play games to get "it""
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"I dont know how anyone elses experiences are but I find more guys on here willing to make meets social experiences than on Dating sites. So far I havent found as single guy on my dating sites that treat you like a person and you can talk to and have a fun experience with on every level like the way I have on Fab.
I know a lot of people critise the members that come on here to find love but im starting to think its the better option as one your honest about the lifestyle from the start, two your more likely to have the shared interest of swinging as a couple, and three the relationship develops from the natural chemistry/friendship that develops. What are other peopkes thoughts and experiences of Fab vs Dating sites?
Yup, I was astonished when I arrived too, lots of social invitations compared to the free dating sites full of young men after sex. The good subscriptions sites contains more people that genuinely want to date.
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I don't know I paid £25  to subscribe to match and I might of well just threw that £25 down the drain it was a pile of shite |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"generally ive found guys will say anything if they think it will get them somewhere..
sadly not all intentions of kind gestures from what on the surface looks like an honest man are genuine "
Maybe your just picking the wrong type of men?? You ever thought of that? Some women seem to have a bastard radar  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been to many socials and have met way more compatible people on here than the dating site I was on. Although not looking for a date, I wouldn't turn it down should the opportunity arise. At least you'd be singing from the same song sheet sexually and let's face it, many who are on here without their partners knowledge are doing so beacuse they're not sexually matched anymore. I'm sure many on here have met their current partners who they swing with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that FAB is far more up front than some dating sites.
I am lucky enough to travel with my work so forming a relationship can be a little tedious. FAB presents an answer in so far as there are ladies and couples who seek recreational fun with nice classy intelligent and ever so modest chaps!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find Fab a lot more honest; you know what people are after!
POF has got to be the worst thing ever; people pretending to be looking for long term....... |
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"I find Fab a lot more honest; you know what people are after!
POF has got to be the worst thing ever; people pretending to be looking for long term......."
I'd say 15% are 85% are not....
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"I dont know how anyone elses experiences are but I find more guys on here willing to make meets social experiences than on Dating sites. So far I havent found as single guy on my dating sites that treat you like a person and you can talk to and have a fun experience with on every level like the way I have on Fab.
I know a lot of people critise the members that come on here to find love but im starting to think its the better option as one your honest about the lifestyle from the start, two your more likely to have the shared interest of swinging as a couple, and three the relationship develops from the natural chemistry/friendship that develops. What are other peopkes thoughts and experiences of Fab vs Dating sites?
I prefer the honesty and attitude and personalities of most people in here than on dating sites personally "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I joined pof last week. I got several numbers in like three days. It's much easier for guys on pof. I had three dates in three nights. Only problem is, women on there are not looking for fun. Only serious relationship. Other problem is pof thrown me off site already. So many rules about having proper profile, pics, no cut and paste messages etc. Plus at 27, I can not chat to women above 40 and below 21. That sucks |
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"I dont know how anyone elses experiences are but I find more guys on here willing to make meets social experiences than on Dating sites. So far I havent found as single guy on my dating sites that treat you like a person and you can talk to and have a fun experience with on every level like the way I have on Fab.
I know a lot of people critise the members that come on here to find love but im starting to think its the better option as one your honest about the lifestyle from the start, two your more likely to have the shared interest of swinging as a couple, and three the relationship develops from the natural chemistry/friendship that develops. What are other peopkes thoughts and experiences of Fab vs Dating sites?
Yup, I was astonished when I arrived too, lots of social invitations compared to the free dating sites full of young men after sex. The good subscriptions sites contains more people that genuinely want to date.
I don't know I paid £25 to subscribe to match and I might of well just threw that £25 down the drain it was a pile of shite "
I agree - I did qualify it by saying 'good' subscriptions sites, and they do vary with time, go in and out of fashion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont know how anyone elses experiences are but I find more guys on here willing to make meets social experiences than on Dating sites. So far I havent found as single guy on my dating sites that treat you like a person and you can talk to and have a fun experience with on every level like the way I have on Fab.
I know a lot of people critise the members that come on here to find love but im starting to think its the better option as one your honest about the lifestyle from the start, two your more likely to have the shared interest of swinging as a couple, and three the relationship develops from the natural chemistry/friendship that develops. What are other peopkes thoughts and experiences of Fab vs Dating sites?
I prefer the honesty and attitude and personalities of most people in here than on dating sites personally "
Honesty on fab lol???? I say whatever to try get meets on fab. My profile doesn't even describe me. I am nothing like that. It describes some geeky sap because it comes across better then describing myself. You are very naive if you seriously think people are anymore honest on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I joined pof last week. I got several numbers in like three days. It's much easier for guys on pof. I had three dates in three nights. Only problem is, women on there are not looking for fun. Only serious relationship. Other problem is pof thrown me off site already. So many rules about having proper profile, pics, no cut and paste messages etc. Plus at 27, I can not chat to women above 40 and below 21. That sucks"
to be fair POF is a website for dating/looking for a potential life partner
they removed the 'intimate encounter' option to make it more credible as a website to find lurveeee |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont know how anyone elses experiences are but I find more guys on here willing to make meets social experiences than on Dating sites. So far I havent found as single guy on my dating sites that treat you like a person and you can talk to and have a fun experience with on every level like the way I have on Fab.
I know a lot of people critise the members that come on here to find love but im starting to think its the better option as one your honest about the lifestyle from the start, two your more likely to have the shared interest of swinging as a couple, and three the relationship develops from the natural chemistry/friendship that develops. What are other peopkes thoughts and experiences of Fab vs Dating sites?
I prefer the honesty and attitude and personalities of most people in here than on dating sites personally
Honesty on fab lol???? I say whatever to try get meets on fab. My profile doesn't even describe me. I am nothing like that. It describes some geeky sap because it comes across better then describing myself. You are very naive if you seriously think people are anymore honest on fab "
maybe because you lie and say anything to get a shag doesnt mean everyone is as fake and dishonest as you in here ! Always remember you reap what you sow and with your attitude I doubt you have many friends ! |
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"I dont know how anyone elses experiences are but I find more guys on here willing to make meets social experiences than on Dating sites. So far I havent found as single guy on my dating sites that treat you like a person and you can talk to and have a fun experience with on every level like the way I have on Fab.
I know a lot of people critise the members that come on here to find love but im starting to think its the better option as one your honest about the lifestyle from the start, two your more likely to have the shared interest of swinging as a couple, and three the relationship develops from the natural chemistry/friendship that develops. What are other peopkes thoughts and experiences of Fab vs Dating sites?
I think you've nailed it there. I have had the same experiences as you, although having said that, even though this site should be more honest, there are still an awful lot of people willing to lie to get what they want out of a situation. "
Yes, I was going to say - it does seem to be all wonderfully open compared to the dating sites, but beware OP, there are a lot of wolves in sheeps clothing here too, it's just that the script is different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm exactly what it says on the tin here and in real life....I'm not going to make myself out to be someone completely different in order to get a shag or a date...  "
Ditto well said Cheeky. I dont have to lie or be a fake to get a shag either ! How sad would that be??  |
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"I'm exactly what it says on the tin here and in real life....I'm not going to make myself out to be someone completely different in order to get a shag or a date...
Ditto well said Cheeky. I dont have to lie or be a fake to get a shag either ! How sad would that be?? "
I let them get on with it I just don't entertain them in my inbox |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm exactly what it says on the tin here and in real life....I'm not going to make myself out to be someone completely different in order to get a shag or a date...
Ditto well said Cheeky. I dont have to lie or be a fake to get a shag either ! How sad would that be??
I let them get on with it I just don't entertain them in my inbox "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I dont know how anyone elses experiences are but I find more guys on here willing to make meets social experiences than on Dating sites. So far I havent found as single guy on my dating sites that treat you like a person and you can talk to and have a fun experience with on every level like the way I have on Fab.
I know a lot of people critise the members that come on here to find love but im starting to think its the better option as one your honest about the lifestyle from the start, two your more likely to have the shared interest of swinging as a couple, and three the relationship develops from the natural chemistry/friendship that develops. What are other peopkes thoughts and experiences of Fab vs Dating sites?
I prefer the honesty and attitude and personalities of most people in here than on dating sites personally
Honesty on fab lol???? I say whatever to try get meets on fab. My profile doesn't even describe me. I am nothing like that. It describes some geeky sap because it comes across better then describing myself. You are very naive if you seriously think people are anymore honest on fab "
This i where the forums come in.handy regardless of what a profile says you get the persons true personality comes through in what they choose to post |
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This i where the forums come in.handy regardless of what a profile says you get the persons true personality comes through in what they choose to post"
said pretty much the same on another thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont know how anyone elses experiences are but I find more guys on here willing to make meets social experiences than on Dating sites. So far I havent found as single guy on my dating sites that treat you like a person and you can talk to and have a fun experience with on every level like the way I have on Fab.
I know a lot of people critise the members that come on here to find love but im starting to think its the better option as one your honest about the lifestyle from the start, two your more likely to have the shared interest of swinging as a couple, and three the relationship develops from the natural chemistry/friendship that develops. What are other peopkes thoughts and experiences of Fab vs Dating sites?
I prefer the honesty and attitude and personalities of most people in here than on dating sites personally
Honesty on fab lol???? I say whatever to try get meets on fab. My profile doesn't even describe me. I am nothing like that. It describes some geeky sap because it comes across better then describing myself. You are very naive if you seriously think people are anymore honest on fab
This i where the forums come in.handy regardless of what a profile says you get the persons true personality comes through in what they choose to post"
very true |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
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"I dont know how anyone elses experiences are but I find more guys on here willing to make meets social experiences than on Dating sites. So far I havent found as single guy on my dating sites that treat you like a person and you can talk to and have a fun experience with on every level like the way I have on Fab.
I know a lot of people critise the members that come on here to find love but im starting to think its the better option as one your honest about the lifestyle from the start, two your more likely to have the shared interest of swinging as a couple, and three the relationship develops from the natural chemistry/friendship that develops. What are other peopkes thoughts and experiences of Fab vs Dating sites?
I prefer the honesty and attitude and personalities of most people in here than on dating sites personally
Thats essentially what I mean the guys on there are all full of BS from the start, at least here you know thats why the guy joined and the majority are gents (if you use your filters wisely) and dont play games to get "it""
Every guy i ever spoke with on pof was so not full of BS, they admitted from the start they wanted to fuck my brains out, after they'd come to mine for coffee.... Funny enough i don't think their wives would make me coffee if i was to go round theirs.
pf in my opinion is not a dating site, it's a shagging site |
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I think they are different, perhaps in what users focus on. People increase qualities they think a long term partner wants on dating sites, here it is a bit more emphasis on physical attributes and sexual powers. Neither may be that rooted in truth. The former may be more pretentious, and so a fab meet can deliver people who are more down to earth and lacking in fake qualities. There is a lovely 'take me as I am' air on fab meets that most dates dont deliver. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I seem to have the exact opposite problem to you OP (Original poster). On dating sites like Badoo i get a lot of offers to meet up, a few have turned into nsa type relationships. Lets just say not had the same luck here. |
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