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Is it any wonder couples don't trust single guys?
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This is not aimed at all guys but we furious at the moment.
We put up a meet earlier in the week for a guy to come and join us for some MMFM with wifey. As usual we had LOADS of replies. We narrowed it down to 10 guys and messaged them accordingly. One guy seemed to be perfect and said all the right things about safe sex, respect etc. However, he said he'd only consider meeting us if it was just him joining us (not her guys). We reluctantly agreed because his veris were good etc. Therefore, we reluctantly messaged all the other guys thanking them for their interest etc and told them we had chosen this one guy.
We then told Mr perfect that we had chosen him. His reply... 'Thanks guys. You won't regret it. I won't let you down'. That was this morning at 1am.
Fast forward 8 hours and we message him 'Still OK for tonight?' He replied 10 minutes later 'Sorry. Not for me. Too many rules & do's & dont's'. The same do's & dont's he agreed to yesterday (No verbal abuse, no kissing, no anal etc). Then he blocked us!
We have now let a lot of seemingly genuine guys down for this waster.
At this moment in time we are furious. Not because he cancelled (which is his choice). But the fact that he encouraged us to cancel all other guys in favour of him.
A total ShitBag ! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
is he not allowed to change his mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At 1 am I would say all talk and pissed.
Her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So he changed his mind and gave you plenty of notice.
Get over yourselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Shame some guys give others a bad reputation on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You allowed a stranger to dictate to you the terms of meeting, you blew others out to fit into his plans.
Amazing |
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What sort of IDIOT 'reluctantly' agrees to cancel their plans and 'reluctantly' arrange to meet someone.
Seriously?.... "reluctantly".... and then complain when the other guy is 'reluctant' too.
Get a grip.
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"So he changed his mind and gave you plenty of notice.
Get over yourselves."
This. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What sort of IDIOT 'reluctantly' agrees to cancel their plans and 'reluctantly' arrange to meet someone.
Seriously?.... "reluctantly".... and then complain when the other guy is 'reluctant' too.
Get a grip.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What sort of IDIOT 'reluctantly' agrees to cancel their plans and 'reluctantly' arrange to meet someone.
Seriously?.... "reluctantly".... and then complain when the other guy is 'reluctant' too.
Get a grip.
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Hmmm good point but isn't there a policy on here for no shows or did I dream it? |
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Bet the OP is loving the responses... Too be honest you have been very silly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What sort of IDIOT 'reluctantly' agrees to cancel their plans and 'reluctantly' arrange to meet someone.
Seriously?.... "reluctantly".... and then complain when the other guy is 'reluctant' too.
Get a grip.
Hmmm good point but isn't there a policy on here for no shows or did I dream it?"
Yes there is but it wasnt a no show if he cancelled , The same could be said for the OP and those blokes they blew out.
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"What sort of IDIOT 'reluctantly' agrees to cancel their plans and 'reluctantly' arrange to meet someone.
Seriously?.... "reluctantly".... and then complain when the other guy is 'reluctant' too.
Get a grip.
Hmmm good point but isn't there a policy on here for no shows or did I dream it?"
He cancelled - he told them - not there isn't.
If there was a policy about guys not being able to change their mind and having the courtesy to inform the couple, then may be there should be a policy about advertising for a MMFM and changing your mind?
Or is it only guys who can't change their mind when someone 'reluctantly' says they will meet them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I wouldn't trust anyone on the Internet who I hadn't met before and I think you opened yourselves up to this. But at the end of the day, no real harm has been done. |
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