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By *ofakind OP   Couple  over a year ago

Running with Monkeys

im sorry guys i have to ask this because its not the first time ive heard it recently but what do people have against us younger members? x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nothing at all i love the younger females

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By *b430Man  over a year ago

Tayside

Not a thing here, but it could be said that you have set your age limit to 35 so what do you have against us older members?

The answer will be it's your choice to not meet people older than 35 so it's others peoples choice not to meet younger members than their own limits they have set!

Just my tuppence worth, as always!

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By *ofakind OP   Couple  over a year ago

Running with Monkeys


"Not a thing here, but it could be said that you have set your age limit to 35 so what do you have against us older members?

The answer will be it's your choice to not meet people older than 35 so it's others peoples choice not to meet younger members than their own limits they have set!

Just my tuppence worth, as always! "

do apologise that its set to 35 that is what we first said when we joined here but after meeting people older and really enjoying the company our age limit can be pushed

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By *etillanteWoman  over a year ago

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"Not a thing here, but it could be said that you have set your age limit to 35 so what do you have against us older members?

The answer will be it's your choice to not meet people older than 35 so it's others peoples choice not to meet younger members than their own limits they have set!

Just my tuppence worth, as always! "

Well said, sometimes if you have too many objections it will also put people off

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By *andKCouple  over a year ago

Norfolk


"im sorry guys i have to ask this because its not the first time ive heard it recently but what do people have against us younger members? x"

Probably the same reason some dont like us older folks, its all about choice I'm afraid.

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By *b430Man  over a year ago

Tayside


"Not a thing here, but it could be said that you have set your age limit to 35 so what do you have against us older members?

The answer will be it's your choice to not meet people older than 35 so it's others peoples choice not to meet younger members than their own limits they have set!

Just my tuppence worth, as always!

do apologise that its set to 35 that is what we first said when we joined here but after meeting people older and really enjoying the company our age limit can be pushed"

No need to aplogise, it's your choice at anytime who you want to meet.

I just need to overcome being a single male and being way too far away then a meet might be on!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't you just love it: people have their preferences but question others theirs!

I don't wish to play with people the same age as my kids and I make no apologies for that!

Why can't people search for those that want to play with them instead of questioning those that don't?!!

Jeez!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

the same reason you dont meet fat folk or dark skinned guys and so forth so you really answered your own question....... x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'll tell you what we have against young un's ...

Some of them haven't got the foggiest idea of what they want out of life, some of them don't know how to shag - so we steer clear.

Does that go some way to answering yur question ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

And having looked at your profile, you don't want single guys, you fon't want blacks and you don't want fatties

And you have the nerve to ask what we have against young un's ?? ffs !!!

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By *atisfy janeWoman  over a year ago

Torquay


"I'll tell you what we have against young un's ...

Some of them haven't got the foggiest idea of what they want out of life, some of them don't know how to shag - so we steer clear.

Does that go some way to answering yur question ?"

Emphasis on the word 'some'....because although 'some' can't.....others certainly can.

I hate pidgeon holing people, because as with all things in life there is no strict rule of thumb.

It could also be said that 'some' older people are clapped out, but others are like the proverbial 'spring chicken'.

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By *andKCouple  over a year ago

Norfolk

must say wish I had read the profile before I replied earlier, seems a lot of (almost) pedjudices in it yet don't like other people making choices ....... suppose it sounds very much like our kids

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"im sorry guys i have to ask this because its not the first time ive heard it recently but what do people have against us younger members? x"

............ the same thing you have against black guys.....

............ or anything over a size 16 apparently........

see... you mentioned the answer in your own profile.... just preference.....

so is age any different????

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"must say wish I had read the profile before I replied earlier, seems a lot of (almost) pedjudices in it yet don't like other people making choices ....... suppose it sounds very much like our kids "

but its not faaaaiiiir!!!!!!! i hate yooooou!! your ruining my life!! waaailll and sob!!! sound familiar???xx

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By *andKCouple  over a year ago

Norfolk


"must say wish I had read the profile before I replied earlier, seems a lot of (almost) pedjudices in it yet don't like other people making choices ....... suppose it sounds very much like our kids

but its not faaaaiiiir!!!!!!! i hate yooooou!! your ruining my life!! waaailll and sob!!! sound familiar???xx "

you want yer arse slapped young lady?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

the last time I shagged a 21yr old lady, it was a quarter of a century ago and it was my Kate

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well id question that at the ages you are, you have the lifeskills and experience to play with grown ups.

Ive also kids older than you, no thank you very much and i wish guys in your age group would stop messaging me and pushing their luck!!! Like the 29 yrd old that thinks he can change my mind because he says he is good at licking pussy!!! Or would i consider someone who is nearly 29 which isnt far off my 30 age limit, ffs

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By *ofakind OP   Couple  over a year ago

Running with Monkeys


"im sorry guys i have to ask this because its not the first time ive heard it recently but what do people have against us younger members? x

............ the same thing you have against black guys.....

............ or anything over a size 16 apparently........

see... you mentioned the answer in your own profile.... just preference.....

so is age any different????"

ok well thanks for the positive criticism we will (again) change our profile to state the fact that we dont have anything against colour, size and/or sex but just dont find them sexually attractive

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

can't really understand why you're asking the question.

Is it because "older" people are turning you down?

Is it because "older" people aren't contacting you?

If so, just change you're profile welcoming the advances of "older" people.

Not all "oldies" are fat and ugly, lol.

You will be pleasantly surprised by the number of gorgeous "older" people.

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By *andKCouple  over a year ago

Norfolk


"can't really understand why you're asking the question.

Is it because "older" people are turning you down?

Is it because "older" people aren't contacting you?

If so, just change you're profile welcoming the advances of "older" people.

Not all "oldies" are fat and ugly, lol.

You will be pleasantly surprised by the number of gorgeous "older" people.

"

Jack, you don't have to pimp for me really you know pmsl

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By *ofakind OP   Couple  over a year ago

Running with Monkeys


"can't really understand why you're asking the question.

Is it because "older" people are turning you down?

Is it because "older" people aren't contacting you?

If so, just change you're profile welcoming the advances of "older" people.

Not all "oldies" are fat and ugly, lol.

You will be pleasantly surprised by the number of gorgeous "older" people.

"

where is the 'none of the above' option? but no its not any of them reasons its just us younger people are being slated for being just that... i mean someone a few days ago was saying yea lets get rid of them all and give them their own playground and another couple who are complaining that younger people look at their profile

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By *atisfy janeWoman  over a year ago

Torquay


"can't really understand why you're asking the question.

Is it because "older" people are turning you down?

Is it because "older" people aren't contacting you?

If so, just change you're profile welcoming the advances of "older" people.

Not all "oldies" are fat and ugly, lol.

You will be pleasantly surprised by the number of gorgeous "older" people.

where is the 'none of the above' option? but no its not any of them reasons its just us younger people are being slated for being just that... i mean someone a few days ago was saying yea lets get rid of them all and give them their own playground and another couple who are complaining that younger people look at their profile "

You should learn to ignore it, people say all kinds of things.

There is a need for some younger people to be amongst the membership of this site, it is a true reflection of the present day swinging scene.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"im sorry guys i have to ask this because its not the first time ive heard it recently but what do people have against us younger members? x

............ the same thing you have against black guys.....

............ or anything over a size 16 apparently........

see... you mentioned the answer in your own profile.... just preference.....

so is age any different????

ok well thanks for the positive criticism we will (again) change our profile to state the fact that we dont have anything against colour, size and/or sex but just dont find them sexually attractive"

Sigh...you still don't get it do you?!!

NO ONE is telling you to play with people YOU don't find sexually attractive: that's YOUR preference!

It's your brass neck that's annoying people: YOU can have a preference but those of us that don't find young people sexually attractive you question!

Your arrogance is astounding!

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By *ansue35Couple  over a year ago

yorkshire

HI

Once or twice when been at clubs we talked to the younger couples 20-27 yrsr olds.

Just seem to a bit of " well look at me am thin and young etc!

With no way would we / i play with you.

Mainly because they looking for the own age group. Which is fair enough. But why do they always come back near the end of the night when they can't find anyone to play with!!

I guess if some in that age range contact us and seemed to be gen then we would take things further.

Sue

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By *irginontheridiculousWoman  over a year ago

The Posh side of the asylum

My kids are older than you.

You won't do fatties

and your young son has a foot fetish????

I cant read your profiel properly (which is why your son may have a foot fetish)

you don't like over 35

im not slating you just pointing out the obvious.

You have your choices by obviously thinking fatties, oldies and blacks aren't for you. Us oldies and fatties have our choices by thinking that 21 year olds should be out enjoying themselves without worrying about fatties, blacks and oldies contacting them so they can play hide the sausage.

get over yoursleves

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"im sorry guys i have to ask this because its not the first time ive heard it recently but what do people have against us younger members? x

............ the same thing you have against black guys.....

............ or anything over a size 16 apparently........

see... you mentioned the answer in your own profile.... just preference.....

so is age any different????

ok well thanks for the positive criticism we will (again) change our profile to state the fact that we dont have anything against colour, size and/or sex but just dont find them sexually attractive"

okay... lets see if you "get it" this time...

"see... you mentioned the answer in your own profile.... just preference....."

tell me how "age" is any different to "colour" or "size" or a million other .... oooooh..... preferences!!!! it is not!!!!

(god i don't normally use "roll eyes" emoticon... but so help me god i want to use them now)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
Forum Mod

here you are you can borrow this one

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By *ethot69Couple  over a year ago

Merseyside

Might sound strange coming from a pair of 25 year olds, but we generally only meet older because, sadly, there is an increasing scale of immaturity the lower down the age scale you go. Sad but true.

Saying that we met a young couple the other week who were simply delightful. There's no hard set rule that dictates age = maturity, but generally we find ourselves more comfortable with older people as we find we can hold a conversation easier.

It's down to preference - it's not ageism.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hey people we all make mistakes go easy on em xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"can't really understand why you're asking the question.

Is it because "older" people are turning you down?

Is it because "older" people aren't contacting you?

If so, just change you're profile welcoming the advances of "older" people.

Not all "oldies" are fat and ugly, lol.

You will be pleasantly surprised by the number of gorgeous "older" people.

where is the 'none of the above' option? but no its not any of them reasons its just us younger people are being slated for being just that... i mean someone a few days ago was saying yea lets get rid of them all and give them their own playground and another couple who are complaining that younger people look at their profile "

Personally speaking, whilst your age group is not for me as you will find others with kids that find it uncomfortable, there are people on here that do like it. Swinging is for any age group, there are no rules that state its only for certain people, race, sexuality, shapes or sizes and you've a right to be here as anyone else does.

I dont agree that there should be a separate swinging site for the youngsters, on another social network type site im on, there are groups to protect "kids" from paedophiles, id worry that if there was a swinging site for youngsters, some people might lie about their date of birth to get to "you", that idea abhors me immenseley. The biggest rule of the internet is to play safe, whilst you are a lot older than those on the other site im on, you are alot safer here.

As to profile peeking, mine is open to all, ive no objection to anyone viewing it, just as long as they read it before sending me a message

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"im sorry guys i have to ask this because its not the first time ive heard it recently but what do people have against us younger members? x"
personal preference i suspect, nothing more nothing less

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You'll find ppl accept your preferences more if you give a reason such as: Not our thing,does nothing for us etc.

Its just a question of choosing your words.

As for young folk,we've had play mates in their early 20's,it doesn't bother us.

However it does make us wonder why they'd want to meet us,well I can understand young guys wanting to meet Trace,I had a thing about older women when I was young.

I can't for the life of me understand why a young lass would meet me though,so I can understand your preference.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You'll find ppl accept your preferences more if you give a reason such as: Not our thing,does nothing for us etc.

Its just a question of choosing your words.

As for young folk,we've had play mates in their early 20's,it doesn't bother us.

However it does make us wonder why they'd want to meet us,well I can understand young guys wanting to meet Trace,I had a thing about older women when I was young.

I can't for the life of me understand why a young lass would meet me though,so I can understand your preference.

XXXX"

id meet youhow old are you? Dam, now where did i put my reading glasses

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By *aucy3Couple  over a year ago

glasgow

everybody on here.has there own preferences.many profiles have black guys only.this is not considered racist.so saying no black guys,should not be considered racist.most people have an age limit,either way.so why yous having an age limit,upsets people,is a bit strange.the size thing is your choice.choices are on every profile.so i wouldnt worry about that to much.if we are not whinging,about young people.we are whinging about something else.thats the forums.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)  over a year ago

birmingham


"if we are not whinging,about young people.we are whinging about something else"

"We"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

as usual in these forums some sensible intelligent replies are interpersed with bitterness and abuse.

age shouldnt be a big issue.

surely what were all looking for are attractive sexual partners who can also hold a conversation?

weve met older people who couldnt tell a clitoris from a chicken drumstick.

we dont meet fat people because we find them unattractive.if you cant be arsed to look after yourselves why should we be interested in you?

weve met _ofakind.

they are attractive,can hold a conversation and certainly know what theyre doing sexually!

we can understand if people dont want to meet couples who are younger than their children but lets spare the personal abuse.

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By *ethot69Couple  over a year ago

Merseyside


"You'll find ppl accept your preferences more if you give a reason such as: Not our thing,does nothing for us etc.

Its just a question of choosing your words.

As for young folk,we've had play mates in their early 20's,it doesn't bother us.

However it does make us wonder why they'd want to meet us,well I can understand young guys wanting to meet Trace,I had a thing about older women when I was young.

I can't for the life of me understand why a young lass would meet me though,so I can understand your preference.

XXXX"

Because there's absolutely no difference between a 20 year old and a 40 year old except very minor bodily differences and an infinitely more mature mind.

Therefore, a mature 20 year old couple will be infinitely more attracted to the mentality of an older couple than another 20 year old chav couple regardless of whether the woman is a supermodel or not.

That's the thing with us anyway! With swinging it's all about feeling comfortable and how you feel comfortable is all to do with preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You'll find ppl accept your preferences more if you give a reason such as: Not our thing,does nothing for us etc.

Its just a question of choosing your words.

As for young folk,we've had play mates in their early 20's,it doesn't bother us.

However it does make us wonder why they'd want to meet us,well I can understand young guys wanting to meet Trace,I had a thing about older women when I was young.

I can't for the life of me understand why a young lass would meet me though,so I can understand your preference.

XXXX

id meet youhow old are you? Dam, now where did i put my reading glasses "

LOL...

seriously? We dont have a problem at all with younger members - but it is a bit like socialising at parties - you tend to stay around your own age group for the majority of the time. Nothing personal or not a deliberate choice but one has more in common with one's own age group - thats all.. but to second greykitten... we would meet you if we could stay up long enough at night xxx

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By *aucy3Couple  over a year ago

glasgow


"if we are not whinging,about young people.we are whinging about something else

"We" "

this thread is just an example,of we all like a wee whinge.i said we,and you are having a wee whinge.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Everyone said what i had to say but i still have to say it.

It's incredulous .... asking why some people don't chase youngsters yet your list of DONT WANTS is quite long.

1. We only do Sat or Sun

2. We don't like big /over 16 ( What is that in a male size incidentally cos i get SICK of the size quoted always being rallied against a women )

3. We don't want single guys unless we ask

4. We don't want over 45's

5. We don't want friend invites.....

Let me seeeeeeeee........ That leaves...

Slim White Young Couples who don't work weekends.

Good luck ....

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"as usual in these forums some sensible intelligent replies are interpersed with bitterness and abuse.

age shouldnt be a big issue.

surely what were all looking for are attractive sexual partners who can also hold a conversation?

weve met older people who couldnt tell a clitoris from a chicken drumstick.

we dont meet fat people because we find them unattractive.if you cant be arsed to look after yourselves why should we be interested in you?

weve met _ofakind.

they are attractive,can hold a conversation and certainly know what theyre doing sexually!

we can understand if people dont want to meet couples who are younger than their children but lets spare the personal abuse."

see...... good for you... love it when friends feel that mates have been "wronged" and come in to defend them...

but with the greatest of respect that is pointless if you don't have anything to add to the conversation....

you just back up what the rest of us actually said... which is that people have PREFERENCES..... and funny enough just remember that "Personality" is one of those preference as well;-) so some may take offence to what you said about larger people and "not taking care of themselves"...........

so I'll ask you the same question as we asked your friends....

if you can tell us how "age" differs from "colour" or "size" or a million other preferences which is the point that most people have actually made..... then i am sure that I and most others would love to here it.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Everyone said what i had to say but i still have to say it.

It's incredulous .... asking why some people don't chase youngsters yet your list of DONT WANTS is quite long.

1. We only do Sat or Sun

2. We don't like big /over 16 ( What is that in a male size incidentally cos i get SICK of the size quoted always being rallied against a women )

3. We don't want single guys unless we ask

4. We don't want over 45's

5. We don't want friend invites.....

Let me seeeeeeeee........ That leaves...

Slim White Young Couples who don't work weekends.

Good luck .... "

going on a diet and swapping weekend shifts NOW

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"as usual in these forums .........."

I've clipped the rest of your post to save space ..

But as a member of 7 days, you say 'as usual in these forums' !!!!!! what would you know what is 'usual and what isn't after being here a mere 7 days?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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id meet youhow old are you? Dam, now where did i put my reading glasses

LOL...

seriously? We dont have a problem at all with younger members - but it is a bit like socialising at parties - you tend to stay around your own age group for the majority of the time. Nothing personal or not a deliberate choice but one has more in common with one's own age group - thats all.. but to second greykitten... we would meet you if we could stay up long enough at night xxx"

Awww, thank you very much,just one thing though...................how do you know what time we go to bed??

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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id meet youhow old are you? Dam, now where did i put my reading glasses

LOL...

seriously? We dont have a problem at all with younger members - but it is a bit like socialising at parties - you tend to stay around your own age group for the majority of the time. Nothing personal or not a deliberate choice but one has more in common with one's own age group - thats all.. but to second greykitten... we would meet you if we could stay up long enough at night xxx

Awww, thank you very much,just one thing though...................how do you know what time we go to bed??

XXXX"

you are right, we dont.. probaly more worried about the stamina you young guys have... I can't last more than 5 hours these days xx

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By *andKCouple  over a year ago

Norfolk

think I am going to have to find a pit to crawl into cos, I'm old, fat, bald got a limp ....................... and sometimes I might have to even work weekends

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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id meet youhow old are you? Dam, now where did i put my reading glasses

LOL...

seriously? We dont have a problem at all with younger members - but it is a bit like socialising at parties - you tend to stay around your own age group for the majority of the time. Nothing personal or not a deliberate choice but one has more in common with one's own age group - thats all.. but to second greykitten... we would meet you if we could stay up long enough at night xxx

Awww, thank you very much,just one thing though...................how do you know what time we go to bed??

XXXX

you are right, we dont.. probaly more worried about the stamina you young guys have... I can't last more than 5 hours these days xx"

Young...us?

In the head maybe,we do stay up late on a meet.

Not because of stamina but because I have to pace myself and have a long rest and a cuppa between the clinches!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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id meet youhow old are you? Dam, now where did i put my reading glasses

LOL...

seriously? We dont have a problem at all with younger members - but it is a bit like socialising at parties - you tend to stay around your own age group for the majority of the time. Nothing personal or not a deliberate choice but one has more in common with one's own age group - thats all.. but to second greykitten... we would meet you if we could stay up long enough at night xxx

Awww, thank you very much,just one thing though...................how do you know what time we go to bed??

XXXX

you are right, we dont.. probaly more worried about the stamina you young guys have... I can't last more than 5 hours these days xx

Young...us?

In the head maybe,we do stay up late on a meet.

Not because of stamina but because I have to pace myself and have a long rest and a cuppa between the clinches!

XXXX"

sounds like my kinda pace - fancy a trial run?xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

_abio,youve missed the point entirely.

what were saying is that age is not a barrier as long as the mature attitude is there,

who doesnt like people with fit,firm bodies?

who does like big wobbly bodies?very few people!

size is a totally different issue from body shape or attractiveness.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

redhotcpl.weve been on fab since it started.weve just redone our profile as we accidentally deleted it.

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"_abio,youve missed the point entirely.

what were saying is that age is not a barrier as long as the mature attitude is there,

who doesnt like people with fit,firm bodies?

who does like big wobbly bodies?very few people!

size is a totally different issue from body shape or attractiveness.

"

no... I think you missed the point here actually.... and if i were you I'd think about picking up that shovel for the hole you are beginning to dig.....

a preference is a preference is a preference..... be that age/height/sexuality/weight/colour/personality and a million other things that people would call a preference....

yes... even personality... to which i think you are probably not winning a lot of new friends with the words/attitude you are displaying....

it is just a tad hypocritical for people to complain about someone else's preferences when they have some of there own on there own profile......... isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

_abio,dont tell me how to make friends.i got loads.

some things are a matter of taste,some things are quite universally accepted.

just looked at your profile tho and see where you are coming from.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nothing at all... nothing wrong with abit of young blood

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By *b430Man  over a year ago

Tayside


"_abio,dont tell me how to make friends.i got loads.

some things are a matter of taste,some things are quite universally accepted.

just looked at your profile tho and see where you are coming from. "

This version is a bit nicer than your last removed one!

Come on folks isn't this all meant to be fun for everyone??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

said like most posts it would decend into personal abuse.

im a really nice guy in real life but i do like to defend my corner.

apologies if i unintentionally offend.

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By *b430Man  over a year ago

Tayside


"said like most posts it would decend into personal abuse.

im a really nice guy in real life but i do like to defend my corner.

apologies if i unintentionally offend."

If you hadn't removed your OWN last post it could easily have been taken as abuse too - honestly can't see why folk feel the need to start attacking folk on here when it is meant to be a site for fun after all!

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"_abio,dont tell me how to make friends.i got loads.

some things are a matter of taste,some things are quite universally accepted.

just looked at your profile tho and see where you are coming from. "

ooh.. see now i have to ask...

so is colour a matter of taste .... yes or no?

so is height a matter of taste..... yes or no?

so is someones sexuality a matter of taste...... yes or no?

so is someones size a matter of taste.... yes or no?

so is someones age a matter of taste.... yes or now?

all of those answers are "yes"... all those are "preferences"..... whats the difference

still trying to get a straight answer as to what makes one persons preference more important that someone elses.....

so please let all us people "not in the know apparently" of what is universally accepted then???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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yep I agree

We all have our own preferences and they should'nt be questioned by anyone

they are personal to each and everyone of us and people should remember that

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By *ethot69Couple  over a year ago

Merseyside


"_abio,youve missed the point entirely.

what were saying is that age is not a barrier as long as the mature attitude is there,

who doesnt like people with fit,firm bodies?

who does like big wobbly bodies?very few people!

size is a totally different issue from body shape or attractiveness.

"

Absolutely shocking post.

I'd post in more detail, but Fabio has pretty much hit the nail on the proverbial head already.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

may i just say that the post i deleted contained bad grammar.

it was not intrinsically more abusive than any other post on here.

i want to make that clear as it may be suspected that it contained racist thoughts.

it did not and i dont know what _b430 is insinuating.

_abio,i am not a racist and hope you believe that.xx

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

hey... its all water of a ducks back to me... big enough, grown up enough and ugly enough to look after myself... so I'll just focus on the topic at hand rather then wander off and spoiling a good tread.......

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By *b430Man  over a year ago

Tayside


"may i just say that the post i deleted contained bad grammar.

it was not intrinsically more abusive than any other post on here.

i want to make that clear as it may be suspected that it contained racist thoughts.

it did not and i dont know what _b430 is insinuating.

_abio,i am not a racist and hope you believe that.xx"

I know exactly what it said as I read it before you deleted it - wont post the whole thing again but the way you said what you did after seeing his pictures - maybe wasn't put the best way it could have been and could have been (as I said) taken as abuse - wasn't insinuating anything just stating a fact!

Still think this post has turned completely away from what the OP intended and this is still all meant to be about fun for all and not an "I am better than you site!"

As always, just my tuppence worth!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

no-ones preference is more important than anyone elses.

you are still missing the point im afraid.

if you did a survey im pretty certain results would vary by category.

while some things like colour may be split 50/50(for example only).others such as size would be much more polarized.you only have to read through a few profiles to see this.

so what im saying is that not all preferences are equal.

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By *andKCouple  over a year ago

Norfolk

I for one like a bit of meat on the bone

night everyone play like grown ups

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

nite

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By *ornyandnymphoCouple  over a year ago

poole


"as usual in these forums some sensible intelligent replies are interpersed with bitterness and abuse.

age shouldnt be a big issue.

surely what were all looking for are attractive sexual partners who can also hold a conversation?

weve met older people who couldnt tell a clitoris from a chicken drumstick.

we dont meet fat people because we find them unattractive.if you cant be arsed to look after yourselves why should we be interested in you?

weve met _ofakind.

they are attractive,can hold a conversation and certainly know what theyre doing sexually!

we can understand if people dont want to meet couples who are younger than their children but lets spare the personal abuse."

I find what you have written about FAT people very INSULTING. I have a serious illness, so can only do a limited ammount of excersise a day. So not all larger people are the size they are beacause (according to you) they don't take care of themselves. I probably take better care of myself than the majority of people, otherwise I wouldn't still be here.

Like majority of posters on here say, every person has the right to their preferences. The thing is the majority don't moan about others preferences. They just move on.

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By *ethot69Couple  over a year ago

Merseyside


"no-ones preference is more important than anyone elses.

you are still missing the point im afraid.

if you did a survey im pretty certain results would vary by category.

while some things like colour may be split 50/50(for example only).others such as size would be much more polarized.you only have to read through a few profiles to see this.

so what im saying is that not all preferences are equal."

Actually, body size is secondary to something called the waist-hip ratio when determining attractiveness. So any survey on body size based on weight alone would be decisively flawed.

Seriously, look it up. Think of it this way - the vast majority of men would prefer a woman with large breasts and a "correct" waist-hip ratio to a girl who weights four stone less but has no curves whatsoever.

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

worms all over the bloody place now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"no-ones preference is more important than anyone elses.

you are still missing the point im afraid.

if you did a survey im pretty certain results would vary by category.

while some things like colour may be split 50/50(for example only).others such as size would be much more polarized.you only have to read through a few profiles to see this.

so what im saying is that not all preferences are equal."

I still think you are missing the point about preferences, but you've given me an insight into the minds of some of the men that contact me: preferences aren't equal to them either, well mine aren't. They want to meet me, I fit what they want how dare I not want to meet say short, bi men!! How dare I! .

I have my list of preferences, it wouldn't cross my mind to contact someone looking, for example, a slim, blonde, petite, bi sub female because that's NOT me, neither would I contact them saying why don't you want to meet a Dom, fat, straight black woman, because I'm not what they're looking for: simple really.

If the OP had "will meet anybody" on their profile people would be less harsh, it's the arrogance of having a preference but moaning about others preferences that is galling and NOT what their preferences are.

Fabio and others have made that point but you seem unable to comprehend that!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"think I am going to have to find a pit to crawl into cos, I'm old, fat, bald got a limp ....................... and sometimes I might have to even work weekends "

Same here, what with the batwings, fat mummy tummy, fat thighs, and i work weekends, though ive sat night available occasionally, just depends on whether im sitting in front of the tv with my feet up in comfy slippers, watching a black and white film or having an early night

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"yep I agree

We all have our own preferences and they should'nt be questioned by anyone

they are personal to each and everyone of us and people should remember that"

funny that as someone on here thought i was arrogant and up my own ass as i wont do youngsters

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"worms all over the bloody place now "

or the cat among the pigeons

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By *weet DevilMan  over a year ago

dukinfield

cannot understand ageiest people more like wot about us old uns !!!

there is more discrimination from younger folk than older folk on here

trouble is us old uns are more wiser more experianced and jolly well more fun we have more respect trust than you can shake a stick at

ill get off my soapbox now ..... n look for a young un lol

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By *aughty_kittyWoman  over a year ago

finger licking good


"I'll tell you what we have against young un's ...

Some of them haven't got the foggiest idea of what they want out of life, some of them don't know how to shag - so we steer clear.

Does that go some way to answering yur question ?"

oi i am a grade 10 shagger man lol

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By *ofakind OP   Couple  over a year ago

Running with Monkeys

Right ok guys so after some careful thought i've come to the conclusion maybe i didn't word the op properly it was never meant to question anyones preference but a question of slagging off one group of people

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"cannot understand ageiest people more like wot about us old uns !!!

there is more discrimination from younger folk than older folk on here

trouble is us old uns are more wiser more experianced and jolly well more fun we have more respect trust than you can shake a stick at

ill get off my soapbox now ..... n look for a young un lol"

That's not the point either!

We're ALL allowed our preferences be it age, race, height, sexuality, size, location etc.

It's the cheek of people listing their preferences but arrogantly question others about theirs that get my goat!

I don't play with people I don't find sexually attractive. For me it's short men, they just don't do it for me but I'd never dream of being rude and derogatory about it, I have the maturity and vocabulary to do that.

Sadly, some people are unable to do that: oh well!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" For me it's short men, they just don't do it for me "

Soapy goes into the corner to sulk xx

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By *harpDressed ManMan  over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Since this thread hasn't been locked despite the abuse raining down, I'm going to chip in.

Can somebody point me at the ladies with clits that taste of chicken?

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By *heekychezzaWoman  over a year ago

warrington


"

who does like big wobbly bodies?very few people!

"

Now there's a sweeping statement....but I would guess a hell of a lot more than you would think. My wobbly bits don't seem to put people off.....and attractiveness and sexiness is definitely not just about fit, toned bodies.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple  over a year ago

Bolton


"Right ok guys so after some careful thought i've come to the conclusion maybe i didn't word the op properly it was never meant to question anyones preference but a question of slagging off one group of people"

When and where have younger people been slagged off - seriously? I don't think that's ever happened. Z

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By *andKCouple  over a year ago

Norfolk


"

who does like big wobbly bodies?very few people!

Now there's a sweeping statement....but I would guess a hell of a lot more than you would think. My wobbly bits don't seem to put people off.....and attractiveness and sexiness is definitely not just about fit, toned bodies.

"

see my post last night

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Right ok guys so after some careful thought i've come to the conclusion maybe i didn't word the op properly it was never meant to question anyones preference but a question of slagging off one group of people"

after careful thought.... after the horse has bolted more like!!

I would still say the same thing in your profile where you decided to slag off "one group of people" ..... so maybe you have still answered your own questions.....

anyway there isn't a group of people that get "slagged off".... I like to think that everyone on here is an individual... and that everyone gets the same amount of rope to begin with

its up to you as to whether you hang yourself with the said "piece of rope" or not......

same with you..... same with the person who decided to be all big and then said something they regretted and deleted it when they realised how it looked....

I hope this thread does end up getting locked but I fear it probably will..... just because it gives a great insight into peoples true feelings on certain subjects.......

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