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Why are some people so hostile on here?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I had found that putting up a topic on here, a lot of people come across as hostile and even bitter, positive criticism is always welcome but some people want to make it there mission to be "right" and even rude if that's how some people feel fine. Hope it makes you feel like a "someone"

also reading on people's topics so many negative people, cheer up some of you! Keyboard warriors and remember the glass is always half full!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had found that putting up a topic on here, a lot of people come across as hostile and even bitter, positive criticism is always welcome but some people want to make it there mission to be "right" and even rude if that's how some people feel fine. Hope it makes you feel like a "someone"

also reading on people's topics so many negative people, cheer up some of you! Keyboard warriors and remember the glass is always half full!"

Ooooooooh!!!!!!!

Feel better now?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

Fab reflects life! Have a nice day

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

also reading on people's topics so many negative people, cheer up some of you! Keyboard warriors and remember the glass is always half full!"

Totally agree with you. Though I do have a well stocked wine cellar, my glass is always full

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

My glass is always topped up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh my OP. What a spiffingly brilliant post. I must say I agree with every word of your poignant and brilliantly observed comments upon the meanness of some of the posters on here.

More power to your elbow...I'm sure everyone else here will agree wholeheartedly with your comments.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Look on the bright side, these hostile types make themselves known so you know who you don't want contacting you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm an eternal optimist and also a grumpy cynic. Much depends on the subject matter I reply to or if I generally feel like pissing someone off!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hostile? Who th hell do you think you are talking. . . Haaahaha just messing

I've seen quite a few angry, even nasty comments on here too. Some people take it way too seriously!!??

Luckily there are some really funny people on here too, so they usually get bombarded with sarcasm

quite entertaining.

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

fuck off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hmm just read your profile. It's very welcoming

BAZINGA

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fab reflects life! Have a nice day

very true

im having a bad week

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"fuck off"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"fuck off"

You fucking fuck off, fucker.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't beeeeeeeeeeeeelievvvvvvvvvvve it LOL.

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By *udistnorthantsMan over a year ago

Desborough

"My glass is always topped up

mine was until I just drank it all, cheers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hope it makes you feel like a "someone"

That's not a happy smiley is it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have to agree with the OP - it seems as if some folk just have to demonstrate their inability to engage in conversation...

How do they ever get meets on here - do some people actually like them.?

I know that it takes all sorts, but even so...!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That OP is the down side of posting on a public forum you take the rough with the smooth Certain topics always provoke strong emotions, so people get very empassioned arguing their point, this therefore doesnt necessarily mean they are hostile or have to be right, they only become that if yoy chose to take their comments personally

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have to agree with the OP - it seems as if some folk just have to demonstrate their inability to engage in conversation..."

What else do you suggest on a discussion forum?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That OP is the down side of posting on a public forum you take the rough with the smooth Certain topics always provoke strong emotions, so people get very empassioned arguing their point, this therefore doesnt necessarily mean they are hostile or have to be right, they only become that if yoy chose to take their comments personally "

Don't go being all rational - we need OUTRAGE

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Fab reflects life! Have a nice day

very true

im having a bad week "

Oh Lord! Are you? Why?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do notice that certain members who post seem to get a kick out of seemingly winding people up and being deliberately awkward for no reason. Some you see contribute and you just know the thread will get nasty and inevitably be closed by the moderator. Funny how some people get their kicks!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't go being all rational - we need OUTRAGE

Oi you im entitled to my rational opinion so butt out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are some who labour under the yoke of emotional and intellectual inadequacies who use the apparent annonimity of the forums to lash out in the hope they will feel better.

There are some who's command of English fails them in discussions so they resort to personal abuse out of frustration.

There are some who know they are alway right and are angered by a differing opinions.

If you really want to see a vitriolic response; post a topic entitled "I'm a bareback cheating husband who enjoys time wasting!"

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

Op, sometimes folks do come across like that and yes opinions differ and with some subjects there are deeply held _iews..

then again its may also be that when starting a thread and posting on a public forum one will effect a response and sometimes that response will not be what one wants to hear..

just opinions is all..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"fuck off"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are some who labour under the yoke of emotional and intellectual inadequacies who use the apparent annonimity of the forums to lash out in the hope they will feel better.

There are some who's command of English fails them in discussions so they resort to personal abuse out of frustration.

There are some who know they are alway right and are angered by a differing opinions.

If you really want to see a vitriolic response; post a topic entitled "I'm a bareback cheating husband who enjoys time wasting!"

Which are you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are some who labour under the yoke of emotional and intellectual inadequacies who use the apparent annonimity of the forums to lash out in the hope they will feel better.

There are some who's command of English fails them in discussions so they resort to personal abuse out of frustration.

There are some who know they are alway right and are angered by a differing opinions.

If you really want to see a vitriolic response; post a topic entitled "I'm a bareback cheating husband who enjoys time wasting!"

Which are you?"

None of the above.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Phew

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

also reading on people's topics so many negative people, cheer up some of you! Keyboard warriors and remember the glass is always half full!"

i agree

remember in with anger out with love

have fun and happy swinging x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im a happy little soul I just float around forums in my own little world x saying comments now and again im a big unicorn who likes blackmen so I come across alot of threads that reflect about me and most get removed due to arguements x im not the type to take anything seriously. I would rather sit on the fence than argue with people that only see their own point of _iew.im not argumentative or sarcastic in real life so not gonna start here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some people think it's their right, because someone has posted a thread, to get on their soapbox- in the name of entitlement-and let the inner beast out. I'm of the opinion the nastiest people are the ones who don't have friends in real life,don't have empathy for others and think their advice is to be taken regardless. That usually causes a stir. People should be nicer to each other

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Im a happy little soul I just float around forums in my own little world x saying comments now and again im a big unicorn who likes blackmen so I come across alot of threads that reflect about me and most get removed due to arguements x im not the type to take anything seriously. I would rather sit on the fence than argue with people that only see their own point of _iew.im not argumentative or sarcastic in real life so not gonna start here

You are one of a kind though

, friendly, open and exactly the same with everyone you meet. There's not many about like you

mores the pity.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You are one of a kind though

, friendly, open and exactly the same with everyone you meet. There's not many about like you

mores the pity."

you have just described me there as well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fab reflects life! Have a nice day

very true

im having a bad week

Oh Lord! Are you? Why? "

bossy neighbours who are conrol freaks

n just feeling low in general x

thank you for asking x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You are one of a kind though

, friendly, open and exactly the same with everyone you meet. There's not many about like you

mores the pity."

Sorry i meant to your describing yourselfs also xxx

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Fab reflects life! Have a nice day

very true

im having a bad week

Oh Lord! Are you? Why?

bossy neighbours who are conrol freaks

n just feeling low in general x

thank you for asking x

welcome!

Anything any of us can say that will cheer you up a bit? Would you like me to come round and have a word with your neighbours?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Lol I'm sure 98% of fabers are on bitter pills. Cheer up and start with getting a life.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Lol I'm sure 98% of fabers are on bitter pills. Cheer up and start with getting a life."

Bit of a sweeping statement you are making there...I'm sure there are far less bitter people on here than you think..However there are probably some but there are bitter people everywhere not just on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

hostile and judgemental yes a lot of them are on here, they just dont like it when someone thinks a bit differently from them and they take everything you say far too seriously.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ooooh the irony

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"hostile and judgemental yes a lot of them are on here, they just dont like it when someone thinks a bit differently from them and they take everything you say far too seriously."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ooooh the irony

a perfect example.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It is a little ironic though that the most unpleasant comments appear to be those written about how unpleasant everybody else is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It's like having Norris living inside your computer or phone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How others read posts is subjective of course. What one person might think funny, another will find derogatory and so on and so on ....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do think there is an irony about the whole thread. This place is a bit like a mirror at times

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I agree with everyone. Except the OP.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do think there is an irony about the whole thread. This place is a bit like a mirror at times

Cold and shocking?

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Fab reflects life! Have a nice day

^ this

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By *andy_tomMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

Some people where just born nasty and haven't changed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some people where just born nasty and haven't changed.

Nobody is born nasty.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do think there is an irony about the whole thread. This place is a bit like a mirror at times

Cold and shocking?"

I quite like what I see in the mirror most of the time

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Lol I'm sure 98% of fabers are on bitter pills. Cheer up and start with getting a life."

ok. Will do!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do think there is an irony about the whole thread. This place is a bit like a mirror at times

Cold and shocking?

I quite like what I see in the mirror most of the time

Just checking

Mine works best after midday.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"I do think there is an irony about the whole thread. This place is a bit like a mirror at times

Cold and shocking?

I quite like what I see in the mirror most of the time

Just checking

Mine works best after midday."

mine seems to give the mist accurate reflection by candlelight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In my opinion, It`s nothing to do with FAB as to why some people behave in such a way. It`s the whole cyber world that some spineless people use to abuse others, trolling etc whilst hiding behind their computer screen which is the lowest of the low. In real life and face to face, I doubt they would have the guts to behave in such a way.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"I do think there is an irony about the whole thread. This place is a bit like a mirror at times

One of my favourite quotes whch I may have posted before is

"man does not judge based on the truth of who you are, but on the truth of who they are"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my opinion, It`s nothing to do with FAB as to why some people behave in such a way. It`s the whole cyber world that some spineless people use to abuse others, trolling etc whilst hiding behind their computer screen which is the lowest of the low. In real life and face to face, I doubt they would have the guts to behave in such a way. "

But you would? What would you do if you met them?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not me as I don`t get my kicks in life from abusing others !

I enjoy abusing myself too much !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's just opinions. Right or wrong. Don't take it to heart.

Except mine, which are always right. Duh!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Then after you get the same people sending winks and messaging asking if you'll be there friend. Lmao

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

^ this too

Anyone posting a thread on here and expecting only people who agree with them to comment is at least a little deluded. They're also likely to be disappointed, especially if the topic is a contentious one.

I prefer people who say what they think, even when it's not the prevailing _iew to those who go with the general majority, even if it's not what they really think, just to avoid making waves.

Of course, debating one's point passionately is a lot different to resorting to personal insults.

Ask me my opinion and I'll tell you the truth. If you aren't prepared to hear opinions you don't like, or agree with, don't ask the question.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lmfao

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not me as I don`t get my kicks in life from abusing others !

I enjoy abusing myself too much !

I'm sure

Maybe if everyone were to use masturbation therapy to express their anger...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do think there is an irony about the whole thread. This place is a bit like a mirror at times

Cold and shocking?

I quite like what I see in the mirror most of the time

Just checking

Mine works best after midday.

mine seems to give the mist accurate reflection by candlelight

And Femme's talks back to her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not me as I don`t get my kicks in life from abusing others !

I enjoy abusing myself too much !

I'm sure

Maybe if everyone were to use masturbation therapy to express their anger..."

juggling my stress balls as we speak

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

I haven't been here much so it's not me...

I agree, they are cheeky fuckers.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I don't say anything online that I wouldn't say to someone in person.

I go to socials so I'm not hiding anywhere. If people want to meet me in person, the opportunity is there.

Of course, in person some people wouldn't say the things they deem it ok to say on here, so the impassioned responses and opposing opinions don't come out.

I've yet to have a disagreement with anyone I've met from here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've yet to have a disagreement with anyone I've met from here.

You obviously need to get ourself out more then!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I haven't been here much so it's not me...

I agree, they are cheeky fuckers."

I noticed your absence. I was getting worried

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why are some people hostile, simply because they just are and what will you do about it.

I, on the other hand, well I like puppy Labradors and agreeing with people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't say anything online that I wouldn't say to someone in person.

I go to socials so I'm not hiding anywhere. If people want to meet me in person, the opportunity is there.

Of course, in person some people wouldn't say the things they deem it ok to say on here, so the impassioned responses and opposing opinions don't come out.

I've yet to have a disagreement with anyone I've met from here."

Really?????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You need to get yourself out more then!

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I've yet to have a disagreement with anyone I've met from here.

You obviously need to get ourself out more then!

I've been to a couple of big socials as my veris show.

How many regular forum posters have you met?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are some who labour under the yoke of emotional and intellectual inadequacies who use the apparent annonimity of the forums to lash out in the hope they will feel better.

There are some who's command of English fails them in discussions so they resort to personal abuse out of frustration.

There are some who know they are alway right and are angered by a differing opinions.

If you really want to see a vitriolic response; post a topic entitled "I'm a bareback cheating husband who enjoys time wasting!"

Surely you missed a bit - "I'm a bareback cheating husband who enjoys time wasting - isn't rude that people don't slavishly reply to my three word explicit messages?"

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"I haven't been here much so it's not me...

I agree, they are cheeky fuckers.

I noticed your absence. I was getting worried "

I was on my holidays, all well though

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I don't say anything online that I wouldn't say to someone in person.

I go to socials so I'm not hiding anywhere. If people want to meet me in person, the opportunity is there.

Of course, in person some people wouldn't say the things they deem it ok to say on here, so the impassioned responses and opposing opinions don't come out.

I've yet to have a disagreement with anyone I've met from here.

Really?????

Same question to you. How many socials have you been to? How many regular forum posters have you met?

Or are you one of the hiding behind a keyboard, stirring up shit types?

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I haven't been here much so it's not me...

I agree, they are cheeky fuckers.

I noticed your absence. I was getting worried

I was on my holidays, all well though

I'd noticed too. I had to check you hadn't left.

Did you have a good holiday?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I haven't been here much so it's not me...

I agree, they are cheeky fuckers.

I noticed your absence. I was getting worried

I was on my holidays, all well though

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"I haven't been here much so it's not me...

I agree, they are cheeky fuckers.

I noticed your absence. I was getting worried

I was on my holidays, all well though

I'd noticed too. I had to check you hadn't left.

Did you have a good holiday?"

yes I did thanks, I was visiting my sister in France.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"There are some who labour under the yoke of emotional and intellectual inadequacies who use the apparent annonimity of the forums to lash out in the hope they will feel better.

There are some who's command of English fails them in discussions so they resort to personal abuse out of frustration.

There are some who know they are alway right and are angered by a differing opinions.

If you really want to see a vitriolic response; post a topic entitled "I'm a bareback cheating husband who enjoys time wasting!"

Surely you missed a bit - "I'm a bareback cheating husband who enjoys time wasting - isn't rude that people don't slavishly reply to my three word explicit messages?"

You need something about them having no photos other than the 50 close-ups of their cock.

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By *hrissie1961Woman over a year ago

dumfries and galloway

I agree...

There is a cohort here who treat the forums as their playground and often ridicule people not on their _iews, but on mundane rubbish like spelling and grammar. So it's an enter at your own risk zone. Not a 'in the spirit of the forum' place that moderators like to claim it is..

Probably off for my next 24 hour time out!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I sense a wee bit of anger in your tone?

Are you one of the angry ones ? pmsl

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I haven't been here much so it's not me...

I agree, they are cheeky fuckers.

I noticed your absence. I was getting worried

I was on my holidays, all well though

I'd noticed too. I had to check you hadn't left.

Did you have a good holiday?

yes I did thanks, I was visiting my sister in France."

Ah, la belle France! My parents lived there for a few years

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I sense a wee bit of anger in your tone?

Are you one of the angry ones ? pmsl"

No anger, simple question. Which I note you have tried to distract from to avoid answering.

Personally I find being true to my opinions and saying what I think prevents the bottling up of feelings and the building of anger.

So, since you didn't answer, I assume you are a keyboard hider then. Figures.

I find a lot of the worst stirrers are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

all because I havent been to many socials doesnt mean Im not entitled to have an opinion in this forum. Everyone is entitled to an opinion wether they are newbies or have attended socials or not.

Doesn`t make my opinions any less valid than yours just because I havent attended lots of socials and I am still quite new here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

why are some people so hostile in general?

i keep seeing things like this being posted where people have this perception that fab members are above natural human behavior patterns

lol people are people ffs

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By *hrissie1961Woman over a year ago

dumfries and galloway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

well said !

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"all because I havent been to many socials doesnt mean Im not entitled to have an opinion in this forum. Everyone is entitled to an opinion wether they are newbies or have attended socials or not.

Doesn`t make my opinions any less valid than yours just because I havent attended lots of socials and I am still quite new here.

I didn't say you weren't entitled to an opinion. I absolutely support everyone's right to an opinion, which is the basis of some of the debates I get involved in, as it happens.

My posts were related to the comments about people "hiding" behind their screen and to your comment to me that I need to get out more.

It seems it's actually you who needs to get out more.

People in glass houses...

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By *hrissie1961Woman over a year ago

dumfries and galloway

"all because I havent been to many socials doesnt mean Im not entitled to have an opinion in this forum. Everyone is entitled to an opinion wether they are newbies or have attended socials or not.

Doesn`t make my opinions any less valid than yours just because I havent attended lots of socials and I am still quite new here.

Well said.......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think sometimes opinions differ so that may come across as slightly hostile, other times people get personal and criticise others preferences and profile when they don't seem to get the answers that they want.

Other times you just get people who post that seem to like rocking the boat as it were.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"all because I havent been to many socials doesnt mean Im not entitled to have an opinion in this forum. Everyone is entitled to an opinion wether they are newbies or have attended socials or not.

Doesn`t make my opinions any less valid than yours just because I havent attended lots of socials and I am still quite new here.

Well said......."

Someone who doesn't get out and meet people getting defensive when questioned on telling someone who's been to a couple of large socials that they "need to get out more" is "well said".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I agree...

Probably off for my next 24 hour time out!

Your use of the word 'cohort' is inapropriate.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"all because I havent been to many socials doesnt mean Im not entitled to have an opinion in this forum. Everyone is entitled to an opinion wether they are newbies or have attended socials or not.

Doesn`t make my opinions any less valid than yours just because I havent attended lots of socials and I am still quite new here.

Well said.......

Someone who doesn't get out and meet people getting defensive when questioned on telling someone who's been to a couple of large socials that they "need to get out more" is "well said".

Don't panic, I found it hilariously ironic too...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its always the same trouble makers on these forums ....that cant be a coincidence

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"all because I havent been to many socials doesnt mean Im not entitled to have an opinion in this forum. Everyone is entitled to an opinion wether they are newbies or have attended socials or not.

Doesn`t make my opinions any less valid than yours just because I havent attended lots of socials and I am still quite new here.

Well said.......

Someone who doesn't get out and meet people getting defensive when questioned on telling someone who's been to a couple of large socials that they "need to get out more" is "well said".

Oh gosh someone needs a hug!!! And no I'm not offering.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"all because I havent been to many socials doesnt mean Im not entitled to have an opinion in this forum. Everyone is entitled to an opinion wether they are newbies or have attended socials or not.

Doesn`t make my opinions any less valid than yours just because I havent attended lots of socials and I am still quite new here.

Well said.......

Someone who doesn't get out and meet people getting defensive when questioned on telling someone who's been to a couple of large socials that they "need to get out more" is "well said".

Don't panic, I found it hilariously ironic too..."

Most of the thread is quite funny.

I was laughing so hard I forgot the "?".

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"I sense a wee bit of anger in your tone?

Are you one of the angry ones ? pmsl"

It's much easier to follow.a conversation if you use the reply and quote option

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I do think there is an irony about the whole thread. This place is a bit like a mirror at times

Cold and shocking?

I quite like what I see in the mirror most of the time

Just checking

Mine works best after midday.

mine seems to give the mist accurate reflection by candlelight

mine smiles as its too polite to laugh..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not defensive at all in my returned message to you. I was merely stating my opinion that certain alleged seasoned swingers as you consider yourself to be seem to have a false sense of superior attitude to newbies in here.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Its always the same trouble makers on these forums ....that cant be a coincidence "

It isn't but once one has established who they are it's easy enough to avoid or engage as requires

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"I do think there is an irony about the whole thread. This place is a bit like a mirror at times

Cold and shocking?

I quite like what I see in the mirror most of the time

Just checking

Mine works best after midday.

mine seems to give the mist accurate reflection by candlelight

mine smiles as its too polite to laugh.."

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"all because I havent been to many socials doesnt mean Im not entitled to have an opinion in this forum. Everyone is entitled to an opinion wether they are newbies or have attended socials or not.

Doesn`t make my opinions any less valid than yours just because I havent attended lots of socials and I am still quite new here.

Well said.......

Someone who doesn't get out and meet people getting defensive when questioned on telling someone who's been to a couple of large socials that they "need to get out more" is "well said".

Oh gosh someone needs a hug!!! And no I'm not offering.

Ah, another one avoiding answering the question of whether they are in fact one of those that hides behind their keyboard

The distraction techniques aren't working.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its all banter on forums lol

It depends what you talk about put

a silly topic on and people will rip you to shreads so be carefull what you say

I think its hostile when you ignore msgs n say No to meets guys get really nasty say horrible stuff to you in msgs i think

Forums are mint I live banter and jibes loves the forums

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't see this ending well for some reason!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not defensive at all in my returned message to you. I was merely stating my opinion that certain alleged seasoned swingers as you consider yourself to be seem to have a false sense of superior attitude to newbies in here. "

Mate, there's no sense of superiority. VV was simply answering your comment about getting out more....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

", cheer up some of you! Keyboard warriors and remember the glass is always half full!"

I hate it when people try to tell me how I should feel.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do think there is an irony about the whole thread. This place is a bit like a mirror at times

Cold and shocking?

I quite like what I see in the mirror most of the time

Just checking

Mine works best after midday.

mine seems to give the mist accurate reflection by candlelight

mine smiles as its too polite to laugh.."

Mine has got a bit old and is starting to wrinkle, so I'm buying a new one soon.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its all banter on forums lol

It depends what you talk about put

a silly topic on and people will rip you to shreads so be carefull what you say

I think its hostile when you ignore msgs n say No to meets guys get really nasty say horrible stuff to you in msgs i think

Forums are mint I live banter and jibes loves the forums

Yes its all good fun !

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Rubbish.

My point is quite clear and entirely justified given your dig that *I* need to get out more.

Pointing out I do get out, and you do not, is central to the response to your comment and the only reason I mentioned it.

I repeat. People in glass houses...

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rubbish.

My point is quite clear and entirely justified given your dig that *I* need to get out more.

Pointing out I do get out, and you do not, is central to the response to your comment and the only reason I mentioned it.

I repeat. People in glass houses...

I still dont think you get out very much ? Your full of pent up anger, Talk to me about your problems and maybe I can help you smile again? pmsl "

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Mate, there's no sense of superiority. VV was simply answering your comment about getting out more...."

Indeed I was.

Still, reading more into it than that and accusing me of things I've neither said, nor think, does support the defensive comment.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I do think there is an irony about the whole thread. This place is a bit like a mirror at times

Cold and shocking?

I quite like what I see in the mirror most of the time

Just checking

Mine works best after midday.

mine seems to give the mist accurate reflection by candlelight

mine smiles as its too polite to laugh..

Mine has got a bit old and is starting to wrinkle, so I'm buying a new one soon."

one persons old and wrinkled is another's experienced..

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Can the two of you drop it now please. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rubbish.

My point is quite clear and entirely justified given your dig that *I* need to get out more.

Pointing out I do get out, and you do not, is central to the response to your comment and the only reason I mentioned it.

I repeat. People in glass houses..."

So did the "you need to get out more" comment upset you a tad? Just need clarification. Can't tell if it it has or not.............

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

", cheer up some of you! Keyboard warriors and remember the glass is always half full!

I hate it when people try to tell me how I should feel.....

what about whom you should feel..?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"one persons old and wrinkled is another's experienced.. "

Oh it's definitely an experienced mirror. It really has seen all sorts!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

", cheer up some of you! Keyboard warriors and remember the glass is always half full!

I hate it when people try to tell me how I should feel.....

what about whom you should feel..?

I feel Jesus ! Anyone else in here feel the Lord? "

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Rubbish.

My point is quite clear and entirely justified given your dig that *I* need to get out more.

Pointing out I do get out, and you do not, is central to the response to your comment and the only reason I mentioned it.

I repeat. People in glass houses...

I still dont think you get out very much ? Your full of pent up anger, Talk to me about your problems and maybe I can help you smile again? pmsl

No anger. A simple response to your ironic and entirely unjustifiable claim. You're the one having a problem and getting defensive.

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

", cheer up some of you! Keyboard warriors and remember the glass is always half full!

I hate it when people try to tell me how I should feel.....

what about whom you should feel..?

I feel Jesus ! Anyone else in here feel the Lord?

Pssst you have to write your text AFTER the last quote bracket and not inside it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love this place at times......

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By *hrissie1961Woman over a year ago

dumfries and galloway

"I agree...

Probably off for my next 24 hour time out!

Your use of the word 'cohort' is inapropriate."

Why?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"one persons old and wrinkled is another's experienced..

Oh it's definitely an experienced mirror. It really has seen all sorts!"

and long may it maintain its discretion..

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Rubbish.

My point is quite clear and entirely justified given your dig that *I* need to get out more.

Pointing out I do get out, and you do not, is central to the response to your comment and the only reason I mentioned it.

I repeat. People in glass houses...

I still dont think you get out very much ? Your full of pent up anger, Talk to me about your problems and maybe I can help you smile again? pmsl

No anger. A simple response to your ironic and entirely unjustifiable claim. You're the one having a problem and getting defensive."

Ive already asked both of you to drop it please. Thanks.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Rubbish.

My point is quite clear and entirely justified given your dig that *I* need to get out more.

Pointing out I do get out, and you do not, is central to the response to your comment and the only reason I mentioned it.

I repeat. People in glass houses...

I still dont think you get out very much ? Your full of pent up anger, Talk to me about your problems and maybe I can help you smile again? pmsl

No anger. A simple response to your ironic and entirely unjustifiable claim. You're the one having a problem and getting defensive.

Ive already asked both of you to drop it please. Thanks."

Sorry Jez, I hadn't seen that when I posted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

", cheer up some of you! Keyboard warriors and remember the glass is always half full!

I hate it when people try to tell me how I should feel.....

what about whom you should feel..?

I feel Jesus ! Anyone else in here feel the Lord?

Pssst you have to write your text AFTER the last quote bracket and not inside it"

Oh sorry and thanks

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I love this place at times......"

Me too

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I do think the OP has a point,some posters seem hostile nine tenths of the time, of course, its a forum, you will always get that. Best thing to do is ignore those ones.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rubbish.

My point is quite clear and entirely justified given your dig that *I* need to get out more.

Pointing out I do get out, and you do not, is central to the response to your comment and the only reason I mentioned it.

I repeat. People in glass houses...

So did the "you need to get out more" comment upset you a tad? Just need clarification. Can't tell if it it has or not.............

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lol just amused to see so many people who fall foul of what the OP's talking about...here on this thread trying to be all jolly and light weight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rubbish.

My point is quite clear and entirely justified given your dig that *I* need to get out more.

Pointing out I do get out, and you do not, is central to the response to your comment and the only reason I mentioned it.

I repeat. People in glass houses...

So did the "you need to get out more" comment upset you a tad? Just need clarification. Can't tell if it it has or not.............

Now I know VV doesn't need anyone to stick up for her but your posts are coming across as slightly aggressive and bullying which fits in exactly with the mysonistic tones of your posts on other threads. "
???? I dont agree that I have come across as bullying and agressive?? What do the others think in here? Have I ?

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Rubbish.

My point is quite clear and entirely justified given your dig that *I* need to get out more.

Pointing out I do get out, and you do not, is central to the response to your comment and the only reason I mentioned it.

I repeat. People in glass houses...

So did the "you need to get out more" comment upset you a tad? Just need clarification. Can't tell if it it has or not.............

I'm actually loving the irony because I know he wouldn't behave as he does on here, and say the things he does to people, if he did meet them in person. Not that he would.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Rubbish.

My point is quite clear and entirely justified given your dig that *I* need to get out more.

Pointing out I do get out, and you do not, is central to the response to your comment and the only reason I mentioned it.

I repeat. People in glass houses...

So did the "you need to get out more" comment upset you a tad? Just need clarification. Can't tell if it it has or not.............

Now I know VV doesn't need anyone to stick up for her but your posts are coming across as slightly aggressive and bullying which fits in exactly with the mysonistic tones of your posts on other threads. ???? I dont agree that I have come across as bullying and agressive?? What do the others think in here? Have I ?

The comment wasn't aimed at you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rubbish.

My point is quite clear and entirely justified given your dig that *I* need to get out more.

Pointing out I do get out, and you do not, is central to the response to your comment and the only reason I mentioned it.

I repeat. People in glass houses...

So did the "you need to get out more" comment upset you a tad? Just need clarification. Can't tell if it it has or not.............

Now I know VV doesn't need anyone to stick up for her but your posts are coming across as slightly aggressive and bullying which fits in exactly with the mysonistic tones of your posts on other threads. ???? I dont agree that I have come across as bullying and agressive?? What do the others think in here? Have I ?

The comment wasn't aimed at you."
Ah thats ok then

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I do think the OP has a point,some posters seem hostile nine tenths of the time, of course, its a forum, you will always get that. Best thing to do is ignore those ones.

I agree the point is valid.

Still, a slightly hostile post, accusing others of hostility, is bound to cause a few disagreements, especially in this heat

The fora always seems to have more er heated debates when it's hot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rubbish.

My point is quite clear and entirely justified given your dig that *I* need to get out more.

Pointing out I do get out, and you do not, is central to the response to your comment and the only reason I mentioned it.

I repeat. People in glass houses...

So did the "you need to get out more" comment upset you a tad? Just need clarification. Can't tell if it it has or not.............

Now I know VV doesn't need anyone to stick up for her but your posts are coming across as slightly aggressive and bullying which fits in exactly with the mysonistic tones of your posts on other threads. ???? I dont agree that I have come across as bullying and agressive?? What do the others think in here? Have I ?

Not just aimed at you , but if the cap fits.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Calm down people it's only a thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rubbish.

My point is quite clear and entirely justified given your dig that *I* need to get out more.

Pointing out I do get out, and you do not, is central to the response to your comment and the only reason I mentioned it.

I repeat. People in glass houses...

So did the "you need to get out more" comment upset you a tad? Just need clarification. Can't tell if it it has or not.............

Now I know VV doesn't need anyone to stick up for her but your posts are coming across as slightly aggressive and bullying which fits in exactly with the mysonistic tones of your posts on other threads. ???? I dont agree that I have come across as bullying and agressive?? What do the others think in here? Have I ?

Not just aimed at you , but if the cap fits. "
Cheeky sod !

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