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By *exycleaner OP Woman over a year ago

pontefract

ive closed a thread haha

well firstly how has everyone come to the conclusion that im looking for a relationship ,i am not seeing as ive not met anyone for 6 months , i have only met one guy from here ,the other guy i met for a coffee but as he wants to get to know me see if anything develops ive not met him ,i have in the past 2 years met 2 guys from another site a few times and so its those guys asking me to do stuff ive asked about however how is that not taking your advice ,and to answer cheekys question a guy who said on the forums he would take me out so we chatted for few days ,so he askes me what i like and not like ,so i said anal

and doggy so he straight away presumed cos i not like them ive had a bad experience ,i never said i had ,i only come on here when im home and have a bit of time on my hands .never while im at work and not while im away so if im sat at home on a rainy day looking on here feeling down cos i hate grey cloudy days

im not seeking attention just passing time !!!!!!!!!!!

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

There's sod all on TV and I've wasted an hour or so watching Tron Legacy.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Oh dear god...I need another vodka

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Another thread? Really?

You've had the same advice, for the same problem, again. Why continue asking?

We've answered you. Either accept the advice or don't but for the love of all things that are orange, please stop posting the same thread over and over.

You need to find something positive to do when you have time on your hands because this is helping nobody at all.

head/desk

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Oh dear god...I need another vodka "

I haven't had any but I am starting to feel the need.

I'm going to have to take a break myself at this rate because biting my tongue and not saying what I really want to is getting to be a strain.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Oh dear god...I need another vodka "

Toffee Vodka, ice cold - there you go, compliments of a misguided narcissic bi guy

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Oh dear god...I need another vodka

Toffee Vodka, ice cold - there you go, compliments of a misguided narcissic bi guy

Steve I love you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pass the bottle Chops and VV .... not into vodka very often but could make an exception tonight.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh dear god...I need another vodka "

Can you pour me one too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is it me...or is that one confusing OP?!

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By *exycleaner OP Woman over a year ago

pontefract

ive taken your advice i not meet these men and as that post was closed i put up a new one ,i am looking at doing other things i not need a man in my life , i wont be putting up any more threads asking the same ,but i hope for all you that have slated me ,what happened to me never happens to any of you .but you never know if the golden rule of swinging gets broken

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Einstein stated that insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. So why do you keep posting the same thing over and over again?

Stay. Go. Hang upside down with your knickers on your head. Just make sure that whatever you do, it's for the right reasons.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"ive closed a thread haha

im not seeking attention just passing time !!!!!!!!!!!"

so anyway. How are you? what have you been up to today, did you manage to get out in the sunshine?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't like vodka but what the hell!!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Oh dear god...I need another vodka

Can you pour me one too

Large one coming right up....oh and here is a large vodka

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I feel a headache coming on...

Ok ill have a vodka too ty... Erm who has THE biggest bottle?!

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Einstein stated that insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. So why do you keep posting the same thing over and over again?

Stay. Go. Hang upside down with your knickers on your head. Just make sure that whatever you do, it's for the right reasons. "

but wouldn't her knickers fall off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is like Dave tv... It just repeats itself over and over again!

Cheeky pour me a vodka please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh dear god...I need another vodka

Can you pour me one too

"
and me three please xx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"ive taken your advice i not meet these men and as that post was closed i put up a new one ,i am looking at doing other things i not need a man in my life , i wont be putting up any more threads asking the same ,but i hope for all you that have slated me ,what happened to me never happens to any of you .but you never know if the golden rule of swinging gets broken "

Your husband left you for another woman....it's happened to lots of women including me...

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't like vodka but what the hell!!"

My bottle of toffee vodka is rapidly diminishing but I'd love to give you a shot.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Oh dear god...I need another vodka

Can you pour me one too

and me three please xx"

Toffee voddy?

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

OP, to answer your questions:

1. People think you want a relationship because that is what has come through in your posts in the past.

2. It's never clear whether you have met people here or elsewhere only that your meets have not been what you want them to be.

3. The issue about meeting socially before anything else is also not entirely clear. Having dinner is fine if that is what you want but in general the replies have been that people feel not many men want to have a full on dinner "date" before a casual sex meet.

Perhaps a lighter meal option, such as coffee and cake might get you through the social meet element without sending the signal that you want to date them?

4. Posts about the same thing indicate that you are pre-occupied with that thing and that comes across as desperate and attention seeking.

Finally, the rest of us are at fault because we should just ignore the threads.

Have a good night.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I may regret asking this but: what's the golden rule of swinging?

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"This is like Dave tv... It just repeats itself over and over again!

Cheeky pour me a vodka please

Cheeky can have the whole bottle. What's left of it....I'm off for a shower. Night all.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Einstein stated that insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. So why do you keep posting the same thing over and over again?

Stay. Go. Hang upside down with your knickers on your head. Just make sure that whatever you do, it's for the right reasons.

but wouldn't her knickers fall off

Not if they're hooked over the ears.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I may regret asking this but: what's the golden rule of swinging? "

Pick me! Pick me!

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By *tirling DarkCouple over a year ago

Stirling

Very strange post.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Einstein stated that insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. So why do you keep posting the same thing over and over again?

Stay. Go. Hang upside down with your knickers on your head. Just make sure that whatever you do, it's for the right reasons.

but wouldn't her knickers fall off

Not if they're hooked over the ears."

Of course, forgot that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

....... * puts out bowls of nibbles and nuts to go with the drinks* .........

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you just want to pass time why not start a thread about something else?

Cross stitch or squirting perhaps?

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By *exycleaner OP Woman over a year ago

pontefract

"I may regret asking this but: what's the golden rule of swinging? "
falling in love with someone that you have met through swinging .

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By *nigmatic1Woman over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

"I may regret asking this but: what's the golden rule of swinging?

Pick me! Pick me!

Or pick me Chelle hehe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I may regret asking this but: what's the golden rule of swinging?

Pick me! Pick me!

Ha that goes without saying. But what is it? I may have to report my profile as fake cos I don't know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP, to answer your questions:

1. People think you want a relationship because that is what has come through in your posts in the past.

2. It's never clear whether you have met people here or elsewhere only that your meets have not been what you want them to be.

Perhaps a lighter meal option, such as coffee and cake might get you through the social meet element without sending the signal that you want to date them?

4. Posts about the same thing indicate that you are pre-occupied with that thing and that comes across as desperate and attention seeking.

Finally, the rest of us are at fault because we should just ignore the threads.

Have a good night.

Your a wise woman Lickety

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I feel a headache coming on...

Ok ill have a vodka too ty... Erm who has THE biggest bottle?!

Well cheeky gave me a large one, ohh errr & a voddy

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By *extoysareusCouple over a year ago

kinky heaven

From your post wasn't too sure if you liked anal and doggy either

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I may regret asking this but: what's the golden rule of swinging? falling in love with someone that you have met through swinging ."

Fuck me pass the tequila have you now fallen in love with someone?

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I may regret asking this but: what's the golden rule of swinging? falling in love with someone that you have met through swinging ."

That's not a rule. In fact that's something I'd avoid like the plague.

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By *exycleaner OP Woman over a year ago

pontefract

"ive closed a thread haha

im not seeking attention just passing time !!!!!!!!!!!

so anyway. How are you? what have you been up to today, did you manage to get out in the sunshine? "
yes took my dogs out today twice did 3 cleaning jobs

and went out for a meal xxx

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

OP, given whats gone on and been aired on here several times is this aspect really for you at this time..?

maybe take some time out look at how things are then go from there..

at the moment you seem to be spiralling down into a sea of self doubt, in confusion and with low confidence..

wish you well but think here is not whats best for you at this time..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh dear god...I need another vodka

Toffee Vodka, ice cold - there you go, compliments of a misguided narcissic bi guy

i have toffee vodka too, its lush

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"OP, to answer your questions:

1. People think you want a relationship because that is what has come through in your posts in the past.

2. It's never clear whether you have met people here or elsewhere only that your meets have not been what you want them to be.

Perhaps a lighter meal option, such as coffee and cake might get you through the social meet element without sending the signal that you want to date them?

4. Posts about the same thing indicate that you are pre-occupied with that thing and that comes across as desperate and attention seeking.

Finally, the rest of us are at fault because we should just ignore the threads.

Have a good night.

Your a wise woman Lickety

And a hell of a lot more fucking patient than me.

I love how the OP assumes nothing bad has ever happened to the rest of us

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is like watching someone being bullied in a playground for being different

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By *exycleaner OP Woman over a year ago

pontefract

"I may regret asking this but: what's the golden rule of swinging? falling in love with someone that you have met through swinging .

Fuck me pass the tequila have you now fallen in love with someone? "
no cheeky havent you figured it out HE did thats why what happened was such a shock and i wasnt expecting it x

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"From your post wasn't too sure if you liked anal and doggy either"

She doesn't. But every man in the known universe will only meet her if she does them. Or something.

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By *adybee77Woman over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Jeez-o, I don't drink much, but pour me a large one...

Right SC, are you looking for suggestions for what to do with your spare time... (Your OP has me confused what you are actually posting for, other than attention, which you say its not for)

I'd suggest on the grey cloudy days where you are feeling down, you read a book, listen to music, go to the gym - do something other than post online. It seems to be a downwards spiral for you.

Honestly some of your posts are almost cheery, and then others sap the will to live out via my eyeballs (sorry)

Get yourself some good mates, a hobby, a pet, a kindle, learn a new skill, take up knitting/sewing and do something else... was it a kids programme that said why don't you switch off your TV set and go and do something less boring instead... Step away from your laptop/tablet/phone/computer and go re-discover that big, exciting and fabulous (and not always in the swinging way) big old world that is out there.

There has to be something that makes you feel better than the outpouring of woe and sadness on here.

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By *extoysareusCouple over a year ago

kinky heaven

"OP, given whats gone on and been aired on here several times is this aspect really for you at this time..?

maybe take some time out look at how things are then go from there..

at the moment you seem to be spiralling down into a sea of self doubt, in confusion and with low confidence..

wish you well but think here is not whats best for you at this time.."

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"This is like watching someone being bullied in a playground for being different "

Different????????

Dear deity...

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Oh dear god...I need another vodka

Toffee Vodka, ice cold - there you go, compliments of a misguided narcissic bi guy

i have toffee vodka too, its lush

It is

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Oh dear god...I need another vodka

Toffee Vodka, ice cold - there you go, compliments of a misguided narcissic bi guy

i have toffee vodka too, its lush

It is

Pass it over then please. I've never tried it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is like watching someone being bullied in a playground for being different

Different????????

Dear deity..."

Yes you know what I meant. Enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh dear god...I need another vodka

Toffee Vodka, ice cold - there you go, compliments of a misguided narcissic bi guy

i have toffee vodka too, its lush

It is

Pass it over then please. I've never tried it."

it's a lovely drink ~ pass it over!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I may regret asking this but: what's the golden rule of swinging? falling in love with someone that you have met through swinging ."

Yep that's a bitch right enough, sometimes you can't help who you fall in love with. But as they say, better to have experienced a little love than not feel anything at all.

I fell in love with a swinger once, unrequited and totally unexpected love, but it was my fault and not encouraged or exploited by him ..... was painful at the time but it made me realise I was capable of loving a man again after being widowed. So however painful it was then I was thankful it proved I was still capable of loving and not dead inside.

I still have a soft spot for him now but realise how wrong we were for each other in hindsight.

I hope you one day can look back with a smile and look forward with an even bigger one. xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Does anyone have any prozac floating around

Her

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"I may regret asking this but: what's the golden rule of swinging? falling in love with someone that you have met through swinging .

Yep that's a bitch right enough, sometimes you can't help who you fall in love with. But as they say, better to have experienced a little love than not feel anything at all.

I still have a soft spot for him now but realise how wrong we were for each other in hindsight.

I hope you one day can look back with a smile and look forward with an even bigger one. xx"

The ops husband fell in love with a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh dear god...I need another vodka

Toffee Vodka, ice cold - there you go, compliments of a misguided narcissic bi guy

i have toffee vodka too, its lush

I've never had toffee vodka, I feel so left out

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"This is like watching someone being bullied in a playground for being different

Different????????

Dear deity...

Yes you know what I meant. Enjoy yourself "

I don't think *anyone* is enjoying themselves, except the one getting all the attention she wants. More fool us.

The previous thread filled up, It could have been left there. She chose to start it again, with exactly the same thing. Again.

People are sick of the "poor me" routine and it's hardly a surprise after a zillion threads.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"....... * puts out bowls of nibbles and nuts to go with the drinks* ........."

puts out bowls of nibbles and drinks to go with the nuts...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does anyone have any prozac floating around

Her"

I might have one somewhere in the bottom of my handbag, prob be mixed in with baccy, biro & copper though

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I may regret asking this but: what's the golden rule of swinging? falling in love with someone that you have met through swinging .

Fuck me pass the tequila have you now fallen in love with someone? "

No, the ex husband fell in love with someone. Keep up.

Yes, attraction to others can lead to more than just sex. How long it lasts is another matter.

My experience is that when things fall apart there is usually a reason that is core to the relationship. Falling in love or lust or just wanting out and using that as the reason just provide a "reason" for the break up or shake up.

I have admitted in the past to having been "the other woman" and to having been cheated on. The other woman often gets the blame but she wasn't the cause of what had gone on before that led to that situation.

Equally, being cheated on doesn't mean that it was all your fault or her/his fault alone. It takes two.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I may regret asking this but: what's the golden rule of swinging? falling in love with someone that you have met through swinging .

Yep that's a bitch right enough, sometimes you can't help who you fall in love with. But as they say, better to have experienced a little love than not feel anything at all.

I still have a soft spot for him now but realise how wrong we were for each other in hindsight.

I hope you one day can look back with a smile and look forward with an even bigger one. xx

The ops husband fell in love with a swinger.

Oh fuck me I'm confused! sorry OP ... what a kick in the head.

..... pssst...... more voddy purlease peeps.

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By *exycleaner OP Woman over a year ago

pontefract

"I may regret asking this but: what's the golden rule of swinging? falling in love with someone that you have met through swinging .

Yep that's a bitch right enough, sometimes you can't help who you fall in love with. But as they say, better to have experienced a little love than not feel anything at all.

I still have a soft spot for him now but realise how wrong we were for each other in hindsight.

I hope you one day can look back with a smile and look forward with an even bigger one. xx

The ops husband fell in love with a swinger.

"
wrong we were swingers for 15 years and he fell for woman that we had met and played with some lady who had told me she wanted us to be friends

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP the more you keep posting these forum topics the more you will get the same people coming out and mocking you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't like vodka but what the hell!!

My bottle of toffee vodka is rapidly diminishing but I'd love to give you a shot.

I've got 2 bottles of the stuff here . .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I feel a headache coming on...

Ok ill have a vodka too ty... Erm who has THE biggest bottle?!

Well cheeky gave me a large one, ohh errr & a voddy

A large one ohhh your such a flamin hussy... You went troll oping without me woman... Throwing your wears all over the place do you know, how fookin distract I am

Psssst was it good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is like watching someone being bullied in a playground for being different

Different????????

Dear deity...

Yes you know what I meant. Enjoy yourself

I don't think *anyone* is enjoying themselves, except the one getting all the attention she wants. More fool us.

The previous thread filled up, It could have been left there. She chose to start it again, with exactly the same thing. Again.

People are sick of the "poor me" routine and it's hardly a surprise after a zillion threads."

Then don't read it. And advise "the people" to do the same. She may or may not enjoy the attention,I'm sure you enjoy yours from your threads. Remember the saying about walking a mile in my shoes

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I may regret asking this but: what's the golden rule of swinging? falling in love with someone that you have met through swinging .

Fuck me pass the tequila have you now fallen in love with someone? no cheeky havent you figured it out HE did thats why what happened was such a shock and i wasnt expecting it x"

Ok I'm aware that your husband went off with another bird...that must of been a shock but it's happened and you need to address the major issues you have regarding the whole break up....I've had it done to me twice but I've always had the attitude of fuck them...I think you need the same attitude

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"I may regret asking this but: what's the golden rule of swinging? falling in love with someone that you have met through swinging .

Yep that's a bitch right enough, sometimes you can't help who you fall in love with. But as they say, better to have experienced a little love than not feel anything at all.

I still have a soft spot for him now but realise how wrong we were for each other in hindsight.

I hope you one day can look back with a smile and look forward with an even bigger one. xx

The ops husband fell in love with a swinger.

wrong we were swingers for 15 years and he fell for woman that we had met and played with some lady who had told me she wanted us to be friends

Oh I see, sorry. Anyhow you didn't answer my earlier questions about how your day has been.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

FFS I've stayed away from your threads for a reason, and your still posting the same one!! For gods sake woman, have some decorum! And some self respect, do you really need to air all to all and sundry? sheesh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I may regret asking this but: what's the golden rule of swinging? falling in love with someone that you have met through swinging ."

Oh, I thought it was never wear knickers

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

This is, however, the husband that the OP stated was a controlling bully and abused her.

Loads of people on this site have been through abuse, broken relationships, ill health and all sorts of trials and tribulations. Loads are dealing with self-esteem problems, body issues, depression, bereavement, being cheated on, and so much more besides. Some are struggling with far worse than being left by a partner.

The OP has been given some really good advice on the numerous threads she has posted on the same topic.

I genuinely hope the OP finds what she needs and reaches a point of happiness. Sadly, I suspect whilst she is looking to others for that happiness and self-worth, she won't find it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is like watching someone being bullied in a playground for being different

Different????????

Dear deity...

Yes you know what I meant. Enjoy yourself

I don't think *anyone* is enjoying themselves, except the one getting all the attention she wants. More fool us.

The previous thread filled up, It could have been left there. She chose to start it again, with exactly the same thing. Again.

People are sick of the "poor me" routine and it's hardly a surprise after a zillion threads."

Wow you must have done about 8 threads on a social from the weekend,if you don't like it don't read it

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I may regret asking this but: what's the golden rule of swinging? falling in love with someone that you have met through swinging .

Yep that's a bitch right enough, sometimes you can't help who you fall in love with. But as they say, better to have experienced a little love than not feel anything at all.

I still have a soft spot for him now but realise how wrong we were for each other in hindsight.

I hope you one day can look back with a smile and look forward with an even bigger one. xx

The ops husband fell in love with a swinger.

wrong we were swingers for 15 years and he fell for woman that we had met and played with some lady who had told me she wanted us to be friends

Oh I see, sorry. Anyhow you didn't answer my earlier questions about how your day has been.

She did....

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By *exycleaner OP Woman over a year ago

pontefract

"I may regret asking this but: what's the golden rule of swinging? falling in love with someone that you have met through swinging .

Yep that's a bitch right enough, sometimes you can't help who you fall in love with. But as they say, better to have experienced a little love than not feel anything at all.

I still have a soft spot for him now but realise how wrong we were for each other in hindsight.

I hope you one day can look back with a smile and look forward with an even bigger one. xx

The ops husband fell in love with a swinger.

wrong we were swingers for 15 years and he fell for woman that we had met and played with some lady who had told me she wanted us to be friends

Oh I see, sorry. Anyhow you didn't answer my earlier questions about how your day has been.

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yes i did

i put ive been for 2 walks done 3 cleaning jobs and been for a meal x

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"ive closed a thread haha

im not seeking attention just passing time !!!!!!!!!!!

so anyway. How are you? what have you been up to today, did you manage to get out in the sunshine? yes took my dogs out today twice did 3 cleaning jobs

and went out for a meal xxx"

That sounds nice, what did you have to eat?

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"This is like watching someone being bullied in a playground for being different

Different????????

Dear deity...

Yes you know what I meant. Enjoy yourself

I don't think *anyone* is enjoying themselves, except the one getting all the attention she wants. More fool us.

The previous thread filled up, It could have been left there. She chose to start it again, with exactly the same thing. Again.

People are sick of the "poor me" routine and it's hardly a surprise after a zillion threads.

Then don't read it. And advise "the people" to do the same. She may or may not enjoy the attention,I'm sure you enjoy yours from your threads. Remember the saying about walking a mile in my shoes"

I didn't used to read them. I, and a lot of other people, have run out of patience today it seems.

She asked for advice. Again. We're giving it. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, stop being so negative, learn to be happy with yourself.

I'm honestly not sure what she wants us to tell her.

The OP got hurt, yes but this is not helping her or anyone else. We're trying to make her realise that continually posting the same thread isn't going to change anything for her, which is what she says she wants to do.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"I may regret asking this but: what's the golden rule of swinging? falling in love with someone that you have met through swinging .

Yep that's a bitch right enough, sometimes you can't help who you fall in love with. But as they say, better to have experienced a little love than not feel anything at all.

I still have a soft spot for him now but realise how wrong we were for each other in hindsight.

I hope you one day can look back with a smile and look forward with an even bigger one. xx

The ops husband fell in love with a swinger.

wrong we were swingers for 15 years and he fell for woman that we had met and played with some lady who had told me she wanted us to be friends

Oh I see, sorry. Anyhow you didn't answer my earlier questions about how your day has been.

She did....

Oh Lord! I haven't managed to keep up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is, however, the husband that the OP stated was a controlling bully and abused her.

The OP has been given some really good advice on the numerous threads she has posted on the same topic.

I genuinely hope the OP finds what she needs and reaches a point of happiness. Sadly, I suspect whilst she is looking to others for that happiness and self-worth, she won't find it."

Bloody hell VV I've experienced ALL of these!

Now I'm on a downer

...............

Nope all better again.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"I may regret asking this but: what's the golden rule of swinging? falling in love with someone that you have met through swinging .

Yep that's a bitch right enough, sometimes you can't help who you fall in love with. But as they say, better to have experienced a little love than not feel anything at all.

I still have a soft spot for him now but realise how wrong we were for each other in hindsight.

I hope you one day can look back with a smile and look forward with an even bigger one. xx

The ops husband fell in love with a swinger.

wrong we were swingers for 15 years and he fell for woman that we had met and played with some lady who had told me she wanted us to be friends

Oh I see, sorry. Anyhow you didn't answer my earlier questions about how your day has been.

yes i did

i put ive been for 2 walks done 3 cleaning jobs and been for a meal x"

So I see, sorry.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"OP the more you keep posting these forum topics the more you will get the same people coming out and mocking you.

OP I really do think it's time you looked at why you are here and if this sort or post is helping at all?

You seem to get more and more wound up each time you air your business on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

.....and the game goes on....

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By *exycleaner OP Woman over a year ago

pontefract

well folks that kept you all entertained for a while cos lets face it if you all not like my threads dont comment on them and as its now 10.50 pm what are you lot doing on here reading my posts nobody shagging so ignoring my posts

so goodnite all and i'll share a bottle of voddy with you cheeky x

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"This is like watching someone being bullied in a playground for being different

Different????????

Dear deity...

Yes you know what I meant. Enjoy yourself

I don't think *anyone* is enjoying themselves, except the one getting all the attention she wants. More fool us.

The previous thread filled up, It could have been left there. She chose to start it again, with exactly the same thing. Again.

People are sick of the "poor me" routine and it's hardly a surprise after a zillion threads.

Wow you must have done about 8 threads on a social from the weekend,if you don't like it don't read it

Haha, yeah 8, sure I have. Go on then, name those 8 threads.

Perhaps you've noticed that most people on this thread are saying the same thing? She asked for advice. She's getting it.

So, why exactly do you feel the need to say 'don't like it, don't read it' specifically to me when almost everyone is saying exactly the same?

That's a rhetorical question btw, since I already know the answer.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"well folks that kept you all entertained for a while cos lets face it if you all not like my threads dont comment on them and as its now 10.50 pm what are you lot doing on here reading my posts nobody shagging so ignoring my posts

so goodnite all and i'll share a bottle of voddy with you cheeky x"

Here you go

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"This is, however, the husband that the OP stated was a controlling bully and abused her.

The OP has been given some really good advice on the numerous threads she has posted on the same topic.

I genuinely hope the OP finds what she needs and reaches a point of happiness. Sadly, I suspect whilst she is looking to others for that happiness and self-worth, she won't find it.

Bloody hell VV I've experienced ALL of these!

Now I'm on a downer

...............

Nope all better again.

Post 12 poor me threads asking for advice and ignore it. That alway helps.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

so goodnite all and i'll share a bottle of voddy with you cheeky x"

lol

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

so goodnite all and i'll share a bottle of voddy with you cheeky x"

That's more like it. Of course we're not shagging and doing this instead. And eating chocolate (in my case). Happy days.

Sleep well.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is like watching someone being bullied in a playground for being different

Different????????

Dear deity...

Yes you know what I meant. Enjoy yourself

I don't think *anyone* is enjoying themselves, except the one getting all the attention she wants. More fool us.

The previous thread filled up, It could have been left there. She chose to start it again, with exactly the same thing. Again.

People are sick of the "poor me" routine and it's hardly a surprise after a zillion threads.

Wow you must have done about 8 threads on a social from the weekend,if you don't like it don't read it

Haha, yeah 8, sure I have. Go on then, name those 8 threads.

Perhaps you've noticed that most people on this thread are saying the same thing? She asked for advice. She's getting it.

So, why exactly do you feel the need to say 'don't like it, don't read it' specifically to me when almost everyone is saying exactly the same?

That's a rhetorical question btw, since I already know the answer."

Lol im not going to scroll through your previous forum posts but I fail to see from the op first comment where she asks for advice.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

so goodnite all and i'll share a bottle of voddy with you cheeky x

lol"

well I'm shagging AND posting.