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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So today I was questioned on why I would need a social meet first, why couldn't I go straight to theirs when they lived in a million pound penthouse.
Made me wonder, are people less wary if a person is a professional homeowner in an affluent area?
I of course didn't care if they lived in a penthouse or a cardboard box, for my own safety I always insist on a social first.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely the hallmark of a good meet is a happy meet, so if someone wants a social hook up first then that is totally fine! be wary of anyone bragging about a penthouse and insensitive to a sensible request! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Million pound penthouse? Hahahaha 
I went to a party that claimed it was in a penthouse by Marble Arch in London.....it wasn't!
No...money doesn't mean safety at all |
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By *utzzCouple
over a year ago
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It has been known for some of the very wealthy to think they are above the law and untouchable, protected by their money and status. I think there's been a few court cases lately where this was the case.
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"If a person thought I'd be impressed by them flashing their cash I'd make a point of proving them wrong.
Yep, it would bring out the reverse snob in me, too  "
I know a lot of rich snobby people.
They think I'm weird as I say things like 'have you thought of buying a personality?'  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would go though, just for a mosey around his gaff...."
It could, of course be hers!
A million pound gaff huh, i'm not slumming it for anyone lol, repeat LOL. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know people meet without socials first, that works for them and that's great. I've had a couple of scary experiences so I'm cautious.
I couldn't help picture Patrick Bates when he said that lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didn't realise wealthy people were renowned as never committing crimes or endangering peoples lives.
It's moronic that such said people think because they are wealthy that all rules go out the window. |
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"So today I was questioned on why I would need a social meet first, why couldn't I go straight to theirs when they lived in a million pound penthouse.
Made me wonder, are people less wary if a person is a professional homeowner in an affluent area?
I of course didn't care if they lived in a penthouse or a cardboard box, for my own safety I always insist on a social first. "
This made me laugh. Why on earth would where they live and the cost of it mean that they are any more trustworthy than anyone else...people are funny |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It has been known for some of the very wealthy to think they are above the law and untouchable, protected by their money and status. I think there's been a few court cases lately where this was the case.
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I thought the same thing. I'd be more wary of someone in this situation than if they just invited me to a caravan.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh and I know the "penthouse" he's talking about, they certainly arent worth anywhere near a million! In fact you aren't allowed more than 8 people in tthe kitchen at a time because the floor is unstable
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely the hallmark of a good meet is a happy meet, so if someone wants a social hook up first then that is totally fine! be wary of anyone bragging about a penthouse and insensitive to a sensible request!"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I especially laughed at being told "you're not in roasterville now" 
Now my geography is shoddy, I admit, but I'm assuming it must be somewhere full of council flats and caravans |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So today I was questioned on why I would need a social meet first, why couldn't I go straight to theirs when they lived in a million pound penthouse.
Made me wonder, are people less wary if a person is a professional homeowner in an affluent area?
I of course didn't care if they lived in a penthouse or a cardboard box, for my own safety I always insist on a social first. "
Its not the be all and end all but if you have it then life is far easier with less worries for them. |
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a "friend" of mine was very snooty indeed and when she came to my house once prepared herself to leave by getting her car keys and holding them between her fingers so she could use them as a weapon  . Now we lived in quite an ordinary, normal residential area at the time but it was near a (speak it low) "council estate" the horror!!. I told her we weren't living in Beirut and to get a bloody grip |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh and I know the "penthouse" he's talking about, they certainly arent worth anywhere near a million! In fact you aren't allowed more than 8 people in tthe kitchen at a time because the floor is unstable
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That's nothing, i daren't go in out kitchen with the ex, she was unstable.
Anyways, what does a social meet first prove? They could be utterly charming durung that and utter psychopaths when you visit them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they are millionaires what are they doing looking for free fucks on here? Why don't they go for the top end escorts who do anything for cash? Be very worried. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is an advantage to living in a penthouse though.
Whenever i accomodate i tell them the lifts are broken. If they're fit enough to walk up 12 flights of stairs then they're fit enough to fuck all night.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You are totally right, it's never 100% safe! But usually those who are willing to go along with a social will be more respectful.
And it's not just to gauge their sanity, I have to click with someone, so it's a good way to see if that happens.
I had a close call when I first started out, I went to a meets house, he was nothing like his picture and things got nasty when I said I was going home. So now I like to meet for a drink or a coffee before making any arrangements for kinky fucker 
]Oh and I know the "penthouse" he's talking about, they certainly arent worth anywhere near a million! In fact you aren't allowed more than 8 people in tthe kitchen at a time because the floor is unstable
That's nothing, i daren't go in out kitchen with the ex, she was unstable.
Anyways, what does a social meet first prove? They could be utterly charming durung that and utter psychopaths when you visit them.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You are totally right, it's never 100% safe! But usually those who are willing to go along with a social will be more respectful.
And it's not just to gauge their sanity, I have to click with someone, so it's a good way to see if that happens.
I had a close call when I first started out, I went to a meets house, he was nothing like his picture and things got nasty when I said I was going home. So now I like to meet for a drink or a coffee before making any arrangements for kinky fucker
]Oh and I know the "penthouse" he's talking about, they certainly arent worth anywhere near a million! In fact you aren't allowed more than 8 people in tthe kitchen at a time because the floor is unstable
That's nothing, i daren't go in out kitchen with the ex, she was unstable.
Anyways, what does a social meet first prove? They could be utterly charming durung that and utter psychopaths when you visit them.
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Have you tried taking Rennie's?
You appear to be repeating. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There is an advantage to living in a penthouse though.
Whenever i accomodate i tell them the lifts are broken. If they're fit enough to walk up 12 flights of stairs then they're fit enough to fuck all night.
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That's me out then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they are millionaires what are they doing looking for free fucks on here? Why don't they go for the top end escorts who do anything for cash? Be very worried."
free fucks on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they are millionaires what are they doing looking for free fucks on here? Why don't they go for the top end escorts who do anything for cash? Be very worried."
They aren't necessarily millionaires. One of my regular men owns a property in West London which is worth a lot of money. He isn't skint obviously but he doesn't have millions in the bank |
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"If they are millionaires what are they doing looking for free fucks on here? Why don't they go for the top end escorts who do anything for cash? Be very worried.
free fucks on here? "
Fucks aren't free on here some pay dearly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If they are millionaires what are they doing looking for free fucks on here? Why don't they go for the top end escorts who do anything for cash? Be very worried.
free fucks on here?
Fucks aren't free on here some pay dearly "
Hopefully in donuts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they are millionaires what are they doing looking for free fucks on here? Why don't they go for the top end escorts who do anything for cash? Be very worried."
I think you may have the wrong idea as to what this swinging malarkey is all about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they are millionaires what are they doing looking for free fucks on here? Why don't they go for the top end escorts who do anything for cash? Be very worried."
Awwe bless |
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"If they are millionaires what are they doing looking for free fucks on here? Why don't they go for the top end escorts who do anything for cash? Be very worried.
free fucks on here?
Fucks aren't free on here some pay dearly
Hopefully in donuts. "
Hopefully lovely |
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"Money certainly doesn't make them a safer person...I know of a few drug dealers with lovely houses and very expensive cars. "
Lol just because they are drug dealers doesn't mean that they are unsafe.... |
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Personally I wouldn't meet them , they re obviously complete tosswank s to come out with that sort of rubbish x think twice bout meeting at all Hun there is such a thing as respect and if they were worth anything the wouldn't question your request for a social meet xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they are millionaires what are they doing looking for free fucks on here? Why don't they go for the top end escorts who do anything for cash? Be very worried.
free fucks on here?
Fucks aren't free on here some pay dearly "
Yes dear.
Soz |
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I play things by ear. If pressured by someone I usually lose interest in them. Id perhaps feel safer if in the queens palace, but otherwise a nutter can be rich or poor. Arrogance is usually repulsive, including arrogance about wealth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If they are millionaires what are they doing looking for free fucks on here? Why don't they go for the top end escorts who do anything for cash? Be very worried.
free fucks on here?
Fucks aren't free on here some pay dearly "
Who is selling here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is the "penthouse" to top flat on an estate? They are worth over a £1m here in London.
Of course it doesn't equate to safety, either physical or psychological.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So today I was questioned on why I would need a social meet first, why couldn't I go straight to theirs when they lived in a million pound penthouse.
Made me wonder, are people less wary if a person is a professional homeowner in an affluent area?
I of course didn't care if they lived in a penthouse or a cardboard box, for my own safety I always insist on a social first. "
A wise man after seeing profiles and people in reality its 50/50 on the run like fuck stakes at times.  |
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"If a person thought I'd be impressed by them flashing their cash I'd make a point of proving them wrong. "
Yes, me too. I met a young man off here with a swimming pool and gym in the basement of his Canary Wharf flat, and a Quattro in the garage, but he never tried to use it for 'leverage' over me, was just keen to 'share his toys'!!
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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's funny how it's usually the ones with no veris by meeting that say that.
That anyone could fail to understand wanting to meet someone before being alone with them amazes me. As does that anyone would seek to deny a potential sexual partner the opportunity to feel a bit more secure, when all it requires is a quick coffee!
Anyone with that little regard for my feelings can whistle for a meet.
No social, no meet, no further discussion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So today I was questioned on why I would need a social meet first, why couldn't I go straight to theirs when they lived in a million pound penthouse.
Made me wonder, are people less wary if a person is a professional homeowner in an affluent area?
of course didn't care if they lived in a penthouse or a cardboard box, for my own safety I always insist on a social first. "
And so you should. What a nob, so there have never been any rich serial killers? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Million pound penthouse and he's on fab, crazzyy"
That's the second time this has been said on this thread. Are the rich banned from Fab and where should the wealthy go to find potential swinging partners ? |
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I can never understand why people lie about things that can be dis-proven (is that a word?).
I could claim i've climbed Mount Snowdon and no one could prove me wrong.
But if i claimed to be a millionaire penthouse owner and i met someone at my modest council house i'm confident my lie would be undone!!
Why can't people just be true to themselves - or at least true to potential meets!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have a rule that i will meet socially before play or thinking about play
this only changes if i reply to a meet listing someone has ( usually been on hotlist a while perving)
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a sex club
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