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Do you know when i meet up if its for sex i never get nervous just excited and eager andam not worried about my preformance as i feel i usually do that well, but i really feel the pressure when its a meet for a drink because that i usually feel i am more likely to cock up why is that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know i'm a shite shag but when i do meet i let them know so im not under any pressure.
Some are not as gifted as others
There are other ways to have fun other than a shag.
That will be me crossed off a few list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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sex should be a go with the flow kind off thing so their shouldn't be any pressure. However yes if someone is rubbish in bed it is frustrating, once i was having sex with a girl an all she did was lay their like a lead weight! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would think that ladies feel the same way.
That they have to be not only gorgeous , smelling fantastic, everything shaved to within of its life and then to perform like olga korbut in the bedroom.
Its not just men who have it hard ya know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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bad sex takes two people to create.
one womans bad sex is anothers hope and glory.
if the chemistry is wrong, it won't work...no matter what kind of wonderfuck you think you are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmmmm, disagree: being called a bad mother, awful friend, cold person, useless employee are far worst for me than whether a casual playmate thinks I'm a good shag or not!
This is fun for me, I'm not looking for a boyfriend, it is what it is so I never feel nervous or under pressure of any sort.
I always meet socially first and spend time letting my playmates know what I like. I suppose it's different for me as my playmates just want to please me, their nervousness is exciting and a major turn on for me! |
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"bad sex takes two people to create.
one womans bad sex is anothers hope and glory.
if the chemistry is wrong, it won't work...no matter what kind of wonderfuck you think you are"
I simply couldn't have out it better myself. And wonderfuck is a wonderful word. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do women get the same 'pressure to perform' on a meet? I mean the worse thing is to be labelled a shit shag."
Well as a woman you can perform what ever. I have had a couple of men loose control and cum too quickly which lets face it is a bit of a disappointment and a the odd one who got penis shy and couldn't get it up so i think you have to say there is more pressure on the men.
It might be not helping with the ratio of men to women making men worry about getting labelled as a poor performer and struggling then to get future meets. |
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"Do women get the same 'pressure to perform' on a meet? I mean the worse thing is to be labelled a shit shag."
your only as good as the person your shagging.......
so i give everyone 10 out of 10 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"While riding a unicycle?
Depends - do you already have the unicycle skills, or are you looking to learn both simultaneously?"
Thinks it's going to have to be both...I suppose if I have to "perform" I may as well put some effort in. |
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over a year ago
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Yes its the same for us and annoying when pressured to shag someeone as my heart really isnt in it, so ive got to put extra effort into it. Or if im tired, it works the same |
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"Yes its the same for us and annoying when pressured to shag someeone as my heart really isnt in it, so ive got to put extra effort into it. Or if im tired, it works the same "
I've had that where Ive physically been so tired that its just not happened lol..not sleepy just worn out! |
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