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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with Cheeky, feelings can't be helped and when they're unrequited it can be hard to handle.
Love and feelings are necessarily the same thing tho. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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most meets have been one off meets
only met a frew3/4 times
bit difficult to fall in love in short space of time....plus swinging mode is easily
switched on if you cant separate sex and love best not be a swinger  |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
Nope, I'm quite good at keeping that line drawn.
Maybe more so because I can honestly say I have never been in love in my life, so its not like its something I've experienced. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree with Cheeky, feelings can't be helped and when they're unrequited it can be hard to handle.
Love and feelings are necessarily the same thing tho.
Not? "
No, because you can have feelings for someone which are amazingly intense especially if you click sexually but it's not love in the true sense of the word. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe the trick is never to meet the same person twice 
Some people do that...I can't be arsed and usually meet someone more than once  "
ehats the longest uve seen the same person ? |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Nope, I'm quite good at keeping that line drawn.
Maybe more so because I can honestly say I have never been in love in my life, so its not like its something I've experienced."
 same thing here |
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"Maybe the trick is never to meet the same person twice
The trick is to meet people who will never want a relationship with you "
That's pretty hard I don't think people set out to fall in love or want a relationship on here...while I would love to settle down I don't look for it on here or everyday but you sometimes can't help who you meet and how they effect you emotionally etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe the trick is never to meet the same person twice
The trick is to meet people who will never want a relationship with you
That's pretty hard I don't think people set out to fall in love or want a relationship on here...while I would love to settle down I don't look for it on here or everyday but you sometimes can't help who you meet and how they effect you emotionally etc "
Someone who will want children I'm safe with as I can't have them. Confirmed bachelors, men who work way too much. I tend to feel comfortable with these men,it's probably why I steer clear of men my own age. Anyone who could be possibly boyfriend material I mentally block out |
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"Maybe the trick is never to meet the same person twice
The trick is to meet people who will never want a relationship with you
That's pretty hard I don't think people set out to fall in love or want a relationship on here...while I would love to settle down I don't look for it on here or everyday but you sometimes can't help who you meet and how they effect you emotionally etc
Someone who will want children I'm safe with as I can't have them. Confirmed bachelors, men who work way too much. I tend to feel comfortable with these men,it's probably why I steer clear of men my own age. Anyone who could be possibly boyfriend material I mentally block out "
Well if it works well for you then fair play |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This first time I met someone more than once we ended up getting together . . .  and how did thatend up ?
They are still together
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wow.....congratulations  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This first time I met someone more than once we ended up getting together . . . and how did thatend up ?
They are still together
When's the baby due? "
call the baby fabio lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe the trick is never to meet the same person twice
The trick is to meet people who will never want a relationship with you
That's pretty hard I don't think people set out to fall in love or want a relationship on here...while I would love to settle down I don't look for it on here or everyday but you sometimes can't help who you meet and how they effect you emotionally etc
Someone who will want children I'm safe with as I can't have them. Confirmed bachelors, men who work way too much. I tend to feel comfortable with these men,it's probably why I steer clear of men my own age. Anyone who could be possibly boyfriend material I mentally block out
Well if it works well for you then fair play "
 not had a man fall in love with me yet |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
Enjoy your feelings but also check that they aren't just the natural high of great sex and the closeness of warm intimacy.
I've have developed love for some people, one on a closer level than any others, but not in love and no one has fallen in love with me.
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Enjoy your feelings but also check that they aren't just the natural high of great sex and the closeness of warm intimacy.
I've have developed love for some people, one on a closer level than any others, but not in love and no one has fallen in love with me.
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Um
excuse me
but I fell in love the moment my cheek touched your boob - or have you forgotten our time together?!   |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Enjoy your feelings but also check that they aren't just the natural high of great sex and the closeness of warm intimacy.
I've have developed love for some people, one on a closer level than any others, but not in love and no one has fallen in love with me.
Um
excuse me
but I fell in love the moment my cheek touched your boob - or have you forgotten our time together?! "
How could I forget the first woman to motorboat me? I assumed it was lust and not love but I'll now have to rethink my _iews and say that lots of people have fallen in love with me. In fact, I think at least 10 people may have fallen in love with me on Saturday.
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Enjoy your feelings but also check that they aren't just the natural high of great sex and the closeness of warm intimacy.
I've have developed love for some people, one on a closer level than any others, but not in love and no one has fallen in love with me.
Um
excuse me
but I fell in love the moment my cheek touched your boob - or have you forgotten our time together?!
How could I forget the first woman to motorboat me? I assumed it was lust and not love but I'll now have to rethink my _iews and say that lots of people have fallen in love with me. In fact, I think at least 10 people may have fallen in love with me on Saturday.
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10?! 
My cheeks feel used and violated now, like a learner dildo when it is tossed out and replaced with the multi function rabbit  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Enjoy your feelings but also check that they aren't just the natural high of great sex and the closeness of warm intimacy.
I've have developed love for some people, one on a closer level than any others, but not in love and no one has fallen in love with me.
Um
excuse me
but I fell in love the moment my cheek touched your boob - or have you forgotten our time together?!
How could I forget the first woman to motorboat me? I assumed it was lust and not love but I'll now have to rethink my _iews and say that lots of people have fallen in love with me. In fact, I think at least 10 people may have fallen in love with me on Saturday.
10?!
My cheeks feel used and violated now, like a learner dildo when it is tossed out and replaced with the multi function rabbit "
Think about my poor, abused, beautiful breasts! People just kept doing it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have feelings for all my friends, to be honest, it enhances the fun for me. Still don't get how you can be intimate and passionate with someone you feel nothing for.
Then again, the psychiatrist did say I'm pretty fucked up |
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"Maybe the trick is never to meet the same person twice
The trick is to meet people who will never want a relationship with you
That's pretty hard I don't think people set out to fall in love or want a relationship on here...while I would love to settle down I don't look for it on here or everyday but you sometimes can't help who you meet and how they effect you emotionally etc
Someone who will want children I'm safe with as I can't have them. Confirmed bachelors, men who work way too much. I tend to feel comfortable with these men,it's probably why I steer clear of men my own age. Anyone who could be possibly boyfriend material I mentally block out "
I know what you mean - I don't block but I am a lot more cautious with men nearer my age, they are more dangerous for me, though I am attracted to far fewer anyway.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can't help feelings but it's when it unrequited that sucks... "
too true, i spent almost 3 hrs chatting with a friend tonight, because she told her former flatmate and fb that she had fallen for him and hes not interested.
How ironic that i should be the shoulder to cry on when i have a crush on her.
c'est la vie |
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Ive a long term fb 8 years or so and have feelings, but it is also good to shut the door and have no responsibilities for their lives. Great sex, a connection and tenderness, but no great plans together. |
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Ive a long term fb 8 years or so and have feelings, but it is also good to shut the door and have no responsibilities for their lives. Great sex, a connection and tenderness, but no great plans together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe the trick is never to meet the same person twice
Are you ready for this lifestyle?
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You don't have to meet the same people again if you don't want to. |
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