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Hmm I wonder.. My life's like
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A fookin soap opera. My ex Hub ..Lies in ITU. We had 20 good years together..and 3 beautiful children. He turned into a huge bully, an ass!!! A piss head. I thought I'd dance and say hallelujah! But something says I should go over there? I know I'm stubborn and ill do as I please, but just thought I'd gather opinions. |
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20 good years together,3 beautiful children.. If you decide not to go and the worst happens,what do you think you would feel like?
Can you go with one or more of the children?
Tough one, but as a dad,i am probably biased,please consider going..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He was a big part of your life . Good or bad . Would you regret it if you didn't and something happened . Thats the question I think I would ask myself . Good luck hun xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm guessing that if you go, you can support your 3 children & they probably need you there. So I would go, as if you don't , you might always think " I should have gone." However at the end of the day , you have to do what you feel most comfortable with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He was a big part of your life . Good or bad . Would you regret it if you didn't and something happened . Thats the question I think I would ask myself . Good luck hun xxx "
What Tosh said  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"ask your kids and see if they want your support at this tough time for them. "
There's only my lad there. My girls will not see him. I should go for my lad... But I can't stand the thought of seeing everyone... I'm not that little weaklin anymore and ill go through them like a dose of salts...I had numerous voicemails before he went in for elective surgery... I chose to ignore. Bless my other half for the baggage I arrived with. He has oodles of money. His own business. And rents MY house out... Yes I know... The last time i saw him i spent 3 days in hospital courtesy of..But still unsure do I need my bumps feeling. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Only you can make that decision if you don't want to don't do it..."
This is what I was going to say, how old is your son? Does he need your support? If you can support from afar and do not want to meet other family members, I think your conscience will be clear, but good luck xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A fookin soap opera. My ex Hub ..Lies in ITU. We had 20 good years together..and 3 beautiful children. He turned into a huge bully, an ass!!! A piss head. I thought I'd dance and say hallelujah! But something says I should go over there? I know I'm stubborn and ill do as I please, but just thought I'd gather opinions. "
Only you can make that decision. You must weigh up the "If I do" against the "If I don't."
Do not regret your decision as long as it is well made. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thanks guys hes a man Hun... But had a lot of heartbreak himself lately. If he needs me ill be there. Ill grit my teeth and smile sweetly  "
I meant my son is a man tut |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys hes a man Hun... But had a lot of heartbreak himself lately. If he needs me ill be there. Ill grit my teeth and smile sweetly
I meant my son is a man tut"
I knew what you meant  x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thanks guys hes a man Hun... But had a lot of heartbreak himself lately. If he needs me ill be there. Ill grit my teeth and smile sweetly
I meant my son is a man tut
I knew what you meant x"
I guessed you did... Hope your feeling a little better, and things are sinking in a little more... Well you know what I mean xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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... The last time i saw him i spent 3 days in hospital courtesy of..But still unsure do I need my bumps feeling.
I wouldn't go. xxxx"
I wouldn't go either.
Best of luck deciding though xx |
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Sometimes life throws a leveller your way. Ok so he was not a nice person bit you are and to let him pass without saying goodbye seems to be something you can't do.
Act on the.person you are not the person he is.
Perhaps you are in a place now to forgive? |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys hes a man Hun... But had a lot of heartbreak himself lately. If he needs me ill be there. Ill grit my teeth and smile sweetly
I meant my son is a man tut
I knew what you meant x
I guessed you did... Hope your feeling a little better, and things are sinking in a little more... Well you know what I mean xxx"
Was back to work today....a bit strange, but I'm sure I'll get there thanks xxx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He was a big part of your life . Good or bad . Would you regret it if you didn't and something happened . Thats the question I think I would ask myself . Good luck hun xxx
What Tosh said "
Twice |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Thankyou for your advice guys, I'm not going... My son said its fine, my daughter sent a txt to his phone, wishing him well. She received a vile message, back from his current girlfriend via his phone, basically telling her she should be there.. was she not aware he was in ICU.. blah blah this was the proverbial straw... Karma it's a bitch ain't it!  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Thankyou for your advice guys, I'm not going... My son said its fine, my daughter sent a txt to his phone, wishing him well. She received a vile message, back from his current girlfriend via his phone, basically telling her she should be there.. was she not aware he was in ICU.. blah blah this was the proverbial straw... Karma it's a bitch ain't it! "
So much shit has gone on in my life (maybe a bit over dramatic) I never believed in karma!, So glad it does actually exist, so thanks for the reinforcement |
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