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a word of advice when messaging people
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How about giving us a chance to reply before sending another message and indeed two more before had chance to reply to first.
It's a sure fire way to get nowhere.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about giving us a chance to reply before sending another message and indeed two more before had chance to reply to first.
It's a sure fire way to get nowhere.
Thanks "
its worse when you reply to a message immediately only to find them off line |
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"How about giving us a chance to reply before sending another message and indeed two more before had chance to reply to first.
It's a sure fire way to get nowhere.
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we have had this, tho the second message have been a little aggressive  |
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My favourite is when I get a second message 3 minutes after the first one asking if they've upset me.
Well as I haven't yet had chance to open the first message and it's the first time you've contacted me, I would guess no, but you have now!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My favourite is when I get a second message 3 minutes after the first one asking if they've upset me.
Well as I haven't yet had chance to open the first message and it's the first time you've contacted me, I would guess no, but you have now!!"
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"My favourite is when I get a second message 3 minutes after the first one asking if they've upset me.
Well as I haven't yet had chance to open the first message and it's the first time you've contacted me, I would guess no, but you have now!!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well frankly I am shocked that you don't drop everything your doing to answer the message.
This is disgraceful behavior OP you must try harder and answer the message as soon as it props into your mail box and then agree to everything and anything the sender has requested.
This should stop the 2nd message from being sent causing the sender to think they have upset you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Best ones are when they then go UNLOS  "
Because of this I don't open messages for 6 months now...I like to make sure they're serious about swinging before I waste my time reading them |
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"I don't send preemptive messages, unless it's on a forum related matter 
Have you got your bum out for chimans thread?  "
Thought it was about time I gave it an airing, I've not flashed it for about a year |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The internet and mobile communications have made everything near instant; sadly this has carried over into the expectation for instant gratification, or replies.
It's just how it is. Ignore it, respond to it. Just don't see ether reason to get mad at it. I mean I bet half the people on here are all up in I.M with the likes of Kik and Snapchat. It's a logical extension of that 'instant expectation'.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep that's pretty annoying and defo a turn off. Had it recently, had about 5 from the same guy, the first one was a really nice message, then they got quite crude as to what they wanted to do to me which is a guaranteed way to get a big no from me!! |
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